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Sep. 3, 2005

To School or Not to School

Posted in My Soapbox

Another one of the many nuggets of wisdom I gained at Katherine Dang's seminar in KS was that I am not a homeschooler.  I am a home educator.  Why is it that we pull our kids out of school, only to rush out and turn our homes into a school?  We purchase chalkboards, white boards, text books, workbooks and posters.  We draw up schedules so rigid, we may as well wire in a school bell to ring every 45 minutes.  While reading Shannon's blog, I realized what a strong desire we have to teach using the same methods of teaching used in school.  If a child doesn't understand or is not performing up to expectations, we give them more of the same.

But we are home educators.  We have the incredible freedom to let go of all these environmental trappings that evoke images of "school" in our minds and really teach our children's.  We have the unique opportunity to minister directly to their heart and soul rather than try to program correct responses in a cold and sterile environment.  Reading can be taught snuggling on the couch.  Science can be discovered laying on a blanket under the stars.  Math can be explored while baking a cake.  Now, I haven't exactly figured out how to report that schedule to the state, but my record keeping is not my primary focus in educating my children, either.

Shannon discovered crochet as a means to improving handwriting.  Here are some more great activities for early reading development and handwriting that are often overlooked.  Remember that this process is largely about fine motor skills, hand-eye coordination and shape recognition.

crocheting, knitting and sewing
puzzles
play dough, clay, kneading bread, cookie cutting
painting and coloring
cutting with scissors
gluing and pasting
collages and mosaics
finger rhymes
string games
using a hole puch
trying to hold those little squishy toys that are made to slip out of your fingers
legos, K'Nex, Tinkertoys
stringing beads
finger soccer (we had uniforms for our fingers and played with an old foozball)
braiding
Lite-Brite, pegboards, geoboards
eating with chopsticks
games like Jenga, pick-up sticks and even dominoes and cards
simple magic tricks

Oh yeah.  You could always print off another worksheet and have them copy until they burst into tears.  But it is my personal view that if a child is not ready for a skill, making them perform it poorly leads only to frustration.  You need to back up, assess what the root of the difficulty is and provide them opportunities to be successful until they are ready.

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Sep. 4, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by KarenW
I think non homeschoolers expect us to do "school at home" too. I don't know how many times I am asked "When are you starting school?". I'm not an unschooler but I do hold to the philosophy that we are always learning. This summer my kids have had fun learning about blogging. My son has been learning how to tweak his template and learning new spelling and vocabulary words. Much better than copying lists over and over again.
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Sep. 4, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by gottsegnet
That's great!
My daughter is getting interested in the idea of blogging because this is my afternoon break. I'm thinking about letting her get one just to encourage her to write more. We re definitely not unschoolers. We use the principle approach, but part of that is recognizing that the methodology is as important as the message when forming the mind.
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Sep. 6, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by nehemiahmommy
thank you for your encouragement...i too feel the same way as you....i love the term 'home educator'. we are on course...may we all be strengthened in the Lord to perservere as God wills.

God bless,
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