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Aug. 9, 2009
How expensive is homeschooling after all?
    Tonight, I've been mulling over some of the costs of homeschooling our children. Sure, we don't have a second income, so if I include that, it costs well over $45,000 each year to homeschool our kiddos. 
But leaving the "second income" portion behind, I'm starting to think that it is far less expensive to teach my children at home than I originally thought.
Every year, we do what most homeschooling families do: we purchase curriculum. Since I don't choose to buy kits or sets of workbooks and packaged curriculum, I spend a lot of time researching what we are going to use...and the least expensive place to purchase it. Amazingly, there are some curriculum items we use in our family that are cheaper at smaller "mom and pop" homeschooling sites vs. big name sites like Amazon and ChristianBook.com . It is nice to have many months to figure out what we are going to use and where we are going to purchase it.
But tonight, something curious happened. I was entering a contest on a frugal blog, and we were supposed to answer the question, "What do you hate most about back-to-school shopping?" When I first read the question, I couldn't think of anything I hated about preparing for a new school year. I love the curriculum I choose...if I didn't love it, I wouldn't have chosen it, right?  I decided to email the owner of the blog and ask her if I could instead share in my comment what I LOVE about back-to-school shopping, because I truly couldn't think of anything I hated about it. She replied to say that this would be great...that she doesn't want to exclude anyone from entering the contest.
So, tonight, I went back to her frugal living-type of website, and posted my comment. I shared about how I loved shopping for school supplies with the girls in tow, because we only needed a few things each year since our school supplies don't typically get lost, broken, or stolen by other children in the classroom.
I shared about the excitement the girls and I have each August as we go shopping for one special outfit that they will wear for their first day of the school year. (Most of their other clothes are hand-me-downs, super clearance rack deals, or homemade clothes, etc.) It's a special time together, and a fun "girls time" day as we do this together, because we rarely buy them nice, new clothes at a nice store.
I talked about how I love planning their lessons ahead of time and prepping for the new school year. I've always been a teacher at heart, and this to me is like a fun hobby! Yes, I do get tired during the school year, but during the summer, this is fun! So, you may ask me if I've had a busy summer, and I will answer wholeheartedly, "YES!" but it is a fun kind of busy, because I am doing something I love to do.
After I placed my comments on her blog posting, I was curious about what some of the other 722 entries said. These moms were writing about what they hated about back-to-school shopping, so I wanted to know what they had to say.
This is when things became interesting.
The #1 complaint amongst these parents was obviously that it is SO expensive to prepare children for going back to school. Well, I think to myself, if they carefully watch the sales, they can purchase the back-to-school items very inexpensively, right? Like for around $10, right? You know, the 5 cent glue and the 79 cent Crayola markers, and the 9 cent package of ruled paper, right? That's what I would do, if I was preparing my children to go back to public school in the fall, right?
Well...
Gone are the days where the school supply list provided by the school merely calls for #2 pencils, a pencil box, ruled paper, crayons, and a box of Kleenex.
Now, many (if not all) of the schools are very explicit about what they will accept for school supplies, especially at the jr. high and high school levels:
*Crayola crayons in specific colors only
*soft pencil pouch, no bright colors (prefer navy), 8 x 10
*3" three-ring binder in "almond" color (note that it is very difficult to find 3" binders in some towns), or exact color binders for each of the different school subjects you have in high school
*blue folders (you'd best NOT buy red, or you'll be in trouble!)
*24 glue sticks
*3 school uniforms that cost upwards of $200
*baby wipes
*clear or mesh backpacks that will fall apart after three months they must be purchased three times per school year
*special kind of calculator
*folders with brads and pockets
...and on and on goes the list.
Some moms said that to purchase all of the supplies for two elementary-aged children was costing them almost $200! Yikes. What is going on?
When I was a teacher, every year the office staff would ask me what I'd like placed on the school supply list for the 4th graders. I'd just keep it the same as it has been for the last 50 years...crayons, #2 pencils, eraser, ruled paper, binder, glue, scissors, box of Kleenex. And, I NEVER made the children pull all of their school supplies together into a big box or drawers or something, to make it a community "socialist" school supply free-for-all. Because the Kleenex wouldn't fit in the students' desks, I placed those in a cupboard, and we all used them during the school year. I knew from human experience that if the school supplies were in a "free for all" situation, they would be abused and not taken care of, because no one "owned' any of them. But, if they each had their own supplies purchased by their parents, they would take a bit more care to be responsible with their supplies. (At least, that was my hope...and the parents'!)
Instead, all of the other school supplies stayed in the students' own desks, for their own personal use. I made sure that they all had their names on their own supplies, so no one could argue that so-and-so stole their school supplies.
I knew that I'd have students each year who couldn't afford school supplies, so I purchased a few extras from the really cheap back-to-school sales the week after the 4th of July, and I kept those in my desk and privately handed them out to the students who needed them.
This way, if a parent wanted to purchase really nice, expensive colored pencils for her child, she could do that, and her child would have those in her own desk for her own use.
If a parent needed to purchase Dollar Tree colored pencils or crayons, she could do that as well. Everyone had the freedom to purchase what they could afford to purchase.
My attitude about the specific brands for products, navy pencil pouches, red or blue folders, 3" binders, etc. is not very positive. Red folders are not going to improve a child's education, are they? Almond colored binders are not going to enhance a child's academics.
Who is making up all of these lists, anyway?
And, lots of moms commented that even after following the school's supply list, their children would still come home after the first day of school with a new list of items that the teacher supposedly required them to have.
My first experience with this was a few years ago when I happened to be in our local Staples store on the evening of the first day of school. I don't remember what I was purchasing that day, but I clearly remember the horrified looks on parents' faces as they came into the store accompanied by their teenage sons and daughters. For some of the upper math classes at the high school, they were required to have a specific graphing calculator that cost around $125 to $200. I couldn't believe that! I took upper level math courses in high school, and we did all of our graphing by hand. It was really cheap that way! The parents were frantic, because of course, the store ran out quickly and their children didn't have the calculators they would need the next day at school.
I realize that some of the cheaper school supplies these days are not that great. I really don't like using El Cheapo glue or colored pencils that have been manufactured in China. I prefer better products. But, if my children's school supplies were required to go into a "community pot" where everyone would just take and use what they wanted, then I would be buying the cheaper brands, even if the teacher's supply list called for Prismacolor colored pencils. I'm sorry, but I would be sending Crayola or worse. I'm not going to support that kind of socialism.
Many other parents commented about hating the expense of buying clothing for their children. One mom commented, "When I was a child and in school, we would continue using clothing from the previous school year, if it still fit. Nowadays, that isn't an option. The kids insist on having everything brand new, that no one at their school has ever seen before."
Over and over again, moms were mentioning how expensive it is to clothe their children for school.
While I think that my girls have too many clothes in their closets, it isn't because we spend a ton of money on clothing. I've already mentioned above where most of their clothes come from. This concept that everything has to be brand new for the new school year is teaching our children a big, fat lie. We're teaching them the opposite of frugal living. We're teaching them that we deserve to have everything brand new, even if we have to put it on charge cards and we really can't afford to pay cash for it right now.
My girls would be horrified if we went shopping and bought them 20 outfits or something like that. One of them would actually refuse to come home with more than 1-2 outfits.
Many parents mentioned the awful peer pressure and the whining of their children to have this outfit, and that outfit, and of course, the outfits don't color coordinate with other outfits to make better use of their clothing dollars.
Sigh.
Is it just me, or are we giving in to our children's selfish demands to live like millionaires? Come on, most of us cannot afford to be raising our children with an endless supply of money coming out of our pockets! Some of these issues should have been dealt with when their children were ages 3 and 4.
No whining.
No complaining.
No grumbling.
Be thankful for what you have.
I will give you $100 for back-to-school clothes; if you choose to spend it entirely on one single outfit or one pair of shoes, that is your problem.
Get a job if you don't like the clothing and school supply options I can afford for you.
Truly, I'm not trying to be unkind here, but these are selfish demands that most families cannot afford.
And I haven't even begun to mention the school fees these days. I learned last week from a store employee that the high schools (and maybe the junior high schools, I don't know) here in our town require students to pay a textbook deposit for their texts each year. This way, if a textbook isn't returned or is returned damaged, the school isn't going to have to pay for the books to be replaced. While this makes sense to me, it does continue to add to the costs of attending public school.
Then, you have the yearbook fees, parking fees, registration fees, school physical fees, club and activity fees, sports fees, $3,000 for being a cheerleader, and on and on and on.
It's actually quite mind-boggling to me, how expensive it is to send children to many public schools.
No thanks. I think I'd rather spend $300or so in purchasing my own school curriculum, and not having to deal with spending hundreds or thousands of dollars on school clothes, accessories, supplies, fees, and whims of the school district. That's $150 per child that is very well spent!
Homeschooling seems like the cheaper option, now.
Never thought I'd say that!
What do you find most expensive about the school option you've chosen for your own children?
How do you work around your education expenses to make things less costly for your own family?
Please share! I'd enjoy reading what you have to say.
© Copyright 2009 by Julieanne Miller
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Jul. 23, 2009
Summer Bouquet 2009 from The Old Schoolhouse Magazine!
The Old Schoolhouse® Magazine is currently running their Summer Bouquet subscription promotion, in which they give away more than $400 in gifts to each of the first 5,000 people who purchase a two-year TOS magazine subscription or renewal (U.S. subscriptions only).
Each of those first 5,000 subscribers will receive 19 great gifts, including:
- $20 gift card for DVDs offered by Franklin Springs Family Media
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- A Cooking with Children CD from SueGreggCookbooks
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- An online filmmaking course given by Advent Film Group (approximately $49 value)
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- Gourmet Crepe Mix and Raspberry Cheesecake Blend from Wildtree-YUMMY!!
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- A 10 x 13 portrait photo free from Sears to YOU (with no sitting fee!)
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- And much, much more!
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- For a look at all 19 gifts, take a look here: http://www.thehomeschoolmagazine.com/TOSSummer19Gifts/index.html
Each of these 19 gifts has a value of up to $10 to $49! And none of them requires additional shipping charges; for the most part, your only expense will be the cost of the stamp on the envelope or postcard that you mail in to redeem a gift. This amazing promotion gives homeschoolers a taste of some exceptional FREE products from a variety of sources.
If you would like to participate in this wonderful offer, click on the link above...and for an additional $5 off your two-year subscription order, use the code:
JMSGL5OFF
If you are already a subscriber, I'd enjoy hearing your comments about the magazine - what you like about it, what are your favorite features, etc. I've enjoyed TOS Mag. for about five years now!
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May. 24, 2009
Celestial Seasonings tea artwork
Our family has always loved Celestial Seasonings herbal teas. In fact, the girls and I drink a cup of herbal tea almost every morning. Ummm! Other people occasionally suggest different brands and types of herbal teas for us to try, but we usually find that they smell and look wonderful...but taste like hot water. Well, I must admit that Trader Joe's has at least one tea we enjoy that also tastes as delicious as it smells, and that's their Pomegranate White Tea.
Did you know that all tea (except herbal teas) comes from the same tea bush/tree?
Yep! White tea, green tea, black tea, monkey tea, and oolong tea served in Chinese restaurants (which is typically called "trash tea" by tea experts) all comes from the same plant! What varies is from what part of the plant the leaves are picked, and at what stage of development. Interesting, don't you think?
Celestial Seasonings now offers coloring pages from the artwork on their tea boxes. I thought that some of you would enjoy these. You may click here to access these fun coloring pages!
Madagascar Vanilla Red
Copyright © 2009 by Julieanne Miller
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May. 22, 2009
"Can you homeschool? Yes, you can!"
"Can you homeschool? Yes, you can!"
Paul and Gena Suarez, the publishers of the The Old Schoohouse® Magazine, bring you this new E-Book, Secrets of Successful Homeschooling to show you that, "Yes! You CAN homeschool!"
Whether you are a new parent thinking ahead to your family's educational years, a homeschooler in the trenches, or a veteran who has "been there, done that", this E-Book holds something for everyone.
After you download your copy of Secrets of Successful Homeschooling, you are welcome to keep it for yourself, and also welcome to forward it to ONE friend who you feel may need it.
Just click on the picture of the e-book below to go to the download page. I don't know how long this e-book will be available as a free download, so you may want to download it fairly soon.
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May. 8, 2009
101 Fun Things To Do This Summer!!!
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