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Aug. 25, 2009

College Success Begins at Home: Seasoned Homeschoolers Share Their Experiences

College success does begin at home, whether your children are homeschooled or attend public or private school.  A parent's involvement in homework, being interested in the education of his children, getting to know the classroom teachers and helping out occasionally, or homeschooling your children at home all tell your child that you value education and you believe it is important. Our oldest begins junior high this fall.  We are so excited!  Even though a lot of what we will be doing for school will be similar curriculum as last year's, we are bumping it up a bit in skill level and challenge so that she can continue to advance academically. When my husband and I first felt led to begin homeschooling our children, we decided that we'd take one year at a time and evaluate our options for our children's education.  However, after I had been teaching the girls at home for several years, I began to think, "If the girls end up going to high school away from home, it will be like taking the fruits of our labor and throwing it to the wind, where we won't get to see the daily academic successes of our teens.  Instead, other teachers would be viewing what was going on, and we'd be 'out of the picture.'"  Some day, this will happen, after they have graduated from high school.  And I'm okay with that.  Our goal is to raise godly women who will go out into the world and have a biblical impact wherever the Lord may take them.  Sure, it won't be easy for me.  But that is our goal, and I'm okay with it.  I had hinted to my husband a couple of times in years past about maybe homeschooling the girls through high school.  He hadn't said much but didn't seem very favorable toward it.  Instead of bringing it up anymore, I decided to let the Lord take care of it:  either change the desire of my heart to homeschool them through high school, or change my husband's heart so that he strongly wanted them home for their high school years. In August 2006, Elmer and I were attending our annual statewide Christian homeschooling conference.  During one of the keynote speaker's presentations, Elmer leaned over and whispered into my ear, "We ARE going to be homeschooling them through high school, aren't we?"  I think I have shared this before on my blog here; I nodded my head "yes" and tried to stifle a huge grin.  "Oh, thank you, Lord!" I thought inside as I did pray silently and praise the Lord for changing the desire of my husband's heart.  It was so rewarding to turn this over to the Lord several years before, not say anything to my husband about it, and be at peace with whatever the Lord would bring our way. The Old Schoolhouse magazine has just released a new e-book designed to show families that they CAN have success in homeschooling their children through the high school years.  College Success Begins at Home: Seasoned Homeschoolers Share Their Experiences ($12.45) was sent to me as an e-book to read and review for TOS.  I was hoping that it would outline important steps to take before and during high school to prepare our children for either attending college, or being involved in ministry or another job after high school.  However, this particular e-book is different than what I thought it would be.  Instead, numerous stories from a wide variety of homeschooling families told about basic elements of how they homeschooled their teens and prepared them for the world, and working with their talents and skills.  At first, I was disappointed.  I wanted a step-by-step plan!  But then, I realized that this e-book will provide great encouragement to the many homeschooling families who are so stressed out about the future of homeschooling high schoolers, that it will give them confidence and hope.  I know that I can teach the girls through high school.  What I personally don't know myself, we'll learn together.  It's worked in the past, and it will work again.  I have confidence that what the Lord has begun in our family, He will finish.  He is a God of finishers, not giver-uppers!  But for those of you who see the high school years coming and are very afraid, College Success Begins at Home: Seasoned Homeschoolers Share Their Experiences will provide you with the peace and confidence that you need.  It will also, most importantly, show you that your child's high school years at home can be made to fit your child's needs, desires, and future plans in a way that public and private schooling will never be able to accomplish.  Then, you can buy the book that I want to buy, by Lee Binz, about how to homeschool well through the high school years, and feel confident in what you are doing! I know that you will be blessed by College Success Begins at Home: Seasoned Homeschoolers Share Their Experiences, especially if you are finding the thought of homeschooling high school to be daunting.  Keep on trusting in the Lord, and you will not be disappointed! © Copyright August 2009 by Julieanne Miller

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Aug. 22, 2009

Book Review: The Knight, by Steven James

When I was asked by Revell/Baker Publishing if I wanted to read The Knight, by Steven James (Baker Publishing), in order to do a book review, I said, "Sure!"  Unfortunately, I too quickly read the email I received about this book.  NEVER DO THAT!  If I had slowed down a bit more and read it with more care, which I will definitely do the next time, I wouldn't have been in the predicament I found myself in:  having to read a crime investigation book that was well written...but too scary for me.  The Knight is the third book in the "Patrick Bowers Thriller" series by Steven James.  Mr. James is an excellent writer, who weaves his story with great skill and craft.  One of Mr. James' recent books, The Rook, just received the Christy Award for the Best Suspense Novel of 2008.  Obviously, this man is a gifted writer.  Unfortunately, it was too graphic for me, even from the first page.  Here's what I should have read closely in my email, before accepting this book to read: "A word of caution:  this book is considered 'gritty, chilling, and intense'.  It contains graphic descriptions of disturbing crime scenes.  While not for the faint of heart, the series has been described as 'suspense thriller writing at its highest level' and is likely to keep you up all night." Well, the Publicity Assistant was exactly correct!  This book will keep you up all night, either from fear from what you have just read in the book...and/or that you feel compelled to finish the book immediately because you have just GOT to know what happens at the end of it! I really enjoyed reading Mr. James' style of writing, but it was also too graphic and scary for me.  Okay, I'm a wimp.  But I do have to say that Mr. James has definitely done his homework before writing this book.  You will believe that you are with the main character, working as an investigative officer, out on numerous crime scenes.  His writing is very realistic.  I have enjoyed watching CSI and those kinds of crime scene shows in the past, although I don't anymore.  But there is something about reading through these scenes that is far more intense than watching it on television ever was for me.  If I had known how I would react to what I was going to read, I would have skipped on this book. So, if you really enjoy the crime scene/CSI types of television shows, and you love scary, gruesome, descriptive, gripping mysteries, you will probably really love this book. For the rest of us, we'll stick with books that are a bit more mild!  Sigh. © August 2009 by Julieanne Miller

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Aug. 15, 2009

Help, Lord, I'm Getting Ready to Start Homeschooling My High Schooler!

Homeschooling moms especially need a lot of encouragement and support in their ministry to their children that sometimes seems daunting. Even if all of your relatives, friends, neighbors, and church family support your decision to homeschool your own children, the daily work of patiently guiding your children to adulthood is difficult.  Of course, I realize that many of you don't have the support of relatives, friends, neighbors, and church family in your homeschooling efforts.  That makes things even tougher.  The Old Schoolhouse magazine has recently published a new e-book with homeschooling moms and dads in mind.  Help, Lord, I'm Getting Ready to Start Homeschooling My High Schooler! is written for the heart and mind of those homeschooling parents who want to continue their children's education at home through the high school years, but are doubting their abilities to do so. Many families have contributed to this 120+ page e-book.  Over and over again, I was impressed with the stories of each family who has come to rely fully on the grace of God and His strength in order to press on with the ministry of teaching children at home. Lest you think that this e-book is only for those who are currently teaching high school curricula to their children, I should mention that many of the families' stories show God's direction in their lives clear back when their children were first graders!  Some of the challenges mentioned in this particular e-book include learning disabilities, unmotivated students, rebellion, lack of ability to focus on much of anything, physical and medical conditions, children who were extremely talented academically or creatively, and more. With each family, you will read about the method God used to help them survive and thrive through the high school years (and elem./junior high years, too), and how they have now graduated successful adults who are doing well academically, socially, and occupationally.  I enjoyed reading this ebook, receiving encouragement and advice on homeschooling through the high school years.  I don't want to give up and quit before the girls graduate; I've put so much of myself into this thing we call homeschooling that I don't want to lose what we have started!  And, the Lord still continues to convict my husband and I that this is what we should be doing.  God is rewarding us for our decision, and that is encouraging, too. If you are in the mood for some encouragement and support in your homeschooling choices, please consider taking a look at this e-book for $12.45 at The Old Schoolhouse Store: Help, Lord, I'm Getting Ready to Start Homeschooling My High Schooler!!

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Aug. 9, 2009

How expensive is homeschooling after all?

Tonight, I've been mulling over some of the costs of homeschooling our children.  Sure, we don't have a second income, so if I include that, it costs well over $45,000 each year to homeschool our kiddos.   But leaving the "second income" portion behind, I'm starting to think that it is far less expensive to teach my children at home than I originally thought.  Every year, we do what most homeschooling families do:  we purchase curriculum.  Since I don't choose to buy kits or sets of workbooks and packaged curriculum, I spend a lot of time researching what we are going to use...and the least expensive place to purchase it.  Amazingly, there are some curriculum items we use in our family that are cheaper at smaller "mom and pop" homeschooling sites vs. big name sites like Amazon and ChristianBook.com .  It is nice to have many months to figure out what we are going to use and where we are going to purchase it.  But tonight, something curious happened.  I was entering a contest on a frugal blog, and we were supposed to answer the question, "What do you hate most about back-to-school shopping?"  When I first read the question, I couldn't think of anything I hated about preparing for a new school year.  I love the curriculum I choose...if I didn't love it, I wouldn't have chosen it, right?    I decided to email the owner of the blog and ask her if I could instead share in my comment what I LOVE about back-to-school shopping, because I truly couldn't think of anything I hated about it.  She replied to say that this would be great...that she doesn't want to exclude anyone from entering the contest. So, tonight, I went back to her frugal living-type of website, and posted my comment. I shared about how I loved shopping for school supplies with the girls in tow, because we only needed a few things each year since our school supplies don't typically get lost, broken, or stolen by other children in the classroom.  I shared about the excitement the girls and I have each August as we go shopping for one special outfit that they will wear for their first day of the school year.  (Most of their other clothes are hand-me-downs, super clearance rack deals, or homemade clothes, etc.)  It's a special time together, and a fun "girls time" day as we do this together, because we rarely buy them nice, new clothes at a nice store.  I talked about how I love planning their lessons ahead of time and prepping for the new school year.  I've always been a teacher at heart, and this to me is like a fun hobby!  Yes, I do get tired during the school year, but during the summer, this is fun!  So, you may ask me if I've had a busy summer, and I will answer wholeheartedly, "YES!" but it is a fun kind of busy, because I am doing something I love to do. After I placed my comments on her blog posting, I was curious about what some of the other 722 entries said.  These moms were writing about what they hated about back-to-school shopping, so I wanted to know what they had to say. This is when things became interesting. The #1 complaint amongst these parents was obviously that it is SO expensive to prepare children for going back to school.  Well, I think to myself, if they carefully watch the sales, they can purchase the back-to-school items very inexpensively, right?  Like for around $10, right?  You know, the 5 cent glue and the 79 cent Crayola markers, and the 9 cent package of ruled paper, right?  That's what I would do, if I was preparing my children to go back to public school in the fall, right? Well... Gone are the days where the school supply list provided by the school merely calls for #2 pencils, a pencil box, ruled paper, crayons, and a box of Kleenex.  Now, many (if not all) of the schools are very explicit about what they will accept for school supplies, especially at the jr. high and high school levels: *Crayola crayons in specific colors only *soft pencil pouch, no bright colors (prefer navy), 8 x 10 *3" three-ring binder in "almond" color (note that it is very difficult to find 3" binders in some towns), or exact color binders for each of the different school subjects you have in high school *blue folders (you'd best NOT buy red, or you'll be in trouble!) *24 glue sticks *3 school uniforms that cost upwards of $200 *baby wipes *clear or mesh backpacks that will fall apart after three months they must be purchased three times per school year *special kind of calculator *folders with brads and pockets ...and on and on goes the list.  Some moms said that to purchase all of the supplies for two elementary-aged children was costing them almost $200!  Yikes.  What is going on? When I was a teacher, every year the office staff would ask me what I'd like placed on the school supply list for the 4th graders.  I'd just keep it the same as it has been for the last 50 years...crayons, #2 pencils, eraser, ruled paper, binder, glue, scissors, box of Kleenex.  And, I NEVER made the children pull all of their school supplies together into a big box or drawers or something, to make it a community "socialist" school supply free-for-all.  Because the Kleenex wouldn't fit in the students' desks, I placed those in a cupboard, and we all used them during the school year.  I knew from human experience that if the school supplies were in a "free for all" situation, they would be abused and not taken care of, because no one "owned' any of them.  But, if they each had their own supplies purchased by their parents, they would take a bit more care to be responsible with their supplies.  (At least, that was my hope...and the parents'!) Instead, all of the other school supplies stayed in the students' own desks, for their own personal use.  I made sure that they all had their names on their own supplies, so no one could argue that so-and-so stole their school supplies.  I knew that I'd have students each year who couldn't afford school supplies, so I purchased a few extras from the really cheap back-to-school sales the week after the 4th of July, and I kept those in my desk and privately handed them out to the students who needed them.  This way, if a parent wanted to purchase really nice, expensive colored pencils for her child, she could do that, and her child would have those in her own desk for her own use.  If a parent needed to purchase Dollar Tree colored pencils or crayons, she could do that as well.  Everyone had the freedom to purchase what they could afford to purchase.  My attitude about the specific brands for products, navy pencil pouches, red or blue folders, 3" binders, etc. is not very positive.  Red folders are not going to improve a child's education, are they?  Almond colored binders are not going to enhance a child's academics. Who is making up all of these lists, anyway? And, lots of moms commented that even after following the school's supply list, their children would still come home after the first day of school with a new list of items that the teacher supposedly required them to have. My first experience with this was a few years ago when I happened to be in our local Staples store on the evening of the first day of school.  I don't remember what I was purchasing that day, but I clearly remember the horrified looks on parents' faces as they came into the store accompanied by their teenage sons and daughters.  For some of the upper math classes at the high school, they were required to have a specific graphing calculator that cost around $125 to $200.  I couldn't believe that!  I took upper level math courses in high school, and we did all of our graphing by hand.  It was really cheap that way!  The parents were frantic, because of course, the store ran out quickly and their children didn't have the calculators they would need the next day at school.  I realize that some of the cheaper school supplies these days are not that great.  I really don't like using El Cheapo glue or colored pencils that have been manufactured in China.  I prefer better products.  But, if my children's school supplies were required to go into a "community pot" where everyone would just take and use what they wanted, then I would be buying the cheaper brands, even if the teacher's supply list called for Prismacolor colored pencils.  I'm sorry, but I would be sending Crayola or worse.  I'm not going to support that kind of socialism.  Many other parents commented about hating the expense of buying clothing for their children. One mom commented, "When I was a child and in school, we would continue using clothing from the previous school year, if it still fit.  Nowadays, that isn't an option.  The kids insist on having everything brand new, that no one at their school has ever seen before."  Over and over again, moms were mentioning how expensive it is to clothe their children for school. While I think that my girls have too many clothes in their closets, it isn't because we spend a ton of money on clothing.  I've already mentioned above where most of their clothes come from.  This concept that everything has to be brand new for the new school year is teaching our children a big, fat lie.  We're teaching them the opposite of frugal living.  We're teaching them that we deserve to have everything brand new, even if we have to put it on charge cards and we really can't afford to pay cash for it right now.  My girls would be horrified if we went shopping and bought them 20 outfits or something like that.  One of them would actually refuse to come home with more than 1-2 outfits.  Many parents mentioned the awful peer pressure and the whining of their children to have this outfit, and that outfit, and of course, the outfits don't color coordinate with other outfits to make better use of their clothing dollars.  Sigh.  Is it just me, or are we giving in to our children's selfish demands to live like millionaires?  Come on, most of us cannot afford to be raising our children with an endless supply of money coming out of our pockets!  Some of these issues should have been dealt with when their children were ages 3 and 4. No whining. No complaining. No grumbling. Be thankful for what you have. I will give you $100 for back-to-school clothes; if you choose to spend it entirely on one single outfit or one pair of shoes, that is your problem. Get a job if you don't like the clothing and school supply options I can afford for you. Truly, I'm not trying to be unkind here, but these are selfish demands that most families cannot afford. And I haven't even begun to mention the school fees these days.  I learned last week from a store employee that the high schools (and maybe the junior high schools, I don't know) here in our town require students to pay a textbook deposit for their texts each year.  This way, if a textbook isn't returned or is returned damaged, the school isn't going to have to pay for the books to be replaced.  While this makes sense to me, it does continue to add to the costs of attending public school.  Then, you have the yearbook fees, parking fees, registration fees, school physical fees, club and activity fees, sports fees, $3,000 for being a cheerleader, and on and on and on. It's actually quite mind-boggling to me, how expensive it is to send children to many public schools. No thanks.  I think I'd rather spend $300or so in purchasing my own school curriculum, and not having to deal with spending hundreds or thousands of dollars on school clothes, accessories, supplies, fees, and whims of the school district.  That's $150 per child that is very well spent! Homeschooling seems like the cheaper option, now. Never thought I'd say that! What do you find most expensive about the school option you've chosen for your own children?  How do you work around your education expenses to make things less costly for your own family? Please share!  I'd enjoy reading what you have to say. © Copyright 2009 by Julieanne Miller

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