I recently had my fourth child - a bouncing baby boy we named Lincoln.  It was the most peaceful, wonderful labor and delivery (will write about later) and he has been a very good baby.  But the question on everyone's lips is "how has it been homeschooling with a baby?"

I have to be honest here and admit that some of our rigorous studies were scaled back when Lincoln was born.  Between the all night feedings, the added laundry and the physical recovery, I just couldn't keep going at the same rate we had been cruising at.  Eleanor is a few weeks behind her core studies - Harry had been ahead when Lincoln was born, so he is right on track now.  We skimmed a bit of our history lessons and science lately has consisted of reading lots of dinosaur books.  So, if you would call these things a negative result of Lincoln's birth, then we have had some set-backs. 

But, on the flip side, I have seen such beautiful things out of my children since we added another child to the fold!  I have seen my older children love and adore this baby beyond what I could have even imagined.  They look out for his well-being all day long and understand when his needs come before theirs.I would have never imagined that a 9, 6 and 3 year old would be able to put another before themselves.  There are many adults who can't even do this yet!  The love that flows out of the three older children has amazed me; there is not one ounce of jealousy or resentment among them. 

Eleanor, Harry and Isabel are learning how to help each other out when I am busy.  They are becomming more independent learners and are willing to try things on their own before asking me a question.  My children are also learning what it takes to keep a house clean and how much work it is to have a newborn baby.  And best of all, they don't complain.

I truly think that the qualities that are developing in them due to the birth of Lincoln are much more important than practicing long division again or learning about present participles.  While the academic lessons are important, I know we will get to them in due time.  But right now, we are simply enjoying our new baby - and each other. 

I have not only fallen in love with my new son, I have reaffirmed my love for the other children when I see them growing into caring, loving and kind people. 

When these kids are grown and on their own, I pray that they will be known by their character - and that others will see that they were much loved by their mother.  

Posted by Keri

I just stumbled across your blog about your 4th baby, Lincoln. I have two boys 8 yrs. and 2yrs. and we are expecting our third son...Lincoln, in August. I thought my husband and I were the only people who liked the name Lincoln! I have not had a positive response from our family on this name at all! Anyway, I too am nervous about homeschooling with an infant and a toddler!! Thanks for the encouragment! It's a blessing! Only By His Grace, Keri.