Aug. 31, 2008 - Is Our Quiver Really Full?
In the past I would have said absolutely, postitively, without a doubt, yes! God just gave me a small quiver. Lately I've not been so sure about that.
Now that Levi is nine-years old, I've been longing for another child. Not a baby though. A 6- to 8-year old boy. Adoption has really been on my heart for the last couple of months.
I know how Audie feels about it, so I didn't bother to bring it up. But the urge kept getting stronger and stronger, so I finally told him and Levi.
They were both very against it at first, but as we talked about it Levi started warming up to the idea. Now he's all for it.
Audie is still very much against it. He has his reasons and I can see his point on all of them.
I told myself that since he's so against it, it can't be God's will for us. But my heart is still heavy with the longing. So I will pray. Pray that if it is God's will, Audie's heart will soften. Pray that He will make His will very clear to both of us.
Comments
Aug. 31, 2008 - try
Posted by 3FoldChord
how about trying the Host A child for 6-12 months, a foreign exchange student (though they are usally not that young) or a child sent here for medical treatment or something. Check into what's going on at your church. when churches have Missionaries or choirs visit, they often need a host family.
Some people just have fluccuating Quivers.... For everything there is a season
Aug. 31, 2008 - Trusting
Posted by neverathomemom
God has placed the calling on your heart. And my thoughts are if your dh is not on board at this time, maybe God would like to use just you. Are you involved with the kids ministries at church? Maybe you're being called to work in the 2nd grade area. Or perhaps something like scouts. God was very specific with your calling. You know it was not a baby. Be open to what He may be needing your servanthood for even if it's not what you were hoping for.
I will pray for His will to be clearly shown to you and dh.
(dh and I would like to add more natural children to our quiver. waiting on the Lord's timing. I am open to foster kids in addition to our own growth but dh is absolutely 100% closed on that idea)
Sep. 1, 2008 - <em>Untitled Comment</em>
Posted by Stacie
Keeter (3FoldChord) - You're right, hosting a child might be an option. A friend of mine has a fresh-air child come live with her family for a couple weeks in the summer. That might be an idea...
neverathomemom - I'm not sure that the idea of ages 6-8 is God's calling, or just a logical choice. I'd want a child that is at an age to be a good playmate for Levi, but still younger than him.
Edited by Stacie on Sep. 1, 2008 at 5:50 AM
Sep. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
We have worked with foster kids, mostly older but others in my family have worked with that age. They may not be what you'd expect especially if you want someone to play with your son.
Sep. 25, 2008 - Catching up with your blog
Posted by Beth
Hi Stacie, I'm catching up on your blog and was struck by this post, especially. Adopting has been on my mind lately too. I've just received information from the state about their adoption process, actually. I hope that, even though adoption may not be in the cards because of Audie's feelings on the matter, you find a way to be involved in kids in a meaningful way. You have so much to offer in terms of caring, compassion and knowledge.
Keep in touch, eh? I don't want to be a time drain on you, but I do really love hearing from you.
Beth (from http://www.momisjustanickname.com)
