While my early morning hours consisted of dozing off, only to find a cat around (and ON) my head every 20 minutes, it did allow me to finally get annoyed enough at 5:45 this morning to get up out of my warm, cozy bed and take the offending cat into the bathroom and shut her in. (Her brother was already in there, as they stay in our master bathroom during the night, but Charlotte must have snuck out when one of us went in there.)
Then to the kitchen to get a jump-start on my day. I got the Roman Lentil Stew (Nourishing Traditions, pg. 215) started, which we will be having for supper, and into the crockpot. I also drained and started cooking the garbanzo beans I had soaking, as I will be cooking them for a meal later this week. I also made a quick batch of muffins -- I created the recipe yesterday before church using up left-over yogurt and it tasted so yummy, I decided to make it again for today's breakfast (along with oatmeal).
Yogurt-Coconut Muffins
1/3 c. oil or melted butter
1 egg
1 t. vanilla
1/4 t. sea salt
1/2 c. raw sugar
1 c. plain yogurt
1/4 c. coconut (I used organic raw coconut)
Mix the above well and then mix in until moistened:
1 3/4 c. flour (I used mostly wheat with a little unbleached white)
1 t. baking powder
1/2 t baking soda
Put in 12 buttered muffin tins and bake for 18-20 minutes in a 400 degree F. oven.
Then kids to get up, lunch to get ready for DH's lunch box, and a quick vacuuming of the house (it was a mess last night, so for 45 minutes before I went to bed, I worked on cleaning up the family room, kitchen, and bathroom). It's nice to start the week with a house that doesn't look like it's been in the middle of a whirlwind.
School was a little harder to get started. The kids do presentations every week for Classical Conversations, and DD dawdled last Friday afternoon when she was supposed to be putting it together. She completed her notes (although not always joyously) this morning and finished her editing worksheet before sitting down to a lunch of left-over chicken stew over freshly made biscuits.

Our Favorite Biscuits (I make this in my "new" Cuisinart food processor that I got at a thrift store for $6. It was my super-find of last month.)
2 c. flour (I do 1/2 wheat/ 1/2 white)
1 T. baking powder
1/2 t. cream of tarter
2 t. raw sugar
1/4 t. salt
Mix together and then add 1/2 cup butter until coarse crumbs. Add in 2/3 cup milk. Roll out to 1/2" thickness. I cut them out using different kinds of cookie cutters (stars, hearts, etc., which was very fun and very pretty). Cook in a 450 degree oven for 10 minutes.
Here is this week's menus:
| Bfast | Snack | Lunch | PM Snack | Supper | Prep 4 Tomorrow | |
| M | Oatmeal | Fruit | Left-overs | Veggies & Dip | Salad & Roman Lentil Soup | Cook Garbanzo Beans |
| T | Muffins | Fruit | Pizza @ CC |
Chia Spice Kashi Cereal |
Salad, w/ veg, HB eggs, etc |
Defrost Turkey breast for curry & soup; soak rice; start bread |
| W | Omelets | Fruit | PB&J Sandwiches | Veggies & Dip | Salad and Indian Curry & Rice | |
| Th | Muesli | Fruit | Grilled Cheese | Crackers & Cheese | Salad, w/ veg, HB eggs, etc | Prep Soup |
| F | Toast | Fruit | Veggie & Rice Soup | Kashi Sunshine Cereal |
1st Day of Hanukkah: Potato Pancakes w/ applesauce; Challah; Cheery Cheese Blintzes |
Cook Pumpkins |
| S |
Blueberry Pancakes |
Fruit | Leftovers | Crackers & Cheese |
Murder Mystery Dinner: "Accomplice Appetizers," "Sleuth Salad," "Put a Steak a) on my plate,or b) in my heart," Garlic Mashed Potatoes, Death By Chocolate (brownies, hot fudge, ice cream) |
Make "Applesauce with Pumpkin" muffins |
I'm very excited for the end of our week, as we will be having two nights of opening our home up to friends. We are studying Hanukkah this year and invited over our good family friends (who is also our pastor's family) to have the first night with us. For our gifts to the kids, we are doing this in leu of Christmas morning for 2009. I'll post more on this later, with pics I hope to take of our celebration, and will explain why we are doing it this way for this holiday season.
Then on Saturday, we are hosting a Murder Mystery Dinner with the other two couples in our small group. We just finished doing "Financial Peace University" in November, so this is a fun way to celebrate the completion of that as a group. We've been trying to get together to do this for the last few weeks, so after a couple of times rescheduling, it looks like Sat. will be the night! It's called "The Murder Mystery Party Kit" -- it is all there in a tiny little box, but it is packed with fun.
We ran errands and went to the chiropractor this afternoon. When we got home, I cooked 4 pounds of ground beef I'd purchased and later put it in the freezer to use later this month and to have handy for something quick, if needed.
The kids enjoy listening to Cinnamon Bear every year, so we listened to a few episodes before dinner to catch up (you listen to 1/day, starting at Thanksgiving, going until Christmas). After dinner, we watched "Night at the Museum" which the kids LOVED and when we tucked them in, they pleadingly asked if we could get the sequel from Netflix, too. (Hummm.... a pretty good carrot to get them motivated in a few areas.)
We ended our day with reading about Samson from the Bedtime Bible Storybook. This is a favorite book of mine, and I thought it was out of print, until I saw a young girl with it at our church. I had purchased it 15 years ago at a Dollar Store when I was a First Aide-r at a Christian Camp, back during my summers of college when I was in nursing school. I had bought it to have something to read to sick and hurt campers, and the first summer, I read all the way through it. By seeing the bible laid out chronologically (I had never read all the way through the bible), it brought it alive to me and I came away with a rich sense of God's story and was hungry for more. It warms my heart to read this to my kids and have them learn as we read and have good discussions.
Tomorrow is our final day of Classical Conversations until January. I was able to plan for my class and load the car this afternoon, so we are set to hop in the car early and make the almost hour ride to the city tomorrow. We made cinnamon rolls this evening for DD's presentation, as she is presenting on St. Lucia. Part of the tradition is that the oldest or youngest daughter in each family gives her family rolls or other pastries dressed as St. Lucia, so DD is going to give all of her classmates and her tutor some as part of her presentation.
The house smells so good, I think we are all going to have great dreams.
Getting to enjoy a cinnamon roll for breakfast tomorrow morning will wrap up a great 24 hours that began our week. Now if only the nocturnal cat will just leave me alone tonight and let me sleep without her rubbing against my head...
DH wrote our letter this year, and I thought I would share it with you all....
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Greetings to all from North Carolina! This year, we wanted to send our annual letter at Thanksgiving in part to get it done before the holiday season gets into full swing, but also to help our family remember that gratitude should be at the core of our celebration of all of the other holidays – at the Incarnation, gratitude that Jesus came to earth; at Passover, gratitude for what He did for us on the cross.
Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday, maybe because I'm partial to sweet potatoes and stuffing, but I think also because it's the simplest one for me to understand and celebrate. Have you ever heard anyone lament that "Thanksgiving has become too commercial‟ or say that "We're really going to try to focus on the true meaning of Thanksgiving his year‟? Or been confused about the symbolism and historical aspects of Santa Clause & gifts, ghosts & goblins, or colored eggs & bunnies at Thanksgiving?
Of course not, because Thanksgiving is a master stroke of simplicity and pageantry – family and friends gathering together just to enjoy each other's company and be thankful.
This year, may a spirit of gratitude permeate our entire holiday season and our very lives, not according to what we possess, but according to the Love we‟ve been shown.
In His Grace,
The Melchers
The map from our 3,700 mile (!) round-trip to the Midwest in Sept/Oct. Our kids are the best travelers EVER!
We are grateful for …
…family, friends (& a future uncle)…
During our trip, we stopped to see old friends in Atlanta, Memphis, & St. Louis. We spent several days with DH's folks in Ark., seeing their new house and having special "girl lunches" and "helping-Grandpa-time."
On our way to Nebraska, we spent the night in Kansas with DH's cousin. They also homeschool, so we had a good time talking about our educational adventures, and the cousins had a great time playing together. Then a stop in Lincoln to enjoy some great food at "Bread & Cup," owned by DH's friends and to walk around the UNL campus, where we saw the Huskers practicing. We spent an afternoon with my folks and older brother, touring the Durham Museum in Omaha. Another highlight was getting to spend time with "Uncle" Brant, who will be marrying my sister this coming May. We can't wait for him to officially join the family and continue to keep us in stitches.

…and the addition of an aunt!
DH's brother, Pete, was married on Saturday, October 3rd, to Jessie, who has been deemed a fabulous aunt by our kids This wedding was DD's "favorite," perhaps because she had the honor of lighting the candles and the children were blessed with special gifts by the bride & groom at the reception. It was an intimate evening at a beautiful, quaint winery in a small town in NE, with close family and friends. We were grateful to spend time with everyone, especially DH's grandmother. Grandpa Ralph passed away this spring and will be missed, but we spent the evening listening to stories, remembering, and enjoying Grandma Ruby share her love for her husband of 62 years. Welcome to the family, Jessie, and we look forward to creating many more family memories with you.

Ahhh... I love getting great things at amazing deals. I just finished my shopping for Christmas, and to also replenish our "gift stash/gift closet," at one of my favorite online sites: Library and Educational Services.
We like to give books, radio dramas, games, etc to our kids and other people for gifts, as we believe in the quote:
"You will be the same person in five years as you are today except for the people you meet and the books you read."
(And some would add, "and the films you watch, the places you travel, and the new things you do.")
From Top Left, going clockwise: DH & DD at Roanoke Island Living History; Kids studying; At Charleston Battery; walking through a garden; selling lemonade with friends; being Civil War Soldiers; at Wright Brothers Historical Site; our road trip to the Midwest and back this fall; with cousins at Roanoke Island.
While I can't disclose here the items I purchased (in case relatives stop by), I can say when I checked the shopping cart over with husband, he was pretty happy and liked the items I had chosen. AND the fact that while the 26 items totaled $435 retail, I was getting them for only $148.
I think alot of homeschooling homemakers will agree with me. It's not being cheap -- it's being wise, being frugal, and stretching your dollars.
(And don't forget that being frugal doesn't tend to stress your budget and thus your family.)
Don't be afraid to be wise and frugal. And really don't be afraid to keep things simple this holiday season. I'll post more what we are doing for our kids this year, but for family, we are only getting one couple gift for grand- and great-grandparents. Hubby & I aren't exchanging gifts. For my niece & nephews, we will get them one great gift that they can all enjoy. For our parents, along with the couple gift, we are giving them the gift of time, by taking them each out for a day, since we don't see them often due to living far away. (For DH's parents, when they visit us this Christmas; for my parents, when we go back home this spring.)
And that will probably mean more to them than anything we could buy for them.
Would you like to get a free book?
Who doesn't love free?!?
I'm looking for some book reviewers.
I have compiled five books. These books are simply compiled Scriptures on specific Biblical topics.
The books are:
The Word of God on Being a Woman, a Wife, and a Mother,
The Word of God on Healing,
The Word of God on Prosperity,
The Word of God on the Parables of Jesus Christ,
and
The Word of God on the Words of Your Mouth.
These are e-books, so you would receive them in your email.
You will be given the book free of charge in exchange for a written review posted somewhere online. This could include your blogs, facebook, twitter, etc.
Thanks!
~Candy~
...and stand back and watch!
Or in this case, stand back and watch until the child-architect-builder comes to you in frustration wanting help -- but only when you do it according to her specifications!
The end result was a great little house, created by Darling Daughter, of her own design, and with 2 rolls of dut tape to hold it all together. They spent about 2 weeks or so enjoying it -- until the rain came and put a damper on things.

Do you have a child that has difficulty with counting and doing simple math?
Hand him a jar of pennies. Tell him he can keep as many as he can count.
Change the problem to a money problem. Kids love money! Instead of: What's 2+3, say what if you have $2.00 and I give you 3 more?
Let me know how it works out for you!
I have nothing against numbers, and I have nothing in favor of letters--as grades, but the problem the Spokane schools are hoping to solve won't be cured because of their preference for numbers over letters. They could do the exact same report card using the letter system. Nor will telling parents how their children are doing after the term help. Parents need to know how their children are doing during the term. Unfortunately many teachers never communicate that at all and leave it to the report card to do their "dirty" work for them.
Just a few weeks ago I spoke with a mom whose son had been placed in a new school. She thought her son was doing well. She had signed up to be a substitute teacher's aide and one day she was called in to help in the remedial math class. She was shocked to find her son in it. At first she thought he'd lost his way or something, but he soon let her know that this was his math class. It was a rough day for her as she waited for the day to end to find out the answers as to why her son was in this special class and why hadn't she or her husband ever been told?
While the parent should always be the one to keep tabs on their children and not leave it up to the teachers to relay how a student is doing, parents have been conditioned to believe that they have put their children in safe hands and that until they are notified, by report card, everything is fine and dandy.
Communication among parents and teachers is bound to get worse, not better, no matter what grading system is used as long as parents continue to blindly follow the blind.
Tia Linschied
Senior Editor of HSB
Mary Had a Little Lamb
Unknown Author
Mary had a little lamb,
His fleece was white as snow.
And everywhere that Mary went,
The Lamb was sure to go.
He followed her to school each day,
T'wasn't even in the rule.
It made the children laugh and play,
To have a Lamb at school.
And then the rules all changed one day,
illegal it became;
To bring the Lamb of God to school,
Or even speak His Name.
Every day got worse and worse,
And days turned into years.
Instead of hearing children laugh,
We heard gun shots and tears.
What must we do to stop the crime,
That's in our schools today?
Let's let the Lamb come back to school,
And teach our kids to pray!

