Aug. 30, 2008
Update from Marsha
Hi all~
This is Leanne. Marsha is my very dear, dear friend, and she asked me this morning if I would update y'all on how they're doing....I can only pray that God would give me the words to do this update justice.
I talked to her this morning on the phone. First of all, she wants everyone to know how much they have felt all of your prayers! They are very, very grateful for you all. Please keep praying, don't let up, as today is Christian's funeral and as many of you know, that is going to be hard....
She talked to me about all of those whom they had spoken with in this that do not know the Lord, and how her heart is grieving for them. She has told me that what they want out of this valley is that many would come to know the Savior through this. Please pray for those of their family and friends who do not know our good God. Pray for salvation for many. Marsha said that she hopes they're ready to hear the Gospel, cause that's what they're going to hear today!!
At the sound of Marsha's voice, I knew, deep in my heart, that they are going to weather this. God is and has been very present for their family thus far. She talked to me about how she had seemingly "babied" Christian a whole lot more than the other two boys. Now, she says that she has absolutely no regrets. We looked back and saw how God had been preparing them for this day for years, and especially the past month.
I choose for myself, especially after talking to Marsha, to believe that God is so infinitely good, so much more and above what our tiny brains can fathom. He does all things, all things, well....
Many of you may remember that they lost Christian's favorite blankie about a month or so ago. That blankie was nowhere to be found. Wednesday Marsha told me that she just knew, she just knew, that God was going to let that blankie show up when they needed it most.....and lo and behold, it has been found!! Coco found it! Our good God knew who needed to find that blankie and exactly when! Marsha said that Coco felt as though she had won the lottery!
We talked about what it was like yesterday, at the funeral home for the viewing. She spoke of how it was driven home to them that that was just really not Christian laying there. It was just his earthly shell, and it was such a huge measure of peace to David and her to know in their hearts that it wasn't him, just his husk. Christian's beautiful and joyful spirit is in Heaven, where he dances and sings for his Savior!
After they were done, apparently someone shouted, "look! A rainbow!!!" Marsha grabbed a little girlfriend by the hand and ran out to look, and sure enough, there was a perfect, beautiful rainbow arching its glorious colors directly over the funeral home!!! God's promise!!!
Thank the Lord that David and Marsha have the eyes to see God's goodness in the midst of this valley!
Please, prayer warriors, do not let up in praying for David and Marsha! This is just the beginning of this journey! Please be specific and very intentional in your prayers. Come against the enemy with all your power, as he would like nothing better than to destroy the beautiful witness of the Drews family.
Maybe you could leave a comment here for Marsha, and in that comment, include a scripture that has been meaningful to you, that you have clung to. I know Marsha would appreciate that.
Thanks everyone!
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by DandelionSeeds
Oh dear Marsha... I don't even know what to say... I'm at camp with my family and I have no internet access. Yesterday we came into town, downloaded messages and went back. Last night as I was reading my comments, someone had told me about your son and I couldn't sleep all night. I lifted you and your family up all through the night. We came into town today so that I could know more. I don't have much time, but know that I will continue to pray (as the rest of my family) for peace that only He can give.
I love you dear sister and I am here praying... please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Love you,
Amy
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Jaynee
Oh yes, the Lord is soo good and loving...and I know that He will continue to give you the grace, comfort and peace that passes all understanding as you endure this trial.
How my heart aches for you. You are on the forefront of my mind and prayers...I will not forget and I will pray for you all for months to come.
Oh, I will pray that the Lord will soften many hearts and that precious lost souls will come to know the Savior through the precious gospel and through the testimony of your love for Him.
2 Corinthians 4:7-18 were the verses that were such a blessing to me when I thought we were going to lose Daniel. As you cry out to Him, I know the Lord will give you many promises from his precious Word to carry you through and encourage your broken heart. Oh, how He knows and understands our every pain.
Last night, my 11 year old woke up throwing up at 2 am and I was up every 20 minutes or from then on with him or the baby or another of the children...it was just one of those nights. I prayed for you during the night. I never once asked the Lord to let me sleep...I was just so grateful to have these precious little ones that I could care for during the night.
love and prayers,
Jaynee
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Praise God!
Posted by Anonymous
Prayers of His flock are answered.
We will continue our prayers.
Nikowa
knowledgehouseacademy.blogspot.com/
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by quietcajun
Oh my goodness, tears are streaming down my cheeks for the umpteenth time since hearing of what happened, but this time in awe at God's goodness. I have been praying specifically that his blankie would be found before his funeral. My heart was just clinging onto that for some reason. I just felt that it was significant. I am praising God for that and for the rainbow!
We are praying without ceasing for you.
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Janne
Thank you for the update. Marsha, you have been so heavy on my mind these last several days -- many tears have been shed. I just can't imagine what you are going through. I am excited to see that God IS lifting you up and that He IS working through this.
I, even as a Christian (and knowing that God's will is the best) have been questioning over and over again - "Why them? Please, God, not THAT family. Why THEM?" Although, of course, I don't have the answer -- and never will -- I believe God led me to a blog yesterday that brought more tears to my eyes, but also a little bit of hope.
It's this post http://kingskreation.net/?p=218 with the story behind the hymn "It is Well With My Soul". Very moving. Marsha, above all, I pray that God will give you divine peace...that it will be "well" with your soul.
I also, almost immediately after hearing the tragic news, thought about your entry regarding Christian's blankie. I prayed that that blankie would be found. It seemed to me at the time to be a silly prayer request in spite of all...but it seemed important somehow. It does my heart good to know that the blanket was found.
You remain in my heart and prayers, dear sister.
Romans 8:28
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him,who have been called according to his purpose.
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Prayers
Posted by Jocelyndixon
Oh that is so precious. I pray that many people will come to know the Lord and Saviour through all of this, and that it will all be to the glory of God.
My family was praying they'd find the blanket and so glad they did. What a sweet blessing and a treasure.
I am so glad to read this update. I am so glad that Marsha and David are fully trusting in God and finding peace in that.
One of my favourite Scriptures is Isaiah 64:4 "For since the beginning of the world men have not heard, nor perceived by the ear, neither hath the eye seen, O God, beside thee, what he hath prepared for him that waiteth for him."
That verse to me is so powerful and so profound. No one has seen or heard of a God like our God.
Love and hugs!
Edited by Jocelyndixon on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:37 PM
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Oh, Marsha!
Posted by tiredmom
I've been on an extended blog break and so have just learned the tragic news. I weep for you. Later I will pray.
Jennifer
But Jesus called them to him, saying, "Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God."
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Annemarie
I am crying, but with tears of thankfulness. I prayed that God would lead you all to that little blanket and He did! Thank you Lord for your goodness in everything.
Marsha, I can't share right now because it would be too emotional right now (baby is supposed to come on the 8th) but God has used this in my life tremendously. These verses have meant the world to me this week and have carried me through.
Romans 8:22-27
"We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what he already has? But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.
In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will."
I have been and will continue to be in prayer today that God works many miracles in the hearts of those that are at the funeral today. I thought this morning, how you are not burying Christian, just his shell. He is, at this very moment, enjoying that which my soul longs for daily. Oh, I thank the Lord that this life is short.
Praying for you all with fervent love,
Annemarie
http://thedaysfashionedforme.blogspot.com/
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Praise the Lord!!!
Posted by JacqueDixonSoulRestES
It seems so many have been praying for that blanket to show up! Of course it will never replace sweet little Christian, but it is so important, and God did know just when it would need to be found.
We are still praying with you all. We are believing with you that many will hear the Gospel, be convicted of their sin and come to know Jesus as their Saviour!!
While I am not surprised at the support you have received from all of the truly loving blog friends you have, I have to say that God is awesome to have provided this system of support. Truly, no one can replace family and irl friends, but never having met you and feeling this so deeply, I can imagine how much love is pouring into you right now.
Amanda and Jocelyn and I have wanted to call you and offer our love and support, and we will speak to you sometime, but just know that you are in our constant thoughts and prayers. We love you and pray that God will give you the perfect timely words for each person you speak to about Christian and His God.
Praising God for holding you and giving you your own rainbow just when you needed it. May you continue to see Him in all the little things He provides to you.
Thanks to your friends who are right there with you and also updating for all the people here who love you too.
We love you David, Marsha, Tank and Dash.
In our hearts and prayers,
Matt and Jacque Dixon and family
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Isaiah 12:2
Posted by Anonymous
"Behold God is my salvation;I will trust and not be afraid:for the LORD JEHOVAH is my strength and my song;he also is become my salvation."
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
Micah 7:7-8 is one of our favorites:
Therefore I will look unto the Lord, I will wait for the God of my salvation, my God will hear me. Rejoice not against me O mine enemy. When I fall, I shall arise. When I sit in darkness the Lord shall be a light unto me.
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Suzanne
Ephesians 3:14-21
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Praying for You
Posted by Anonymous
Galatians 6:2: Bear ye one anothers burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.
Praying for you on this difficult day. I'm thankful the blankie was found.
Blessings,
Dawn
http://myhomesweethomeonline.net
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Tiany
Dear Marsha,
Sweet, beautiful friend, I wish more then anything that I could be there for you today. Our family has been praying and thinking of you and your family often.
I am so grateful that the Lord is comforting you all and that you have the heart to receive it!
Keeping you in our hearts today and always!
Hugs & Blessings,
Tiany
"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.
For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows."
(2 Corinthians 3:1-5)
"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." (Romans 15:13)
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by tnmomtomanyblessings
"Never will I leave you;
never will I forsake you." Hebrews 13:5
Still praying!
Maria
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Oh, Marsha~
Posted by ReviewsbyHeidi
There simply are no words to say (and trust me, I've been thinking on this for days now) to express how very sorry I am. But I am continually amazed at God and the work that He does in all of us on a daily basis. The little things, that may seem insignificant, are so very important and come just when we need them the most.
I have been thinking of little else besides you and your sweet family for many days now. You are being lifted up in so many people's prayers. I have experienced times of deep sadness and know that feeling of being held up in prayer. It's an amazing thing.
May God continue to hold you all in the palm of His mighty hand and may you continue to see His plan carried out in amazing ways as you seek Him for comfort.
Blessings,
Heidi
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Sweet Marsha!
Posted by SuperAngel
I love you! I hope that today you find the peace that Jesus gives! I am and have been praying all day for you and all of the family.
I am so glad you find Christian's blankie! I have been praying you would. What an AWESOME God we serve!
I will be praying for you everyday! Love you Marshamallow!
A scripture that I have found that is comforting is:
John 16:22
And ye now therefore have sorrow: but I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you.
Thank you Jesus that soon no Joy shall be taken from us!
I hope you are comforted by your many friends and family today and I am sending loads of hugs your way!
Love ya!
Amanda
http://superangelsblog.com
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Sheri
They that sow in tears shall reap in joy.
Psalm 126:5 KJV
I am praying for you and your family and am so sorry for your loss
(theshadesofpink.blogspot.com)
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by cammiemelisabray
Marsha...first, in all of this I want you to know what an encouragement you have been to me. Your faith and reliance upon the savior is a blessing and admonition to my heart.
I was in the Word this morning and these words touched me...may His voice continue to comfort you and your family.
Colossians 1:9-14 For this cause we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you. and to desire that ye might be filled with the knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding;
that ye might walk worthy of the Lord unto all pleasing being fruitful in every good work. and increasing in the knowledge of God;
Strengthened with all might, according to his glorious power unto all patience long suffering with joyfulness.
Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light:
Who hat delivered us from the power of darkness and hath translated us into the kingdom of his dear Son In whom we have redemption through his blood even the forgiveness of sins:
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Blessings to you & yours sweet sister~
Posted by Beth
I have been praying for you daily, and will continue. A Scripture that comes to mind and brings me much assurance is this~ He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end. ~Ecclesiastes 3.11
http://www.brewcrew.homeschooljournal.net/
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
Marsha,
I am so sorry to hear about this very sad time for your family. I am praying for all of you. I will lift up your unsaved family members that they may come to know the goodness of our Lord through this. My heart is so heavy for all of you. May you be comforted by the Holy Spirit through this.
Blessings,
Ruth
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Aug. 30, 2008 - grace...
Posted by amada
I'm so glad that these are true Marshie,
"My grace is sufficient for YOU,
for my power is made perfect in weakness." ~2Cor.12:9
We were so utterly burdened beyond our strength...
But that was to make us rely not on ourselves
but on God who raises the dead." ~1Cor.1:8-9
What is sown is perishable; what is raised is imperishable. ~ 1Cor.15:42
Just as we have borne the image of the man of dust, we shall also bear the image of the man of heaven. ~ 1Cor.15:49
...our citizenship is in heaven, and from it we await a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ, who will transform our lowly body to be like his glorious body, by the power that enables him even to subject all things to himself." ~Phil.3:20-21
We are praying continually for you and yours. I praise God that He comforts the downcast (2Cor.7:6)! The rainbow just causes me to weep tears of joy. He didn't have to do that, but it just shows us his tenderness and that he does love us so SO much.
I love you too.
Amy
Trujillo, Peru
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Aug. 30, 2008 - The Lord hath done great things for us; therefore we are glad!
Posted by Jenna Wallace ~ sis of Jacque Dixon
Amidst all the tears (I weep with you) the light shines. I thank the Lord for hearing the cries of His people. As insignificant as many prayers can seem; He knows our heart feels our pain and is touched by it as our Father. One day when my heart was shattered; my precious Lord said "Look my child", and in my rear view mirror there was His promise.... a beautiful Rainbow..I know how special it is for the Lord to put a rainbow in the sky Just for You!
My prayers are with you Dear Saints. God will change many lives and draw them unto salvation for the life of this sweet child of God.
For You:
Psalm 126
When the Lord turned again the captivity of Zion, we were like them that dream. Then was our mouth filled with laughter, and our tongue with singing: then said they among the heathen, The Lord hath done great things for them. The Lord hath done great things for us; whereof we are glad. Turn again our captivity, O Lord as the streams in the south. They that sow in tears shall reap in joy. He that goeth forth and weepeth, bearing precious seed, shall doubtless come again with rejoicing, bringing his sheaves with him.
Oh dear ones, my heart weeps for you and when that time comes we will reap in joy.
Much love, much love,
Jenna
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Aug. 30, 2008 - The Wise Man Built His House Upon The Rock
Posted by SteveWalden
Dearest Marsha and family,
When I was praying over you the first night, God impressed on my heart the scripture from Matthew 7:24-27.
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%207:24-27;&version=31;
It's about the wise and foolish builders. God gave me the sense that your lives are anchored to that sure foundation, the solid rock of Jesus Christ. You will not implode in this storm and just like Leanne said, you will weather through this.
You guys both know what I've been through and I can confirm to you that each time those parents have seen and even held their child's body, they have realized that the body was the husk, the empty shell. You know that your child is with the Father. If he cannot be with you, there's no better place for him to be. He holds Dozer securely.
The only word that comes up for me to pray for you in this time is "Peace." Peace in this storm. The wind and waves are lashing at you, but I say, "Peace!" Peace that transcends understanding. Rest in his arms and receive his strength. Peace.
Steve
Edited by SteveWalden on Aug. 30, 2008 at 5:29 PM
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by mamaduso
Dear Marsha, I think of you constantly. I think of David and the boys. I pray for peace for you all. For your extended family, your sisters and parents and Davids side of the family and your church family. I am praising God for his goodness, that in this time He would show himself upon you and your loved ones. I really wish I could give you a hug right now. I wish I could fly to Texas. Even though that is not possible I know that I can communicate directly to the LOrd on your behalf. Praise God. He is good. I am praying that God would bind you and David and make you STRONG together. That through you and your testimony many would come to the knowledge of Him. That they would see the grace in your lives, the love you share and the peace that you have. That people would ask, "where does this all come from". Who or what is it that can make these people so special? And you can say definitely that it is your GOD! Praise Him! I have been thinking of the boys. I am praying that the Lord would bring to me an idea of something special that I could send for them, so they know that we love them too and that we pray for them too. God Bless dear friend. I am thinking of you, praying for you and sending hugs from Oregon.
Susan
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Praying for you and your family
Posted by ams
Dear Drews Family,
My heart aches for what you are going through. I could not imagine the pain. May the Lord wrap His loving arms around you and carry you through. You are in my thoughts and prayers <>< Antoinette
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Aug. 30, 2008 - <em>Untitled Comment</em>
Posted by homeskoolmom
Marshie (and David and boys) We love you and have been praying for you often-- even sweet Tabby has been praying for the "Dwews family."
Several years ago, one of the members of the church where we were attending committed suicide. (After he killed his ex-wife). That week, God showed me this verse in a way I had never seen before, and everytime something hard in this life comes along I think of it. Romans 8:18 For I consider that the sufferings of the present time are not worth comparing with the glory that has been revealed in us. Dearest Drews family. God's glory has been revealed in Christian's death and will continue to be revealed...His name be praised!
Praise Him for giving you little Christian's blankie-- in His Perfect timing!
Hugs to you all!
Christine
Edited by homeskoolmom on Aug. 30, 2008 at 7:40 PM
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Emily
"Though the mountains be shaken and the hills removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken, nor my covenant of peace be removed." says the Lord, who has compassion on you.
"O afflicted city, lashed by storms and not comforted, I will build you with stones of turquoise, your foundations with sapphires."
"I will make your battlements of rubies, your gates of sparkling jewels, and all your walls of precious stones."
"ALL your sons will be taught by the Lord, and GREAT will be your children's peace."
Isaiah 54-10 thru 13.
I love you.
Emily
thelearningneverstops.blogspot.com
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by TwmCrm2001
Nahum 1:7- The Lord is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble; and he knoweth them that trust in him.
~The verse that helped me most during the time of the death of my dad, when I was 17. You are in my prayers!
~Cassandra
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Aug. 30, 2008 - a friend in grief
Posted by Anonymous
Hi, we have never met and I am a leurker. My heart has united with you in this valley, and I will keep your family in prayer. Last evening I had some free time to catch up on reading some blogs, and two of them brought me to your blog site. I believe God ordained this meeting. I spent the rest of the evening, night, and today praying for you and remembering the rawness of the valley. God's presence like never before, but shearing pain unknown to many. As I prayed for you, I remembered God's faithfullness to me. In 2006, my almost 3 year old son moved to Heaven unexpectedly, and tragicly. Tucker was my baby, and my third son. I was 4 months pregnant with son #4. I wanted to die and go to Heaven with him. Anyway, as I have prayed for you, God has reminded me of His faithfullness and mercy, which allowed me CHOOSE LIFE, each second,each day. The first days His grace carried us through the necessary tasks. Then, I began to feel as if I was going crazy, and being tormented. God's Word sustained me as we plastered our home's walls with scripture posters so I could renew my mind with His truths... I could only sleep if I listed to scripture and Psalms all night with headphones. Indedd, I had to walk THROUGH the valley, there was no way over it, around it, or under it. Jesus carried me through it, and HE IS GOOD. My friend, I am so sorry anyone has to go through this journey... I am so sorry for the absence of your son on earth. The pain in harsh, but God is faithful. I will keep praying for you. You may find parts of Tuck's memorial website helpful in your own time... tuckersalisbury.com Your friend, in grief, darci (darci@vingster.com)
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
Marsha, you and your family are carried in my heart all through out the day. The Lord brings you to my mind often and my heart breathes heavily for you all. You have been such an inspiration to me for these years that I have been blessed with knowing you and learning more about your family. I have been praying specifically that God would give you all a supernatural peace with in your hearts that surpasses all understanding and radiates with the glory of God through your strength.
Jesus left His precious words in John 14:27 that have been a great comfort to me many times... "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. His peace He has left with us, isn't that amazing. I am praying that the power of His peace will reign in your hearts as you walk one step at a time down this path.
I praise God that He has been revealing His goodness to you during this time, showing you where He has been and how He is now carrying you and I praise God that He has given you a heart to not only honor Him through this time but also a heart that yearns for those who do not know Him. I pray that God will pour His Spirit on many through the example of your bold and strong faith leading them to the Cross of Christ.
JOYfully in Him,
Kelli @ embracingthejourneyexperiencingthejoy.blogspot.com
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by madeleine
Dear Precious Marsha.,
Oh how my heart grieves for your loss. Your beautiful baby. It is going to be a journey of pain, maybe even at moments despair. But also hope, grace and mercy. How thankful I am that your family walks in HIM, and HE will walk this with you.
You are continually in my prayers. I wish I was there to sit with you, to pray with you, to hold your and, or even wash your dishes. I cannot. But know that I can and do pray.
My scripture for you today is Lamentations 3:19 - 26.
Cling to HIM.
Love ~ Madeleine
madjohn85.blogspot.com
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Aug. 30, 2008 - praying for you!
Posted by SchoolinRhome
I wrote what I wanted you to read at my blog. If you get a chance please stop by and read it., I left you a song as well. I have been praying for you so much. You have been on my heart and mind and certainly in my prayers!
Here is the blog post!
http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/SchoolinRhome/582864/
Honor Christian by honoring the One who gave him to you! In Jesus, there are no goodbyes!
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Aug. 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by KY momma
Oh dear family,
We are homeschoolers from many states over but your loss made it to our loop. I am so, so, so sorry. No words could ever convey approriately my sorrow at such a loss. As a mother my heart breaks in two for you. May you find some peace, somewhere in these dark hours.
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Aug. 31, 2008 - I'm praying for you and your family
Posted by Anonymous
Hello, I can not imagine the feelings you hold inside you right now. I rejoice with you that you have the Lord of the universe holding you in His mighty hand! I prayed about a verse I might send to encourage you. My Bible opened to a set of familiar verses, Proverbs 3:5-6 TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL THINE HEART; AND LEAN NOT UNTO THINE OWN UNDERSTANDING. IN ALL THY WAYS ACKNOWLEDGE HIM, AND HE SHALL DIRECT THY PATHS.
But there's a few more verses further down, that go with that. You know the day will come, when there is a little crack in your armor and the devil will cease the chance and try to fill you with doubt and fear. Here are the other verses.... v24-26
WHEN THOU LIEST DOWN, THOU SHALT NOT BE AFRAID: YEA, THOU SHALT LIE DOWN, AND THY SLEEP SHALL BE SWEET. BE NOT AFRAID OF
SUDDEN FEAR, NEITHER OF THE DESOLATION OF THE WICKED, WHEN IT COMETH. FOR THE LORD SHALL BE THY CONFIDENCE, AND SHALL KEEP THY FOOT FROM BEING TAKEN.
May the Lord bless you all, and those who come in contact with you through your trial.
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Cry out to Jesus
Posted by Angie
I stumbled onto your blog tonight while surfing, and now I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face. I can not stop crying. I never realized I could hurt so badly for someone that I don't even know. I can't even begin to imagine what your family is going through, but you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I pray that God will hold you close and that you will feel His awesome presence. One of my favorite songs is "Cry Out to Jesus". It has brought me comfort on countless occasions.
There is hope for the helpless
Rest for the weary
And love for the broken heart
There is grace and forgiveness
Mercy and healing
He'll meet you wherever you are
Cry out to Jesus, Cry out to Jesus
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Rebeca
Praying for you and your family.
Rebeca
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
Marsha,
Though you don't know me in cyberspace, I linked to your blog once or twice in the past and been blessed by your posts. One morning last week, I was fervently praying and then I began weeping. Usually the Lord will bring to my mind a person or situation as I intercede. That day I came out of my prayer time not knowing specifically who or what the Lord was prompting me to hold up in prayer. Soon after, I linked to Jenig's site and read the post about your family. The weeping began again and the intercession has been continual for you and your loved ones.
"When thou passest through the waters I will be with thee; and through rivers, they shall not overflow thee, when thou walkest through the fire thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee." ( Isaiah 43:2)
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by wardssward
I had been thinking of the blankie, too, and was so glad to hear that it was used by God as a sign that He is indeed there for you, loving you, and showing that all things are under His control. He cares even in the little things... those things that are so important to us while we are still here in our fleshly bodies. He knows just what we need!
It is so comforting to be able to look at these tragic moments through spiritual eyes. I remember when my mom was dying of cancer. I knew that the moment was coming when we would have to close the lid on her and I really didn't think that I could bear it. Well, when the moment came to go up and view her body, that's when it hit me... it wasn't really her! Like you, I could see that it was only the outer shell. My dear mother was safe, happy... and awaiting the day of the Great Reunion. Jesus gives us that hope and reassurance.
And, favorite verses...
While thinking of you and your family this morning, I turned to 2 Samuel 12:15-23 where King David was distraught over his dying son and crying out to God to save his child. When the child died, the servants were amazed at his changed countenance and asked him about it. He told them that he had hoped (and pleaded!) that God would spare his son, but it wasn't in God's plans. There wasn't anything for him to do now, but to look forward, toward the future... "I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me." What hope we have as Christians... to know that our loved ones are only away for a little while. It won't be long before we are all united again... for all eternity!
Love,
Connie
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Posted by Karin Katherine
I just knew that blanket was going to show up too.
I'm so proud to know you and your family through blogging and I hope to be able to offer you support, encouragement and my continued friendship in the years to come. Until then, my family continues to lift you up to the Lord and to celebrate Christian, and the legacy he leaves behind.
much love and prayer,
Karin
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Posted by Sandra
Marsha,
I am so heartbroken for you and your family.....words cannot express the deepest sympathy I extend to you. The verse that comes to my mind is..."Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." Hebrews 13:5......I am praying for peace and comfort for you and your entire family.
In Christ,
Sandra
www.myinspiredheart.blogspot.com
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by 40winkzzz
I am SO glad that Dozer's blankie was found! I was praying that it would be, and I'm sure many others who remembered that post were praying the same thing. What a precious treasure to have.
Marsha, my prayers and thoughts have been with you. I am heartbroken. I pray that your family will know God's love in a way that you never have before, that you will rest in Him and find comfort and hope. He holds you in the palm of His hand.
I loved your Dozer stories. Such a sweetheart. I loved the way he talked and the way you captured that when you wrote about him. My favorite Dozer story was the Daddy Eisenhower story. So I can just see him running around heaven grabbing people by the hand to come see something and saying, "Wook! Wight hee-oh! Ha ha ha! Wook at that!"
"My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." (Ps 73:26)
Bethany
Edited by 40winkzzz on Aug. 31, 2008 at 10:07 AM
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by theheartofthehome
Marsha, David, Tank, and Dash,
We continue to lift you all up in our prayers. As everyone else here is writing, I too, cannot stop crying. Yet through the tears I am rejoicing in the blankie being found by Coco and hearing of God's gracious love for you all in His rainbow and His peace surrounding you and giving you this vision of seeing others around you needing to hear the Word of Life.
Several verses have walked me through times in my life, some of them Dad had picked for his funeral service and they still minister to me now. My prayer is our Lord will speak to your hearts now and continue to hold you all in the palm of His hand. We love you guys.
Psalm 121
I lift up my eyes to the hills
where does my help come from?
2 My help comes from the LORD,
the Maker of heaven and earth.
3 He will not let your foot slip
he who watches over you will not slumber;
4 indeed, he who watches over Israel
will neither slumber nor sleep.
5 The LORD watches over you
the LORD is your shade at your right hand;
6 the sun will not harm you by day,
nor the moon by night.
7 The LORD will keep you from all harm
he will watch over your life;
8 the LORD will watch over your coming and going
both now and forevermore
Psalm 35
...Weeping may endure for a night,
But joy comes in the morning.
Isaiah 40:11
He will feed his flock like a shepherd.
He will carry the lambs in his arms,
holding them close to his heart.
He will gently lead the mother sheep with their young.
Marsha, you are special to me though we have never met face to face. I love you dear friend.
Janet
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by BritishColumbia
What perfect timing for finding the blankie! The Lord always amazes me in His ability to provide us with what we need!
Yesterday I wore the earrings your sister made and all day they reminded me of you guys. Wish I could be there to give out hugs and of course keep the coffee pot going.
Love and hugs
Kathleen
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
No words are big enough for a time such as this...
But our God is
Jeremiah 29:11.. for I know the plans I have for you... plans to prosper.. not to harm you..
Blessings and love
Connie
www.littleredheartfromgod.blogspot.com
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by cimsha
Marsha,
You and your precious family have been in my prayers and the prayers of my church family this past week. I know that no words will suffice. I know that people ask "why them?" Perhaps it is because God knows your hearts, your strength and the lives that will will be saved through this tragedy because it was your family. All of the scriptures that I thought of have been posted already. Just know that your online friends care so much and hurt with you.
May you see Light in the days ahead,
Shannon
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Aug. 31, 2008 - No Words Can Say
Posted by ichuzchrist
Marsha & David, I am so heartbroken over your loss. I wish there were words I could say to help you during this time, however, I can't think of any. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time. One passage from the Bible has helped me in the past.
Jeremiah 31:10-17 -
10 Hear the word of the LORD, O nations, And declare in the coastlands afar off, And say, "He who scattered Israel will gather him And keep him as a shepherd keeps his flock." 11 For the LORD has ransomed Jacob And redeemed him from the hand of him who was stronger than he. 12 "They will come and shout for joy on the height of Zion, And they will be radiant over the bounty of the LORD-- Over the grain and the new wine and the oil, And over the young of the flock and the herd; And their life will be like a watered garden, And they will never languish again. 13 "Then the virgin will rejoice in the dance, And the young men and the old, together, For I will turn their mourning into joy And will comfort them and give them joy for their sorrow. 14 "I will fill the soul of the priests with abundance, And My people will be satisfied with My goodness," declares the LORD. 15 Thus says the LORD, "A voice is heard in Ramah, Lamentation {and} bitter weeping. Rachel is weeping for her children; She refuses to be comforted for her children, Because they are no more." 16 Thus says the LORD, "Restrain your voice from weeping And your eyes from tears; For your work will be rewarded," declares the LORD, "And they will return from the land of the enemy. 17 "There is hope for your future," declares the LORD, "And {your} children will return to their own territory.
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by duckygirl
You have all been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be. Hopefully it's comforting for you to know that people all over the world are lifting up prayers on your behalf.
You are loved by many :)
-Laura
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Your sweet angel
Posted by Anonymous
Marsha and family,
We have never "met", I heard of your sorrow through another online friend. I am praying for you! My family is in deep sorrow over this tragedy. Your friend asked if people would leave a favorite verse, and here is one that was such a comfort for me when our first child was born. He spent the first month of his life at the University of Chicago hospital and we held our breath every day to see if he lived or died. Finally the answer came and the doctors were able to solve the mystery of his illness. Anyway, that verse was "He that dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty." I knew that no matter the outcome, God was "hiding" me. It's strange how much closer we can feel to God during times like this. Sometimes we can feel abandoned, too. But He never leaves, He gathers us into His wings and holds us. He is a good God, even in the face of tragedy. My heart and my prayers are with you.
Judy (Shoes572@comcast.net)
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by socalval
Marsha, You are so blessed to have received the gift of salvation from our Lord Jesus and to be able to taste the goodness of hope in eternal life. The Lord gave us His Holy Spirit as our comforter in time of need, and I know you have experienced that Holy power. I pray for peace and understanding in your heart as the days go on. As well as a drive to never stop sharing God's grace and mercy with others. Your story was hand written by God Himself, and I know He has great plans for you as His daughter. Dozer is with Him now and He is safely waiting for his family to join him one day... until then, share his story and bring glory to God through it. You are an amazing woman and although your body is broken now, I know you will gain strength again to move forward. I will pray...
Love,
Valerie (AKA: SoCalVal)
"Naked I came from my mother's womb, And naked I shall return there. The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away. Blessed be the name of the LORD." Job 1:21
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by jennfromtenn
You precious, precious woman. My heart is breaking for you and your family. Please know that many prayers are being offered up for you from Tennessee. Though we have never met, you have been such an encouragement to me. I pray that our Father will carry you through this tragedy and that your beautiful faith and the wonderful community of friends you have cultivated will continue to provide the strength you need to get through the coming days. Your precious son will not be forgotten.
Blessing and comfort to you,
Jennifer Martinez
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Our Prayers Are With You.
Posted by Teresa
We recently heard of your family's loss through a homeschool group member here in Tennessee. A friend of mine (Dee) wrote this poem several years ago for a friend of hers who lost her son. We both hope you receive some comfort and peace from it. Your entire family will continue to be in our prayers.
Heavens Gates
During this time of pain, please remember we won't always be apart.
We will be together again because Jesus lives in your heart.
Until I see you at heaven's gates, I will keep painting rainbows in the sky.
Maybe I will let the older angels teach me how to fly.
I will pass the time listening to Moses tell how he parted the Red Sea.
Sometimes they let me hear the story while sitting on his knees.
I will be getting hugs & kisses from family you have never known.
Don't worry, Heavenly grandmothers see to it we are never left alone.
I am in such an awesome place, filled with so much love. No words can express the beauty of heaven above.
So please do not think of me in a sad kind of way...never forget....it is not earth, but heaven, where little angels play.
Dee Jones
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Aug. 31, 2008 - 2 verses
Posted by ejoyce,ink
Dear Marsha and family,
these are 2 verses that were a great help to me this spring when a very dear loved one (the woman who raised me) went home to be with the Lord.
Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints. (Psalm 116:15) was a great comfort to me as she was dying, and a few days later, when we were driving into the cemetery for the burial, I noticed that very verse carved into a stone bench by a grave - a beautiful reminder from God.
The other verse was this "My grace is sufficient for thee, for My strength is made perfect in weakness" 2 Cor. 12:9. God really gave me this verse in the middle of the night before the viewing, as I wondered how in the world I would get through it all. There have been rough days for us all since my "Aunt Grace" went home to be with Christ (which, as we know is far better) but His GRACE is sufficient, day by day.
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by jarofclay
Dear Marsha, David and family,
Please know that my family is praying for you.
In Christ, our Hope
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Thank you...
Posted by Juliestew
I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate the updates and prayer requests that you are posting. It's hard when you know someone has gone through something so devastating yet you don't know how to pray.
I leave you with my FAVORITE verse:
Isaiah 30:15
In repentance and rest is your salvation;
In quietness and TRUST is your strength.
Of course the All Caps are mine.
You are continually in my prayers.
IN HIM,
julie
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Jaynee
Praying for you all day today. Your brothers and sisters in Christ in our little church here in Mexico are praying for you all too.
I know that at some times, you will feel stronger and probably numb, and at other times, your heart will hurt so badly that it will be hard for you to do anything. I pray that when those times come and you are just overcome in grief and you cry till you have no more tears, that you will know the Lord is right there carrying you through this uncomprehendable trial. That you will feel his arms upholding you.
Oh, when we have a trail so great that all we can do is fligh ourselves upon the Rock that never trembles...a Shelter in the time of storm. Those storms that drive us there and keep us there and bring us to know our Lord and Savior more than we ever have before.
Praying for you daily.
love,
Jaynee
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by trustingdaily
When I read this, I immediately thought of you. It was part of today's devotion in "Streams in the Desert"....
I do not ask that He must prove
His Word is true to me.
And that before I can believe
He first must let me see.
It is enough for me to know
"Tis true because He says 'tis so;
On His unchanging Word I'll stand
And trust till I can understand.
My thoughts are in Tomball tonight. We are truly so very close which makes it so hard because I'm a blogger who could actually DRIVE there to hug you!!
((Hugs))
Angela
www.trustingdaily.blogspot.com
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Aug. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by CoCo
Thank you so much Leanne for updating everyone.
The funeral was so beautiful and God really moved in the service. We miss Christian terribly but cling to the Hope that God gives us that we will see him again one day. God has been so good to us and he has definitely made his presence known to our family. Marsha has so many wonderful friends and that means so much to ME.
The one verse that we really hold on to right now is one that we used at the end of the slideshow tribute we did of Christian.
1 Thessalonians 4:15-18
15 For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive [and] remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep.
16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first:
17 Then we which are alive [and] remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.
18 Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
I LOVE YOU MARSHA!!!
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Sep. 1, 2008 - My heart to yours
Posted by Anonymous
I heard of your son through my local homeschool network here in Kentucky. My heart is aching for you and your family. Tears stream down my face as I feel the ache that is your heart, the heart of a mother, right now. I know this ache because our family had to bid farewell to our precious little girl, Olivia. She was only 2 1/2 yrs. old when she was suddenly, unexpectedly taken home to be with the Lord. God bless you all and may you feel his love above all. I know that He will carry you through this forever. I know that He loves you and is weeping with you right now. Like you, I told our pastor at our daughters funeral to preach the gospel. No matter what else was done or said I wanted God to be glorified and the message Jesus Christ to be shared. I also believe that God had been preparing our hearts for what was to come in the weeks before our daughters passing. God is good, all of the time. I sit here now with a smile on my face and a joy in my heart because I know that at this very moment my Olivia and your Christian are singing and dancing and laughing before the Lord. I am looking forward to the day that we can join them, in God's time of course. God is with you, I know.
Beverly
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by moreofhim
My dear, sweet Marsha:
I've been thinking of you and your family so much. You are in my prayers and I pray that God gives you comfort each and every day, every hour, every minute and every second. He is such a loving God that I know in my hear, he truly does give you and your family the comfort and peace you all need and will continue to do so.
The following scripture is the one that I held fast to (and continue to do so) during my struggle with cancer and then through my hubby's cancer and heart surgery.
And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance;
and perseverance, character; and character, hope.
Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us. -Romans 5:3-5
This scripture not only comforted me, knowing that the Lord was with me during those struggles, but that He was giving me the strength to get through them. I also knew He was building in me a character that would be glorifying to Him. It helped me so much to keep my eyes on Him instead of the situation around me.
I hope this scripture will also comfort you. I love you, dear friend, and you are in my prayers and thoughts!!!
((((HUGS))))) God bless you!!! Love, Julie
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Love to the Drews Family
Posted by JacqueDixonSoulRestES
Sending our love and prayers to all of your family, David and Marsha. Remembering you each day.
Praise God for all of the sweet comments, love, poems and Scripture verses. It may not be what we ever expect, but God is always faithful to provide.
All love to you~
Jacque for the Dixons
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Dearest Mashie!
Posted by deedeeuk
We continue to lift you family before the throne of Grace! And believe that that wonderful Grace will carry you through the days to come.
It seemed so 'silly' almost but I have been praying so hard that the blankie would be found and asked all those here in the UK to pray the same! We are all praising the Lord for answering this prayer!
We are leaving on vacation tomorrow but will continue to lift you all in prayer during the next couple of weeks and I'll be in touch when we get back! Lots of Love and Hugs - Deedee
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Praying for you....
Posted by Pam in Ohio
I just heard about your family's loss on the internet. I am so very sorry. You and all your family are in our prayers. We have a 3yos named Christian who is blonde as well. I just want you to know that I know your Christian is definitely singing with Jesus right now and having a wonderful time!! With Love, Pam in Ohio
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
I've been reading "The Hiding Place" again recently and something that is said in that book strikes me to the heart. The sisters are talking about a dream one of them had (maybe a vision) and she was very upset, not knowing what would happen. The other sister says that "if there are bad times ahead it is enough to know that HE knows about them, That this too is in HIS hands". What a challenge, conviction and comfort.
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Heaven
Posted by Anonymous
I too have lost family members (2) much earlier than I would have liked, but having a clear picture of where they are and what they are doing until I see them again is very comforting to me. Heaven is far more wonderful than any of us has ever imagined. Our God has prepared a place for us that has colors we've never seen and grand adventures that only our strong redeemed bodies can accomplish. I got much encouragement from reading Randy Alcorn's book "Heaven". I know you won't be able to concentrate long enough to read a grocery list for a while, but when God restores your focus, focus on Heaven. You will find peace there.
Jennifer
fellow homeschool mom
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Suzanne
Thinking of you and praying for you, Marshie.
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Sep. 1, 2008 - RE: Update
Posted by homeschoolingKatt
First I want to thank all of Marsha's dear friends for keeping us updated. The family has been on my mind so much. I have a chain of friends who I always share prayer request with and all are praying for The Drews Family.
Today our homeschool devotions lesson was on Matthew 11:25-30. The lesson was aimed at Labor Day but for some reason I keep thinking of Marsha and Family when I think of these verses.
28. Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden,and I will give you rest.
29. Take my yoke upon you and learn of me: for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
30. For my yoke is easy. and my burden is light.
I keep thinking for Marsha and Family these verses mean that right now they are going through such a tragedy and trial but God will comfort them. ( the blankie proves that)
By showing others how they believe and lean (trust) on God during their "labouring" ( trial) others ( unbelievers) will be brought to Christ. The memory of Christian will not be lost. He is being used as a vessel of God.
God's love is so strong and good. He will never leave the side of this family.
In my thoughts and prayers.
Vicki
Edited by homeschoolingKatt on Sep. 1, 2008 at 5:32 PM
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Jeremiah 29:11
Posted by Leslie
Don't worry, Coco. My family and I will do as much as humanly possible to support Marsha and David in the weeks and months to come. She and David are my forever friends. Even though I know in my heart that God's promises are true, it's still hard for me to get my head to believe them.
I have claimed Jeremiah 29:11 for Jacob's life verse. It helps me when I start to feel sorry for him in dealing with his illness. You see, I'm a worrier about the future even when God commands us not to be anxious. So, Jeremiah 29:11 comforts me in knowing that God has made plans for my children and He loves them even more than we do.
Jeremiah 29:11
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
His ways are not always ways we would have chosen, but they are the best ways, whether we understand them or not.
Leslie
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
Dear David and Marsha, When things like this happen, I immediately think of 2 Cor. 1, the first few verses. I hope they'll be a comfort to you as they have been to me. Praying for you all from Virginia ~ Karen
(bensrib.blogspot.com)
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Not1Worry
Dear Marsha,
I weep with you and your family. I love seeing the photos of your boys on the blog and Dozer had the greatest smile! I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you. May God's love and peace fill you to overflowing.
Becca from Forward Motion
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Sep. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by lcourtneymom
I read about your family and the loss of your sweet boy on the Homeschool Lounge and just wanted you to know I have been praying for you all.
(((HUGS)))
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Sep. 1, 2008 - My prayers are with you.
Posted by urbanbutterfly
I use WP too, and heard of your loss through our forums. You have been in my prayers continually. Specifically, as I read over your blog from the last few weeks, I have prayed that God would give you that blankie. I'm so glad to hear that it has been found. My heart aches with you, and I have shed tears at our Father's throne on your behalf. I know that He will walk with you, undergirding you and hold you in the shelter of his wing. My prayers will continue.
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Shannon
Marsha,
Please know that I will continue to lift you and your family up as you walk through this. I pray that you will be reminded daily that "nothing can separate you from the love of Christ".
Love in Him,
Shannon
http://www.shannon-songofmyheart.blogspot.com/
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Marsha,
Posted by SuperAngel
I am praying for you today on the one week anniversary! I know God is your strength and I pray that today you feel His arms more than ever! God will hold you up!
I am always thinking and praying for you dear friend!
HUGS! Love ya!
Amanda
http://superangelsblog.com
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by TNMOMTOMANYBLESSINGS
Dear Marsha-
We are still praying.
Love & Hugs,
Maria
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Jocelyndixon
Praying and thinking about you... just wanted to let you know.
((((((((((((((((HUGS & TEARS))))))))))))))))
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
Marsha and David- your family is in my prayers!
Marsha, I have to tell you that through your blog you have touched my life in such a special way. I love reading your blog because like you, I have little darling boys as well. I learned of the horrible news this weekend, and I felt so much pain for you. I have read on your blog update posted by a friend that you have a lot of comfort in the Lord. I have no doubt that He will get you through. I also know, though, that as a mother the pain has got to be very deep. I will keep you in my prayers. I wish there was more I could do for you, dear friend.
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Amy Beth
{{{{Marsha}}}}}} Still praying and thinking of you. Especially today. Just wanted you to know.
Love,
Amy Beth
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Scripture
Posted by Michelle
Jeremiah 29:11--For I know the plans that I have for you,' declares the LORD, 'plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.
May God continue to hold you in His hands, and may His name be glorified. Blessings and peace to you and your family.
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Praying for you
Posted by Sammy4meowz
Marsha,
When I heard about your terrible loss, I was overcome with grief. Although you and I have never even met, I consider you my friend because of our correspondences via email and blogging. I am praying for you and your family as you face the road ahead. I know that God is good and He will carry you through.. cling to Him!!
Love you and praying...
Samantha Higgins
Edited by Sammy4meowz on Sep. 2, 2008 at 9:54 AM
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Laura of Harvest Lane Cottage
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm so glad to know that you know your sweet one is with the Lord.
"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."
Lord, I ask you to give this family whom you love all comfort, all strength, and peace. Help them to cast down vain imaginations that may come to condemn them. Increase their love for each other, their love for You, and strengthen their marriage and family. Keep them in Your loving hands.
Amen.
God bless you!
Laura
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Thoughts and Prayers
Posted by Michelle - KY
Although you have never met me and do not know me, my thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathy go out to you and your entire family. Although it is sometimes difficult to accept, the tragic loss of your precious boy is heaven's gain. He is in the safest place he can possibly be - wrapped in the arms of our Lord. I cannot imagine what you are going through, but trust in God to bring you through. May God bless you and your family in your time of great sorrow. As one mother to another, may you feel comfort knowing that your little angel will always be smiling upon you and you will be reunited with him one day. God bless you all.
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Following God's lead
Posted by Crystal Thompson
Dear Friend,
I have come to your website accidently while I was searching for ways to organize my day at home with my children, so I thought. But you know as well as I do, God does not have accidents. He has lead me here to you, for an unknown reason to me. God says in Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord. They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
Marsha, I am not sure the words to say. I am sure you have heard all of the things there is to say. But as I read the updates about your blessing Christian, I felt the tears welling up. And when I got to the part about him dancing in heaven with his savior, I just held my head in my hands and sobbed for a few minutes. My own children were laughing and playing outside in the yard a few feet away from me, and my heart broke.
I am amazed by your strength, and you have blessed and encouraged me. I WILL PRAY OFTEN!
In His Love,
Crystal Thompson
www.totsites.com/tot/lctkids
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
I'm a missionary in Guatemala. I want you to know that our family has been praying for yours. You've been on my heart since I heard through a message board that Christian was missing. You will continue to be in our prayers.
Our thoughts and best wishes to your family.
The Annand family
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by kimalita
My prayers are with you and your family........
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Praying for you
Posted by Anonymous
Dearest sister in Christ, This is the first time I have read your blog, having found it from another blog who asked for prayers for you. I just want you to know that I will be praying for you and your family, that God will continue to comfort you in your sorrow. I pray that your friends and family who aren't saved will be touched by the faith and love you have for God and will place their trust in Him.
"Precious in the sight of God is the death of one of His saints." (Ps. 116). The whole psalm is beautiful, speaking of God's goodness and mercy to us, and asks, "What shall I render to God for His goodness to me?" (I don't have a Bible with me right now, but that's what I remember. ) During a time of loss in my life, the whole psalm ministered to me. I knew that because of all God's other blessings in my life, I could render praise to Him for His goodness and mercy. Your faith is an encouragement to many, I know, and it seems like you have wonderful friends who are there for you. My heart goes out to you dear Sister. May His peace and love continue to surround you during this time.
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Sep. 2, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
2 Corinthians 3:2-3
"You yourselves are our letter, written on our hearts, known and read by everyone. You show that you are a letter from Christ, the result of our ministry, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts."
Marsha, as I read these words of Paul to the Corinthinians, I thought of you and your beautiful testimony of faith. How you also are like a letter from Christ to the unbeliever. You're family is continually in my prayers and I will praying with you for those whose lives are still to be reached.
With Love in Christ,
M~
(http://faithhopeandlove-fhl.blogspot.com)
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Sep. 3, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by 40winkzzz
Still praying for you and your family. You are in my thoughts almost constantly. I pray that the Lord will continue to be your strength and your hope, and that you will feel his loving embrace. As you and David and your precious boys try to settle into a new "normal" and to adjust to life without your sweet Christian, I pray that you will have some extra-special moments this week loving and enjoying each other, and that there will be some laughter amidst your tears. I will keep lifting your family up before the Lord.
Bethany
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Sep. 3, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by callmekate
Marsha, I've been praying daily for you and your family, often through tears. May God continue to comfort and bless you, daily, hourly.
Kate
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Sep. 3, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by eyecorn
You are still in our thoughts and prayers. May the peace God provides encircle your hearts as you move forward.
We love you!
Michelle
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Sep. 3, 2008 - Thinking of you
Posted by Sammy4meowz
Marsha,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and praying for you and your family. Today, as I read Philippians with my kids, God put you on my heart. Paul was in chains when he wrote this letter to the people of Philipi to encourage them. He was in a terrrible circumstance, and he rejoiced! He actually says this in verses 12-14 of Chapter 1
"But I want you to know, brethren, that the things which happened to me have actually turned out for the furtherance of the gospel, so that it has become evident to the whole palace guard, and to all the rest, that my chains are in Christ; and most of the brethren in the Lord, having become confident by my chains, are much more bold to speak the word without fear. "
Marsha, I do pray that in your sorrow, you can find joy. That in the midst of the pain you can lift your voice and praise God. I don't know how that is possible, but God does tell us that with Him ALL things are possible! I pray that your solid foundation in Him will carry you through. I pray that "the things which are happening to you actually turn out for the furtherance of the gospel". May your sweet "Dozer" point the way to Jesus Christ!!!!
Praying for you,
Sam
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Sep. 3, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Kim Webb
Marsha and David,
May God do for you which you cannot. May he give you strength and words and faith to endure all that you must to make it through this day.
After reading your friends update I thought I would share a story which I hope may add some encouragement.
My grandfather was a preacher and as long as I can remember I have believed in Jesus Christ. I was saved when I was 12, but never had a personal relationship with him.
About 11 years ago a very dear friend of mine tragically lost a 4 month old child. Due to negligence, not on their part, he was left unattended and axfixiated. They are a really strong Christian family and my first response was "they are such good people and good christians, how could this possibly happen to them?". Then next was "I bet they are so angry with God that this will shake their faith."
But instead what I learned changed my life forever. When I asked my friend if she could ever get over the anger and unfairness she just looked at me like she felt sorry for me. Sorry that I didn't understand. I was angry for her. I thought it was so unfair and I couldn't understand why she wasn't feeling the same way. She told me that Noah had been a little angel and a gift to them and that he had touched so many peoples lives. She truly believed that he would touch many more.
In my brain it was the most tragic thing that could happen to a mother, especially with their first child. She almost seemed to have a peace about her. I couldn't understand. She assured me that God's love and peace were surrounding her and that she knew his purpose for Noah was something she had to trust in. It was through her and her husbands grace, faith and devotion that I began to seek out a personal relationship with Christ. I asked myself what it would take for me to have faith enough to take anything that might happen to me in this life and not fret, not despair, not give up. It meant trusting in God. NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENED. It also meant seeking out a deeper more meaningful relationship. I only learned this because my friend showed such devotion. I truly believe that the reason my husband, 4 children and myself have a strong and ever growing relationship with Christ is because of what happened to Noah. Through my friends experience with her dear child I got to see what faith REALLY was.
Today there is a orphanage in Kosovo that is dedicated to Noah" Noah's House". It ministers to the children as well as the surrounding community.
Although Noah was only on this earth for 4 short months he touched so many lives and is still is.
All of God's blessings on you and all your family,
Kim
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Sep. 3, 2008 - I'm so sorry
Posted by mtairymom
I know when you come online, you'll find yourself overwhelmed by the number of comments being left. I found your story through another blog located at homestead and decided to move my homeschool blog over here because of the kindness and concern left by so many homeschool blogger members. I just wanted to take the time to tell you I am so very sorry for your loss and I've been praying for your family for the last week. I know God has you all in His hands and He is taking care of you in the same way that He made preparations in your heart prior to the accident. If you need someone to talk to, I'm usually around. Love and Blessings to all of you,
Sharon
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Sep. 3, 2008 - May God have the glory
Posted by Wendy
Thank you for the update. They have been in my thoughts.
Psalm 17:7-9
7Shew thy marvellous lovingkindness, O thou that savest by thy right hand them which put their trust in thee from those that rise up against them.
8Keep me as the apple of the eye, hide me under the shadow of thy wings,
9From the wicked that oppress me, from my deadly enemies, who compass me about.
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Sep. 3, 2008 - Hold Me Jesus...
Posted by Amy Beth
Heard this song today... thought I'd share it.
Hold Me Jesus
by Big Daddy Weave
Well, sometimes my life just don't make sense at all
When the mountains look so big
And my faith just seems so small
So hold me Jesus, 'cause I'm shaking like a leaf
You have been King of my glory
Won't You be my Prince of Peace
And I wake up in the night and feel the dark
It's so hot inside my soul
I swear there must be blisters on my heart
So hold me Jesus, 'cause I'm shaking like a leaf
You have been King of my glory
Won't You be my Prince of Peace
Surrender don't come natural to me
I'd rather fight You for something I don't really want
Than to take what You give that I need
And I've beat my head against so many walls
Now I'm falling down, I'm falling on my knees
And this Salvation Army band is playing this hymn
And Your grace rings out so deep
It makes my resistance seem so thin
I'm singing hold me Jesus, 'cause I'm shaking like a leaf
You have been King of my glory
Won't You be my Prince of Peace
You have been King of my glory
Won't You be my Prince of Peace
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Sep. 3, 2008 - From Liberty www.oatmealkiss.blogspot.com
Posted by Anonymous
You have been in my heart and prayers for days. There are no words to express the sorrow that I feel for you and your family. I do know that God is faithful and He is with you every step of the way. He loves you and You are His! I am going to continue praying for you. May the love of the Lord and the warmth of His embrace continually surround you.
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Sep. 4, 2008 - Prayer of Comfort
Posted by Yolanda
Marsha,
May the God of comfort wrap His loving arms around you in this most difficult time.
He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds. Psalm 147:3
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. Psalm 34:18
May God's Holy Word keep you in perfect peace as you keep your mind stayed on Him (Jeremiah 29:11)
You and your family are in my prayers.
God Bless You,
yolanda
www.mochamomentsmom.blogspot.com
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Sep. 4, 2008 - Prayer of Comfort
Posted by Yolanda
Marsha,
May the God of comfort wrap His loving arms around you in this most difficult time.
He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds. Psalm 147:3
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. Psalm 34:18
May God's Holy Word keep you in perfect peace as you keep your mind stayed on Him (Jeremiah 29:11)
You and your family are in my prayers.
God Bless You,
yolanda
www.mochamomentsmom.blogspot.com
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Sep. 4, 2008 - God on the Mountain
Posted by Shane
There is a song that comforted me and given me strength in days past. I pray that it may do the same for you... "God on the Mountain" by Lynda Randall. http://www.clipmarks.com/clipmark/C180C49F-F0D0-4D6A-A591-30329F03CA3F/
My prayers are with your family.
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Sep. 4, 2008 - ((((Marsha)))),
Posted by Juldos
I haven't been on the computer much this past week and just learned about your precious little boy. Know of my prayers for you and for your entire family.
Much love,
Julie D.
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Sep. 5, 2008 - 2 Cornithians 1:3-7
Posted by helff
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows. If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer. And our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort.
Marsha,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear son. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am so grateful you found his blankie.
Angie
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Sep. 6, 2008 - Scripture, the soother.
Posted by Anonymous
I came by here from a friend's recommendation. I cannot express my heartfelt sympathies, and yearnings for you and your family. I am keeping you all in prayer.
John Piper found out recently he had a medical problem. While he was in the doctor's office, he was at first greatly scared by the prognosis. (Cancer) He knew that fear was the attack of the enemy, and instantly a verse came to mind.
1 Thessalonians 5:8 But let us who are of the day be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love, and as a helmet the hope of salvation. 9 For God did not appoint us to wrath, but to obtain salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ, 10 who died for us, that whether we wake or sleep, we should live together with Him.
When he considered verse 9 again and again, he ended up falling asleep because of the peace he had been given.
I don't know if it will help, but I had to offer it.
May God be glorified, and His children be tenderly comforted.
Love.
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Sep. 6, 2008 - My Heart and My Prayers are with You!
Posted by Michelle Bentham
Marsha,
Cindy (From Still His Girl) is a new friend of mine and I found out about your family's sad news through her blog.
I just wanted to say that though I can't say I know exactly how you feel, I know that God is faithful when He allows this kind of loss to come into your life.
I surrendered my son three years ago after he was in a car accident. God's grace, mercy and comfort have seen me through many a dark hour and I know He will continue to do the same for you.
I believe the rainbow is a sign from God as well. On the day of my son's accident as we were driving to the hospital, rain fell from a virtually cloudless sky as I was praying for God to be what He promises to us in Scripture. The sun shone brightly as the huge drops of waters splashed on the windshield.
I told my pastor (who drove me to the hospital) "God is just letting me know He is there." And He has been every day of this journey on both the good days and the bad.
This year Joy has returned to my life unabated and I am living proof that Isaiah 63 is true. Be blessed sweet sister and know God is using your loss to affect many lives for His kingdom.
I'm praying still.
www.hearttohearttransformation.blogspot.com
www.michellebentham.blogspot.com
michelle.bentham@gmail.com
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Sep. 10, 2008 - Christian
Posted by Anonymous
Marsha,
You don't know me, but I am a friend Courtney Noel. My heart has been so broken for you and your family. There hasn't been a day that goes by that I havent thought of you and prayed for you. I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your little Christian and know there are no words to say....
The tears are flowing as I write this and as I think of you. May God continue to hold you so closely and comfort you beyond any earthly comfort. You are an inspiration to me. My prayers and thoughts will always be with you.
Love in Christ,
Amanda
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Sep. 29, 2008 - Praying For Your Family
Posted by Anonymous
This is my first time visiting your blog.
I know there are times it must still hurt.
I am so glad you are continuing to blog.
I send my deepest regrets and biggest (((HUG)))
Although we haven't lost a child, I know somewhat the feelings a parent (esp. a Mom) has.
We came very close in losing 2 of our boys.
One before he was 1yr- he had to depend on oxygen support to live. I would lay in his bed, under the oxygen tent, just wanting to be close to him. The nurses had to tell me to get out, as I was taking the oxygen he needed.
He had a poor respiratory system & continues to fight Asthma.
The other DS when he was 3. He got staph infection in his foot from chicken pox. They had to watch him closely, as it could go to his heart. PTL, he did get better, but had to relearn to walk standing on pillows.
Blessings to You,
Michelle
http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/journeyhome/
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Oct. 10, 2008 - Deepest Condolences
Posted by Tom and Kumcha
Dearest Marsha; There are no words that can express our sorrow at the terrible sadness that has befallen your beautiful family. Please know you are always in our thoughts. May God hold you in the hollow of his hand and help you through this most awful of times. Love always, Tom and Kumcha
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