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Friday, October 10, 2008
rambling thoughts

Posted in just my thoughts

Sorry I have been gone so long. I guess I have just been feeling better, and so have been keeping a little busier around the house. Trying to get it in order for company on the 25th.

Well, I thought I had some rambling thoughts to blog...however, I guess the mood must have left me. You know how you have these deep, thoughtful moments, and then later you are all thought out, and can't remember what it was you were thinking about in the first place? That'd be me.

I guess part of my rambling thoughts stemmed from a conversation I had with one of my good friends today about compassion. She questioned if she had it or not, or said she guessed she wasn't very compassionate. It got me to thinking. (uh-oh) I feel like for myself, I just come by it naturally. I did not do anything to cultivate it. Not saying that in a bragging sort of way, because there are times when I wish I did not feel the way I did. It makes it hard for me to say no. Not only that, but I find my self volunteering for (some) things without even being asked. I can't help it, I truly care about others suffering. Sometimes, I try NOT to care, but it just doesn't work. So, what is your opinions, dear readers? Do you think it is something we are born with, something we learn, or something we have to work at cultivating? Can you "prioritize" your compassion? Are there "degrees" of your compassion, based on someone else's need or suffering?

Okay, on to other things.....
We are having a family reunion tomorrow, and Sunday is looking to be busy, too, but I still have a lot I want to get done.
  1. clean off kitchen table
  2. clean off the counter I just cleaned yesterday
  3. clean off the long counter in kitchen
  4. sweep and mop the kitchen, utility, and bathrooms
  5. make oatmeal cookies
  6. make mac n cheese and hot dogs for reunion lunch
  7. make beefy noodle magic for reunion supper(oops, had to buy something at deli instead)
  8. "possibly" make a chocolate mayo cake, just because
  9. pick up in living room and dust and vacuum
  10. pick up and hide er, put away stuff in computer room
  11. wash out refrigerator
  12. laundry, and dishes-always a given
  13. take down attic fan louvers and wash
  14. wash down hallway walls (what a mess!)
  15. vacuum hallway and computer room
  16. scrub everything in hall bathroom
  17. clean off mine, and hubby's dresser
  18. pick up EVERYTHING from bedroom floor (working in it)
  19. dust every surface in bedroom
  20. vacuum bedroom
  21. strip sheets, wash and flip mattress
  22. wash windows, at the very least, the inside
  23. sweep off front porch, carport, and patio
  24. wash lawn chairs
  25. clean off table from school room from last year (we went back to the kitchen table)
  26. (I have been doing the 15 minutes in one room, switch to another for 15 more, then one more room for 15 minutes, and finally a 15 minute break-whew!)
  I am getting things done, slow and steady, so I am going to send this back to the date it belongs, and my newer posts will be at the top where they belong. I like it better that way.

Thanks for reading!
blessings~Lynn

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Friday, October 10, 2008 - LOL

Posted by Tweety


Boy you had me going and then you had me thinking???
Glad to hear that you are feeling better. I think that is pretty neat how you are keeping your list at the top of you blog, a tad bit of accountability.....
Hope you get it done, and what is a chocolate mayo cake?????


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Monday, October 13, 2008 - Compassion

Posted by Grammy


Hello! I think compassion is a combination of learning from others...the atmosphere you are brought up in can either teach you compassion or not. And for some it has to be cultivated too. You have got me thinking of my compassion area now. Hmm?

I do think there are degrees of compassion...for example...certainly we are probably more compassionate toward someone who has just lost someone to death, copared to someone who just messed something up at work & is really upset over it and in tears. Or is it "empathy" I am thinking of.?

Putting ourselves in the place of others to know what they must be feeling , can for sure turn into deep compassion .

Being overly compassionate can wear us down too. Sometimes we just need to relax and enjoy our own times of simple need without feeling obligated to do for others. I guess we could be "compassionate" to ourselves once in awhile.. Make sense? Just my rambling thoughts. : >)


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