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Aug. 21, 2007

Endless Summer

I may lose some friends here but I'm going to be really honest.  I have not thought twice about the school year ahead.  Maybe once, but not twice.  And I keep reading posts about families starting up school, some since the beginning of August.  I'm not sure if I should feel guilty or not.  O.k., not.  I don't feel anything.  It's an encouragement to read what others are doing.  But I'm still not ready to let go of summer.  I read somewhere that a family had started school last week and they said it was really hard to keep the kids focused, what with the sun shining on the shimmering pool outside.  I don't normally wish to say anything bad about anyone on here but I just had to think, "Man, is it so important to start school up so soon, when there is still so much play time left of the season?"  I really relish summer.  I wish that summer was more than just a few months, it really should be longer.  Where I live, there has been very little summer and I can tell I'm feeling dismal from lack of sun.  Sometimes I wear a tank top and shiver, pretending it's warm.  Pathetic.  Where I grew up, it was summer for months.  Sometimes nearly the whole year.  At least, compared to where I live now.  I really didn't know much about seasons until I moved north. 

 

Back to the school thing.  The best thing about homeschooling is that each family decides when and how they will proceed.  My problem is that I seem to be the only one around that will be starting in Sept.  We do go through June, usually, because it's still so cold, we might as well stay inside.  I guess I feel like the "odd (wo)man out" because I won't be posting anything about our school year until next month.  But that's o.k.  I've never been one to follow the crowd, anyway.  I just hope I don't lose any friends because of it!

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Aug. 21, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by jaminacema
I have not thought of starting back yet either....

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Aug. 22, 2007 - That's Okay

Posted by Amanda10Axelby
Hi Kate,

After reading your post I just knew we were kindred spirits. It is good to remind ourselves of the bigger picture sometimes, and to know it is okay to homeschool in our own style, not someone else's.

Thanks for being so honest in your sharing.
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Aug. 22, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by crazybusy
Kate,
I am SOOOOOOO with you on the bummer summer! It is gray outside AGAIN today, for the SEVENTH day in a row now. It's AUGUST! That's not right. I think living in CA for so many years is a bit of a hindrance to living here. LOL! BUT! Even the natives are complaining.

I am normally one of those that likes to get a jump start on school. I like to be able to take off when we want (a week here, 2 weeks there) and still finish up before the PS's get out. HOWEVER, this year, and this is the first year I've ever done this, we will not be starting for a couple more weeks. Really, I should just start today. There's no summer to enjoy outside. School on rainy days, take off on sunny. Hmmm... sounds like a good school schedule to me.... :)

I'm still here, Kate! :)

Love, Alyssa
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Aug. 22, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by EEEEMommy
This is the first year that I've started before the day after Labor Day. This is also the first year that I haven't had easy access to the pool. Last year I fell behind academically and because I inevitably take off so much time around the holidays and then want to be done when the beautiful spring weather starts, I really felt convicted that I needed to start earlier this year, so we did, a whole month earlier. For us it's working out, because it is SO VERY HOT and I don't want to be outside anyway! When it cools down to those lovely fall temps again, I'm sure we'll take off several days to enjoy it! But I'm already feeling better about this school year academically than I did last. So it's working for us. But up until now, I've always been an "enjoy the summer while it lasts" mom, and your opinion and what you do certainly won't adversely affect my opinion of you or our friendship! You enjoy the rest of your summer to the fullest!!! :) NO GUILT!
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Aug. 22, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by CTdittmar
Hey, if you lose friends over THAT, then they didn't deserve you anyway!
I'm glad you're soaking up the summer to the very last drop. Don't you dare feel guilty! Especially living up north you HAVE to savor it. We lived in Maine, and it was that way too. Summer was half of June, July and August, and then it was chilly again. I loved the weather there, but I think it's good for you to maximize your time outdoors. You'll have lots of months to be hitting the books.
Our problem is now that we live in the land of endless summer, so if we put off starting school till the weather turns, they'll miss two grades! Ha ha. The main reason we started so early is that two of my kids are way behind in math and we quit school in mid April to move out here and then had the baby and all our moving issues. So we really needed to get back into the school scene. Our whole last year was really chopped up and hardly cohesive. We didn't even do history or science at all.
So you get in those last fun-reads for yourself. You deserve it!
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Aug. 22, 2007 - I'm not that far ahead of you

Posted by 40winkzzz
Oh yay, I am not the only one who isn't ready (mentally OR practically) for school to start. I too have felt a bit guilty reading about all the homeschools that are in session. I share your feelings about enjoying summer while it lasts, and to be honest, I'd just as soon not start school until... hmmm... OK, never, maybe. :-)

(Well, on the really HOT days this summer when it was too hot to do anything outside, I wouldn't have minded. We actually did do a little school thru'out the summer, but not much-- maybe 3-4 hours a week, just continuing our history from the spring. Not the same as really having homeschool in session!)

ANYWAY, by state law, Michigan public schools cannot start before Labor Day, and most private schools follow suit. So do I! In fact, I usually extend our homeschool summer vacation at least a day or two past the day my high-schooler starts back. A couple years ago I took the kids to the beach the day she (and most other kids in the area) started school. It was fun feeling like we were getting away with something.

And if it makes you feel better, even though I blogged about this homeschool planning weekend I had a couple weeks ago, I'm still not anywhere close to being ready. I do have a tentative schedule for our days, but there are a lot of curriculum decisions yet to be made, and all of last year's stuff to clear out of our shelves & baskets, and... and I probably won't make enough progress between now & Labor Day. Maybe we'll start the week AFTER.... But I'm not sure how much of this I would admit on my own blog; sad, isn't it?

Edited by 40winkzzz on Aug. 22, 2007 at 9:04 PM
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Aug. 23, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by appleleaf
My advice to you would be enjoy the last few weeks of summer you have left. You'll be back to rain and snow before long. Plenty of time for school when it's too cold to go outside. It's already warming up a little over here.
I received your email and answered it just before I checked my blog. Thanks.
And "arvo" is short for afternoon. More of that lazy abbreviated language I was telling you about. "Come around this arvo and we'll fling some chops on the barbie," is something you might hear often over here. Glad I could help with that poser.
Blessings,
Paula
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Aug. 23, 2007 - No problem here!

Posted by deedeeuk
We don't even have a set schedule of when to start and stop! We school around the year, stopping when the fancy takes us or when something better is going on, or when we actually see some sunshine - whatever season that may be!!! LOL! Good weather is soooo rare here in England that you have to make the most of it when it happens! Our summer has been full of rain to the point of flooding!!! So we didn't take much time off this summer - it would have been a waste when we had to stay inside anyway. We may have some days off in the autumn if it is crisp and dry. Then again, even when we went to London for two days this week, we went to the science museum and did a 'field trip' so even days off are 'school' of sorts! Dh laughs at me as being a hopeless homeschooler - I just can't stop school for anything! LOL!
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Aug. 23, 2007 - What's School?

Posted by MOMflippedisWOW
Lol, I'm so backwards, I gave up on the concept of school. He seems to be learning so I stopped trying to 'do school'. I seem to have a bigger problem of trying to get my spouse to realize that our son is still only nine and doesn't have to master college level concepts. I keep telling him to step it down a notch or two but he never listens. Today he lectured on wire guided missiles generally not found on fighter jets as they wouldn't work too well. Hmmm. (He lost me five seconds in.) My son on the other hand started getting into it and asking more in depth questions. So he'll grow up to understand technology and not be able to write a decent paper about it. Oh well. I'm so not a teacher.

Edited by MOMflippedisWOW on Aug. 23, 2007 at 9:24 PM
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Aug. 23, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
I'm not starting until September and no amount of peer pressure will change that! :)

Emily
thelearningneverstops.blogspot.com
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Aug. 24, 2007 - Can't get rid of us that easy!!

Posted by annointed

You would have to do alot more than not being ready for summer to end for us to abandon you... I think (as you have seen form 99% of these posts) most of us are still enjoying the lazy days of summer....

: ))


Blessings!!

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Aug. 24, 2007 - Haven't Really Started Here Either!

Posted by bramasole
We have yet to sit down to anything formal either. In fact, I thought about making plans, but got a few minutes into it and decided that I'm more of a 'fly by the seat of my pants' kinda gal. Right now we're having fun with books (as you know :>). We have the opposite problem of what you mentioned: it's so hot here right now, we don't want to go outside. It's supposed to hit 100 tomorrow! But, that's August in Baltimore! Enjoy the rest of your summer, and your kids! That's one of the many reasons we homeschool, right?
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Aug. 25, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by BritishColumbia
Where we live no one thinks about school until after Labour day!
Kathleen
(yup it's me coffee mom on the BC blog too!)
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Aug. 28, 2007 - You've still got me :)

Posted by CelticMom
Why on earth would you lose friends over your decision for your family? You do what works for you, and it's lovely. :)

I always feel like the odd man out, as well, because we school until the middle of July, take five weeks off, and then dive right back in (we began yesterday). It's so hot here in the summer, why take time off? We take off between Thanksgiving and Epiphany, when the weather here is lovely, and I don't feel guilty one iota! THAT is the beautiful thing about home educating: what works for me, works! :)

I've missed keeping up with you; I hope to do better now that my scheduling is more under control and we're Home more. :) Enjoy the rest of your summer, and then enjoy your seasons... I'm so jealous!! :)
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Aug. 31, 2007 - First,

Posted by jugglingpaynes
I'm so glad you came back. Sorry I haven't checked in, the zoo internship and a new cat has kept us busy!
Second, LOL about your comment! I couldn't have a baby pool since I already know all her birth info and I knew I would introduce her character today! I'm so glad someone understood my reference to the stateroom. My homebirth really did feel like that!
Third, I am not starting schooling until next week. I have read so many things about the importance of play for children. I've always found they do their best learning during the summer, when I stop teaching them.
Fourth, I've created a Femme Philosopher Club on my Blogger account. As far as I'm concerned, all my blogger buddies are members, but it's taking me a while to get around to everyone. Please grab a button at your convenience. (Look for the link in the sidebar.)
My prayers continue for your husband.
Peace and Laughter,
Cristina
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Sep. 1, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by skdenfeld
I'm right with you. We are in Bend and not only have we not stopped playing outside yet, I have not even ordered anything school related (I'm starting to think I am either a bit lazy, or an un-schooler).

BTW, I will be praying for your friend as well as for you. Rest in Him and his timing and he will give you the words. How wonderful that she knows you care.
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