Sep. 29, 2008

At The Well (Titus 2 Study) - Spiritual Dryness

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Our host today At the Well - In Pursuit of Titus 2 is Heather. Here is her post on the topic of Spiritual Dryness. Let's take a look at today's discussion questions!

 

* Have you noticed a pattern of when you find yourself spiritually dry? *



Yes. I find that it happens when I become stressed out or overcommitted! That's why I try my best (and, yes, I HAVE improved…ha) to say no to things that are not required of me by God and my husband (my "earthly head").

 

* What do you do to move quickly through that season of dryness? *

 

If I feel like the task I've been asked to commit to is admirable and might just be God's Will for me to take on, I do not say 'no' right away. Instead I explain to the person that I need to pray about it (no matter how small) and talk to my husband about it. I take anything that I feel might be overindulgent to my husband and ask him for his opinion on whether or not I should take the offer, accept the task or make the commitment. Wow, has this done WONDERS for me! Mark sees that my heart is in the right place...wanting to help out and serve others....but most of the time I tend to over-commit my time which should be reserved for God, my husband, my kids (this includes homeschooling) or my houseKEEPING. By taking even the smallest things to God and Mark help save me from a lot of stress and spiritual dryness.

 

It is also important that I keep nibbling on spiritual matters throughout the day. This doesn't necessarily mean that I need to be ALONE or QUIET to do this, either. It means that I can bring God and his Word into my daily tasks by reciting verses, singing songs, or even talking about God to my children. Leading little ones in devotions or explaining God's purpose for them through life is a GREAT way to sharpen your spiritual skills and to keep in the Word daily - er, hourly.

 

 Thanks, Heatherfor the great topic! And, ladies, let's KEEP OUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT and learn to say NO! It's okay to say no for the sake of your family and your spiritual health!

 

 ~ Lisa Metzger


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Sep. 29, 2008 - Thanking you for your At The Well message :)

Posted by Anonymous
"It is also important that I keep nibbling on spiritual matters throughout the day." I love that! What a great way to prevent spiritual dryness! I am learning a lot today about how to prevent spiritual dryness, thanks for adding to that knowledge :)

Kat
Faith In All Seasons
http://faithinallseaons.blogspot.com/
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Sep. 29, 2008 - At The Well

Posted by Sunny @ A Damsel No Longer in Distress
Hello sister!

So good to fellowship with you today! I'm so encouraged by your commitment to God and to humble yourself to the earthly spiritual head God provided you...your husband.

I actually used to have the same over-commitment problem and what you mentioned today is EXACTLY the same way God resolved my issue...I pray (no matter how "small the matter may seem) and also speak with my husband and wait for him to pray and receive a word from the Lord to lead me!

This works out SOOOO much better! And I feel so free and less burdened!

Bless you sister and thank you so much for sharing!
Sunny
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Posted by Anonymous
thank you for sharing your heart and your great tidbits of advice. Nibbling on Gods treasure is the quencher to our thirst. Thanks for sharing with us AT THE WELL today! -Blessings, Laurie
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Sep. 29, 2008 - Spiritual Dryness

Posted by Laurie Ann
May I learn to say no more often! I loved your post. Overcommittment definitely leads to spiritual dryness, and running everything past God and our husbands is key.
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Sep. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Jennifer Valerie
Hi Lisa
Just stopped by to say hi. I pray all is well with you and your family. Blessings.
Jenn
www.jennifervalerie.blogspot.com
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Sep. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by LauraLee Shaw
This is insightful as usual. So good to run our commitments through our husbands. My husband is so good about seeing straight through my motives or helping me dissect what a commitment will look like. And so much of our spiritual health could be maintained or even grow if we choose to talk to Him and worship Him all day long.
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