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Oct. 11, 2007

Caught!

We had a fun thing happen yesterday morning.  A neighbor from across the street came to our door and caught us homeschooling!  I was at the kitchen table with my two younger children, doing their math.  My husband was playing the piano.  We heard a knock at the door and I looked up at the kitchen window and saw him standing there.  I let my husband get the door so I could continue what I was doing.  Our nice neighbor dropped off some science magazines, thought our family would enjoy them.  After he left, I thought how nice it was that when he walked up, it was quiet except for the piano playing.  When he looked in the window, he could see us there, doing our work with Mom quietly explaining stuff.  It stayed quiet the whole time he visited with my husband.  I was really excited to be caught homeschooling!  This neighbor usually just sees me with my kids while we walk up and down the hill or outside playing in the yard.  Sometimes at garage sales.  It was so nice for him to see us at that moment!  Even the flower beds near the door had recently been beautifully redone by my dh and the boys. 

 

Now, what I was so glad he DIDN'T see was our oldest son, eating breakfast out in the dining room, still in his pajamas.  He didn't hear whining kids or a frustrated Mom.  He didn't see the Lego-strewn living room or the kids' craft table, with papers and crayons spread all over it.  He didn't see the messy bedrooms where the kids struggle with bed-making.  And he couldn't see the dishes I hadn't done yet (you can't see that from outside the kitchen window!)  So, lest you think all is perfect here, I wanted to burst your bubble (mine was burst years ago!)

 

It's not like he saw something that wasn't real.  But he saw us, at that moment, at our best.

 

It was just one of those golden moments for me.  And we got some free magazines to boot!

 

About my last post ... you know that personality test I mentioned?  My dh took it and convinced me to take it myself.  And NO, I didn't have fun!  Tests are not fun to me.  I guess we've been married long enough that we weren't surprised by our outcomes.  He's the thinker.  Feelings are my forte.  This is not news.  Although, it's funny, he's more the extrovert now and I'm more the introvert.  Wasn't that way when we got married nearly 20 years ago.  Things change!

 

Though there was a totally cool thing about the test outcome.  They give you a list of famous people who share similar traits.  The two names that totally thrilled me were Laura Ingalls Wilder and Helen Keller!  These two women have had much influence on my life, they were both amazing.  THAT part of the test was fun!

 

Oh, cathmom wrote an interesting comment on my last post on the definition of fun.  Something to think about. 

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Oct. 12, 2007 - Not surprising!

Posted by cathmom
Your results are not surprising to me! I knew we had similar personalities! Too bad we live on opposite sides of the country!

My husband and I have also switched on the introvert/extrovert thing a bit - I know far more people than him at this point, but I still need my space to regain energy.

The best definition I ever read of the difference between introverts and extraverts is where they get their energy from. Introverts need to be alone to get energy, while extraverts get energy from being with others.
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Oct. 12, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
I loved your 'peek' into your home. It's funny that you prefaced it with total bliss....then let us in on the secret reality.

You're a good friend to not leave us hanging like that.

Emily
thelearningneverstops.blogspot.com
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Oct. 12, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Rebeca
How nice to be caught at such a moment- you're going to give homeschoolers a good reputation if you keep that up!
Thanks for your recent comment on my blog. It's nice to know people still stop by even though my posts are few and far between these days!
Blessings,
Rebeca
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Oct. 12, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by bethanyrae
Too funny to get randomly caught looking like a professional homeschooler! How in the world did that ever happen??
I mean, what are the odds?!
bethanyrae
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Oct. 12, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Mama2Ways
Oooohhh, you did get caught!!!! Actually that is one of my fears with a certain neighbor that we have next door.

So, did they know you were homeschooling? And I can just imagine the atmosphere that greeted your neighbor: a calm and gentle mom, learning kids, all with the background of piano music from their dad. Sure, there were a few things that weren't perfect. But if it was perfect, then that would look too strange.

So where is the test??? I'm looking all over your blog for it. Can you post the link please? Thanks!
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Oct. 15, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by MOMflippedisWOW
lol, I just read the comment above this! I just finished searching your blog for it, too. Sounds like you had a wonderful day homeschooling!

Blessings,
Vicki
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Oct. 16, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by moreofhim
What a great moment!! Those are the moments we cherish! Yeah, my bubble was burst years ago, too!! It happens!

I'm so glad your neighbor was there to see what a wonderful family you are!

God bless you ~ Julie
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Oct. 17, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by appleleaf
What your neighbour saw was the picture-perfect concept of homeschooling we all love to imagine before we actually begin.
I guess it also proves that beautiful looking moments like that really are still part of it just as much as those other inevitable times you mentioned. It's like a tapestry, isn't it? I'm glad your neighbour saw the "up" side. We don't usually talk about that other side to non-homeschoolers.
Blessings,
Paula
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Oct. 17, 2007 - Good morning!

Posted by MOMflippedisWOW
Lol, that's so funny you mentioned about how to post a link as I just learned the obvious myself this week!

On the New Entry page, to the left of the color options, there's two symbols that look like Earth with a chain link around it. One is Add the other remove a link. So when your writing your post, you highlight the words you want as a link then click on the symbol. It will pop up a small window that will give you a place to paste the http address. I have found it helpful to have already copied the link prior to highlighting the words I want to use as the link on my blog.

Hope this helps. I really just figured this out this week! I should have asked myself, sooner, lol.

Ttyl!
Vicki

Edited by MOMflippedisWOW on Oct. 18, 2007 at 1:55 AM
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Oct. 21, 2007 - Me too!

Posted by castlekids
I was caught last week by the Time Warner guy but I don't think I gave that great of an impression since one of my kids was jumping on the mini trampoline in the front room!

I love that you were able to provide a good representation to the neighbor.

~Jenny
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Oct. 21, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by wardssward
I can understand how you would be thrilled by having someone witness a sweet homeschool moment. They are few and far between, but these are definitely the ones that we want to impress on others' minds. The other more difficult moments... well, shall we say that we're still working on those? ;-) BTW, according to a story that my great grandma would tell, we are related to Helen Keller. Not directly to her, but to her cousin, Vaughn Keller. Or was it to Noah? Or was it Adam? Oh well! Either way, we're related. ;-)
~Connie
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