Everybody knows about it. Just about everybody has done. I know. You know. I have. You probably have. Arguing is very evil and very, very hard to avoid. Some people might argue absent-mindedly and forget about it very soon. Arguments grow and grow and grow until somebody might get so angry and say mean things like, "I don't like you!" (note:please do not say or do all the things in this post except the things suggested at the end. Thank you) Brothers and sisters, please try to resolve your arguments and say "I'm sorry" and "Please forgive me, I was wrong" but don't say those with a heart that says, "He was wrong" or "It was him [or her]not me" for it is what is in the heart that counts.

Here are some ways to help:

1.(By far the most important) Pray and read your Bible. Maybe some of the things that need resolving need God's superior help.

2. Admit you were wrong. Most arguments aren't resolved correctly because one person believes the other was wrong.

3. Get a good sleep. It seems stange but sleepiness leads to grumpiness, and grumpiness often leads to arguing.

Of course there are more ways to help but most arguments are solved only by one person admitting he or she was wrong.