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Apr. 10, 2008

Goodnight Nanna!

   I know there are not many people who can say that they still had four grandparents when they got married! I'm one who can say that. My Dad's parents, Nana and Poppy couldn't make the event due to health problems, but they were still alive. And my Grandma and Grandpa were there for the day.

   As a matter of fact, my Grandpa married us and I was wearing my Grandma's wedding dress - 50 years and one month to the day after she wore it!!!

   When McGee was born my Grandma was sick with cancer and she died when he was six months old, but not untill after we had gotten over to spend a couple of months with her. She was ecstatic to meet her Great-Grandson and enjoyed lots of cuddles!!!

   Three years ago when we flew in for Christmas we drove up to Michigan where my Nana and Poppy were in a home and saw them for the first time since the year of our wedding. They got to meet both our boys and we got to be there for their wedding anniversary that year - seventy I think!!

   Then last year Poppy passed away. We were sooo glad we had made the trip out when we flew in that time and got to see them both before they got too bad. My Nanna had Alzhiemers (sp?) and my Poppy was getting bad with Dementia. But they both recognized me and that was nice!

   Yesterday my Mom told me that my Nanna was not doing well and wasn't eating or drinking. This morning she said that my Aunt who lives near by had visited and she was apparently in a coma and her breathing was quite shallow. My Aunt who lives in Florida jumped straight onto a plane to go and say goodbye, but my Nanna went to be with the Lord before she landed.

   I have just spoken to my parents on the webcam. My Dad is upset, but is also very grateful to his new employer who is giving him three days off with pay next week for the funeral!!

   Saturday is Bunny's birthday party, so they will drive out to Michigan on Sunday as the funeral is going to be on Tuesday and then they will drive back on Wednesday so he can be back to work on Thursday. At least that is the plan at the moment.

   Please pray for both of my Aunts at this time too. As well as loosing both of their parents within the past year, they have both been widowed during that time too!!! So they are finding all of this very hard at the moment, as is all of the family. It is tough to loose two grandparents and two uncles in just over a year!

   It is also hard to be so far away from everyone too! I was already upset about missing the birthday celebrations and now this. I don't have many clear memories of Nana as they moved to Florida when I was just four and I only have a handfull of memories from a few brief visits after that.

   One VERY clear memory I do have is of sitting on her lap while she trimmed her 'little trees' as I used to call them - Bonsai. She grew these miniature trees and when I was tiny I would sit in her lap as she reached around me to trim them on the table in front of us. I only recalled this memory a few years ago, and my mother confirmed that I did used to sit on her lap while she tended them, although the family had never mentioned it since. It was special for me to know that it was an actual memory and not just me remembering someone  talking about it.

   Tonight I have sat here and thought that I might just find a garden center tomorrow or this weekend and get myself another bonsai. I say another because I have already killed 2 or 3 of them in the past few years! But I might see if I can find a really hardy variety and a well established one and see if I can make a go of it.

   Anyway, in the fifteen years since I got married I have now gone from four Grandparents to just one. And that one has been fighting a recurring cancer for the past four years or so. He keeps on going to work everyday, despite chemo and everything! He simply says that God still has work for him to do and he will carry on with it till the day God calls him home!

    Grandpa has baffled the Dr's and all the rest of us. I pray that God grants him the health he needs to be able to join us on a little holiday we have booked for September. We are hoping to take him to his mother's birthplace on the French/Swiss border and then on for a weeks holiday in Italy.

   I pray that God grants us that time for my boys to get to really make some memories with their Great Grandpa while they still can. And I wouldn't complain at a few more memories stocked up in my memory banks either!! He is very extra precious to me and when God calls him home, I will be in peices!!!

    I'm sorry that this blog seems to be one prayer request after another at the moment. There just seems to be so much going on! Thanks for sticking it out. I'm sure one of these days I'll blog about something boring, like say - homeschooling???

   But for now I just want to say 'Goodnight Nanna.'

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Apr. 11, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by callmekate
I'll pray for your family. I'm sorry for the losses you have had in such a short time. And I totally understand how hard it is to be so far away and unable to "be there". I hope the Lord brings comfort to those who are hurting.

Curious - did my mention of "bonsai" in my recent blog spur a memory? Or did you write your blog first and then see that I had already mentioned bonsai? It's an odd subject for us both to write about in the same week, isn't it?

I can give you a few hardy tree suggestions to bonsai (remember, I just attended a class!) Mentioned were the jade tree, ficus, brassella(?) (all indoor growing trees) and crab apple. If you use an outdoor tree, it needs to live outdoors. I hope you do get to bonsai soon - it looks like a good stress-reliever!

Take care,
Kate
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Apr. 11, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
I remember meeting your grandparents in Michigan. That would have been 1985-6 maybe??? Michilinda trip. We, too, are amazed at your grandpa's health. He is a very special man - truly a man of God! We will pray that you are able to have that visit!
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Apr. 12, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by drewsfamilytx
What a tremendous loss! I will be praying for you and your family.

Love,
Marsha
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Apr. 12, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by daredhead
I'm sorry for this loss. I'm glad that the boys got to meet them, though. We need to get Gigi to SD to meet her great-grandma. We just haven't had the funds to do so yet. If it's God's will He will make the way.

I said a prayer for your Dad & the family...
Stacey
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Apr. 13, 2008 - <em>Untitled Comment</em>

Posted by franbles99
You know we are praying. Trust all went well for the party and asking the Lord for travelling mercies for your folks.
Sarah

Edited by franbles99 on Apr. 13, 2008 at 8:10 AM
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Apr. 15, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by advancedmaternalage
I will be holding your whole family close to my heart in prayer. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope the September holiday will be very memorable for your boys.
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