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May. 25, 2007

Please Continue To Pray

Thanks again for your prayers.  But we are not out of the woods yet.  My husband went back in to the doctor because he felt his breathing was getting more difficult and they finally (FINALLY) did a chest x-ray.  He is pre-pneumonia, with fluid in the bottom of his right lung.  The tissue around his heart is a bit inflamed (as we suspected) and his lungs look cloudy in general.  I'm upset because I thought the doctor should have done a chest x-ray 2 days ago when Todd first went in.  Since he's had something like this before, you'd think they'd take that simple precaution to x-ray him.  Anyway, they gave him a shot of an antibiotic, and prescribed him another antibiotic and an anti-inflammatory (NSAID).  Please pray that his breathing will improve.  They said if his breathing gets more difficult in the next couple of days, they'll need to send him to Portland (2 hrs away) because they can't help him here!  Sometimes it is difficult to live in a little town of 10,000 people where med. facilities are sometimes limited.  I really don't want him to have to go, you know?  Please pray that God would heal him quickly enough at least for him to be able to stay home to recover.  Is it selfish to plead with God to heal your husband?  At least his fever is down to 101 (it has been 102 to nearly 103!)  It is so hard to see him so miserable.  He does smile and can sit up for a few hours, which are good signs.  I went to the store and bought him food that I know he likes but hasn't had in awhile (we are constantly trying to improve our diet).  He had a bologna sandwich for dinner (ugh!!) but at least he ate!  I'd give him nearly anything he wanted at this point.  I'm trying not to worry and agonize over this but it's hard not to.  This is serious stuff.  My husband has already gone through something like this before though not this bad, AND he's been through melanoma surgeries as well.  Never a dull moment, let me tell you!  I've explained to the kids as much as necessary, they've been a bit upset obviously and I don't like leaving them in the dark.  If we have to pick up and head to Portland, I didn't want them to be surprised.  I have to believe that he'll get better.  I have to! 

 

God, in His glorious mercy, gave me an excellent idea today.  I have prayed with my kids many times for their dad and today, I thought of this:  A family prayer chain.  I made a list of times, hourly, and the kids filled in their names in two different time slots and I filled in my name in the remaining slots.  Now, at the top of the hour, we remind each other who's turn it is to pray for daddy.  I added a sample prayer at the bottom of the list for reference.  It's been really cool.  My husband smiled when he heard Alec running off, calling, "Carmen, it's your turn to pray for Daddy!"  Todd told the kids how much he appreciated their prayers and that it was helping.  I'm so happy that the Lord turned this time in our lives into a lesson for our kids to think and pray about someone besides themselves.  I'm glad to be turning their hearts to the Lord, hopefully, it will help them not to worry about their dad.  And I like knowing he's being prayed for hourly (at least!)

 

Let's hope for a big improvement tomorrow, though I'd be thrilled with just a little improvement.  Please God, hear our prayers.

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May. 25, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by CountryMomof4
I just said a prayer for a quick and thorough recovery for your husband. How scary. It's awesome that your husband isn't frightened, that must give you "some" peace. I like the idea of the family prayer chain. When your husband gets better, your kids will see what the power of prayer, and our good Lord can do.
~Karlie
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May. 26, 2007 - Hiya Kate!

Posted by deedeeuk
I'll continue to pray for his speedy recovery! Hang in there girl. You are doing a great job! What a neat idea of the family prayer chain, and what a cool lesson for the kids during this difficult time. We are adding our prayers to all of yours! Have a peaceful night now and be sure to get some sleep.

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May. 26, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by appleleaf
You can be sure I'll keep praying too.
What an excellent idea that family prayer chain is.
Keep holding on,
Paula
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May. 26, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by wardssward
You've got a lot on your plate right now, my dear friend. Yes, I'll be praying. Your concerns about your many prayers being a burden to God (I can't remember how you put it exactly - sorry - my memory went out the window when I turned 40. ha!) reminded me of the parable in Luke 18:1-8 where the widow kept going before the judge and her persistency paid off. God says that it's okay for us to consistently plead our case to Him, too. "Pray without ceasing". That is really awesome about your kids taking turns praying for Daddy. Like you said, this will be a growing point in their lives spiritually. It's just getting through it right now that is hard. Take it one step at a time and rejoice in the little improvements. You're doing a good job, Kate. Keep the faith and be strong.
~Connie
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May. 26, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by bethanyrae
Hi Kate,
I hear your concern and your frustration. You just want to make it all right. And want to think that the doctors would know what to do and when to do it! It sounds like he's (finally) being treated, and has options. And most importantly, he's supported with lots of prayer.
I've also learned that you sometimes just have to take it into your own hands if things don't seem like they're being tended to right. "They" watched a spot on my mom's x-rays for years, and didn't do any investigation until it ruptured and spread. Breast cancer. Her surgeon, had she seen those earlier pics, would have investigated it immediately. All my pics go directly to her now.
bethanyrae
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