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May. 15, 2008
Please Stop This Pain!!!!!!!

Two men were killed in a fiery head-on collision on La 1 south of Golden Meadow, Louisiana.

A flatbed truck driven by ♥ 51-year-old Elgin Lirette Jr., ♥ of Houma, was traveling south near Thomas-Sea’s seafood, police said. The truck was hit head-on by a northbound Toyota pickup truck driven by 21-year-old Jarrod Kiger of Lockport, authorities said.


Neither vehicle had a passenger.


The impact shattered the Toyota’s gasoline tank and damaged two diesel tanks on the flatbed, causing the fuel to spill onto the highway and both vehicles to burst into flames.


Lafourche Fire District No. 3 firefighters put out the fire, which left both drivers severely burned. Both men died at the scene.


District 3 Chief Freddie Guidry said diesel fuel, once ignited, can burn intensely, and the tanks on the flatbed were leaking profusely.


"(Diesel) is hard to get going, but once it gets going, look out," Guidry said.


Guidry said that it is too early to know exactly what caused the fuel to ignite.


"In a wreck like this, you have sparks, you have all kinds of things that can cause ignition," Guidry said.

This is what is left of "My Man's" truck. We literally don't even have a body to bury. My son wanted to view his Daddy's remains and the coroner's office refused him. They said that he would have to get a court order first. So, I told him that if the coroners office felt we shouldn't view it, then we shouldn't. The wrecker yard also didn't want my children to see their Daddy's truck. They had to call the owner himself and convince him to let them see it. They told him that they didn't have a body to see, for him to please let them see his truck so they could have some kind of closer.
   Every evening at 7:00 "My Man" would call me faithfully and we would talk about our days happenings. Well, on Mother's Day I received my call and we talked for only 20 minutes. He told me that he had to let me go cause he knew that he was coming upon a sharp curve up ahead and would need to have both hands on the wheel. So, we hung up and only 10 minutes later, at 7:30 he was killed when a truck crossed the center line and hit him head on. We were told that he was killed instantly, (more than likely from a broken neck.) The other truck busted open "My Man's" diesel tank.  Both trucks were then engulfed in flames. His body was burned beyond recognition. Even his cell phone and car keys were melted to nothing. "My Man" was instantly taken up to be with Jesus. Ever since I began blogging, I would call my husband "My Man" but in that instant he was no longer "My Man". He now only belongs to Jesus. Please continue to pray for my children and grandbabies. Although we are rejoicing in Elgin's homecoming, we are human and my family is hurting so bad. I actually feel like someone has grabbed a hold of my heart, ripped it out of my chest and is slamming it against a brick wall. I feel like it's all a bad nightmare and that I'll wake up any minute and it'll all be over. Please God, let this nightmare be over.

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May. 15, 2008
Dear Josephine
Posted by indygirl at 8:43 AM
My heart is breaking for you.. Faithfully Praying for you and your loved ones..Love you...
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May. 15, 2008
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Posted by DanaB. at 9:00 AM
You don't know me, I am just another Homeschool mom who found out about your family. My family is praying for you. We are so saddened that your famliy has lost their Priest & Provider. There are no words that we can say to ease your pain, only Jehovah Rapha can do that. But, I can't help but think of the fantastic party going on in Heaven now that you husband is home, his real home. He sounds like he was an amazing husband & father. He is complete now, lacking nothing. What a relief that must be, to finally lack nothing. Josephine you are in my prayers and your family also.
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May. 15, 2008
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Posted by cahanbury at 9:01 AM
I want to tell you that you have been a voice of love and encouragement to me many times. I am here for you now; I am praying everyday for you and your whole family.
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May. 15, 2008
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Posted by Jen B at 10:18 AM
Today is my 9 year wedding anniversary. I cannot imagine life without him. I am praying for you today. And giving my husband an extra hug.

http://www.bethouexalted.blogspot.com/
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May. 15, 2008
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Posted by Kinley at 11:15 AM
I am so sorry. I know someday I'll have to face the loss of my husband (he is 18 years my senior) and it terrifies me. You're an amazing woman and God is using you, we don't always see the "why" of things on this side of Glory but someday it will all make sense.
Kristy

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May. 15, 2008
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Posted by Jo at 11:42 AM
Hi, you don't know me but I heard what happened on Narniagirl's blog (http://homeschoolblogger.com/Narniagirl/) and I thought I would come let you know that I am so sorry about the loss of your husband. I will be praying for you and your family. I truly believe that God will use this tragedy to make you stronger and to help encourage other women.

:::Jo:::

PS I thought of this song 'Cry Out to Jesus' by Third Day when reading your post

To everyone who's lost someone they love
Long before it was their time
You feel like the days you had were not enough
when you said goodbye

And to all of the people with burdens and pains
Keeping you back from your life
You believe that there's nothing and there is no one
Who can make it right

There is hope for the helpless
Rest for the weary
Love for the broken heart
There is grace and forgiveness
Mercy and healing
He'll meet you wherever you are
Cry out to Jesus, Cry out to Jesus
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May. 15, 2008
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Posted by Jocelyndixon at 1:47 PM
Oh Jesus, Jesus, I ask that you would lay your hand upon the Dixie family today as they go to the memorial service. I ask that you give Mrs. Lirette peace and comfort in this time of utter heart-ache and despair. I pray that she will cling to you with all her troubles and that you will heal her broken heart. You Lord know the feeling of a broken heart and only you can comfort her. In Jesus' precious and holy name, amen.

Praying for you guys and aching with you. I am so so terribly sorry for your loss. I'm glad that the years he lived on this earth he had such a wonderful family and a marriage that was something great.

Love you all
Jocelyn

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May. 15, 2008
Grieving with you....
Posted by JacqueDixonSoulRestES at 2:00 PM
Josephine,
I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your pain. I told Amanda that I don't know why our family is so close to you in this, but I can't even talk to her about it without getting tears in my eyes and stammering through words.

We are praying for you all. We will continue to pray for you all. I know this will never become easy, but I also know God is in it. He has to be, because you are His and Elgin is his, as are your children.

I am praying for you today as you are at Elgin's memorial service. He is a great man, and he deserves a special memorial.
Please know that there are GREAT BIG HUGS up here in Indiana for you all from the Dixons.
Love,
Jacque
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May. 15, 2008
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Posted by Joycemarie at 4:33 PM
You are in my thoughts and prayers...may God ease your sorrow and pain. I know you are hurting. Hold on to Jesus...He is your only hope.

God Bless,
Joyce
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May. 15, 2008
Just this morning
Posted by SuperAngel at 5:44 PM
I was working at the neighbor's house, weeding and the whole hour and half I was there, I was thinking and praying for you!
I want to pray for you though right now!

Dear Heavenly Father, I want to lift up our dear friends and sisters in Christ, the Dixie's, in prayer as they face their coming life without their beloved father. Please give them Your peace tonite as they say goodbye to him. We thank you for your comfort and love and pray that the Dixie's will rejoice and look forward to seeing their daddy and husband in heaven waiting to hug them again!
Lord, we thank you for giving their daddy and husband to them so that they grew up knowing and loving you. Thank you for the salvation you have given us. Because of that salvation we can look forward to meeting Mr. Dixie again!
Please be with them as they walk through the valley of the shadow of death, not fearing evil, because you are there with them. We love you and thank you for giving us joy in the morning even though there is sorrow in the night.
Jesus, our comforter, please comfort my dear friends tonite.
In Jesus' holy name, I pray. Amen!

HUGS to all the Dixie's!
Love Manda
http://superangelsblog.com
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May. 15, 2008
Dear sister
Posted by Anonymous at 9:33 PM
Oh, my heart goes out to you. I wish that I could hold you in my arms but I know our Lord is holding you right now.
Father I pray that you would strengthen my sister. When we are weak, you are strong in all of your glory. We don't always understand your plan or purpose for us and we know that your ways are not like our ways but I ask that you give my sister a peace during this time that is beyond understanding. Let her feel your presence right now and comfort her and her children. Lord, I pray that every need that she has is met. She will not going lacking in any area of her life whether emotional, physical, spiritual, or financial. Surround her with positive Godly people right now. Those who can build her up and encourage her during this time. Father, I thank you now for answering this prayer as it is already done. In Jesus name. Amen.

Kysha
http://humblemama.blogspot.com
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May. 15, 2008
I'm Praying For You
Posted by Anonymous at 10:05 PM
He healeth the broken in heart and bindeth up their wounds. Psalm 147:3

I pray that God will send His angels of comfort and mercy to be with you in this difficult time.

The bless thee and keep thee. The Lord make His face to shine upon thee and be gracious unto thee. The lift up the light up His countenance upon thee and give thee peace. (Numbers 6:24-26)
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May. 16, 2008
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Posted by Cassydoodle at 10:22 PM
I can only imagine what you are going through at this time. If only I could somehow make the pain go away... I will pray for you and your family!
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