"How Can I Become Motivated To Get My House in Order?"
As the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31 who "looks well to the ways of her household," we, too, want to follow the principle of I Corinthians 14:40, "Let all things be done decently and in order."
Can you imagine how much easier your life and home schooling would be this fall if all the extra clutter were eliminated from your home and it were clean and organized?
Although organization imposes limits on your behavior, time, and belongings, it is an essential tool for achieving freedom, peace, and plenty. Human nature tends to throw off constraints and to do what we feel like moment by moment. The result is chaos in the home environment. Personal victory in the area of household organization will bring many benefits to your family, including:
1. A home that is a haven from the world for our families, friends, and guests.
2. Fewer allergies, illnesses, and accidents due to a clean, safe environment.
3. Possessions that are in good repair and easy to find when needed, saving the time, money, and stress of looking for things or buying duplicates of unfound items.
4. Less need for extra storage space.
5. A pleasant and efficient environment for work and study.
6. The ability to practice hospitality and to open the door and say "Come on in!" to unexpected visitors.
"How Do I Plan My Work?" You can choose one of these strategies or combine them to fit your family's needs. You may want to start with a bang and finish off a little each week, or work up to an all-out effort.
1. Decide Where To Start
• By Rooms You can go through your house room-by-room in any order: from "public" living areas to storage, more cluttered rooms first or last, or perhaps a different room for each day of the week.
• By Categories Or you could deal with categories one at a time: all your books and papers, all your clothes, all your media, all your kitchen things, etc., and then finish up room-by-room.
2. Schedule Your Time
• One or Two Weeks Concentrated Time Schedule one or two weeks to unclutter. Wipe all other activities from your calendar and do a systematic pass through your entire house. You probably will not complete everything in one week, but it will give you a big boost. You can follow up with one of the following schedules.
• One Day Each Week Schedule one day each week to unclutter.
• An Hour or Two each Day or on Several Days each Week The consistency of even small efforts -- just 15 minutes to 1 hour a day -- will pay off immensely. Or you could schedule 2-4 hours once or twice a week.
3. Enlist the Help of Family and Friends
• Ask your family and friends to support you in prayer if you are struggling to become more organized.
• Talk to your family about the benefits of an organized home and pray together that the Lord will help each one to let go of unneeded items and develop habits to maintain your home.
• Train your child to do cleaning chores and help him become consistent in doing them.
• Seek the wisdom and guidance of your Heavenly Father above all.
4. Be Realistic There is a fine balance between a challenge and unrealistic expectations. In the long run, clutter and disorganization can only be effectively overcome by constant and consistent effort. It takes time to establish new habits and routines. Set your eyes on your goal, and even if you make only slow progress each day and week, you will be delighted to see a real difference in your home and life sooner than you might expect.
"How Can I Find a Place for Everything?"
Before you start the major dejunking process described below, take some time to plan a place for everything you want to keep. This is the foundation of a neat home: "A place for everything and everything in its place!"
Budget your space, much like you would budget your money or your time. Consider the amount of space you have to work with and what you want to do with it.
This is a new way of thinking about your space and belongings -- not simply where can I put everything, but what do I need and where do I need it.
7 Steps To Finding a Place for Everything
Step 1 Start by making a list of the functions your house is used for (e.g., sleeping, cooking, washing, eating, playing, visiting, making things, entertaining, studying).
Step 2 Decide the best use of each room as you match it to one or more of the functions. This is also a fresh approach to organizing your home. For instance, two or more children could share a room with bunk beds and free up a room to be used for a your school work and library.
Step 3 Next, write the name of each room at the top of a page and list the uses of that room and what items should be in that room for those needs.
Step 4 Now assign a space in each room for the items needed there.
Step 5 You will need some general storage space as well somewhere in your house for miscellaneous items that don't fit anywhere else or are being saved for later. This could be either unused space in the rooms, or a separate area in the attic, basement, shed, etc.
Step 6 After you know exactly where each item belongs, print copies of your list. Post them throughout the house (inside cupboard or closet doors), and distribute them to family members. You can also place labels on shelves and in drawers and closets, etc. until habits are firmly established for putting things where they belong.
Step 7 Now you are ready to remove clutter and unneeded items from your home.
One way of getting started might be to check your list for needed items and "go shopping" among your stuff, find them, and put them away. The balance can be discarded as suggested below.
"How Can I Deal with Clutter?"
Dealing with clutter is an ongoing challenge. The "Four-Box Dejunking Method" below is recommended by many experts to help you identify and dispose of clutter.
1. Get Four Boxes and Label Them: • Throw Away • Give Away and/or Sell • Storage • Put Away
2. Make Your Decisions. As you go through the items in your current work zone, force yourself to make a decision about each item you pick up and place it in the correct box. Indecision is often the biggest problem in dealing with clutter.
Refer to your master list of items needed for each function and space assigned for those items. Ask yourself questions like these: • Can I do without it? • Do I have room for it? • Can I use something else in its place? • Can I borrow or rent one if I rarely need it? • Do I have too many of these? • Could someone else use this more than I would?
3. Finish Up. Be sure to schedule time before you stop working each day to appropriately dispose of box contents.
• Relocate "Put-Away" items in their correct places.
• Place "Give-Away" items (in labeled bags or boxes) into your car to take to their destination (e.g., donation center, church, support group, friends or relative's house).
• Put "Storage" items, as well as items for your summer yard sale or eBay sales, in clearly labeled boxes in your storage area.
• Throw away the rest. Use large trash bags for non-garbage throw-aways, rather than overfilling your garbage can. Some serious dejunkers even rent a small dump box.
"What Can I Do To Keep Clutter from Making Itself at Home in My Home?"
To prevent clutter from accumulating again, try one or all of the following suggestions.
1. Hold Your Ground. After a particular area (as small as one counter top or drawer) has been cleared, do a daily clutter check of that area to make sure no clutter is permitted to return.
2. Put Everything in Its Place. Each member of your family needs to know where every item belongs. (Review your master lists!)
Keep eliminating stuff until everything fits in the space you have available, rather than wishing for something you do not have -- more space for more stuff!
3. Build Good Habits. Work hard on the habit of returning items to their homes. One suggestion is to have an attractive basket or other container in a corner of each room for items that need to be put away in another room.
At a designated time each day (e.g., before dinner, bedtime, or free time) have each person check the containers and put away his own belongings and things that he has used.
4. "One Comes In, One Goes Out" Rule. When you buy a new item, another item must be discarded, recycled, sold, or donated. This keeps the sheer number of items below the clutter point. It can also save money as you consider if you really need or want to buy a new item badly enough to release one you already have.
5. Don't Buy It. It is more cost effective to rent some seldom-needed items or to borrow them from your public, church, or home-school library. This is another way to keep down the volume of material in your home and storage space.
"Who Would Want My Castoffs?"
Ridding your home and life of clutter is enough reward in itself, but you may also realize other profits. Items that could still be of use to others can be disposed of in several ways:
1. Give Them Away Give them to people you know that could use them or donate them to your church, mission, Goodwill, or Salvation Army.
2. Sell Them in a Garage or Rummage Sale (See "Yard Sale Tips" at http://www.organizedhome.com/content-54.html.)
3. Sell Them Online • My Homeschool Store. http://www.MyHomeschoolStore.com • abeBooks. http://www.abebooks.com/docs/Sell • eBay. http://sell.ebay.com/sell?ssPageName=h:h:syi:US Suzanne Himka, a home-school mother, has written an article with detailed information on how to sell on eBay at: http://www.teachinghome.com/newsletters/vol_2-no_42.cfm.
"Am I Finally Ready for 'Spring' Cleaning?"
Did you miss spring cleaning this year (or maybe the last several years)?
Of course, if you are really well organized, you have been keeping your house neat and clean all year. But those of us who always seem to be a little behind probably need to do a good, thorough house cleaning right about now.
If you followed the steps above for dejunking your house, you are ready for the next step -- discover a new level of clean. It is amazing how easy it is to clean a house with the clutter out of the way. In fact, your house might even be cleared up enough so that you can hire some help for the scrubbing! Afterwards, enjoy the fruits of your labor as your family and friends live and fellowship in your clean and orderly home.
For valuable tips on efficient ways to clean anything, see the online resources listed below.
Online Resources
These websites contain a wealth of practical and encouraging information.
The Organized Home Many pages of free information about how to organize, unclutter, simplify, and clean your home, including: • Several articles on decluttering. http://www.organizedhome.com/content-cat-2.html • Many detailed articles on cleaning. http://www.organizedhome.com/content-cat-5.html • Much more! http://www.organizedhome.com
The Fly Lady The FlyLady takes you by the hand and gently leads you step by baby step through her housecleaning and organizing program. • FlyLady.Net Table of Contents http://www.flylady.net/pages/TableOfContents.asp • "Declutter 15 Minutes a Day - 5 Great Tools That Make it Easy!" http://www.flylady.net/pages/FLYingLessons_Decluttertips.asp • "How To Declutter" http://www.flylady.net/pages/FLYingLessons_Declutter.asp
Don Aslett's Cleaning Center • "Clutter's Last Stand" and other books by Don Aslett. http://www.cleanreport.com/sub_category.cfm?subid=5 • Articles on dejunking and cleaning. http://www.cleanreport.com/new_articles.cfm
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