This was a forward I received today. Thought I would share it.......
The Stranger
A few years after I was born, my Dad met a stranger who was new to
our small Texas town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated with
this enchanting newcomer and soon invited him to live with our
family. The stranger was quickly accepted and was around from then
on.
As I grew up, I never questioned his place in my family. In my
young mind, he had a special niche. My parents were complementary
instructors: Mom taught me good from evil, and Dad taught me to
obey. But the stranger...he was our storyteller. He would keep us
spellbound for hours on end with adventures, mysteries and comedies.
If I wanted to know anything about politics, history or science, he
always knew the answers about the past, understood the present and
even seemed able to predict the future! He took my family to the
first major league ball game. He made me laugh, and he made me
cry. The stranger never stopped talking, but Dad didn't seem to mind.
Sometimes, Mom would get up quietly while the rest of us were
shushing each other to listen to what he had to say, and she would
go to the kitchen for peace and quiet. (I wonder now if she ever
prayed for the stranger to leave.)
Dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions, but the
stranger never felt obligated to honor them. Profanity, for
example, was not allowed in our home... Not from us, our friends or
any visitors. Our longtime visitor, however, got away with four-
letter words that burned my ears and made my dad squirm and my
mother blush. My Dad didn't permit the liberal use of alcohol.
But the stranger encouraged us to try it on a regular
Basis. He made cigarettes look cool, cigars manly and pipes
distinguished.
He talked freely (much too freely!) about sex. His comments were
sometimes blatant, sometimes suggestive, and generally
embarrassing.
I now know that my early concepts about relationships were
influenced strongly by the stranger. Time after time, he opposed
the values of my parents, yet he was seldom rebuked... And NEVER
asked to leave.
More than fifty years have passed since the stranger moved in with
our family. He has blended right in and is not nearly as
fascinating as he was at first. Still, if you could walk into my
parents' den today, you would still find him sitting over in his
corner, waiting for someone to listen to him talk and watch him
draw his pictures.
His name?.... .. .
We just call him 'TV.'
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