Oct. 27, 2008

At The Well (Titus 2 Study) - Arise and Shine: Being an Exceptional Mother in the Midst of the Ordinary

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   At The Well 
As your host At The Well this week, I have chosen the topic of Arise and Shine: Being an Exceptional Mother in the Midst of the Ordinary. I invite you to post your own thoughts, using the discussion questions as a guide, on your own blog. Make sure to use Mr. Linky (below) and post a comment on my blog! I'd LOVE to hear from you!
~ Lisa Metzger
 
1. What daily tasks seem mundane or monotonous to you?
2. How can we change our outlook when completing these tasks? 
3. What impact do these tasks have on our husband and children? How does it make a difference in their lives?
4. Is it okay to focus on earthly recognition when completing these tasks for our loved ones, or is receiving an eternal reward sufficient? Which does Jesus think is more important? Shouldn’t that be our focus, as well?
 
Homeschool mothers can most assuredly relate to the feelings that come from drudgery. The days are long and tedious. The success that comes of the toil sometimes goes unseen for months, maybe even years. Our lives seem downright plain and ordinary. Our work goes unnoticed. Our existence remains unobserved. Life can become commonplace. Where do we go from here? How can we keep going from day to day?
 
Oswald Chambers said, “Drudgery is one of the finest touchstones of character.” A touchstone is defined as “a hard black stone, such as jasper, formerly used to test the quality of gold or silver by comparing the streak left on the stone by one of these metals with that of a standard alloy.” A touchstone is a gauge, which is used to test the quality of a precious metal in comparison to a commonplace metal. During our times of drudgery, do we want to show our character as being that of pure gold or as a mixture of commonplace metals? I would much rather present myself to Jesus as gold - experiencing the ordinary, rather than being ordinary.
 
The truth is that our feelings of inadequacy overpower us when we fail to see God’s handiwork in the smallest details of our everyday lives. We wait for God to show us the extraordinary thing for which we have been laboring. We look for Him to guide us to our pinnacle of success so that we can, then, give Him the glory. We should be giving Him the glory throughout the mundane tasks that are before us each day. It is when we are in the valley - between the pinnacles of success - that we see where we have been and how far He has led us.
 
Jesus stepped down from His heavenly domain and meekly washed His disciple’s feet. In turn, let us walk the path of humility that He has placed before us. We are not so admirable that we deserve the praiseworthy work rather than what Jesus has given us to accomplish. His plan is perfect and we must accept the plan, no matter how ordinary that plan may seem. Seeing the exceptional within the ordinary, makes the mundane extraordinary.
 
“Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the Glory of the Lord rises upon you.”
Isaiah 60:1
 
The Glory of God is upon you on the mountain tops of success and in the valleys of the commonplace. Take your place; accept your calling; place your feet firmly on the path; look toward the goal; arise and shine!
 
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Oct. 26, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
No matter what our calling - whether it is homeschooling, working outside the home, raising grandchildren or volunteering at the nursing home - God is calling us to seek after Him and seek with passion. Passion will take what seems ordinary and turn it into extraordinary!

Thanks for a soul searching topic this week. My sweet husband preached a marvelous sermon tonight on "working for Christ" - he reminded us to not become weary - don't become weary doing His work, the reward awaits us. Great to see you AT THE WELL today.

Laurie
womentakingastand.blogspot.com
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Oct. 26, 2008 - Great Post!

Posted by Ashley @ Putting God First Place
Lisa,

This is a wonderful post! Thank you for a great topic.

More women need to see the importance of what they do everyday. Thank you for pointing it out so clearly!

-Ashley
http://puttinggodfirstplace.blogspot.com/
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Oct. 27, 2008 - I'm up now!

Posted by LauraLee @ LauraLee's Lifesong
Wow, what a beautiful central theme and an enlightening verse to go with it. You have challenged me, and I love a challenge. Thank you so much for hosting and for this incredible topic to mull over and reflect upon.
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Oct. 27, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
I have to admit this subject hit home. I had to spill my heart on this one. Love your post!
Blessings to you.
Kim
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Oct. 27, 2008 - At the Well

Posted by Anonymous
This has been a wonderful topic, thank you for being a gracious hostess. Thank you for sharing and encouraging us to shine in all that we do.
Joyfull
www.joybright.blogspot.com
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Oct. 27, 2008 - At the Well

Posted by Laurie Ann
I loved your post and the topic you chose for today. "The truth is that our feelings of inadequacy overpower us when we fail to see God’s handiwork in the smallest details of our everyday lives." That describes me. When I open my eyes and see how God is at work in the smallest details of my life, I still feel small, but a little less inadequate, because I know He has my back in all the matters at home.
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Oct. 27, 2008 - Wonderful Words of Wisdom!

Posted by Anonymous
Just found your blog through Lauralee's. Glad I did! You hit me right where I live. I already posted an entry in my blog for today, so I hope it's ok if I use Mr. Linky to link back to an older entry that fits today's subject.

Thanks for your thoughts!
Betsy Markman
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Oct. 27, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
Beautiful post! Great inspiration.

I am taking a break this week and next "At the Well" to continue to blog on election.

Blessings!

Tracy @ Thirsty for Him
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Oct. 27, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
Wow!! I can't believe I was actually able to get all the linking done correctly. But to be totally honest, I didn't do it. I had to have my daughter do it all for me.

I am responding to this post specifically with regard to the part about earthly recognition and heavenly praise. I spent over 10 years of my life running around like a maniac in order to receive the applause and attention of man through dozens of church ministries, all the while neglecting my primary ministry---my husband and children. By God's grace, he opened my eyes and brought my heart home, and freed me from the bondage of desiring the applause of man. I have shared my story in an Above Rubies article, and although I wasn't going to talk about things like this on my blog, I felt led to do so after reading today's At The Well questions to ponder.

thanks for hosting this and allowing me to share.

Blessings,
Patti
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Oct. 27, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
Great post! I really enjoyed this topic,Lisa. God bless you!

Heather, http://www.heatherforhim.blogspot.com/
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Oct. 28, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
Thank you for such a great topic! Blessings, Rebecca
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