Children of the King

• Dec. 16, 2009 - Merry Christmas 2009

Posted By lindygirl

Merry Christmas from our family to yours!

Here is a review of the year 2009.

    We started off the new year welcoming in Lauren to our family.  The adjustment was overall rather easy, it was just the 'new baby' chores to do again.  We also switched Swim Team for the kids from the Marlins to Four Seasons.  There are remarkable differences between the teams, and it took a while for Caleb especially to adjust.  But overall, I think this was a great move as we get along withe the coach and other members wonderfully.  Caleb and Jessica both played Upwards Basketball as well.  They even both made baskets in the game!  We were also able to witness the Baptism of the newest addition to the Hall Family, dear friends from high school.

    In the spring, Caleb recieved his First Communion.  And later, we were able to visit our dear friends, the Woolvertons, and witness the baptism of their daughter Francesca.  Unfortunately, the stormy weather nut out a day to spend with them as we tried to get home with the storms following. 

    Summer made way for summer Swim Team, in which both kids swam in the finals at Conference in their age brackets.  Summer also means lots of family birthdays!  Caleb turned 8 in May, Jessica turned 6 in August, and Heather turned 3 (but she says she is 8 when asked).   All three were able to participate in VBS this year, which made Heather so very very happy!  We were also able to celebrate the joys of marriage as I was aksed to be the Matron of Honor in Anjali and Aaron's wedding.  We had grown up together and were best friends for many years.  Jessica was asked to be the flower girls and she loved everything to do with the wedding.  Congratulations to the newlywed couple and my wish for them was that they could look back on their wedding as the day they loved each other the least (Meaning that they would continue to grow in love for each other)

    Fall brough a renewed start to our homeschooling journey.  Caleb started 3rd grade and Jessica 1st grade.  Caleb is studying the hostory of the world through navigation (Sea & Sky by WinterPromise) while Jessica is loving learning about different habitats and the animals that live in them.  Both are doing very wonderfully and are also engaged in many outside activities, inlcuding 4H, Co-ops, CCD, Little Flowers and Blue Knights as well as swimming, basketball and dance lessons.  I have also re-affiliated and started teaching Bradley Method of Natural Childbirth (r) classes again.  I just love being able to help other couples enjoy the joy of welcoming their child into the world.

   And the end of the year brought the joy and pain.  It turned out that I had a kidney stone, and the day we went into the hospital, it started to descend and begame stuck.  So surgery was in order to laser the 6mm stone and pull it out.  Minor complications followed, and even as I write this, I am 95% better, but still not all the way.  We were also able to celebrate Lauren's first birthday!!  It is amazing how fast a year goes.  Also, my wonderful husband, has finished (hopefully) school!!  YAY!!  But becuase he missed the deadline to apply for graduation, he is looking forwrd to graduating in May. 

   As we look upon the start of the next year, I am just so excited to see how the kids will grow, what new interests they will pursue and the joys next year holds.  I pray that you have a very Merry Christmas and may God bless you and your family, this season and always.

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• Dec. 14, 2009 - A Better Monday Morning

Posted By ApplesofGold

We had an awesome & busy weekend. Parties, caroling, open house at a horse trainer's place & a Christmas Cantata at church.  We thoroughly enjoyed it all.  But last night (Sunday) Hannah was acting miserable & when I asked her what was wrong she said she was dreading the next day (Monday).  She said Mondays are always so frustrating because the house is in a shambles from the weekend & we have to do schooling plus cleaning & it seems like most Mondays just don't go well.  Plus she's having trouble w/ conversions in Math & didn't want to do it. LOL  We talked about things for awhile-math, routines, what she wants to do with her life, etc.

So, this morning, I got up at 5:30 & did the dishes, started laundry, picked up the living room & got some of the school subjects ready.  The kids got up, did chores & then I made breakfast.  I thought I'd try to make Monday breakfast more special than any other week day.  So, we had pumpkin spice pancakes (a mix) with maple cream spread on them & cool whip on top of that. YUM.  Also had clementine oranges.

I told the kids it was up to them to help keep the house picked up & the sink empty.  My goal was to keep the sink empty & so far it's gone well.  Even with deer butchering going on!

So, I'm very pleased with how today went.  The baby makes the most mess & isn't old enough to pick up much, but I got her to put some books back on the shelf & push in chairs.  Everyone's schooling got done, some extra house cleaning got done & a little Christmas decorating, too.  It was a good day!

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• Dec. 12, 2009 - Christmas Fun

Posted By ApplesofGold
We had so much fun at our Christmas party yesterday!!  My friend, Louisa has quite the flair for entertaining.  There were close to 50 kids there & many of them played outside sledding & participated in the mystery scavenger hunt.  There was a bonfire out there, too.  The dads hung out there.  There were kids running every which way-it was so fun to watch from inside the warm house. LOL
There were also games in the house that were really fun.  They played a game called "Catch Phrase" that was a big hit.  There were all sorts of yummy treats to eat & warm drinks, Christmas music playing in the background. 
All of us moms shared about the cookies we brought, including special stories that went along with them.  I only knew 3 adults there, but everyone was so friendly, it didn't matter.  I don't usually like to do big crowds without my dh.  He had to work a double shift & couldn't make it unfortunately.
Alyssa had a temper tantrum at one point because she loves cats & their cat wouldn't cooperate with her & stay still to be petted. LOL.  They have a gorgeous slate gray European Great Dane who gladly tolerated all of her attentions, though.  He's used to 7 kids in his household & is amazing with children.  When you sit down, this dog rests his head on your shoulder, not your leg. LOL
Today, Jonah has 4-H from 10:00 to 1:00.  His group is metals & machines & he loves it.  Today they're tearing down an engine.  He can barely wait. :)
Hannah helps out with a therapeutic riding class every Saturday, so she has from 12:00 to 2:00.  The riders are either physical or mental challenges or have learning disabilites.  She really enjoys helping with this.
Tonight I'm super excited because we're going Christmas carolling.  We've not ever done this before & I can't wait!  We're going house to house in a group.  I hope it won't be too terribly cold for Alyssa, though.  That's my only concern.  She's a tough little nut, so hopefully we'll be good to go.
Merry Christmas, everyone!!
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• Dec. 10, 2009 - The Joyous Christmas Season

Posted By ApplesofGold

Oh, I've so missed my blog & didn't realize it until I saw my pretty homey template that Tamara made for me.  I'm trying to catch up on my friend's here, too-I'm sorry if I haven't commented in awhile. 

I am SO enjoying the Christmas season.  We have less money to spend on Christmas than ever before, but I'm enjoying it so much more!  We're making so many fun ornaments & went to our homeschool group's Christmas craft day.  Everyone that goes brings enough supplies for about 20 kids to make a craft at your table.  The parent stays at the table & helps the kids.  All the kids go from one table to another to make the crafts.  They flit from one table to another & visit with each other.  Everyone also brings a snack to share.  I brought a craft that didn't involve glue, so it was very laid back & easy for me. 

This week has been super cold & snowy & windy.  I'm hoping the weather cooperates for this weekend.  Tomorrow we're going to a Christmas Cookie Exchange party w/ 14 other homeschool families.  So, today we're baking over 100 chocolate covered cherry cookies. :)

Saturday we were invited to go Christmas caroling!!  It's in a little town & we're going to go house to house and sing with several other families.  I have never done this before & am extremely excited about it.

Sunday we might be going to a horse trainer's open house (Hannah went to a barrel racing clinic there recently) and then in the evening we're going to the Christmas Cantata at church w/ another family.  We've been to that church before, so we already know several people there.

These are the Christmas activities that are my favorite!!  Plus, the crafts-we've done crafts almost every day with Christmas music playing in the background. 

Plus, there's Christmas parties to go to for Hannah's 4-H group & Teen Council.  The one for Teen Council is being held here, but in January.  Well, I'll write more later-there's so many things I need to catch up on with my blog.  We were very sick for about 5 weeks (flu, bronchitis, pneumonia) and that is partially the reason I haven't blogged.  But, my reason for blogging is so I can read & remember these special days raising my children, so I need to get back in the game. LOL

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• Dec. 5, 2009 - Our new family member

Posted By BevG in Miscellaneous
We have a new family member.  She was rescued from a remote woods when pregnant.  The family kept one kitten, gave away the other kittens, and gave the mamma to us.  Her name was a mystery for awhile.

Prior to the family meeting, she was "Snowflake" or "Sugar". Of course, all kinds of suggestions were made - from crazy stuff like "popcorn", "taffy", "pretzel", and "salt" == to names like "Tammy" and "Stephanie" == to weird like "Green Eyed Lady Princess of Darkness" and "Aqualung".  We had finally narrowed it down to "Sierra" and "Sprite" with 2 votes each and 1 vote undecided, when Paul suggested "Zoey".  Everyone went "yup, I can live with that" and so she became Zoey.

She is about 1 year old and loves to play.  In fact, she wakes us up most mornings so we can play with her.  She wants you out of bed as soon as she hears the alarm - no snooze button for her.  She is very friendly, but not a lap kitty.  Maybe when she grows older, she will be come one.

So here she is:

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• Dec. 1, 2009 - Take My Cup And Fill It Up!

Posted By MamaMary


Take My Cup And Fill It Up Lord!



After months of serving outside my home I am taking a much needed break to pull “in” and fill my cup.  It’s hard to explain what that means because my cup truly is filled when I am able to serve outside my home as well? 

What I am learning is that my life has a rhythm that I have to be very aware of.  Too much downtime depletes my energy and makes me lazy, but too much time outside my home can do the very same thing. 

Right now, I am enjoying the holidays as I pull in to spend time with my family and focus on my Savior.  Last night was a precious and perfect example of how I fill my cup. We put our Christmas tree up while Avalon blared Christmas music through our house.  I was cooking fajita’s and the smell of sauteed onions and green peppers mingled with my evergreen candles.  I heard my boys engaged in laughter as they worked together to put the tree up.  My heart was so full I thought it would burst.

I am beginning to see the rhythm of my life.  I have come to realize that “spurts” are a good thing for me.  I finally get that my personality does better with “spurts”, whereas, I have friends who need daily balance. 

Neither is better or worse, right or wrong.  It’s finding out who you are and then engaging it without apology.  We shouldn’t spend our whole lives striving to become what we admire.  Our goal should be to thrive in who God made us to be.

It’s funny that I always worry that I’m not home enough during my busy season and then in the down time I feel like I am home too much.  Does anyone else ever struggle with that?  Balance is such an elusive creature.  I know that it doesn't come naturally, I have to be thoughtful, purposeful and most importantly prayerful.  Finding balance gets me to the very throne of God where HE pours out, wisdom and direction.

"Therefore, God elevated him (Jesus) to the place of highest honor and gave him the name above all other names, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth,and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father....," Philippians 2: 9-11

Father, as I quiet my heart and bow before your throne may I always keep my eyes on "you" and seek only "your wisdom", "your direction".  Show me where to say, "yes" and more importantly where to say, "no".  I only want to do your will Lord.  Help me to decrease so that you might increase.
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• Nov. 29, 2009 - Pictures of November

Posted By lindygirl

Here are the pictures as promised.

Caleb made a piratship porthole:

From Atelier:

Heather:

Jessica:

Caleb:

Cute pictures of Lauren:

And todays fiasco - Heather cutting her hair:

and after a fix at the local hair cut place:

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• Nov. 28, 2009 - What a Thanksgiving Week!

Posted By lindygirl

I have been meaning to update my blog the last few weeks, but it kept escaping me.  Probably because Lauren is at that age when she has a hard time falling and staying asleep on her own - she is almost 1 year old! 

But what a week - I have no been feeling well for a while, and  symptoms started on the 20th anniversary of my mothers death.  Then on Wednesday, we went in to the ER.  The pain was like transition in labor x 10.  They gave me lots of pain meds (which made me sleepy) and it was awful.  A 6mm kidney stone had started descending and got stuck in the tube connecting the kidney with the bladder.  The doctor performed surgery, using a laser to break it up.  Luckily I was under general anesthesia for that part!!  3 days later, I am still sore, but not in major pain.   The doctor put a stint (?) in between the kidney and bladder that will be removed Monday (boy am I NOT looking forward to THAT process!!).  The CAT scan showed another stone forming in my other kidney :(  I really hope to never go through that again though!!

So that is a short update.  I really hope to put up pictures of the kids work they have done the last few weeks.  But not tonight.

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• Nov. 27, 2009 - Strength's Based Living! Change Your Life!

Posted By MamaMary

Strength's Based Living!

Mary with Linda Werner at the FPEA State Homeschool Convention

In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly.  Loosely based on Romans 12:6-9

Last May I heard Linda Werner speak at our convention on Strength's Defined and it has truly changed my life.  Six month’s later and I am even more in love with the heart of this message.  Strength’s Defined was an introduction to Strength’s based living

Strength’s Based living is all about being purposeful with those talents God has given you.  It talks about stepping back and looking at who you are, who you really are.  Imagine if you quit trying and striving to become something or someone you admired and instead threw yourself passionately into who you already are?  Sounds simple doesn’t it?  It’s NOT!

Our society has programmed us to think that overcoming our weaknesses is character building.  Though I don’t totally disagree with that concept, I do think that we as  a society have given that way of thinking too much room in our lives.  Overcoming our weakness is all about “striving” and embracing our strength’s is all about “thriving”. 

Strength’s based living does not have you ignore your weaknesses, but instead it tells us to manage them.  How do I manage mine?  I look around me and take note of the people God has put in my life.  Most often, those friends who I cherish and adore are strong where I am weak, and so I include them in my management plan.  What does that look like?  Sometimes they offer words of wisdom, other times they hold me accountable, sometimes they simply listen and pray. 

If you’ve noticed I am blogging two days in a row after lots of time off.  Last weekend when I spoke to leaders at the "Leadership Tea" I realized that I had been too busy and that I love doing this.  Facebook seems to get more attention, because it takes less time and nets lots of immediate feedback, yet it's not the same thing.

Blogging allows me to put thoughts together more completely.  I can take my time and process, plot, plan what I want to say.  The truth is I've missed it.  I have come to learn after 4 1/2 years of blogging that there are seasons when I can and seasons when I can’t.  Right now, I am in a downtime schedule wise, and plan to use the next few weeks to catch up and fill my cup through blogging.

If we’re not engaging and embracing those things that fill our cups, energize us, empower us, than our cup runs dry and we begin performing as we try to pour out what we don’t own.

So my Christmas break goal is to share those things I’ve been learning this past six month’s about Strength’s Based Living.  I plan to write about my personal experiences because I think real life stories are more powerful than any how-to book.

Not only will I share my triumph’s, but I want to be real and share my hurdles as well.  It’s not about getting it right, never making mistakes, but instead this journey is helping me to live out our family motto, “Fall Down, Get Up, Fail Forward, Finish Well.”
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• Nov. 26, 2009 - I Give Thanks

Posted By MamaMary
 
I Give Thanks


“And as God’s grace reaches more and more people, there will be great thanksgiving, and God will receive more and more glory.  That is why we never give up. Though our bodies are dying, our spirits are being renewed every day. For our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever! So we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever.”  2 Corinthians 4: 16-18

Lord Jesus, I give thanks today for so many things.  At the very top of my list I am most thankful that you called to me and I heard your voice.  What an incredible honor it is to be your daughter.  YOU never forsake or abandon.  I thank you that you breathe peace and healing deep into my soul and that I am never a victim, but always victorious because YOU are in my life.



I thank you that when my biological father walked out of my life to begin a new life w/ a new family that you were faithful and gave me an amazing earthly dad to step in and raise me. 



I thank you for my mama.  I have so many precious memories.  The one that always brings tears to my adult eyes is when I think back to when I was a very young girl and she had just gone through a divorce after her husband had walked out of our lives.  She would sit with me while I ate dinner and not eat.  I would ask why, and she would tell me that she already had.   It wasn’t until I was an adult that I realized my mom went without, so that I wouldn’t have to.  How faithful you were Lord to bring my adoptive dad into her life.  I can't imagine it having been any other way!






I thank you for my amazing husband Scott.  It seems like yesterday that we were teens working for Publix.  Every time they would call the stock boys to the front my heart would beat out of my chest.  I can only imagine how nerve wreaking it would have been if I’d known then that we would marry and have four children. (smile)  I thank you that he loves me like I’ve never been loved.  He believes in me, cheers me on, keeps me safe, protects me, takes care of me and gives his whole life to making sure that I am happy.  I pray that I am able to give as much as I get.  He is my very best friend and I love him forever.



I thank you for Brandon my first born son.  I still remember finding out I was pregnant.  I had been married for two years, but was only 21 years old.  I loved that child from the very first blue plus sign on the pregnancy test.  He has brought his mama so much JOY, so much gladness.  Lord, I believe in him and I pray this morning that you would direct and guide every part of his life.  May he grow up strong in YOU.  May he never favor in his faith and trade the things of heaven for this fleeting life.



I thank you for my Colton.  Colton was our second born, but he is our third child.  We found out we were expecting exactly three months after a horrible miscarriage.  I remember being so scared to get excited or to trust that everything was going to be fine.  But little by little, I began to bond with this child as he grew bigger and bigger inside me.  He was the only one that I worked full time with and my patients loved him as though he was going to be their grandchild.  He was the perfect pregnancy and delivery.  I thank you that he was born with learning disabilities because you make no mistakes and that is a part of who He is.  It has gotten both of us to your throne and you’ve equipped him in other area’s that blow my typically learning children away.  I love his eye for art, his ear for music, his heart for others.  I pray that He would always hunger after you.


Lord I thank you for my Seth.  Oh this child has a special place in my heart.  Once again, I entered into this pregnancy on the heels of another miscarriage.  This child came out with his own little personality.  Where the first two made me think I had parenting down, this child humbled me and wrapped himself around my heart through lots of learning curves.  He is my most academic, but also my most headstrong.  I love how much he favors his daddy in personality and looks.  I love how he is his mama’s boy.  I love how fiercely loyal he is to those he trusts enough to call friend.  I love how he loves to snuggle with Scotty and I more than any of the other children and wants to have intellectual discussions about the world around him. 


Lord I thank you for my Jacob.  My baby, my Omega.  I still remember that my progesterone levels were low and how the doctor thought for sure that I was losing him.  I’ll never forget going for that ultra sound.  I still smile as I remember Scotty meeting me at the doctors office.  He had come from work in his uniform and when I reached out to hold his hand he pretended that I was one of his prisoners and said, “Maam, I need you to keep your hands to yourself please”, “Maam, please don’t make me call back up”.  He was so good, so convincing and I can still see those patrons in the waiting room not sure whether to believe him or me. (laughing as I type)  It is this exact story that illustrates his sense of humor. It made me forget why we were there.  Then when they did finally put that wand to my belly they could hardly keep up with Jacob because he was happily jumping all over the place with a strong little heart beat.  Jacob is so much like Brandon.  He is sweet and outgoing.  He is my most positive child.  He loves life and others and never has a bad attitude.


Lord, I thank you for my Grandma.  Oh this woman is so very precious to me.  She has been my rock through everything.  When her son walked out of my life, he walked out of hers too.  I became her everything as she threw herself into helping me grow up. (and vice versa)  I love how close she is with my mom and that though her son abandoned her she gained a daughter. (to this day)  I love the example she is to me.  She is such a strong woman.  Widowed twice before forty.  Went back to school at 40 and earned her Masters degree in education.  I still remember her 3rd grade class coming in first place at the Pinellas County economics fair.  One of my favorite memories is when I had Brandon and he was only two days old.  She came up on a Friday evening after everyone else had gone home and we had girl time.  We took Brandon for a walk around the maternity wing, ate dinner together, laughed together, remembered together and bonded together.  Lord, you already know my heart.  I am so scared that I am going to lose her.  As she approaches 90, I want her to live 90 more years.  My life will never be the same once she goes home to be with you.  41 years old and I still need my Grandma.







Lord, I thank you for my friends.  One of my greatest joys in this life has been the amazing women you’ve brought into it.  They inspire me to be my best.  They believe in me long before I do.  They pray for me and encourage me in my walk with YOU.  It overwhelms my heart when we can share and relate on a “girl” level.  I am so blessed! 




Lord, I thank you for Kidney Stones....., “We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair.  We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed.” 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 

Don’t ask why I’m including this, but the Lord keeps putting it on my heart.  I had been thinking about this over the past week because I’ve been quietly passing another kidney stone on the heels of my big one from a couple of weeks ago.  It’s been 31/2 weeks and I am feeling weary and tired.  This second one is not as bad as the one that put me in the hospital, but no stone is “easy”.  Why am I thankful? 

Because it doesn’t let me get too comfortable with my place in this world.  It reminds me that heaven is my home and only there will I live a life without any pain or worry.  I love kidney stones because I draw closer to you than when things are wonderful.  Pain breeds intimacy w/ my Savior and humbles me.  I still see your hand of blessing as you’ve given me the greatest doctors and nurses in the whole world.  Dr. Morris and his staff always make the experience less scary, no matter how many kidney stones I pass. (Over 20 thus far and still have 8 left) I just adore them and their hearts for others.




Lord, I thank you for Homeschooling.  I’m so glad I didn’t know that I was going to homeschool my children when I was a new mama.  It might have freaked me out.  Now, I cannot imagine “not” homeschooling.  What a joy it is to be with my children as they have their “aha” moments.  What satisfaction it gives me to be purposeful in their socialization.  I love spending time with them. 

I cannot even imagine my life without the incredible friends I’ve met through this journey?  We are a tight knit community and it’s a place where we can come together and support one another. 







Lord, I thank you for allowing me to serve in our support group.  You give me a place to pour encouragement into other moms.  It fills my cup so much more than what I could ever give away.  Thank you for the incredible people who I serve with.  I love them and cherish the friendships we’ve built.  Thank you for the members who’ve prayed for me, encouraged me and loved me through my growing process.  It’s all about the relationships. (smile)


Lord, I thank you for Time4Learning.  YES, I am thankful to our curriculum publisher.  Not only was Time4Learning the first curriculum that my children with Processing issue’s could thrive with, but it eventually became a part time career that allows me to use my passions.  I thank Time4Learning for hiring me to be one of their freelance writers.  I have learned (continue to learn) so much through this experience.  It allows me to offer encouragement and I get paid?  Life doesn’t get better than that, LOL;-)

I could go on and on, but I need to begin cooking and preparing for a feast-filled, memory-making day.  I lift up each of my family members and friends to you this morning and ask that you would capture their hearts to pause and reflect on you.  Lord, be with those today who may not have the money to do anything special.  I stop this morning and thank you from the bottom of my heart for being such an amazing and incredible God and I adore you Jesus.  I know that one day I will close my eyes here and open them there.  Thank you for pursuing me with your Holy love....,

For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, a craving for everything we see, and pride in our achievements and possessions. These are not from the Father, but are from this world. And this world is fading away, along with everything that people crave. But anyone who does what pleases God will live forever...., 1 John 2:17-18
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