Here you’ll find lots of articles on getting that clutter under control.  Some of my favorites are:  10 steps to a happy clothes closet, 7 ways to get organized on a budget, Being organized is not a trait, Conquering kids clutter, Getting organized: 5 secrets to help you get started (read this one first).  Those are some of my favorites and I do use a lot of their suggestions.  You can do this!!!

http://www.mommytips.com/mt/Moms/Home/Organizing/

I like this site.  She has a great sense of humor and believes in baby steps.  And believe it or not keeping that sink shiny does make me smile.  You do get quite a few emails though.  Just look, at them as a nice little kick in the rear to get going. LOL

http://www.flylady.net/pages/begin_babysteps.asp

Now here is a site that will take you through the rooms of your home and give you suggestions on decluttering them.

http://www.essortment.com/in/Home.Organizing/

Now the only way any of these sites will help is if you actually do them.  Make the decision to change your home from chaos to organized and do it.  Do it deliberately.  After a while it will become habit.  And remember include the family this is a habit everyone will benefit from. 

Have a blessed and productive day!