Three's a Crowd

Dec. 5, 2006

The Subject Of Chickens

I really appreciate all your comments on my last post.  This blog site is such a blessing!  It is so good to know I have so many other homeschool moms out there who are/or will experience the same things my family and I experience.  I get so much from the support, helpful tips, links to refer to, etc., from all of you.  If no one has told you today, let it be heard here first - you are greatly appreciated!  So, the next time one of your little darlings refuses to _____________ (fill in the blank) or makes an unkind comment about what's for dinner, remember that callmekate appreciates you and then smile!  :)

 

Now, the funny part ... sort of.  Here's the scene:  11 y.o. son is sitting, reading about chickens and asks mom (me) which is made first, the inside of the egg or the shell.  We discuss this issue and then he brings up the subject of fertilization.  More questions are asked.  Since this is a family site, suffice it to say I had to explain the idea of mating in a little more detail (well, he did ask).  Very little detail - we were talking chickens, after all.  Of course, dad was no where around (thanks, bucko!)  Well, how would my husband know what we were talking about?  Anyway, my son's response was, "Oh ... really?"  Brief silence followed, then we launched into more chicken/egg discussion (safe territory)!  I was amazed that I kept my cool (though I did look around to make sure we were alone).  Since writing the last post, I have been praying even more about how to answer the delicate questions of life and then God hands me a start with chickens!  What a sense of humor our Lord has!  I don't know whether to laugh or cry.  Later, I told my husband what happened and he thought I said the right things.  We'll let our son process this information and I'm sure he'll be asking more questions at some point - at least, I hope he will.  I'd hate for this discussion to end with the personal habits of chickens!  I won't let him process this for too long, however.  I know the Lord loves my son and wants the best for him, I just need to be up for the task.  I did ask my son not to discuss mating with his younger sibs and he agreed and said that we should wait until they are old enough to understand!  This child was born old, he's always wanted to be an adult and in some ways, he's more mature than I am.  So, now we've taken the first big step and, you know, it wasn't so bad.  With the Lord's help, all things are possible, are they not?  I'm so thankful when parenting experiences come in little steps, not giant leaps. 

 

Post A Comment! Send to a Friend!

Comments

Dec. 6, 2006 - Boys

Posted by jenn4him
I have an 8.5 year old son and I have been wondering myself when the "topic" will come up. I've been praying about this too, so I know I will probably get my chance soon. Good job. Sounds like you were wise in your words. I pray the same for me!
Jenn
Permanent Link

Dec. 6, 2006 - cock-a-doodle dooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by annointed
Great job - little bit of irony... I suppose!!

Discussing the mating habits of a chicken - while feeling a bit "chicken" to go there : )

I believe in the baby step method with this subject - when we think about the alternatives - it is so important to be doing all we can when they are young, to lay the foundation of how things work, with a Godly message as the core.

In school they get a full-on class in 5th grade, with all sides of the spectrum taught usually without any preperation from home. Now that's scary!!

So kudos to you my friend!





Permanent Link

Dec. 6, 2006 - cock-a-doodle dooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by annointed
Great job - little bit of irony... I suppose!!

Discussing the mating habits of a chicken - while feeling a bit "chicken" to go there : )

I believe in the baby step method with this subject - when we think about the alternatives - it is so important to be doing all we can when they are young, to lay the foundation of how things work, with a Godly message as the core.

In school they get a full-on class in 5th grade, with all sides of the spectrum taught usually without any preperation from home. Now that's scary!!

So kudos to you my friend!





Permanent Link

Dec. 6, 2006 - Thankful for you, too!

Posted by CelticMom
I can't count the number of times I think of my blogging friends during the day, as some of you have grown as close to my heart as my real-life friends. Thank YOU, as well, and know that you are appreciated too!!

As to your chat with your son, I'm LOL here!! My 12 yo and I had a discussion of sorts similar to yours, but not quite as in-depth. Thank goodness!!! My girlfriend says I'm a chicken because we haven't had the 'talk' yet (she had it w/ her son at 10). I say if your child doesn't know the truth about Santa, then he's not ready for the talk, LOL!! Mine finally knows, so I wait with dread, lol!

Happy St. Nicholas Day!!
Permanent Link

Dec. 6, 2006 - Oh boy!

Posted by kateyz
How great that you were able to ease into the subject with chickens!! I have a friend who bought and bred dogs so she could use that as a starting point for the big talk! That's quite a commitment. I had the talk with my boys a long time ago, when they were still in public school. I certainly wanted them to hear the truth at home and not believe whatever they might hear at school. Needless to say, my talk began with "When a man and a woman get married..."
Kate I always enjoy reading your blog, funny, informative, uplifing and inspiring! I wish we were friends in real life!
Blessings
Kathleen
Permanent Link

Dec. 6, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by EEEEMommy
It sounds like you did well!
It's so much better for him to hear from you and not a bunch of guys in a locker room!

I wanted to let you know that after your suggestion of Celtic music, I found Moya Brennan's Christmas CD at the Christian Bookstore and gave it to my daughter as one of her St. Nicholas presents. We have been enjoying it today! So, thanks again!

Happy St. Nicholas' Day!
Permanent Link

Dec. 14, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by crazybusy
Okay, first of all, our sons sound too much alike! LOL! My 9 y/o has always been a little adult (in some matters anyway).

Chickens! Here, it's cats! (my son really wants our female cat to have kittens!)

I, too, think it's a great place (animals) to bring up the topic, especially when theyr'e ready! How sweet that he agrees this isn't something his younger sibs should know about yet.

Yes, little steps are GOOD! :)

Love, Alyssa
Permanent Link

About Me

Learning and living with my husband and three children on the northern-most tip of the Oregon Coast.

Links

Home
View my profile
Archives
Email Me
My Blog's RSS
My Blogspot Blog

Friends

ByHisGraceInColorado
wardssward
DandelionSeeds
belindaletchford
WashingtonState
Lazycreek
AFJen88
sherrydhoneycutt


Jimmie
appleleaf
jaminacema
Rebeca
deedeeuk
CTdittmar
danib
EEEEMommy
Stephanie10
annointed
Mama2Ways
CandyFoote
BattlementsofRubies
blueskiesandlemonade
CelticMom
momto8
AussieinAmerica
CountryMomof4
homeschoolmama
kateyz
SeekingJESUSnTeachingKIDS
buffalorock
castlekids
MOMflippedisWOW
ComfyDenim
cathmom
debagain
EclecticallyOurs
jugglingpaynes
floridasnowflakes
crazybusy
jenn4him
40winkzzz
bethanyrae
babean
skdenfeld
moreofhim
dixiefiddler
dixiecajuns
Amanda10Axelby
poohswife
luvs2bemom
bramasole
frenchbread
shermantribe
designed4me
alikatts323
tjekj01
Entry 164 of 211
Last Page | Next Page