Three's a Crowd

Oct. 21, 2006

Love The Comments!

Thanks for all the great comments!  It's been fun reading others' choices of who they would want to meet from the past.  And what fabulous choices you've had!  Be sure to read appleleaf's blog about who she'd like to meet.  We really have some giants in the world of women writers, don't we?  I've always wanted to write about Laura Ingalls Wilder and the Lord gave me someplace to finally say what I've felt for so many years.  Sometimes I have something I need to write.  Other times, I just want to write.  There is a difference, although I won't expand on that now.  Anyway, tonight I have a need to do a bit of ranting (just a bit, I promise).  For several years now, in one of my homeschool magazines, there's been an ad for a homeschool video curriculum.  It shows a tidy kitchen with a child of, oh, about 12 years old, sitting at the kitchen table and smiling at a TV screen, books in front of him (and nothing else on the table, I believe.  That couldn't be my kitchen that's for sure!)  Now, this may work for some families but that's not what bothers me about this ad.  In the background, you see a mom standing at a clean kitchen counter, pouring herself a cup of coffee!  As if, well, all a homeschool mom needs to do is pop in the video and, voila!, school is done for the day!  The message this ad is sending is so wrong!  None of us, I'm pretty sure, can just shove a curriculum (or whatever you use) in front of our kids and say, "Have a good day, kiddo!"  I think it really does a disservice to homeschool moms.  You may think I'm over-reacting, so let me explain.  This is what happened one day last week (and it happens more often that you'd think.)  Picture a homeschool mom (me) sitting at the kitchen table (which has tons of daughter's artwork at one end, she produces more than most rabbits breed!)  At my left, 5 yo daughter is trying to duck under the table while whining she just can't get the "th" sound!  To my right, 8 yo son is tugging at my arm, "Mom, I need help with this math problem!"  11 yo son comes in from the dining room, saying "Mom, want to hear my sentences?"  At the same time, husband (who has the morning off, lucky me) comes in from the computer room, saying, "Honey, could you come look at these drawings I made of the railing for the deck?"  A more relaxed (ahem) homeschool mom probably would have handled it better than I did.  Things got a bit ugly but we worked it out.  Hubby got praise for his beautiful railing drawings, daughter finished her reading lesson with a smile, younger son finished his math with a grimace and happy-go-lucky older son bounded off, finished with school.  Mom bounded off to the bathroom where she got a little privacy for a few minutes before the inevitable knock on the door.  So, there's the background.  That stinkin' ad came to mind later in the day and I felt the need to vent.  Thanks.  When I was a teenager, I used to wish I was more popular.  Now that I'm the center of attention, well ... I guess the grass is always greener!

 

 

 

 

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Oct. 22, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by DomesticGoddessInTraining
It's hard to think of "homeschooling" as sticking a video in! I'm with you! Now as PART of your day or as HELP in some subjects, ok -- but to stick it in and walk away? I don't think so!

I wanted to let you know that I posted the ziti recipe on my blog and some new free samples too :)

Sherry
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Oct. 22, 2006 - ITA

Posted by cathmom
When my oldest was about 9, I also had a 2 yo and a newborn. I started buying him curriculum he could do on his own. He did not like it. (Imagine a really strong extravert in his room doing schoolwork by himself...it doesn't work!) Then the Lord really convicted me and I saw that I wasn't homeschooling him to have him do his work by himself! If I didn't want to be involved, I should send him to school! So I got rid of those "independent curriculums" and went back to actually working with him and he was much happier!

LOL on the bathroom thing. My dh is always trying to convince me that our cat loves me (long story). She always comes into the bathroom when I am in there. Dh commented on it and said it must be because she loves me. I replied, "No, it's because she knows if I got to go to the bathroom without being interrupted by somebody, the world would collapse!"
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Oct. 22, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by appleleaf
Hi Kate, I've seen some "picture perfect" homeschool ads too. Your place sounds similar to ours. I had to laugh when you included "husband" among all those voices clamouring for attention. We love 'em to bits but when they're home, it's sometimes like having four children. And yeah, little girls' art work and breeding rabbits sure do have a lot in common around here too.
Thanks for that recent challenge. I read some good, interesting answers.
Have a great week,
Paula
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Oct. 23, 2006 - Hi

Posted by jugglingpaynes
Thanks for visiting my blog. I'm actually surprised there aren't more jugglers among the homeschoolbloggers. I know I've met homeschoolers at juggling conventions over the years. Start your kids with scarf juggling. It's much easier (I learned beanbags as a teen) and it plants that circus seed so that eventually they become interested in throwing other things into the air. :o)
Thanks for that thought provoking question, my daughter is now using it for writing this week (she also needs a banquet table--like mother, like daughter)!
I loved this blog, by the way. We do watch television, but there's a rule that it can't go on until regular subjects are finished for the day. You'd be surprised how fast an 8 and 13 yr old can get sucked into a room where Blue's Clues is playing!
Cristina
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Oct. 23, 2006 - Yes, oh yes!!!

Posted by wardssward
I hear ya! I have those moments, too, when I just get overwhelmed with all of my "popularity", too... and we only have 2 boys! And, to add to the frustration, I have found that our oldest son does better having me right there beside him, maybe reading his questions to him or doing things orally instead of writing them down, so I have given up the idea of going off and doing something else that NEEDS doing (like laundry or dishes) while doing our homeschool. It all gets done eventually, but I am always needing to re-evaluate my priorities. Just wanted to let you know that you're not alone. Glad you got it all worked out and had a few moments of time alone. It really does help to get refocused... and to ask God for more strength and wisdom. I also read your previous post and really enjoyed it. Laura's books bring back pleasant memories for me, too. I was afraid that when we only had boys that I would never be able to pass on my love of her books to our offspring. I figured that they were just "girl" books. Well, a couple of years ago, I began reading them to our boys... and they loved them! I was so glad! And then, to top it off, we were in southern Missouri (Mansfield) after that and we decided to visit Almonzo & Laura's houses (one was given to them by Rose, but they liked their first one better) and the museum. It was a great experience! And guess what? PA'S ACTUAL FIDDLE WAS THERE!!! I was soooo excited! So... WHEN did you say you were coming out to visit? hee hee :-)
~Connie
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Oct. 23, 2006 - Thank you....

Posted by kampsplete
Thanks for your comment today. I am feeling a bit better tonight, but still not up to snuff. I was able to get a few lessons in today, get some school stuff organized, and cook a decent meal. I feel pretty good about that. I'm sure I'll be fine tomorrow....Have a great week!

Love, Kathy
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