Blogger School Assignment #12

Assignment: Write out some goals that you would like to accomplish. These goals should include your personal goals, but also goals as a family.

While setting goals, try to write out small attainable rewards for each goal accomplished!

I have a problem doing this assignment.  I've never been one to cop out of doing homework with some lame excuse.  I was always the girl who did extra work like write 10 pages when only 2 were required...you know, the geek.

I used to set goals for myself all the time.  Being a perfectionist, I would work hard to reach each & every goal at work, in ministry, at home...but things have changed.

This year has been a tough one.  The reality of having MS has set in.  I had managed to put it out of my mind while I was caring for my Dad before he died, then caring for my Mom as she mourned.  With the multiple attacks of this disease this year came the huge REALITY  CHECK in my life -- I have MS and I can't pretend it's not there any longer!

Most of the goals I had for this year are still not accomplished.  It would be much easier to set goals if I knew that from February 10th to March 28th I would not be able to walk, or during the month of June I wouldn't be able to use my hands.  That's not how this works though.

So, I guess my main goal this upcoming year is to set smaller, more attainable goals and not beat myself up if I don't reach them in my time frame.  Here's what I have so far:

1. Prayerfully God will reveal the ministry He wants me to do.  I have focused too much on the ministry I've had to leave behind due to the MS.  It's time to move forward and to be faithful in the work He has for me to do.  Reward – Heavenly one.
2. Be more bold in telling others about Christ.  Reward – Heavenly one.
3. Relax over Gigi's schooling.  She can sense when I'm tense over not reaching a certain point by the end of our school day.  Reward – a happier, better educated child and a calmer me.
4. Faithfully keep our weekly Family Nights in play (family game night, family movie night, family ministry night).  Reward – prayerfully keeping our family close.
5. Prayerfully make a close friend who lives nearby.  My friends all moved away and I really am feeling lonely for a girlfriend.  My best friend (DeeDee) lives in England, so I can't just pop over there whenever I want to chat!  My closest friend is about an hour and a half away.  We only manage to see each other about four times a year.  I'd like to have someone who I could do a girls night with or scrapbook with.  (I love my blogger friends...just needing someone I can hug for real.)  Reward – not sure...perhaps another splash of joy in my life?

I realize I used the word "prayerfully" many times above.  That's because I know I can only do so much on my own.  I desperately NEED God.  He's in control of my life and I'm much happier when I'm not fighting Him along the way!

Stacey

Oh my dear friend!

3:28 PM, Dec. 22, 2007 .. Posted by deedeeuk

I wish I was close enough for you to pop over for a hug! And I wish I could give you one right now since you have me crying again!!! At least we may be able to see each other by the end of the next week?? Mom is going to try and drop off the camera on Sunday if the weather permits them to get down to O..... (you know, that town where you live! Almost blew that one!) I love you and I'll be praying for you as you seek out the ministry I KNOW He has for you! You are very brave my dear to face this condition head on and live in the reality of it with Joy and Peace. I love you girl! ((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

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7:14 PM, Dec. 22, 2007 .. Posted by psalms16vs2

Wow, every time I read you blog I feel humbled. You deal with so much and yet you are so positive. I'm sure you have your times, but it's still and encouragement to realize how to be more thankful in my situations.
I completely understand about having a friend close by. If I lived close by, we could get together a lot. But since I'm in Idaho, I don't that will happen. I do pray that the Lord brings just the right friend along for you and for her. :)
JoAnn

Saint Nicholas

9:47 PM, Dec. 22, 2007 .. Posted by AuntieR

seems he may be stopping by on Sunday afternoon to leave a package early, he was asked to help with an international package.

Stacey I am praying for all of you. Haven't been on the blog for ages, the computer was down from 9/1 to 11/19.

If I don't speak to you may you all have a blessed Christmas. Thank you for the picture card, Gigi is getting so tall.

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11:37 PM, Dec. 22, 2007 .. Posted by hsfamily

I understand the friend thing. I am so thankful that my husband and I are best friends. But I also have a best friend that I've been friends with since high school. Her and I are kindred spirits. However, we live hours apart and very rarely get to see one another. In fact, it's probably been several years since I've seen her. However, we talk regularly on the phone (sometimes for hours - actually many of the times our conversations end up being hours.....)

Hope you have a wonderful weekend!
Karen
www.homeschoolblogger.com/salt

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