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Communication Corner~Mother's Day is More Than Once a Year
Posted 1:35 AM, May. 15, 2008
This is a tribute to mothers from Proverbs 31:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_ZvNzG5v-w Something to Ponder: Mother's Day is More than Once a Year! Holidays always remind me that thankfulness should be a part of our lives all year 'round. How many opportunities do we miss during the year to say thank you to mom. And not just to mom but to everyone else in our lives. It isn't just on Mother's Day that we should remember to thank mom for all she does, but it does remind us that we need to do a better job of communicating our appreciation for her all throughout the year. Take this opportunity to share with your mom just how special she is, but take this opportunity also to remember to appreciate her and to share that appreciation with her during the rest of the year. Now make that pledge to yourself about the rest of your family, friends and neighbors. Take that extra second to smile at the woman on the street struggling with three little ones in tow. Take that extra minute and email your friend to let him know you are still praying for him. Take that extra time to call up Aunt Mildred in the nursing home and share a memory. Take that one hour car trip and visit your dear friend and help her with the new baby for a few hours. What may seem like a little extra effort to you in your already busy day, can mean all the world to them. Even if we cannot make that trip or spend 20 minutes on the phone, how much extra effort is it to smile? How much time does it take to give a complement? How much extra time does it cost to leave that door open a bit longer waiting for that woman with the cane? Sometimes so little effort communicates so much! ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ JoJo Tabares holds a degree in Speech Communication. Her articles appear in homeschool publications, such as Homeschool Enrichment Magazine and The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, which also endorses her Say What You Mean curricula including "Say What You Mean: Defending the Faith". You can also find JoJo on web sites such as Crosswalk.com and Dr.Laura.com. For more information on communication FUNdamentals and Christian-based communication skills for the whole family, please visit http://www.ArtofEloquence.com ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ Homeschooling is Life! ~ Faith not Fear
Posted 1:31 AM, May. 15, 2008
I had the wonderful opportunity to go hear our legislative liaison speak to a group of homeschoolers this week. Treon spoke on the situation in CA., and covered our homeschool statute and we had a great question and answer time. But the most important part of this meeting was that God was glorified. He was not just mentioned lightly, but He was invoked. He was lifted up, quoted and was the first and foremost reason that we were all at the meeting. We have chosen to do what we believe the Lord has told us to do; homeschool our children. And we have Him as our "superintendent." Treon read some things to us out of a book called (I think) "Lies Homeschool Moms and Dads Believe." I plan to look that up real quick here. It was hilarious! But oh, so true. We can get so caught up in those lies, and the what-ifs and the fear factor of homeschooling. But Fear is the absence of Faith. We can't run our lives by fearing, we can only live by Faith. We might not be able to see the future, but God knows. One of the wonderful things Treon said was "Our homeschools take on the personality of our families." Boy, isn't that the truth? We are unique. We are a one of a kind. We are different than any other family on this earth. Each one of us is unique, and all aspects of our homeschool are unique. So why do we try to fit into someone else's idea of what we should be doing? We have to answer to God, not the neighbor or relative or pastor or whoever, who might be questioning our motives and methods. We have to remember that God has a plan and a purpose for our children. We need to allow God to be God. We don't have to prove anything to anybody! We must let God direct our homeschooling. He promises to never leave us nor forsake us. If you are feeling forsaken and discouraged, then you must remember that those feelings are from the enemy. You must be open to the leading of the Holy Spirit in ALL things, and to some of us, homeschooling IS all things. Homeschooling parents, get behind those who fight for your rights at the state level. Join www.parentalrights.org and get behind those who are fighting for you at the national level. When things all around us seem to be against us, remember this:
Have a blessed week! p.s. Tomorrow is the day we are picking winners for Tammy Cardwell's eBook, "The Homeschool That Handles the Hard Times." Get over to our blogs and comment so you can get in on the contest! Languishing in Languages - Audial Learners
Posted 1:26 AM, May. 15, 2008
In this article, you'll learn how to use your audial students' strengths to assist them in absorbing a foreign language. Homeschooling Through High School ~ Boys Will Be Men
Posted 12:35 AM, May. 14, 2008
One of the strangest and most exciting events that I have experienced as a mother is watching my boys, one by one become men. Now, don’t get me wrong, this is of course, what I want….it is what their daddy wants, and of COURSE, it is definitely what they want. However, it is a strange feeling when manhood appears to creep up on them. Suddenly, you have two adult male voices, or maybe three or four adult male voices in the house and you can’t tell which one is your son and which one is your husband. Can be rather embarrassing at times if you aren’t careful!
I can remember my first son going through this “spurt towards manhood” as I like to refer to it. It seemed like it happened overnight. It seemed to me that one week I was chiding him for not speaking or singing loudly enough in his role as Charlie Brown in the musical “You’re A Good Man, Charlie Brown” and the next week we knew why he was not able to speak or sing as loudly as I thought necessary. I honestly thought he just wasn’t trying and truly didn’t believe him when he said his voice felt weak. It never even crossed my mind that his voice might be changing. MY little boy turning into a man already…it couldn’t be! However, only ONE week after completing the musical, his voice fell through the floor and the voice that came out of his mouth sounded like a bass trombone. I even thought there was an intruder in the house one morning after my husband had already left for work….only to find out it was my son’s voice that I was hearing downstairs. Along with all the physical changes, comes the observation that our “young men” are truly trying to become independent, trying to assert themselves, to begin to make their own decisions, to form their own opinions, and to make much of what we have tried to teach them, their OWN set of beliefs and convictions. This process is exciting, but it can also be a little nerve wracking as we realize that we can’t really “control” them like we had in the past. Yes, we are still the parents and yes, they should respect and obey us….but oh, my goodness, in some cases, they are towering over us as their mothers, and sometimes we can feel as if we have now become the children and THEY are the adults. (at least in a physical sense) It can be difficult as a mom knowing how to handle the ever expanding desire of our sons to “rule and conquer” the world. It’s a challenge to know how to balance that attribute with their responsibilities and the respectfulness needed within a family, especially toward their mothers. Some of the qualities that sons are exhibiting during this “spurt toward manhood” are God’s way of enabling them to develop into the type of man that can lead their families and be providers. Yet, as we know, there must be a balance between that and the parameters in which they must exist within our families. However, I have to admit that as I have observed over the years, I have seen moms of boys, more often than not, err on the side of thwarting their son’s sense of independence and need for assertion rather than moms learning how to properly deal with this need within their sons and even learning to nurture it within the parameters of family. As your son enters the beginnings of manhood, I would highly recommend a couple of books for you to read. One of those books is, “Becoming a Modern Day Knight” and the other is “Bringing Up Boys” by Dr. James Dobson. These books contain wisdom and practical applications that will help you as a mom understand this transition more easily and understand ways in which to help your son during this process. In the meantime, spend some time as a couple talking about areas in which you can allow your son some independence and even leadership within the parameters of your family. Help direct your son towards involvement in things that will allow him to develop and stretch his leadership skills. Find areas in which he can prove to himself that he is growing towards independence and self-reliance. However, most importantly direct him towards continuing to develop his own personal relationship and communication with his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Ultimately, his relationship with Christ will be the deciding factor in your son becoming the man that God intends for him to be. Faith and Courage, Lori Lane Lori is married to the love of her life John and together they have four sons ranging in age from 22 down to 10. She is the author of “Beginning With The End In Mind”, a frequent speaker on home education, family and the arts, as well as serving as the Executive Director of Master’s Academy of Fine Arts and Artios Academy for the Visual and Performing Arts. You can see some of the pictures of their home in the central Colorado Rockies by visiting Lori’s website at www.theendinmind.net where you will receive encouragement for the journey. Home Where They Belong ~ State of Education - Public Schools Today
Posted 12:30 AM, May. 14, 2008
Hi. I’m new to this blog but not to homeschooling. I started back in 1985. My oldest son graduated in 1998 and my youngest in 2003. Comments
Hi I like your blog! Everything I've read defently is based on a biblical point of view and I love reading your posts. Could you please add me as a friend?
for bringing this experience here before our eyes. There is a lot of fighting the HWTB team of homeschool moms on our opinions and experiences, because, well, they are just our own, and many do not deem that reputable enough.
...Jacque...for your sweet, kind words. Right back at 'cha, Sweetie!! ;-)
I appreciate the comments people have shared. Like Kim, I also get calls from parents pulling children out of school with only a month or even weeks to go in the year. I've also gotten calls from teachers and from quite a few social workers -- a couple wanting to know how teens in group homes or detention centers might homeschool themselves. A significant number of calls from teens, too. There are so many sad situations out there -- so many children and families suffering. Homeschooling offers these people hope, but it also creates a challenge for the homeschooling community. The more troubled young people who enter the ranks, the more criticism we'll face -- accusations of homeschoolers in trouble with the law or exhibiting social or moral dysfunction, as well as a dilution of the test scores so many hold so dear. It's a challenge we'll have to embrace. Unit Study Adventures ~ Making Science MATTER to Your Child
Posted 12:56 AM, May. 13, 2008
Physical Science can be intimidating to parents and students alike. Parents sometimes feel they have to have a strong background in science to even begin teaching it to their children. Don't let that happen to you! Science is fun and science is everywhere! Watching the weather together, watching a pot of water boil, even watching an ice cube melt. It's all science and we see and experience it everyday. You don't have to rush to the nearest college to brush up on your chemistry or spend hours pouring over books from the library trying to figure out the four different states of matter, the three different parts of an atom, or how to read the Periodic table! All you need is a cup of water to conduct a simple experiment about matter with your child. Have your child pour the water into the cup and explain that the water is in the liquid state of matter. next, have your child place the cup of water into the freezer and wait for it to freeze. When you have ice, take it out of the freezer and touch it...this is water in the solid state of matter. Leave the ice out and wait for it to melt. When it is back to the liquid form, place a couple drops out on the counter and leave it there to evaporate. When the drops have evaporated, the water has turned into a vapor or gas state of matter. The amazing thing about matter is that it can change from one state or phase to another simply by adding or taking away energy! Talk to your child about hwat made the water turn to ice and what made it melt again and eventually evaporate. Your first science experiment...fun, easy, and it didn't take a master's degree in science to teach! Katie Kubesh is co-owner and writer/researcher for In the Hands of a Child. Recognizing that hands-on projects are essential to the learning experience, In the Hands of a Child has created Project Packs that go beyond the hands-on aspect. They have taken the preparation time out of the parent/teacher job description with Complete Ready to Assemble Lapbook-style units that are available in Ebook, Printed Book, and CD formats. Please visit their website at www.handsofachild. ©2008 Katie Kubesh Taming the Chaos ~ UFO Eradication
Posted 12:43 AM, May. 13, 2008
Are UFOs out of control in your home? If your house is like mine, perhaps sometimes you glimpse an Unidentified Flying Object out of the corner of your eye–some new motorized helicopter, paper airplane, or other airborne objects.
Go forth and eradicate some Un-Finished Objects! Domestic Chaos Tamer and Homeschool Mom of Five, Dell writes about home, heart and hearth. Kitchen Moments ~ Short Cuts
Posted 12:35 AM, May. 13, 2008
Short cuts are nice, aren't they? We all like to know the short cuts on how to get places. And the short cuts on how to figure out Algebra problems. How about short cuts on losing weight? (If any one has learned of one that is healthy, please contact me!!!) I suppose there are "not-so-good" short cuts that we should all avoid (like a short cut that a builder might take when building a home). But today I want to give you some short cuts to use in the kitchen. These are easy to prepare, even easier to use and can be used over and over again. How's that for short cuts?
First off, pan or deep fried chicken. The best part about this recipe is that you can make a big batch of it, put it in a gallon Ziploc bag and keep it in the freezer. Don't worry about using it over and over again, as long as you use it only for chicken. You never want to take flour that has touched raw chicken and use it for something else. Fried Chicken Flour Mix
3 cups flour
1 cup cornmeal 2 Tbs kosher salt 1 Tbs onion powder 1 Tbs ground mustard 2 tsp black pepper 1 tsp paprika 1 tsp granulated garlic 1. Mix all the flour ingredients together. Heat the oil in a deep pot to 350„a 2. Coat all the chicken pieces in the flour mix and set on a sheet pan. After 10-15 minutes, coat the chicken in flour again. 3. Drop the chicken into the hot oil biggest pieces first and fry the chicken for 15-20 minutes until the internal temperature reaches 165„a. Let rest a few minutes and serve hot. Second, pan frying fish. This breading too, can be held in freezer. As it is with the chicken, do not use this breading for anything else other than fish. 3 cups flour
2 Tbs kosher salt 1 Tbs onion powder 1 Tbs ground mustard 2 tsp black pepper 2 tsp paprika 1 tsp granulated garlic dried parsley for color cayenne pepper to taste 1. Coat fish in breading and fry in shallow amount of oil. Fry on each side until golden brown.
Third, making your own condensed soup mix. This has one more step than opening a can and putting it in your recipe, but it doesn't have all those preservatives and you can put any flavor in it that you want. Cream of Anything Dry Mix
2 cups powder milk 3/4 cups cornstarch 1 Tbs onion powder 1 tsp black pepper 3/4 tsp mustard, dry, ground 1/3 tsp granulated garlic 1. Bring 1.5 cups of water to a boil. Stir in 1/2 cup of dry mix with a whisk. Boil mixture until thick.
2. Once your soup base is thick, add desired flavorings (chicken base, cheese, dry mushrooms, or just salt it to taste for a flavorful cream base). Fourth, pancake mix. You can make a big batch of this, put it in a container (we use an empty ice cream container) and store it in your pantry. Pancake Mix
6 cups flour 1 1/2 cups powder milk 2 tsp salt 1 cup sugar 1/4 cup powder To make 7 pancakes:
1. Measure out 1 1/4 cups dry mix and mix with 1 egg, 3/4 cups water, 1 to 2 Tablespoons of oil. Jennifer Dewing has experience in the restaurant business. She turned in her chef's hat and donned the many hats of a stay-at-home mother 7 years ago. She is now the mother to 5 children, 7 years and under. She home schools her eldest two children. Her husband is a professional chef and in their house, food is a big part of their family. Come visit her and her family at www.dewings.blogspot.com.
Urgent Prayer Request for Dixie Cajun and Family
Posted 1:27 PM, May. 12, 2008
My heart is broken for this family. Dixie Cajun's husband was killed in a terrible accident. Craft Corner ~ Tile Mosaic Table Top
Posted 1:33 AM, May. 12, 2008
The craft project I just finished is a tile mosaic table top. It was something I’d wanted to do for a long time and finally had the opportunity when this particular table was given to me by a cousin. The green color scheme on the table didn’t work with anything else we had so I decided to try my hand at doing the tile work. I browsed through the idea books that I could find at the library and got the basic tips I needed to make my ideas workable. Here is the list of equipment that you will need for this project. MATERIALS NEEDED Table or other flat surface First give the surface you will be covering a good cleaning and allow to dry completely. Take your marker and draw the design you want to make. Since this was my first project, I chose to go with only two colors and a bold/large design. For this design, I took a small salad plate upside down on the table and drew around it in four places. I then took the marker and drew wavy lines going from edge to edge to make it look like loops of ribbon.
The tile will need to be broken and that is why you must choose the thinner wall tiles versus the thicker floor tiles. I was surprised by the lack of color choices available at my local Lowe’s and Home Depot stores, just the white, black and cream/natural colors were carried. I already had the blue tiles as we removed them from the counter backsplash in the kitchen during a recent remodel project in there. The amount of tiles you will need will be determined by the size of the surface you plan to cover. Since most tiles measure
Start with the main design by merely laying the tiles on the table until you like the way they fit together. Leave small gaps between the tiles for the grout, then adhere these pieces first using the mastic and some sort of spatula; I used a large popsicle/craft stick. After you get the main part done, start with the remaining ones. I started with the tiles in the middle of the circles the worked around them like I was outlining them. After you are happy with so many, adhere them with mastic and keep working with the rest. After doing the outline then I started around the edge of the table. Once all the tile was used that had been broken with the hammer you’ll need to use the tile nippers to get the pieces in just the right size and shape to fill in all the little gaps.
Let all this dry for about 24 hours or whatever it says on the mastic container. Look over the tile and make sure no mastic is sticking up over the tiles and not mastic is smeared on the tops of any. It’s easy to clean up and easier when it is totally dry. Mix up the grout according to the manufactures directions, the kit should come with everything you need except for the rubber trowel. I actually forgot to buy that trowel and used the fake credit cards that come in the junk mail and they worked wonderfully and just tossed when finished. Do this in a well ventilated place, and wear the gloves that come in the kit. Also, since the tile is now in smaller pieces, plan on using about 3 times the amount of grout the container says you will need for a wall the same size. After you’ve applied the grout, let set for 20 to 30 minutes then using the kit’s sponge, and a bucket of water mixed with a splash of vinegar, use some elbow grease and get the grout off the top of the tiles before it dries hard as cement.
That’s it, you now have a finished mosaic tile table top that you did yourself! My name is Dianna and we’ve been homeschooling for 4 years and we have 3 wonderful children. You can check out my blog at www.homeschoolblogger.com/maxwellacademy. Leave me a message and let me know what you think of this craft project. I promise to post some that are not as labor intensive, but I’m actually pretty proud of this project and wanted to share it with you. Featured Blogger ~ CrazyBusy
Posted 2:17 PM, May. 9, 2008
Don't you just love meeting new and different bloggers every week? I do! There are so many talented writers, photographers, homeschoolers, and moms out there. I wish I could meet all of you in person! Wouldn't that be fun?
Once again I want to introduce you to another gifted blogger. I hope that doesn't discourage you! It doesn't me, it just excites me to see someone who enjoys blogging. CrazyBusy may have her days and hands full but she keeps her blog full of new posts as well. She doesn't blog every day, she's too busy for that, but her posts are steady and full of wonderful pictures. Pictures that are creative, vintage, and stunning. An excellent example all in one post on a cowboy birthday. After looking at all of those great photos, I wondered how on earth she does that. Either she gets asked that a lot or she just likes being helpful because she has a category of Photography Tips & Tricks! Knowing that a picture is worth a thousand words, CrazyBusy gets right to the point in telling her readers Why We Homeschool. Those pictures really do say it all! Why don't all of you go leave a comment while I go find a camera. Don't wait for me because it may take me awhile to figure out how to turn it on and then I'll need to practice my "sneak up on my children who are being cute" walk. The moment will be ruined if I just lumber into the room. Tia Linschied Senior Editor of HSB Languishing in Languages? - Learning Styles: Visual
Posted 2:13 PM, May. 9, 2008
This is the first article for learning and teaching a foreign language while paying attention to learning styles. We all know that children learn differently from one another, and differently from the way we learn very often. (Which is frustrating, isn’t it?) So paying attention to learning styles will help you to overcome fear and barriers while tackling the daunting task of teaching a foreign language. This week will be for all those visual learners. Notebooking On The Porch ~ Let's Go Shopping
Posted 2:11 PM, May. 9, 2008
You will need a few supplies for notebooking. I have created a list for you to use as a guide. **Remember: you can be as creative as you like.** I will put the shopping list as a PDF you can download so that you can bring it with you while you shop. Just click below. Notebooks or Binders—We have used both. The clear cover binder will allow you to make your own personalized cover pages. Checkout places like Sam’s Club or Costco for some of your list items. Sometimes (NOT always) they will have the best bulk price. Plastic Sheet Protectors—These are splendid for binder!! It protects the childrens hard work from tears or smudges. I buy these in bulk for I use them for my home keeping book and numerous other projects I have going. Paper—for binders. You can choose any type you like. The variety is ENDLESS. Colored paper, construction paper, card stock, printer paper. Scissors—ALL kinds! The fancy edge scissors make a nice presentation for pictures. Pens and pencils—ALL types!! Highlighters, color pencils, markers, gel pens, glitter pens. The assortment is INFINTE. Camera—Any style. This is NOT a must. If you do have one let me encourage you to use it. A digital is great for you can insert your pictures right into your word document for easy printing and creating. Glue and Tape Stickers—Stickers can add a little “panache” to your creation. Rubbers Stamps—These are great fun to use. **TIP: I like to purchase the hard back book journals and sketch books at Border’s Book Store for special projects. They cost around $5-7. They make an impressive presentation. **TIP2: Take a look in the scrapbooking section of the craft store. There are TONS of items to help you create “outside the box” notebooks!! Happy Homeschooling, Lisa Golda lives in Homeschooling Only One ~ Of Book Fairs and Conventions
Posted 2:09 PM, May. 9, 2008
It’s that time again! Book Fair Season is upon us! As you read this, I will be at the Arlington, Texas Homeschool Book Fair. I posted the following in May of 2006, but still some great points about attending a book fair or convention. Enjoy! Book fairs and conventions continue to be in a state of flux. Due to a lot more local stores carrying materials and to so many distributors online, sometimes one can wonder if a book fair or convention has a purpose anymore. Or if one should even attend one nearby. I don’t think they will ever become extinct. I certainly hope not! They most definitely serve a purpose! For anyone who needs a “shot in the arm,” conventions are just the ticket. Walk into a space that holds another 1,000 people (or more… or even less—just 500+/- for those smaller venues) and you can feel the energy. It does not matter how long you’ve homeschooled; having that many “like-minded” individuals around you does give a boost. You suddenly feel you are no longer “all alone” at home plodding thru those math lessons along with your student. Then you have the other benefit—being able to touch, handle, and read materials that aren’t available to you thru your local store, and which are only 2-dimensional photographs on a website. Being able to handle and investigate the materials for yourself can really help you make a decision if it’s the right material for your home. Being able to sit and listen to authors and program creators can help you, esp. when they linger after their session so you can ask specific questions about your own situation. At the same vendor table, you can find either another customer or the vendor themselves who is dealing with the same problems as you are. You find friends you never knew before (and whom you meet year after year only at the book fair). There is an innate camaraderie found in both the workshop rooms and the exhibit hall. In passing you can hear someone wondering if this material will work for them—and you have the opportunity to say, “I have used that before and I love it!” as you pass. (Or tell them that you have tried to use it and it didn’t work for you.) It’s going that second mile and realizing you are not in this homeschooling journey alone. I promote attendees to buy as much as possible what they need from vendors at the conventions & book fairs. There are a lot of “little guys” out there (like me) who have to pay not only to have a booth, but to even speak in a vendor workshop—so that perspective buyers can find out more information on their products and ask questions. Yes, you might find cheaper prices elsewhere, but by supporting vendors at the book fairs, you are helping them help you, as well as the new homeschoolers who are following in your footsteps. They are there to help you. Most of them give convention specials to help you. Either way, they are there to be supportive of you, and many of them see this as a ministry. By buying your materials from them, you encourage them to continue to be a tangible help to those who need it. By supporting them with your hard-earned dollars, you support the homeschooling community. I do understand tight belts and having to make hard decisions on what you can buy! There are times when I know that buying from a discount house or online can be the only way you can even think about homeschooling. If this is where you are, I understand—I’ve been there! If you can, put aside something, anything, and spend it at your next book fair. Be sure to support the vendor who spends time with you, answering questions and directing you to material that you come to rely on. Every transaction helps and you’re sowing seed into the lives of other homeschoolers. It’s a good thing! One other thought for those who are homeschooling only one student: Consider contacting the organizers of the book fair/convention in your area. If they provide “Fellowships” for those in special circumstances (minorities, families with twins or triplets, etc.), ask them if they would provide a fellowship for those who homeschool only one student. There really are a lot of us out there and even if you’re asked to head it, it can be so very edifying for everyone who attends. If you’re no speaker, introduce yourself and open the floor to find out where people live, their situation, their questions and current problems. You don’t have to have “all the answers,” but by allowing those attending to speak up and give their own perspectives on those questions and problems, everyone will benefit from the discussion. It’s not just a case of having an “only” child, but there are plenty of us out there, too. I have also found that grandparents homeschooling a grandchild continues to be a growing phenomenon. They need to be able to find each other and providing a fellowship will help them, as well as the single parent and the homeschooling parents who are now faced with only one student and find that it is different and they are challenged to even continue on this road. You can also request me as a workshop speaker. Send them to my website http://donnac.com. I’m not quite a “keynote” speaker yet (in my own mind), but if I can come, I will. The season of Book Fairs and Conventions is here! Be sure to see if you can go to one either near or far. You won’t be disappointed!
Donna Conner lives in Fort Worth, TX with her husband, Glenn, their son, Mike, and their dog, Lucia. Donna and Glenn have been homeschooling their son since the beginning of his education. Mike completes his homeschooling this year. Donna is an artist and has always enjoyed writing. She wrote Homeschooling Only One five years ago, after discovering that there were many other families homeschooling only one child. Her website is devoted to those with only one student in their homeschool, with listings of online resources. You can visit her website at http://donnac.com and read her blog at: http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/DonnaC copyright © 2008 Donna Conner ~~ All rights reserved. Content may not be reproduced in any form without written permission of author, except in the case of brief passages embodied in critical reviews and articles where the title and author are listed. Communication Corner ~What'd You Say?
Posted 10:31 AM, May. 8, 2008
Some say that communication is only important for lawyers and politicians, speech makers and debaters. But down deep everyone realizes that effective communication is important for everyone every day! If you have followed Tuesday Tips, you already know that you may be able to live your entire life without making a speech, but you will not live one day without having to communicate something to someone.
Today I wish to dispel another communication myth. Most equate communication skills with speaking or writing. While the first rule of communication states that it is the speaker's job to be understood and not the listener's job to understand, there is another significant part to effective communication. Listening! Listening is also a communication skill-and a significant one at that. It's one that most speech and debate studies never address. Good speaking and writing skills are essential to the communication process, but they are not all communication is. Good listening skills are vital. Why? Because it takes two in order to communicate. Even if the speaker does an outstanding job of communicating, the listener can misinterpret the communication by not paying close attention. If the reader is just skimming a note, he may miss some vital information. If the listener gets lost in thought for a few seconds during a conversation, she may never hear an important detail. Did you ever read about a department store sale and miss the fact that it was "One Day Only"? Did you ever read a friend's email and not notice that he wanted the RSVP before week's end? Did you ever space out in a conversation and find that when you "came to" you had totally missed the point? Active listening involves attention to detail, giving the speaker or writer your undivided attention and sometimes asking questions for clarification. ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
JoJo Tabares holds a degree in Speech Communication. Her articles appear in homeschool publications, such as Homeschool Enrichment Magazine and The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, which also endorses her Say What You Mean curricula including "Say What You Mean: Defending the Faith". You can also find JoJo on web sites such as Crosswalk.com and Dr.Laura.com. For more information on communication FUNdamentals and Christian-based communication skills for the whole family, please visit http://www.ArtofEloquence.com
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