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6.8.2006 - Chapter 6 The Atmosphere of Home

Posted in A Charlotte Mason Companion

  I've been reading and rereading this chapter over the past couple of months, thinking on it, stewing over it, and inspired by it.  I just couldn't seem to find the time to get a few thoughts about it written down.  I still don't have a lot of time... but we got home late last night and the house is still quite this morning, I'll let them sleep in while I think heavy thoughts...

  "There is, of course, more to atmosphere than fresh bread baking in the oven (though there is nothing quite like that aroma...), white ruffled curtains fluttering in a sunny breeze (no white ruffles here, but at least most of our windows actually have curtains...), and red geraniums on the window sill (coleus and salvia here... the geraniums will be in the large pots sitting by the break in the fence along the driveway...)" (words in parentheses mine...)
  I have spent a couple of years trying to get a handle on the actual physical elements of making our house a home, pleasant atmosphere and all.  I have by no means reached any housekeeping or homemaking zenith, but things have come a long way... the mantel and piano top have been decluttered and are kept mostly dusted... I put up curtains in vivid colors, wow, did that change a couple of rooms!  I've actually planted flowers in the flower boxes out front a couple of years in a row now (they sat empty but for the dry dirt for the first couple of years after we moved here...)  We try to stay on top of the dishes every day and vacuum the great room nearly every day (dark brown carpet- every crumb shows, even without the blacklight- just kidding, no blacklights here, lol!)
  But even if I were to achieve that zenith, that magazine cover of a home in terms of physical atmosphere... that's just not the essence of the home atmosphere I'm shooting for.

  I want the atmosphere of my home to give my children "a regular feeding of ideas through sweeping tales of history, wonderful inventions and discoveries in science, lives of great men and women, stories that radiate the moral life as well as paintings, plays, Psalms, poems, symphonies- and everything else wonderful we can think of."
  We do try to read a lot of 'sweeping tales of history' (Henty, Daugherty, Fritz, etc...), as well as biographies of scientists and missionaries.  We listen to and attempt to learn to play great music.  We read and memorize poetry and Scripture.
  But there is yet more to the atmosphere of the home.

  "A child draws inspiration from the casual life around him.  The thought of any of our poor words and ways being a daily influence on a child should make the best of us want to hold our breath."  The best of us?!  What about the rest of us? Hold our breath and hide in the bathroom?  'Any of our poor words'- how many poor words a day on average does it take to ruin a child?  I'm sure I have too many most days- short answers, impatient tone, or worse- condescending and critical.  And what about our poor ways?  Even if I could manage to keep from uttering anything negative there is always my daily struggle with idleness, sloppiness, carelessness... to think of that being a regular, almost constant influence on them day after day, month after month, year after year, gasp!  "There is no way of escape.  We are inspirers..." "here (the atmosphere of home) he derives those enduring ideas which express themselves as a life-long kinship towards things sordid or things lovely, things earthly or divine."  Oh, may I point my children in such a way that they choose the lovely and divine!

  As Charles Spurgeon said "When a home is ruled according to God's word, angels might be asked to stay with us, and they would not find themselves out of their element."  Lofty ideal, I'm not there yet.... but I am encouraged by the thought that "we may not reach our ideals, but it is our fervent, faithful reaching towards them that matters greatly."

  This is already long, there'll have to be a part 2 as there is more food for thought in Chapter 6!  In the meantime, in between time, there is already much to think about as every mother reading this seeks to bless and improve the atmosphere of her home- I know I'm working on mine all the time and it helps to really spend some time thinking about the far reaching effect, good or bad, the atmosphere we create now will have on future generations... I'll leave you with that.
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3.24.2006 - Ideas and Initiative- Chapter 5 Self-Education

Posted in A Charlotte Mason Companion

  "Although children will pick up ideas, they will also run out of them unless they are given a regular supply."  Karen Andreola in A Charlotte Mason Companion, pg. 42.

 

  Her son had picked up "the idea of a numeral representing dots in a particular formation on a cube" on his own, while she was cleaning the kitchen.  My second son picked up the idea of addition all on his own one day counting fingers.  Having never had a formal math lesson (nor much in the way of informal) he declared one day "Hey mom, 4+4 is 8."  I was quite delighted as I watched him count some more fingers, "and 3+3 is 6."  Right again!  I'm not even quite sure where he'd picked up the word 'plus' having never cracked a math book.  Not only had he picked it up, but he knew quite well how to use it.  I was amazed.

  Thinking more about this comment though I am convicted about the regular supply part.  Children do indeed run out of ideas, I did as a child.  Mrs. Andreola goes on to mention that Charlotte (Mason) said that most schools graduate many clever young persons who are lacking initiative.  That was me, clever, but lacking initiative.  Oh, if I could go back and do it all over again, hindsight is 20/20, right?

  My children are naturally quite clever.  I know I'm biased, I think they're cute, too.  I think most children are naturally quite clever, and sadly, most of them will grow up lacking initiative.  So will mine if I neglect to give them a steady diet of ideas.  A worksheet here, a bland textbook there, make for educational malnutrition, and a future void of initiative.

  Not every child is destined to make such a mark on the world as Bill Gates, but I do hope that my children do much more than go along to get along, go with the flow, or simply drift into the background of society with no zest for life.  How many more Bill Gates might be out there having their imaginations drummed out of them day after day sitting in a desk in a room full of other kids being pushed into a mold?  Traditional schools offer little in the way of proper food for an educational diet.  "A child's mind feeds on ideas.  We give him food for thought and expect him to do the thinking."  Most schools give very little food for thought and when they do expect the child to do some thinking it's usually along the line of "how does that make you feel?"

  "We feed upon the thoughts of other minds, and thought applied to thought generates more thoughtfulness.  No one need invite us to reason, compare, imagine.  Like the body, the mind digests its proper food; it must have the labor of digestion or it ceases to function."  It is labor to digest meaty works such as Shakespeare, Josephus, Kipling, Homer, and so many others my children have already been exposed to.  But without that labor the mind would cease to function.  It is so easy to think "this is just going to be over their heads" and shy away from the heavy classics.  My children are far from done digesting many meaty works, but they have been exposed and they've liked what they've tasted and it is my responsibility to feed them more.  That's a big responsibility, and it's one I've taken upon myself as I don't believe the public school system can handle it.  But by the Grace of God, and with the example left for me by women like Charlotte Mason and so many after her successfully implementing her techniques, I will succeed and as a result, my children will succeed. 

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