Valley of Laughter School
Jul. 18, 2006
CHARALAMPOS (Greek, meaning, “to shine from happiness”)

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Neuroscientists are measuring pleasure. They suggest that happiness is more than a vague concept or mood; it is real.— The science of happiness by Mike Rudin, series producer, The Happiness Formula

I thought I would write a lighter journal today. My concentration on wars and rumors of wars in yesterday’s blog was heavy-duty. I could easily sink into a morass—and I can’t really do anything to stop the insanity overseas, except pray (and, my friends, prayer is powerful!). Even though thoughts of world events are never far, I’d like to ponder happier times, and happiness, in general, right now. I’d love to be Judy Garland in “The Wizard of Oz” and sing, “Somewhere over the rainbow, skies are blue/ And the dream that you dare to dream, really does some true…”

 

There’s lots to feel happy about. For example, when I turned on my computer this morning and saw the video-feed of  the Space Shuttle Discovery’s successful landing, I thought, “Yippee!” I wonder what goes through the minds of astronauts when their spaceship finally arrives back to Earth.

 

Do you like this photograph?  It’s of our youngest daughter pretending to play a lute. She’s wearing a beautiful pink taffeta dress, quite free-flowing, which makes me think of a lovely Grecian maiden from an ancient era. If teleported to Athens, Lindsea would make friends immediately with the ancient Greek girls, and join them in singing, dancing, and playing lutes. I wouldn’t mind being one of the singers gazing up at the  scrollwork on a Corinthian column and, beyond, into heaven itself.

 

When in Los Angeles, we often enjoy visiting the J. Paul Getty Museum, one of the best conservators of fine art in the world. A couple years ago, we were educated by the special exhibit, Coming of Age in Ancient Greece: Images of Childhood from the Classical Past .

Greek kids loved playing with the same kind of toys children today enjoy: yo yo’s, dolls, board games. If the items under the display were available, my girls would relish bending the doll’s moveable parts, playing games like marbles, knucklebones, dice, and checkers. Isn’t it amazing that these games, most familiar to us, were played more than 2,000 years ago? Some things never change.

 

I’m researching flutes, as my children wish to learn how to play this wind instrument. The local music store is charging more than $500 each for either nickel or silver-plated flutes. Those prices are a bit steep. Buyers can rent-to-own musical instruments, but by the time the interest and other costs are paid, two new flutes could practically be owned.

 

I noticed that e-bay has similar new flutes on sale for just over $100, so I’ll perhaps go that route. A pen pal told me about embellished crystal flutes, which are also nice. Take a look at this website. Wouldn’t it be beautiful to play an ivy-decorated crystal flute?

 

I also came across some stunning wooden flutes created by native American craftsmen. These are works of art, too. Choices, choices!

 

Isn’t it interesting that one of the most famous Bible characters in history, King David, worked at first as a lute-player in King Saul’s courts? Here’s a fascinating website which shares about the types of instruments played in the ancient Middle East. Have you ever heard of any of these: kinnor, sabbeka, minim, machalath, syrinx, ugab, hatsotserah, halil, paamon, toph, sistra?

 

When Lindsea awaited a heart transplant at UCLA Medical Center, a friend of mine, Stacie, visited my daughter in the ICU. She is a beautiful flautist, playing in orchestras, asked to play the flute as a guest musician. Stacie is statuesque, over six feet tall, with an ethereal presence akin to The Lady of Lórien in the movie “Lord of the Rings.” She is a humble lady, never wishing attention drawn to herself, however.

 

When Stacie plays the flute, it is like heaven itself were drawn down. She played the flute for Lindsea in the ICU and nurses stood in their tracks to listen. It was as if a more holy hush filled that trauma-filled section of the hospital. The music stilled my heart and gave more joy to such a sad environment. Lindsea fell asleep soon after Stacie left, as the music relaxed her. 

 I cherished Stacie’s visit, as she was one of the only outside visitors from our hometown. Many people from our community—and actually, around the world-- wrote letters and said they were praying. That was a big blessing to us and made us feel less alone.  Stacie was one of the only ones to make the commitment to actually travel more than 200 miles away to bless us personally. Her friend, Sharon (and now my friend, too) drove her down. Both ladies took me to the Getty Center for lunch.  

At such times when life is dismal and it looks like the tunnel is too long and dark, good friends are the light of the world. God sends such friends to brighten our lives and we, in turn, are to bless others.

 

Selah……   Test your happiness




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Jun. 28, 2006
HAPPY A NEW HOSPITAL WILL BE BUILT IN LOS ANGELES

HAPPY TO HEAR A NEW HOSPITAL IS UNDER CONSTRUCTION IN LOS ANGELES
by Susan L. Friesen 6/28/06


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 The girls at the Renaissance Pleasure Faire, 2006-- meeting a man with a pet greyhound

Photo: Susan L. Friesen 2006

I appreciate all the nice comments by everyone at yahoo 360 and in my mailbox concerning my two little girls' speech at French Hospital to all the people ready to engage in a Heart Walk.

This was the first time Lindsea gave a public speech. Shivan is an old pro already, as she's spoken about her heart transplant to children and teachers at local elementary schools, to the People-Animal-Connection group, and more. Nevertheless, it's been a long time since she spoke before a crowd and she was highly nervous. It didn’t help that Lindsea was given control of the mike and kept nudging it closer and closer to Shivan's mouth, so she thought she was going to get batted with the thing.

It isn't easy to speak in front of a crowd. When I took public speaking in college, the instructor said to stare at the back of the room, or to find a friendly face and keep that smile and affirmation in mind while speaking. Those words served me well when I must speak to a larger group. However, I like to choose a friendly face or two to focus on, rather than look over the heads of people as if they're anonymous or nonexistent.

On a Heart Transplant online group I belong to, someone asked about the new construction at UCLA. I thought I'd share my excitement about the new hospital under construction and about the old hospital still in use.

Lindsea, 9, and Shivan, 11 received their new hearts at Children's Hospital Los Angeles. It is an imposing cluster of buildings built in 1951, composed mostly of clay brick and steel. I'm amazed the hospital withstood earthquakes that leveled a freeway overpass, Cal State Northridge parking garage, and other structures not too many miles from it. It did suffer some damage from the 1994 Northridge earthquake, I understand, so it is not reasonably earthquake- retrofitted or safe.

See the  slideshow of the new UCLA hospital in construction: http://www.magazine.ucla.edu/year2003/winter03_slideshow.html


The girls spent many days in the ICU and patient rooms in the children's wing at UCLA Medical Center. Fortunately, Shivan was able to await her heart outside the hospital. She did spend many days hospitalized at UCLA, too. I was so glad when she was released on Christmas eve for a time. We celebrated the holiday in a hotel room, glad to be together as a family outside hospital walls.

Lindsea lay mostly bedridden, tethered to a metal "tree" strung with all the intravenous tubes or IV's, which delivered life-saving medication. She waited 49 days for her heart transplant, unable to get out of bed except to use a bedside commode, as her heart was weakened and held a blood clot, which threatened to break loose and cause a fatal embolism. She didn't see the outdoors even through a window, as the window behind her bed was inaccessible. She missed seeing green grass, trees, and flowers. I couldn’t bring her a flower from the outside either, as that was banned in the ICU (potential germs). So, all she saw when she opened her eyes was the flurry of nurses, doctors, and others scurrying about on-duty. Sometimes, tragically, she saw an attendant push a box, whose contents were a dead ICU patient. She never asked me what went by and I never offered-up the info, as that would be devastating to hear.

The new hospital is supposed to be more airy, allowing more natural light. It will be the largest building plan undertaken by the University of California. Renowned architect, I.M. Pei and associates are the designers. Pei’s architectural plan was implemented for the new entrance to the Louvre in Paris. He also designed the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in Cleveland, Ohio.

Patients will look out on gardens and green spaces from their more-private rooms. I'm glad to hear that, as the rooms at the old hospital are not at all private. Only a thin fabric drape separates the patient from the next patient.

Best yet, the new hospital will allow family members to sleep bedside in more comfortable chairs. The present reclining bed/chair is like some contraption from a mad scientist's basement. Family members feel zombie-like after multiple attempts to get comfortable in that chair. Worse, family members have no bed/chair to rest in the ICU. They must sit upright in a stiff, metal chair, or try to "sleep" in a family room with bunk beds closer than a military camp's. Only one family member at a time can use those family beds. When our girls were hospitalized, I often slept scrunched-up on my van seat in the hospital parking lot. I couldn’t sleep in the hospital itself with all the beep-beeping of machinery, bright lights, and constant attendance of nurses and others on-duty tending to our girls or other patients. A hospital is a perpetually noisy environment.

The new hospital will be named for the venerable President Ronald Reagan. It will be called the Ronald Reagan UCLA Medical Center. I'm happy to hear that news, as I admire so much what Reagan did for the world. Recently, my girls and I toured the Ronald Reagan Presidential Library in Simi Valley, CA. Impressive were all that Reagan did diplomatically and economically in the “glasnost” era. He worked tirelessly to combat Communism and totalitarian regimes.  One of these days I must compose a blog about why I think Reagan was one of our finest U.S. Presidents. I hope I don’t offend too many of you by stating this.

I thought the hospital would open this year, but I guess it will take another year or so to finally open. The last I read, the hospital will cost more than $702 million to build. Since the hospital wasn’t built by the original timeframe, 2004, certainly the cost overruns will comprise a billion-plus, when all is said and done.  The Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA)is providing $432 million (earthquake relief) and the State of California will kick-in another $44 million or more. The remaining funds must be raised through private gifts and bonds.

Have you ever spent the night in a hospital? Care to share your experiences?



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Jun. 28, 2006
I AM PROUD MY GIRLS GAVE THE IMPORTANT SPEECH

MY GIRLS GIVE AN IMPORTANT SPEECH, June 26, 2006
French Hospital, San Luis Obispo, CA
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Photo of Lindsea and Shivan at Huntington Library and Gardens.Both gave a good speech tonight at French Hospital in San Luis Obispo, California.
Photo: Susan L. Friesen 2005


I received a call the other day from a representative of the American Heart Association. Someone in the Los Angeles chapter had my youngest daughter down as a referral to speak at events. I must've submitted my name to the AHA some time ago and forgot about it. In any case, I was asked if my girls could speak at a Kick Off Party for a Heart Walk. In September, hundreds of people will gather to walk to raise funds for the American Heart Association.

I was proud of my girls tonight. Lindsea and Shivan are only 9 and 11, but they spoke to about 30-40 adults in attendance. At first, Shivan choked-up seeing the crowd of gazing faces. I told her to just look at her paper and read it and not be afraid of the folks there. She softened and read her speech, while Lindsea held the microphone. Sometimes Lindsea held the mike too close to Shivan's mouth, though. I held the mike when Lindsea gave her speech.

Perhaps you'd like to read what the girls said to the group:

Hi. My name is Shivan Friesen.  I got sick in the fall of 2000. I was six years old. At first the doctors thought it was walking ammonia (I corrected this for Shivan-- should be "pneumonia" lol!), but when they looked at my heart they knew I had a heart disease. Only 7% of my heart was functioning  correctly. The doctors were amazed I was alive. 

 

It was hard in the ICU, especially the medications iron and magnesium. They were so disgusting. The other things that kept me awake in that place was the nurses! I was near a room at the very back of the ICU that held VERY sick people, and all night long the nurses would check on the guy in it, and the door would slam and the nurses would talk and laugh and leave the light on in the hallway and everything.

 

In the hospital at UCLA there is a program where dogs visit sick patients and give comfort. The dogs were brought to me and placed on my bed in the ICU.  I sure appreciated all the dog visitors with the People-Animal Connection group.

 

These are some of the dogs that visited and cheered me up in the ICU:

 

Kolya—Grand Pyrenees, the same kind of dog that helped save stranded people in Switzerland

 

Mollie, a Labrador retriever
 

 

Today I’m feeling fine. Twice a day I take medications to help prevent organ rejection.

 

I feel fortunate to continue feeling well with my new heart five years later. I received my heart transplant in 2001.  I was even able to meet my heart donor, a boy who died at age 13, Shane Rooney. His name, Shane, is even a variation of my Irish name, Shivan. Shivan is the female equivalent of Shane.


Shane grew up in the same town as my mom. In fact, my mom went to school with Shane’s uncle. Isn’t it a small world?

 

My sister and I have become involved in the U.S. and World Transplant Games. These are Olympic style games held once a year. Last year, we competed in London, Ontario, Canada. Just last week, I won a gold and silver medal in swimming in the U.S. Transplant Games in Kentucky. We hope to raise funds to go to Bangkok, Thailand for the World Transplant Games next year.

 

I am thankful to all the doctors, nurses, and researchers who have made it possible for me to receive a heart and to stay healthy.

 

I thank God for the decision my donor family made to give me a heart.

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Lindsea’s speech

I had the same illness as my older sister, Shivan. Two years after she fell ill with some mystery virus, I got the same thing. My heart ballooned more than twice its normal size.

I was taken by ambulance to UCLA Medical Center. There I had to wait 49 days for a new heart. I wasn’t able to leave the ICU because a huge blood clot stayed in my left ventricle.

 

My heart condition is called dilated cardio---my—o--pathy. It’s where the heart dilates, or grows larger. Some people live on medication for this, but others need transplants. There was nothing that could be done for my heart. I couldn’t leave the hospital without a new heart.

 

I really loved the dog visitors though the PAC Program, too. My favorite dog was Tova. She is a long-haired dachshund. She was so beautiful and even had the same fur color as my hair color. Mom took a picture of Tova and I and the picture went on the cover of the PAC booklet.

 

I am happy to have my new heart, too. I would have died without a transplant.

 

It was fun to attend the transplant games. I won a silver medal in bowling. I would have won a gold medal, but the winner kept taking my ball and getting it sweaty. I also won a silver medal in swimming.

 

I’m thankful for my new heart. I have to take medicine three times a day.



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May. 9, 2006
WAITING ROOMS by Susan Friesen

 

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 Ken won’t need hand surgery after all. He visited an orthopedic specialist today. I drove Ken to the doctor’s appointment. Alaina, our middle daughter, came along, as she had an appointment an hour after her Dad’s. It feels weird to drive my husband around. I guess it’s the typical stereotype that women are usually the passengers. It hearkens back to my growing-up days. I NEVER saw my mom drive my Dad around. One time I took him to the ER after he sliced-up his hand; but halfway there, he said to get out and let him drive the rest of the way in. What a memory.

 

We got to the appointment a few minutes late. I filled-out Ken’s paperwork, as he’s right-handed and can’t do much but scribble with his messed-up hand. My hand felt a bit out-of-joint after filling-out four pages of medical history. By the time one enters all that data, it feels like “Big Brother” knows every private detail about our lives, but in a sense that’s true. The medical info is supposed to be private, though.

 

While in the waiting room, I noticed a paper tacked on the wall. It showed that Dr. David Book will be out of the office all summer as he’ll bicycle across the United States. I asked him about that later on and he said he’s taking this trip with his brother and it’s something they talked about doing for years.

 

Dr. Book studied the x-rays and decided the broken ring finger knuckle will heal. He carefully placed three pieces of tape around two fingers, leaving space at the knuckles. About a week or so, Ken should be able to bend the fingers. For now, he’s still in excruciating pain at times, especially when he inadvertently bangs the swollen finger on something. He had a metal splint on the finger after leaving the emergency room, but Dr. Book removed it.

 

It’s interesting how quickly bone heals. Dr. Book said that after only three weeks, the finger will move fine and will even be stronger than before, as the fracture heals and builds more bone atop it. He’ll even feel that his finger is more knobby than before.

 

The orthopedist appointment didn’t last long. I drove us to McDonald’s and we enjoyed a nice time together relaxing at a booth. Ken and I hadn’t had our caffeine fix yet. McDonald’s has a newer gourmet coffee that’s a lot better than the harsh concoction they used to dispense. Interestingly, even after that lawsuit where the woman sued McDonald’s because the coffee was too hot and scalded her, we noticed the coffee is still super-hot. It takes a long time for the brew to cool. I think it’s a cost-saver. Most people are in too much of a hurry to wait for the coffee to cool, so they won’t get a refill.

 

We got to Alaina’s appointment on time. She had two x-rays taken to create a panoramic x-ray. She also had two molds taken of her mouth. She said it felt like the dental tech placed playdough in her mouth and let it harden. The bottom mold was hard to pull-out as it set too long, so that bothered her. In early June, we’ll find out if Alaina will need years of work to correct her crossbite and underbite, or will wait to have surgery as a teenager.

I see prominent dollar signs and more bills ahead.

While waiting, I noticed a funny thing—a Cabbage Patch doll wearing a retainer. I went back to the car to retrieve my throwaway camera. My immediate thought was that doll would make a good picture for a future blog. LOL!

 




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Apr. 22, 2006
AM I A TREE HUGGER YET?

AM I A TREE HUGGER YET?
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Photo of my three daughters enjoying a fun time flinging leaves into the air.    Copyright 2006 Susan L. Friesen

 

I'd like to go by climbing a birch tree
And climb black branches up a snow-white trunk
Toward heaven, till the tree could bear no more,
But dipped its top and set me down again.
That would be good both going and coming back.
One could do worse than be a swinger of birches.

--stanza from the poem “Birches” by Robert Frost


Happy is the man ... his delights is in the law of the Lord,
and on his law he meditates day and night.  He is like a
tree planted by streams of water, that yields its fruit in
its season, and its leaf does not wither.
-   Psalms 1: 1-3

I love trees and leaves. When I was a kid and teenager, I used to collect leaves from various trees and tape them into my “Leaf Book.” I became known for this in high school and students would even save leaves for me from their national and international travels, so I could add their leaves in special book. Sadly, no one taught me the proper way to affix and preserve leaves, so, in time, many turned discolored, brittle, or disfigured.

 

By the time I got to college, I put away “childish things” and didn’t take my leaf books with me. My parents must’ve dumped the collection, as I never saw the books again.

 

When I attended my 30-year high school reunion, a couple people asked me if I still had my leaf collection. I’d forgotten all about that hobby. It brought back a wave of nostalgia of all the fun I had finding the various leaves. I didn’t just collect tree leaves, but leaves from herbs, bushes, and weeds. 

 

One memory, though, wasn’t so happy. I found some skunkweed and proceeded to tape a clump of it in my book, not knowing what it was, but realizing many leaves I found were quite pungent.  Our family was vacationing at my grandma’s place by a lake. She started asking, “What’s the stinky smell?” I told her about finding the strong-smelling plant, but didn’t know what it was. She found my book, told me to get rid of the page with the stinky skunkweed.
 

 I still study leaves when I head to a new place. I love botanical gardens, so I can discover the names of unfamiliar trees and plants. Huntington Library and Gardens is good about posting labels, so I’ve learned about many new trees. You can see the various gardens like Japanese Garden, Palm Garden, Jungle Garden at this website.

 

One of my favorite trees is the giant redwood -- Sequoiadendron giganteum, Giant Sequoia, or Sierra Redwood. I’m amazed that the world’s largest tree has some of the smallest pinecones. Its girth is humongous.

 

We are part-owners in a resort called R-Ranch in the Sequoias. Not far from this ranch is one of the southernmost stands of giant sequoias at “Trail of 100 Giants.” President Clinton even traveled to this grove during his term, walking the ½ mile loop trail.  Info:

 

Trail of a Hundred Giants is located within the Long Meadow Giant Sequoia Grove, the second most southern grove where giant sequoias are found. The Grove contains 125 giant sequoias over 10 feet in diameter and 143 sequoias under10 feet in diameter. The largest tree in the grove has a diameter of 20 feet and is 220 feet in height. The grove encompasses 355 acres. It is estimated the age of the trees in the grove are between 500 to 1,500 years old.

 

I like this quote:

 

How many times, really, can you wander through a patch of redwoods and be silenced by the sheer beauty of these 2,500-year-old things? How many times does staring at a tree that was around when the Romans ruled the world make your life seem irrelevant? How many times can you be flat-out amazed by the sheer tenacity of redwoods to survive for 25 centuries?

 

For your info, the redwood is not the oldest tree in the world. Another tree in California holds that distinction, the bristlecone pine. I would like to see that tree someday. It’s lived a millennia longer than any other tree. It’s gauged by tree ring analysis these trees are about 5,000 years old.

 

I’ve been a passenger in a car that went through the middle of a redwood tree. See this website to see what I experienced. And here's another good photograph of a drive-through redwood.

 

Other interesting tidbits about trees—quotes, poems, miscellania:

 

Tree lover extraordinaire, Henry David Thoreau  (1817-1862):

I frequently tramped eight or ten miles through the deepest snow
to keep an appointment with a beech-tree,
or a yellow birch, or an old acquaintance among the pines.

 

Identifying trees

 

America’s National Tree: the oak

Quote from the proclamation making the oak the national tree of the U.S.:
The United States is blessed with a wealth of tree species--more than twice as many as all of Europe--and trees have played a key role in our nation’s history. Naming a national tree is a cause for celebration for us all.
 

Tree poetry 

Robert Lee Frost (March 26, 1874January 29, 1963) was an American poet. Frost received four Pulitzer Prizes among other honors.

I shared an excerpt of “Birches.” Here’s the rest of the poem.

 

I also like  Frost's poem, “Tree at My Window

 

One of my favorite poets, William Blake

(November 28, 1757 – August 21, 1827. Read the poem A Poison Tree

Look  at these beautiful  photos of Redwood National Park

What is your favorite tree and a memory associated with it?

Hugs, Susan

 

 




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Apr. 22, 2006
MUSIC LESSONS

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My three girls, seen pictured here at a beautiful koi pond,  are excited about taking flute lessons.
photo, c. 2006, Susan L. Friesen

Our three daughters want to learn a musical instrument. Soon, I’ll restart piano lessons with them, teaching them myself. They will take flute lessons with a friend, Staci, a wonderful flautist. When Lindsea awaited a heart transplant at the UCLA Mattel Children’s Hospital’s ICU, Staci  played the flute by her bedside. She literally stopped the traffic of ICU nurses, standing and listening to her play. Her magical flute calmed the patients and nursing staff alike.

 

The girls were going to start music lessons a few years ago, but when our youngest daughter also fell mysteriously ill  and required a new heart like her oldest sister, all the plans and dreams were put on hold.

 

Now the time seems right to get the girls into music lessons. They’re 9, 10, and 11, mature enough to sit through the lessons, do homework, and take pride in the instrument.

 

Flutes can be very expensive. Lindsea, 9, and I visited a music store yesterday. The salesman showed me three different flutes—two silver-plated ones, one nickel-plated. The price range was about $550.00.

 

I need to talk to Staci and find out more about what’s the best instrument to start out. Some flutes I saw online are quite reasonable, less than $100 for wood flutes made by native Americans. I’m sure I can probably purchase used instruments, too, but I’d want to be sure the instruments are in great shape before I buy anything pre-owned.

 

I took piano lessons as a child and came to love the instrument very much. My skills are pretty rusty now as I rarely play, but I’d like to get better at it again. The music store salesman gave me the name of a piano tuner, so that is on the list to do this summer.

 

Listen to this clip of  native American flute -playing ...

and this one,  and another....

 

 

Did you take music lessons as a child?  If so, do you still play the instrument now?




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Apr. 22, 2006
A SWIMMER'S STAMINA

A SWIMMER'S STAMINA
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Alaina, proud of her swimming abilities
Photo:  Susan L. Friesen, c. 2006

Two of our daughters are competitive swimmers with the Santa Maria Swim Club—Shivan, 11; Alaina, 10. It’s quite an undertaking to become an athlete—stamina, patience, perseverance, sociability. To remain on the team, one needs to attend regularly, put-out effort, compete in swim meets.

 

Today I got up early and drove Alaina to a swim competition in a town about 30 miles north. I went through a drive-in restaurant to get her some beef and bean breakfast burritos, hash browns, and orange juice. Athletes need good nutrition, as they expend lots of energy.

 

We got to the invitational on time. I found a good spot to set-up my folding chair, so I had a solid view of the pool. The sky looked menacing, so I was wise to bring an umbrella. Later on, it did rain. The swimmers didn’t care: they were getting wet anyway.

 

Alaina was in five events and a relay race. Her first two events saddened her, as she was disqualified. In the first race, her goggles fell down her face, cutting off air to her nose. She stood up to readjust the goggles, but pushed-off with her feet—a no-no. The second race, she did some maneuver in the flip turn that disqualified her. This was one of her first swim meets, so she felt pretty humiliated. Coach Cathy is a great motivator, though, and said that all swimmers are disqualified now and again. That boost helped her do well the remaining events.

 

Some enterprising salesmen had swim gear available—not cheap at all. I purchased racing goggles for Alaina, which set me back $15, but it’s worth it, as they felt good on her. The other goggles didn’t stay on when she dove from the blocks. These higher-priced goggles are meant to stay on during dives.

 

Unlike most swimmers, Alaina loves the butterfly stroke.  “The fly” is considered a more difficult stroke. The swimmer looks like a human dolphin, as the back arches. Learning to propel one’s body that way is tough, as it takes good shoulder strength. Click-on some of these images to see what it looks like.  See this website, too, to learn how the stroke is done.

 

I take the girls to swim practice almost six days a week now. One or both girls swims most days of the week. The club holds many mini meets and is involved in quite a few longer invitations, too.  Tomorrow, Sunday, we head back again, needing to be at the pool by 8:30.

 

It’s been a good thing for the girls, even though it is grueling, hard work. They’ve made some good friends, are stronger physically and mentally, and look forward to the competitions.

 

So long as they keep a good attitude and want to be in competitive swimming, I’ll support their efforts. It’s a lot for the parents, too, as they need to root their kids on, pay for much swim gear and the monthly dues (the dues alone run us $90 a month).

 

My brother was a competitive swimmer in high school and ended-up getting a scholarship for his butterfly stroke capabilities. I never joined the swim club, as I preferred bodysurfing in the ocean and disliked chlorinated pools.

 

It’s good that the girls are finding a sport that interests them. Our youngest daughter wants to join the Swim Club this year, too.

 

Are you a good swimmer?




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Apr. 15, 2006
My FAVORITE MOVIE

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I’d like to plant The Judy Garland Rose in my backyard Rose Garden.

 

Suzygirl asked bloggers what their favorite movie movie. She shared about “Casablanca” (1942).  I’ve never seen it, but it sounds romantic, and I’d like to see the Moroccan landscape.

 

My favorite movie is "Wizard of Oz” (1939). I just love all the different characters in it, like The Munchkins, the main Oz characters, The Wicked Witch of the East, and The Wizard of Oz himself. My second favorite movie is "Fiddler on the Roof" (1971).

 

I even purchased a “Wizard of Oz” calendar this year. The scene for this month, April, shows Dorothy Gale succumbing to the brain-numbing effects of the scent of opium poppies.

 

My favorite scene in the movie is Dorothy wanting her dog to come in the hot air balloon back to Kansas with her. She wailed, “Toto, too!” In my childhood years, I owned a dog like Dorothy’s pet dog, Toto, a cairn terrier.

 

Judy Garland (born Frances Ethel Gumm on June 10, 1922. I’m glad she had a different stage name) played Dorothy. I believe that other than Shirley Temple, Garland was the most beautiful child actress—such raw innocence and happiness sculpted in one person. As a child, I saw Judy Garland perform at The Carousel theater (now gone) in L.A. County.

 

I appreciate this commentary about Garland’s legend:

 

In the years since her untimely death on June 22nd, 1969, Judy Garland's popularity continues to increase, thanks to most of her work being preserved on CD and DVD for the public to enjoy. She will always be remembered as the greatest female film musical star of the 20th Century, as well as the greatest female concert performer. And to most, she'll also be remembered has having one of the greatest, if not THE greatest, voices of the century.

 

I like this quote that I read on this website “Spiritual-ozity”

 

Another very popular theme in The Wizard of Oz has to do with the virtues of wisdom, benevolence, and courage. These three virtues are 'universal' and are highly regarded in many cultures and religions including: Native American Indians, Christianity, Orthodox faiths, Shintoism, Eastern philosophies, Sun Tzu's Art of War, the writings of Socrates and Aristotle, and many others. The reason why they are so important is because they embody moral values and belief systems that most people strive to achieve.

 

I love the song that plays in the background as Dorothy and friends approach The Emerald City of Oz:

 

You're out of the woods

You're out of the dark
You're out of the night

 

Step into the sun
Step into the light
Keep straight ahead for


The most glorious place
On the face
Of the earth or the sky

 

Hold onto your breath
Hold onto your heart
Hold onto your hope


March up to the gate
And bid it open—

 

This song symbolizes Heaven for me—how it must feel to approach the heavenly gates and leave the darkness of Earth behind. Everyone comes to the movie bringing their own spiritual interpretation. That’s why the movie crosses all cultural and religious boundaries. People of all ages and faiths relate to the themes in the movie like the return to home (can one ever go “home” again?), reaching Oz (or Nirvana for some; Heaven for others), passing through tests and hurdles (almost like the weary travelers in John Bunyan’s Pilgrim’s Progress).

Here are some favorite facts about the movie.

These are cool pictures—Oz fans in costume

Down the Yellow Brick Road—an “Ozzy” Journey Across America

Languages Oz has been translated into

A Wizard of Oz picture story

A printable: Wizard of Oz word search

Garland commentary

Lovely line from the film—

Glinda, The Good Witch of the North, tells Dorothy:

 

Then close your eyes and tap your heels together three times ... and think to yourself,"There's no place like home; there's no ..."

If you appreciated this blog, email me a Wizard of Oz postcard?
Email to: dolphin_dancer@comcast.net


Comment here, if you would:
What is your favorite movie--- and why?

Susan



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Apr. 15, 2006
WRITE ON!

WRITE ON! by Susan L. Friesen, c. April 10, 2006
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I passed by these waterfalls and koi pond each day during the Maui Writers Retreat and Conference. Sometimes I’d gaze into the water, mesmerized by the beautiful koi, ferns, and the nearby banyan trees. Ah! The writer’s life for me… Photo: c. Susan L. Friesen 2005

 

Have you ever considered attending a writer’s conference? Last year, I was accepted to attend the Maui Writers retreat and conference in Kihei, Hawaii. I actually was blessed to attend two retreats with the Maui Writers--an Alaskan Writers Cruise in May, then the Maui Writers experience in September.

 

Since you are accomplished blogger, you’re a published writer already!  Maybe you’d like to attend a writer’s conference? Submit a two-page writing sample (your best-written blog?), then wait a few weeks to see if you are accepted to the Maui Writers Convention for Fall 2006. Only a certain number of writers are chosen each year. If you go, you’ll never regret the experience of learning from New York Times Book Award winners, other best-selling novelists, and nonfiction writers. Meeting other aspiring and published writers from worldwide is a heady experience.

 

Here’s a short list of some of the lecturers and keynote speakers I especially enjoyed at last year’s conference: Ridley Pearson, Sam Horn, Karen Joy Fowler, Jacquelyn Mitchard, Jane Hamilton, John Saul, John Timpane, David Fryxell, Elizabeth Engstrom, Chris Vogler, Jennifer Crusie, and Tess Gerritsen.  If you’re looking for good summer reading, I’d suggest picking-up a book of any of these author’s novels or nonfiction..

 

My mentor, Katherine Ramsland, professor of forensic psychology and published writer of twenty-five books, led a small group of writers, including myself, in intensive writing exercises at the Wailea Marriott Resort in Kihei, Hawaii.  She also instructed us for five days while we cruised through Alaska’s Inland Passage.

 

Ramsland is a fascinating writer—co-writing a book on the criminal mind,  The Unknown Darkness , with former FBI profiler, ; publishing biographies of Anne Rice  and Dean Koontz; living with a vampire cult and writing books about vampirism and cemetery stories; more.

 

My fellow writers were an eclectic bunch: a professional percussionist, a published writer of books on alpacas, a wastewater management engineer and writer of books on the paranormal, an equestrian center owner, and more. We became a tight-knit group after spending a week sequestered with one another and critiquing each other’s writing.

 

I received positive criticism to keep working on my book about my two daughters’ heart transplants. Professional writers, even a publisher, sounded interested in my story, but I need much more work to finish such a massive project. I wonder if the general public would be interested in such a subject. 


Ramsland suggests I start with magazine articles, then move to a larger book project. However, literary agents suggested otherwise--submit a book-length manuscript.  At this point, as I maintain a busy schedule as a homeschooling mother, I think that Ramsland’s suggestion is more manageable.

 

What do you think? Would you ever purchase a medical memoir?




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Apr. 15, 2006
Mai Huli O`e I Kokua O Ke Ka. Respect the Ocean

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I photographed these surfers in Maui, Hawaii
Photo: Susan L. Friesen, c. 2006

Let's go surfin' now
Everybody's learning how
Come on and safari with me (Come on and safari with...)

Early in the morning we'll be startin' out
Some honeys will be coming along
We're loading up our Woody
With our boards inside
And headin' out singing our song
Come on (surfin') baby wait and see (surfin' safari)
Yes I'm gonna (surfin') take you surfin' (surfin' safari)with me
Come along (surfin') baby wait and see (surfin' safari)
Yes I'm gonna (surfin') take you surfin' (surfin' safari)with me

Surfin' Safari by Brian Wilson/Mike Love of The Beach Boys

 

 

I grew up in “Surf City, USA,” Huntington Beach, California from 1967-1981. I lived less than ½ mile from the beach. The Beach Boys, a local group, were one of my favorite bands. I saw them live once, with Santana as the opening act. I also loved the song, “Wipe Out” by The Surfaris. It’s sad that group never got the royalties they deserved.

 

 In high school, I used to take my homework onto one of the lifeguard stands during the off-season (in summer, lifeguards would take-over “my” stand). I’d read required reading while listening to the pounding surf and feeling the wind blow across my body. Often, I’d jump into the water and bodysurf the waves. I was one of the few females out bodysurfing year-round. I didn’t wear a wetsuit, as my body got used to the cold water. In summer, it was actually refreshing to jump into the cool sea.

 

Now I’m “sissified” and rarely jump into the ocean, except on occasional hot summer days. I still love to swim past the surf, though, and tread water or float on my back. The last time I tried bodysurfing was in Venice Beach near Los Angeles. The waves, like a swirling washing machine set on agitate, twisted my body under surging foam. I thought I wouldn’t reach air, as the surf was that strong and held me under. It took a long time to make it back to shore, where I lay on my beach towel, spent.

 

Ocean water in California is quite cold, as the California Current brings-in cold water from northern waters. I much prefer swimming in Hawaii or a tropical sea somewhere, where I can just jump in and feel comfortable. But there’s something healthy about the feeling of seawater, and the ebbing and flowing. I love to float on my back and feel the sea undulate beneath me, watch clouds roll past, or look at the surge of people on shore and the hilly backdrop. I’ve even had lifeguards get their surfboards and come out to “save me,” but I tell them I’m just enjoying the time past the waves and I can swim just fine.

 

I never did learn to surf. I tried one summer day during high school. Someone loaned me their heavy woody board and told me how to stand on the board and “Hang 10.” I did all right in the beginning, even stood up on the board and felt the foam push me along a few feet. But on the second try, I put too much weight on the front of the board and it careened back, flipped upright, and smacked down on my head. I barely made it to shore, feeling dizzy, almost losing consciousness. That was the last time I ever tried to surf. (Mai Huli O`e I Kokua O Ke Ka. Respect the Ocean)

 

I’d like to learn how to surf, though, before I’m too old. One of these days I’d like to try again. Also, I’d like to get better at ocean kayaking and purchase a kayak someday.  I’ve watched kayakers paddle their vessels into an ocean cave in Shell Beach, California, and it looks like so much fun. My oldest son and I learned to ocean kayak in a double kayak in Freeport, Bahamas a few years ago. It was a great experience listening to the male cicadas sing while we paddled through the mangrove.

 

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Apr. 11, 2006
FIELD TRIP TO LA CASA DE DANA AND TONOS MEXICAN RESTAURANT

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Photo: Vaquero rustling cattle for branding


We took a field trip with other homeschoolers to La Casa de Dana, commonly known as “Dana Adobe” in Nipomo, California.


The adobe was named after a very colorful man, William Goodwin Dana (1797- 1858). Dana, born in 1797 in Boston, grew up to become a Yankee sea captain. At age 18 he joined his uncle at sea, navigating to Canton, China and Calcutta, India. He also later traded with the Mexican “Californios,” those in the Sandwich Islands (now known as Hawaii), and in South America.


After settling on the central coast to hunt sea otters, he met and married a beautiful Mexican senorita, Maria Josefa Carillo. He applied for and was granted Mexican citizenship in 1835. Fortunately, he was able to purchase one of the original Mexican land grants, a rancho totaling more than 37,000 acres in modern-day Nipomo in San Luis Obispo County.


A docent told us that on a quiet day, one could hear the church bells ring more than 20 miles away at Mission San Luis Obispo de Tolusa from the Dana rancho. Back in the 1800’s, the area was sparsely populated. Even grizzly bears roamed the scene.


If you also love history and want to read more about the adobe and Captain Dana, be sure and check-out the material online.


For our homeschool tour, we met with about a dozen other students and moms, and took an individualized tour through the Dana Adobe. Docents dressed in period costume took us around the renovated home and the grounds.



We learned this and more:


About different brands on California ranchos and the California Spanish Missions


How to make homemade flour tortillas. Info about beef jerky. Cornbread preparation. We sampled the tortillas and jerky.


Chumash Rock Art. The girls painted Chumash Indian symbols on ocean rocks.


A tour of the Dana Adobe, including the captain’s quarters, girls’ room, cocina (kitchen), and living room.


A visit to see two miniature burros


Fandango (dance lesson)


I purchased some Dana Adobe honey (produced on the rancho) and a book co-written by Captain Dana’s direct ancestor, Rocky Dana, The Blond Ranchero: Memories of Juan Francisco Dana as told to Rocky Dana and Marie Harrington (1960).


Interestingly, Dana and Maria Josefa had 21 children. Only 13 lived to adulthood. People often remark to me that I have a big family because I’m a mom of 5, and joke that I must be either Mormon or Catholic (I’m neither). But look at the size of big families in the olden days!


After the tour, I stopped alongside the road and took pictures of the girls in a field filled with wildflowers. I don’t know what kind of flowers they were, except for the California golden poppies. Alaina took my picture, too. When the photos are developed, I’ll share some with you all, if you’d like, and the Dana Adobe pix, too.


We had lunch at Tono’s Mexican restaurant in Nipomo. Shivan and Alaina ordered two soft tacos with grilled chicken. Lindsea ordered a crunchy chicken taco and beef taquitos. I chose a cheese enchilada, chili relleno, and crunchy chicken taco. The entrees came with homemade beans and rice. The girls and I loved the salsa—with lots of cilantro. The tortilla chips were freshly-made and delicioso.


Except for one woman coming in to pick-up a to-go order, the girls and I were the only customers in the restaurant. We liked having the place to ourselves. I enjoyed chatting with the waitress and learned she worked two jobs and attended junior college, too. She got up at 4:30 a.m. to start her first job. Now that’s dedication!


I’ll leave you with this interesting factoid about Captain William G. Dana:


In 1828, Captain Dana built a schooner on the coast near Santa Barbara at a place which still bears the name, Goleta, the Spanish word for schooner. This was probably the first seagoing vessel ever launched in California.



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Apr. 4, 2006
I DON'T NEED TO LOSE MY HEART IN SAN FRANCISCO


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I Left My Heart in San Francisco

Sung by Tony Bennett, Tony Bennett
Words by Douglass Cross and Music by George Cory

 

The loveliness of Paris seems somehow sadly gay
The glory that was Rome is of another day
I've been terribly alone and forgotten in Manhattan
I'm going home to my city by the Bay

I left my heart in San Francisco
High on a hill, it calls to me
To be where little cable cars climb halfway to the stars
The morning fog may chill the air, I don't care

My love waits there in San Francisco
Above the blue and windy sea
When I come home to you, San Francisco
Your golden sun will shine for me

 

In June, my daughters and I hope to spend four or five days in San Francisco. We plan on meeting a couple from England on holiday in California. Andy Cook  is a heart transplant recipient. He received his new heart Fall 1998. As you may know, two of my daughters, Shivan (11) and Lindsea (9), also had heart transplants (2001 and 2003) and are doing well.

Andy’s fiancée, Lynn, will join him on the trip.  We  plan on walking across the Golden Gate Bridge together, touring Alcatraz Island & Prison, eat some seafood at Fisherman’s Wharf , and see the Conservatory of Flowers at Golden Gate Park

 I’ve never met Andy, but we correspond regularly. He’s a landscaper at Birmingham Botanical Gardens. 

I already feel like Andy is like a family friend. Those in the transplant community are like a big extended family, as they’ve gone through the fire, faced death head-on, and passed through to the other side to cherish life.

 

I’ve always wanted to walk across the Golden Gate Bridge even since I was a teenager and I was in awe of the suspension bridge as Dad drove across it. I saw pedestrians and thought how fun it would be to leisurely stroll across the bridge and look at the San Francisco Bay below. Now my dream will finally come true.

 

To prepare for the walk, I designed a lesson plan for my girls. I thought I’d share the links with all of you, as the information is so interesting.

 

GOLDEN GATE BRIDGE, SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA

 

A few interesting facts from the Public Broadcasting Service, Inc:

 

Ocean tides flow through the Golden Gate four times a day -- twice coming in and twice going out. The quantity of salt water in motion between high and low tides averages 390 billion gallons.

 

Worker Albert "Frenchy" Gales was atop the unfinished south tower at the time of a June 1935 earthquake.

The two main cables of the bridge weigh 11,000 tons apiece, and each main cable contains 25,572 separate wires.

The amount of concrete used on the bridge would be sufficient to build two 10-foot-wide sidewalks from Chicago to Omaha.

 

See images of the Golden Gate Bridge.

 

See the multimedia images of the bridge.

 

See this image of the more than 300,000 people who walked across the Golden Gate Bridge on its 50th anniversary in 1987

 

Historic photos of the bridge.

 

Current bridge photos.

 

Gallery of on-site construction photos (slideshow)

Virtual Bridge Walk

Bridge facts-- Before the Bridge, During Construction, After Construction

Other facts

Panoramas of views from the Golden Gate Bridge. Open-up in large format

Live views of San Francisco sites
 

Webcam view of GG Bridge

 

View of Golden Gate Bridge from Alcatraz prison

 

This is what it will look like when we start the walk.

 

CLICK ON THE LINK TO DISCOVER THE ANSWERS:

 

 

1.     Why the name "Golden Gate"?

2.     How long did it take to build the bridge?

3.     When did the Golden Gate Bridge open?

4.     How many people worked on the Bridge during its construction?

5.     How many workers died during construction and what were their names?

6.     What would it cost to build the Golden Gate Bridge today?

7.     Facts--

Suspension bridge: Golden Gate Bridge, San Francisco

Main span length: 4,200 feet

Year opened: 1937

8.     Is the Golden Gate Bridge painted from end-to-end each year? (share more than just “no.” Write the next sentence, too.

9.     How many ironworkers and painters maintain the bridge?

10. How many rivets are in each tower of the Golden Gate Bridge?

11. How many vehicles have crossed the Golden Gate Bridge?

12. List 5 of the movies: What movies include the Golden Gate Bridge?

13. Has the Golden Gate Bridge ever been closed?  Just list the three dates.

14. When are pedestrians allowed on the bridge when we’ll be there in June? List the times--

15. How many people have committed suicide from the bridge?

 

Read this poem about the bridge’s completion:

The Mighty Task is Done by Joseph P. Strauss, Chief Engineer
Golden Gate Bridge and Highway District

 

Finally, see this absolutely beautiful photo of the Golden Gate Bridge




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Mar. 28, 2006
TO BEE OR NOT TO BEE

 

I learned a new craft—beeswax candlemaking. A fellow homeschooling mom invited other moms and kids over to her country home to learn this skill. “Nan” lives on a 5-acre spread, and raises bees and chickens, grows vegetables and herbs.  She crumbled a sheet of expensive beeswax into a container on a hot stove, liquefied it, then set the hot wax on an outdoors table. Kids and adults grabbed a wick and learned how to dip, roll wax, keep on dipping until a proper taper candle was made.

Some people used pieces of colored wax to press designs onto the hot candle. I took the time while the candles dried to walk to the bees-hives and chicken coops. I was raised in the suburbs—not exposed much to ranch life. My youngest daughter was a bit panicky when a bee followed me back to the candle-dipping area.  I wasn’t afraid of it, knowing it was just checking me out.

It’s fun to learn a new craft. Soon, the girls and I want to melt-down our old stubby crayons and make multicolor crayon candles. Wish us luck!

Imparting knowledge is only lighting other men's candles at our lamp without depriving ourselves of any flame. –Jane Porter




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Mar. 25, 2006
I SHOULD ESCAPE TO MAUI RATHER THAN SPRING CLEAN!

 

See this URL for the image. I don't know how to upload it here:


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This is a picture of me at Pearl Harbor, Hawaii. I love Hawaii and when I daydream about getting away from it all, I think of snorkeling the coral reefs of balmy Hawaii....

But now, back to reality:

SPRING CLEANING has begun at our house on the beautiful central coast of California. How about you all? (Well, I guess if some are reading this on the other side of the globe, like in Australia, it is Fall for y’all. Sometimes I forget that the Internet is worldwide!!).

 

It looks like it’ll rain again this afternoon, so this morning before the rain wets and makes soggy the ground again, we’ll weed-whack, trim trees, take the load of branches and detritus to the dump, and till the soil in one place so the girls and I can start our veggie garden and sunflower garden.

 

We’ve thought about trying to round-up our lop-eared bunny and return her to her cage. But when we get near her, she runs underneath the girls’ playhouse, burrowing under there. It’s been hard to retrieve her. She’s happier outside, then caged, hasn’t left our property to run around the suburbs. I find that interesting that a domestic rabbit is smart enough to stay in its own yard, that it doesn’t find the grass greener elsewhere. So, we may let her stay outdoors in the yard, rather than return her to her cage.

 

I need to do some SPRING CLEANING in our home. I am a bibliophile—love books and printed matter. Too many papers stack near this trusty computer. It’s time to organize them into binders, chuck the old newspaper clippings (or pass them on to my many pen pals), and put the books back on the shelf. 

 

The girls and I will go through our closets and give-away old clothes. We’re saving some children’s clothing for an orphanage in Nepal. A police captain and a few others at our church travel to Nepal once a year to distribute the clothes to the kids. It’s their only clothing distribution that year, except for what little they can afford from their miniscule budget.  It’s such a humbling experience to know that our castoffs are so valued by others who have so little. We donate other clothes to a local thrift store in town that benefits developmentally disabled people in our area.

 

Well, time to get a move-on and spring clean.

 

What do you need to give-away?


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Mar. 24, 2006
IN THE SPRING, AT THE END OF THE DAY, YOU SHOULD SMELL LIKE DIRT

As many of you know, I homeschool three elementary-age daughters, two with heart transplants. We love Spring. In our part of California—almost exactly in-between San Francisco and Los Angeles—some awesome natural events occur this time of year--

 

The elephant seals give births to young on beaches near Big Sur, CA

 

The monarch butterfly, nature’s miraculous migratory insect (flying more miles than any other insect), seeks a safe haven in the eucalyptus grove at Pismo Beach State Park.

 

The Western Snowy Plover, an extremely endangered shorebird, nests in the sand dunes at one of the last remaining natural sand dunes systems on the Pacific coast, the Guadalupe-Nipomo Dunes.

 

Cedar waxwings migrate through our area each year. Hundreds of them flock in our backyard to feast on our pyracantha’s berries.

 

Anna’s hummingbirds start coming to our hummingbird feeder.

 

This bird is fascinating to see in the trees, preening and caring for it’s young—Great Blue Heron

 

“Snowbirds” from the northernmost outposts (Canada and other northerly places) start driving their massive RV’s back to their home territory.

 

 

We’re looking forward to taking some field trips to do some beach-schooling this spring. I’d like the girls to keep a Nature notebook—draw and describe the flora and fauna they see on our adventure treks. We will take many nature photos, too.

 

We hope to travel to San Francisco in early June to walk across the Golden Gate Bridge. We’re excited to meet a heart transplant survivor from England and his fiancée and walk across the bridge together.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 




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Mar. 23, 2006
"WHY I HATE THE MOUSE" and "THE HOW-TO CHEESE BOOKLET."


                I home-educate three little girls. One of their favorite subjects is creative writing. Would you take time to read two of the girls’ stories and make comments? I’ll share your comments with them in my homeschooling lesson tomorrow, then I’ll post their responses to your input. Thanks, Susan



WHY I HATE THE MOUSE, by Shivan 3/2006

Juju is my name. I’m a Persian kitty of 4 years. I live in Omaha, Nebraska. Here in Nebraska there are reasons to hate mice. The crops eaten or diseased by the rodents, infested food, germs spread through humans, multiple babies whenever they feel like having kids. I could go on. But for us cats, the number one reason to hate mice (and wish you could go and hire a gopher snake) is spelled with 2 words. Pet Shop. Humans think there so cute and innocent, when really they are killing machines. You don’t think so? Here’s a story about one mean mouse.

 

 

His name? Squeaky.  His game? Torture. One day in the middle of July I was stuck inside my younger mistress’s room, with Squeaky in his cage. Miss Polly loves the little devil, pfft. I was just lying on my kitty bed, getting a little clean, when Squeaky started screaming. I was like, what the meow?,and jumped up on the table where his cage was. Squeaky had been trying to escape from his cage, and gotten his head stuck in the bars of the cage. I, off course, burst out laughing. The mouse glared at me, and I giggled some more. I couldn’t believe how stupid this little brown mouse was. He pushed and pushed his head back into the cage and screeched like I was biting his neck or something. I heard Miss Polly running to her room and I tried to shut the dumb mouse up so I jammed my paw inside the cage and swatted around a bit. Of COURSE the mouse shrieked the living daylights out of itself, glaring happily at me as Miss Polly slammed the door open and saw my paw in the cage. She screamed. “Oh my gosh! Bad Kitty! Bad, Bad Kitty! GET, SHOO JUJU!” and she snatched me up by the scruff and threw me out of the room. She opened the cage and gently plucked the evil mouse from hell up and pet him with her finger. “Oh Squeaky….are you okay?” she cooed. Squeaky chirped softly. I was disgusted, the germy rodent caused such a eruption that Miss Polly THREW me out of the room. I strutted away, tail up. I went into the living room, where Master Luke and Mister Ben where watching TV. I jumped up on the couch and crawled around on Master Luke. He stroked me nicely, and I lay down on his lap, purring. At least Squeaky doesn’t get to be loved my Master Luke and Mister Ben. Miss Polly emerged from her room, with a long rat leash attached to Squeaky, I rolled off Master Luke’s lap and trotted over to Miss Polly, doing my purr-meow call to her, and rubbing her legs. She always thinks that’s to-die-for. She “Awwww!” ed and pet me. Then she walked the beast around the house. Of course, it wanted to escape and go outside. I stayed away from it because when ever Miss Polly tried to pick him up he snarled over his shoulder and went to a corner to pick up nasty little crumbs from the carpet. Miss Polly thought it was funny and cute. I “Raowed” and licked myself a couple of times. When Miss Polly lead Squeaky back to her room, ‘it’ looked at me and raised his tail in a ‘I’m so better than you’ way. When the family went out for lunch at a friends house I pawed open the door to Miss Polly’s room. I leapt silently onto the rat cage table. Squeaky was asleep. So, since the family was away….I opened the cage door ( It was hard, but I managed to do it quietly ) and shook the cage. Squeaky woke up and chirped, alarmed. He jumped out of the cage and shrieked, his mouth all the way open, in a way that looked like shouting. I screamed with laughter. The rodent looked so retarded! It smiled evilly at me. I smiled back.  Ah… sweet revenge. I said “ The masters are away, you idiot. Miss Polly won’t come to your rescue now.” Squeaky went whiter than the whitest white in the world.  Pretty soon I was chasing the rat into the kitchen, where it went up onto the counter. Squeaky had dived into the sink and hide in the drain, I thought of possibly...turning on the garbage disposal? Haha! That would put an end to the little horror. But how would I explain to the sewer rats (whom I was good friends with ) where the shreds of mouse bones and blood flooding down into there village? They always are swarming around the kitchen sink drains to nab at food that the humans dispose of. I decided that I wouldn’t murder the thing THAT way. Ha. I jumped off the counter and hide, waiting for Squeaky to emerge. When he did, he must have thought I was in another room and that this was his chance to take advantage. He slid down the counter, I was ready to pounce, he slowly walked to where the door was, 7 inches away from my hiding place behind the trash can. Squeaky then froze and I peeked over the trash can lid, he saw me! Drat! As soon as he saw me I leapt over the trash can, just as Squeaky zoomed out of the kitchen. I chased him into the study room. I imagined him in a little helmet when I saw a mouse trap with cheese placed in the middle. The misters and mistresses where trying to get the ( rather tasty ) mice out of our home. Squeaky almost stepped on the trap, but wasn’t interested in the cheese. Double Drat! I leapt up on the desk and then, the worse happened. I am sure this mouse is from hell when I tell you what happened next. Squeaky was tired of me stalking him, so he decided to get a little more evil around me. When I leapt down to pinpoint him down he bite my paw SO HARD I thought it broke. I hit the ground, totally baffled by the rat’s attack. I got up and the rat charged at him, making strange noises.  I hissed loudly at him, and thank God I did. The rodent was frightened of me as I rose to my feet and arched my back up, I hissed again and Ha! The thing ran into the kitchen again, this time, I was pissed. This mouse had caused me so much pain in one day, no more Miss Nice Cat. I was hot on his tail when he ran into the kitchen. He bounced on the counter again, but when he hit the sink, I was already there, growling like I was in a cat fight. The mouse went into a electric hole that had been there for a while. He emerged on the shelf.I didn’t see him… There was a bowl of syrup up there….light-weight one of the family’s homemade types…can you guess what happened next? Yep. I was under the bowl and the bowl was atop of me. I was DRENCHED in sticky maple syrup. My beautiful, pure-bred fur brown with matting pancake sauce. I meowed my life away it seemed, until the family came back. By then, Squeaky had gotten back into his cage and was running in his wheel. Of course Mistress Laura wondered how on earth her poor kitty had been covered by syrup and a the bowl. I had to take a looong bath. I will get that mouse one day…and it will be permanent. A eternal revenge against….Squeaky the evil, little, brown mouse.

 

THE HOW-TO CHEESE BOOKLET by Alaina 3/2006


What happens when stupid humans leave out decent sized cheese on a little wooden board with a rusty metal spring/trap? Well, most uneducated mice usually would go for it- but for those who actually listened to their teachers at school would know what to do. First off, You have to locate the cheese. Get up close to it, and sniff it. Examine it too- be sure this is an FBI safe brand of cheese... The list includes/bans:

SAFE-
American Cheese
Swiss Cheese
Cheddar Cheese
Mozzarella Cheese

TOXIC-
Bleu Cheese
Cream Cheese

If you don't know what these types smell like, examine them...:

SAFE LIST-
American Cheese is orange-yellow and chunky. No holes. MM.
Swiss Cheese may be yellowish or whitish. Holes. MMMM.
Cheddar Cheese is pure orange. No holes. MMM.
Mozzarella Cheese is very light yellowish white. No holes. MM.

TOXIC-
Bleu Cheese is white with little blue dots. No holes. -M
Cream Cheese isn't pure cheese. Its white. No holes. -M

After you know what kind of cheese it is, check out the trap/spring (the metal thing). Ask yourself a few questions:
Is it rusty..? Does it look like it is sharp enough to cut into your skin..? If you answered yes to both questions, then be SURE to wear body gear- Rusty iron/metal is VERY dangerous! If you answered no to both questions, wear a helmet anyways.

Then, after you examined the trap/spring, note the location of the 'mouse-trap'... as the humans call it.... Is it near a humans bedroom..? Is it near a mouse-hole..? Is it in a public view of humans..? If its near a humans bedroom, just leave it be and warn other mice to not bother with it- The human will just be WAITING for one of us mice to get caught in one and will scurry out right when it hears the trap slap. If its near a mouse-hole AND a humans bedroom- GO FOR IT! Grab the cheese and run to the hole. Once the human comes out, you'll already be enjoying  a scrumptious snack! If a human is nearby while your going for the cheese, wait... and wait.. and wait. Only until the human leaves you can go for the cheese. Humans may have guns, brooms, butterfly nets or cages!!!

Now you know everything about getting cheese from 'mouse-traps'!!!
GO FOR IT!!

But.. wait a minute-- You can't now! Here are some rules:

  • ALWAYS have a parent/guardian with you while you get cheese- you may get hurt you know!
  • Double check that your gear is on safely and tied good- you don't want to get hurt, do you?
  • NEVER go for the cheese if you don't have gear/parent/or if a human is near!!!

Great! Now if you need some places to find gear, heres a list..:

LIST OF STORES YOU CAN FIND GEAR-
1. Gottscheese for in-expensive gear.
2. Tracy's for regular gear.
3. JD Tailys for expensive BEST gear.

ENJOY YOUR CHEESE!
DON'T GET CAUGHT BY A HUMAN!
REMEMBER THE FLASH-TELE NUMBER: 811!

 






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Mar. 17, 2006
MAY YOU ALWAYS HAVE A ROOF FOR THE RAIN....

Photo: Irish transplant survivor at the World Transplant Games, London, Ontario, Canada, 2005    

Photo: copyright Susan L. Friesen 2005

Erin Go Braugh! Ireland Forever! Happy St. Patrick’s Day!

I'm looking over a four leaf clover
That I overlooked before
One leaf is sunshine, the second is rain,
Third is the roses that grow in the lane.
No need explaining the one remaining
Is somebody I adore.
I'm looking over a four leaf clover
That I overlooked before.

Words by Mort Dixon, music by Harry Woods
Written in 1927 - popularized in 1948 by Art Mooney

I almost got pinched this morning for not wearing green, but then the girls spotted my green “Donate Life” band on my right wrist, so backed-off. They chased their Dad into the bedroom, but he slapped on his “Donate Life” bracelet before they could pinch him, too.

We haven’t made St. Patrick’s Day goodies, yet, but we plan on baking some brownies layered with green frosting and topped with green sprinkles for holiday dessert.

I allowed the girls to bypass heavy-duty academics this afternoon and play games.  Actually, Shivan wanted to help me clean. Alaina and Lindsea played Battleship.  Before that, the girls read fairy tales aloud to one another.

We normally try to take a field trip on Fridays, but heavy rains persuaded us to stay home. It didn’t help that our home renovation project has problems. Water soaked through the unfinished wall outside one daughter’s room, ruining the carpet. I spent a couple hours today putting all the children’s books in that room in boxes. The bed will need to be disassembled, the carpet pulled up and thrown out, and the room redone. If it’s not one thing, it’s another.

Earlier this morning, we experienced another leaking mess. A clog in the aquarium pump caused fishy water to overflow the aquarium.

Our new sunroom leaks, too. My hubby took the old rain gutter and reconfigured it to create a makeshift gutter in the room. Now watch it not rain anymore the rest of the year. That’s Murphy’s Law for you. We hope to get a new roof on the house before the rainy season hits next year. 

It will probably take two years to fix the house—as the majority of construction will be done owner-builder. Every wall in the house will eventually come down. The house needs re-stuccoing and re-roofing.

When two daughters mysteriously needed heart transplants, three years apart, and we had three household floods, we figured it would be best to totally re-do our house.  Pray for us! It’s like the movie “The Money Pit”—so much cash to fix-up the place.

My husband quips sometimes that maybe we should look into emigrating to New Zealand. He saw an online ad recently for a beautiful ocean-front home in N.Z. for only $350,000, U.S.-equivalent dollars. When water drips from the ceiling and I feel like must squeegee the walls, I daydream about Ken’s quip and think about that oceanfront home--hopefully within sight of the world’s smallest penguin, the blue or little penguin. I’ve heard about those penguins waddling from the sea in the middle of night and strolling New Zealand suburbs. Wouldn’t that be an interesting sight at 2 a.m.?

Well, it’s stopped raining and I must answer pen pal mail (I still like old-fashioned correspondence), so Happy St. Patrick’s Day everyone.

Irish blessing:

May you always have
Walls for the winds,
A roof for the rain,
Tea beside the fire,
Laughter to cheer you,
Those you love near you,
And all your heart might desire!

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Mar. 16, 2006
Mind-Boggling Blogging

Blogging has opened-up other worlds for me. I appreciate the interactive nature of this form—communicating with people on a more personal basis from worldwide. Blogging also helps keep me focused as a writer.  Some of the emotions experienced when blogging are quite raw, but others time I’m practically rolling on the floor laughing at some of the posts. Here is one “raw” experience—hearing about a fellow blogger’s confrontation with her mother’s impending death.


Excerpts: 

I’m leaving mom probably for the last time tomorrow morning at 6:11 a.m.   The reality hit me hard today.  She’s been sick for a very long time.  She’s such a trooper and a fighter that we have visited her death’s door before….many times.  This time however feels like it’s the final curtain for my mother.  I pray every night for her to die in her sleep.  She’s tired of gasping for her breath, she’s tired of spending her time every two hours on a breathing machine, taking her many pills, and now not able to walk at all due to a broken hip.  ……….  I feel torn; she would never leave me if I were sick….but, I have to go.  I love you, Mom!  

 

My response:

Oh, that is so hard to hear. I know what you’re going through. My beloved maternal grandmother and I were very close. She ended-up in a nursing home, begging me to take her home to live with me. She even asked if she could live in our daughter’s clubhouse in the backyard. She was desperate to get out of her predicament. She’d self-referred to the nursing home, knowing she couldn’t live alone anymore with the danger of fracturing her hips again.


I took my then young sons with me to visit grandma. She and I knew it would be the last visit between us. She told me to go to her mobile home and take some things she’d saved for me. She said if I didn’t, her former caretaker would take it all (she’d already taken some beautiful old bamboo furniture the family admired through the years, amongst many other things).


Not long after our visit, she ended-up in a psychiatric hospital because she refused physical therapy and who-knows-what-else. My mother didn’t tell me she was in such a facility. I found out about it after grandma’s death. It still hits me hard that I couldn’t be there for her at her most fragile time in life. I found out at her funeral (I wrote her eulogy) that my mother hadn’t written grandma’s legal name on her birth certificate. She went by “Donna,” but her legal name was “Madonna.”

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I learn so much when blogging. For instance, after reading one writer’s experience with armadillos and skunks, I decided to research armadillos for my daughters’ homeschooling lesson.  In the process, I learned more about the mammal than I probably needed to know—that some people eat roadkill armadillo, preparing the poor critter in every way possible and calling it “gourmet.” I learned that one species is the pink fairy armadillo (endangered species). Armadillos can come in 3, 6, or 9-banded. I’ve only seen an armadillo in the zoo, but now I wish I could see one in the wild someday. People living in the American Southwest are probably laughing at me now, as they consider it a pest.


Some bloggers have the most unusual profile names. I really get a kick out of “Pink Freud’s” profile picture—showing the psychotherapist Sigmund Freud in pink hues.


My husband is a psychotherapist and I often joke around and call him “Siggy,” so I was happy to discover “Pink Freud.” He’s in my blog buddy list, as well as so many other wonderful people from all walks of life.  I wonder if “Pink Freud” is a play on “Pink Floyd,” the rock band.


So much in the blogging world catches interest; that’s for sure. Today I read a new blogger’s post about wedding plans in a natural history museum. Another blogger posted a picture of a man’s home—filled with over 300 animal trophies

I have made many new friends by blogging. So far, I have blogs on Mindsay.com, homeschoolblogger.com, Journalspace, yahoo360, and blogspot.


Blogging is mind-boggling fun.

Copyright Susan L. Friesen 2006


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Mar. 15, 2006
Tagged!

Got tagged!

 



Four jobs you have had in your life:

1.  home daycare owner
2.  substitute teacher with five different school districts, teaching pre-K-12th
3.   forklift operator, warehousewoman for Sears
4.   weather observer in the Air National Guard

Movies you would watch over and over: (in no particular order)

1.  Wizard of Oz
2.  The Ten Commandments
3.  Lord of the Rings
4.  Chronicles of Narnia

 

Four places you have lived

  1.  Fairbanks, AK
  2.  Great Falls, MT
  3.  Ft. Polk, LA
  4.  Huntington Beach, CA

Four TV shows you love to watch:

1.  National Geographic Channel
2.  Cops
3.  Fox News and CNN
4.  Discovery Channel

Four places you have been on vacation:

1.  Belize
2.  Bahamas
3.  Hawaiian islands
4.  Canada

Four websites I visit daily:

1.  http://www.msnbc.com

1.      http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/dolphindancer

2.      http://www.ken-sue.com/wpks/

3.      Various blogs like http://www.journalspace.com ; http://blog.360.yahoo.com/; http://www.mindsay.com/network/dolphindancer ; http://susanfriesen.blogspot.com/



Four of my favorite foods:
1. Chinese stir-fry

1.      pumpkin pie

2.      homemade Caesar salad with Oriental Sesame Dressing

3.      seafood, especially halibut or salmon

Four places I would rather be right now: 
1.  Australia or New Zealand
2.  snorkeling in the Grand Cayman
3.  Great Britain
4. Madagascar to see the wild animals


Four friends I am tagging that I think (hope?) will respond.....

1.  appleleaf
2.  Leigh2
3.  Susan Goodman
4.  Debismumto4




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Mar. 14, 2006
ADORABLE ARMADILLOES



Well, y’all, I filled-out an application today to become a bonafide member of The Benevolent Society of Armadillos. Yes, you read that right! How could I not join such a worthwhile organization.


See this blurb:



The BOA is a benevolent fraternal order whose purpose is to promote the good will that is inspired by the armadillo. According to ancient legend, the symbol of the armadillo means to “roll with the punches”, and that is what we as a society should do also. Roll with the punches and get along with everyone despite differences in culture or opinion. If you would like to join The Benevolent Order of Armadillos, you may do so at no cost or obligation.


I’ve had to “roll with the punches” frequently in life, so figure I should belong to this organization. And once I get around to it, I want to join the ancient Order of Two-Headed Turtles—The Procrastinator’s Society. I like some of these lines from The Procrastinator’s Creed:I know that the work cycle is not plan/start/finish, but is wait/plan/plan.I will never put off until tomorrow, what I can forget about forever.I believe that if anything is worth doing, it would have been done already.


If you wish to read the rest of the creed, go here; otherwise, put it off.


I homeschool three elementary-age daughters, grades 3, 5, 6. They love studying about animals, so I often design internet-based lessons on a particular animal. Today they studied about armadillos, amongst other topics. I like to investigate different aspects of a subject, so try and find a poem, song, art, media link, besides raw facts. I thought I’d share some of the findings with you:


Armadillo cartoons


Lyrics to the Elton John song, Hey Armadillo


Poem: Andy the Armadillo

Another fun poem: A Backwoods Bard Sings the Praiseof His Favorite Armadillo

Article about keeping an armadillo as a pet. Here’s an excerpt:

NURSE MCCULLY of the Royal infirmary, Liverpool, has an armadillo as a pet. This little animal, which is a native of South America, was given to the nurse by a sailor when it was quite a baby, weighing only three pounds. It was most advantageously reared on peptonized milk, — ordinary cow’s milk being too strong, — and the little creature now weighs 11 pounds. Its present diet is peculiar, consisting of bread and milk, bacon, apples, and sardines. More

Armadillo photographs

Armadillo Species Central

Article: Armadillo’s Protective Armor

We enjoyed reading the short story “The Beginning of the Armadilloes” by the first English Nobel Prize-winning author, Rudyard Kipling (1865-1936). This story is one of many in the collection Just So Stories (1902). Kipling also wrote a book he’s more famous for: The Jungle Book (1894). In honor of Kipling, we decided to watch about an hour of the Disney classic animated film Jungle Book at lunch today. After lunch, we read a biography of Kipling. He wrote Just So Stories about three years after the death of his daughter, wishing to entertain his children. I think he was sensitive to children, as he led a very sad childhood—put into a foster home at age 5 and a boarding school age age 12. He didn’t get to know his parents much.

Well, I’ll leave with these thoughts:

Dillos have it made. When bothered, some species curl-up into a tight, strong-banded ball. They’re pretty much impenetrable, except for some hungry coyote that never gives-up clawing through the armor. Wouldn’t it be nice to curl into a tight protective ball whenever bothered? What do you do, or where do you go when you need alone time? My favorite thing to do (but rarely do) is lie on a colorful beach towel on the beach, close my eyes, and fall asleep to the lullaby of surf and shorebird sounds.

 

 


Other news today:

I am praying for the families of the victims of the dam-break in Kaui. See this news story:

Huge flood after Hawaii dam bursts–300 million gallons of water released on Kauai; 1 body found, 7 missing

I made comments in the blog concerning this news story about a girl disallowed from wearing her patriotic bead necklace in school.

Excerpt: A federal lawsuit is slated to be filed Friday. At issue is whether a Schenectady girl’s constitutional rights were violated when school officials asked her to remove a necklace.

Twelve-year-old Raven Furbert insists the beaded necklace shows her support for the troops. School administrators say regardless of what the necklace means, the beads are not allowed.



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