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• Monday, November 30, 2009 - The 12 Days of Christmas is coming!!!!

Posted By Amy Verlennich
THE TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS... SHMILY STYLE! is coming SOON!



Now, for those of you who may be unfamiliar with this SHMILY Time tradition, The "Twelve Days of Christmas" isn't talkin' about "A Partridge in a Pear Tree.  It's a twist that I'm sure your husband will enjoy!

It all started because my husband and I would wind up arguing during the holidays EVERY YEAR because it was so stressful.  Spending time and money on friends and family seemed to get out of control no matter how much we tried to "get better" each year and would result in some sort of argument, so A few years ago, I decided I would something different... Twelve days before Christmas just happens to be my husband's birthday, so I surprised him each day, and got us all the way to Christmas day without an argument!   I found it really hard to get angry with someone that I was so focused on loving and praying for!

THE TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS... SHMILY STYLE revolves around the act of love and anything leading up to it.  Now, I know this "strikes a chord" with some of you and  I know that sex is not the only thing that makes a marriage good...  so please don't send me emails or leave comments telling me this.  (In fact, if sex is the only thing good in a marriage that's not healthy either.)  What I've found to be true however, is how "taboo" sex is, especially in Christian marriages.  We don't talk about it or even acknowledge it's importance in our marriages, when the fact is... God created it... and it was His intention that it is good.  I understand that we, as a society have ruined that in so many ways, on so many levels... but THAT is not God's fault, nor does it change what He intended for beautiful and fulfilling and to make a husband and wife as one.  Because of what sex has become because of premarital sex, pornography, adultry and the like, we have somehow become "scared" to talk about sex in a Christian marriage as if it's "dirty".

Unfortunately, sex is also one of the first things we "take away" or avoid when things get rough in our marriage as well.  Let's face it, when you're arguing with your spouse, do you feel like making love?... probably not... and when that happens, the enemy begins his work at destroying our marriage...  Think back to when you were falling in love with your spouse... at some point in time, there was a physical attraction... and chances are good it was pretty "intense".  Just because you may have been married for awhile, that does not mean that your love making should get boring, or non-existent.  It doesn't matter what stage (or state) your marriage is in right now bring the spark back to your marriage, and start with THE TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS!
Note:  If you are in a process of healing in your marriage, or there is a hurt that hasn't been dealth with or forgiven, then please take a moment to pray the SHMILY PRAYER.  I realize that some hurts and problems need more time to heal, and so this year may not be the time for THE TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS... instead, you may want to tuck this idea away and continue to pray for God to restore your marriage, including the act of love making.  (The Power of a Praying Wife is also an excellent book to begin praying every day for your husband.)
With ALL that being said, THE TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS involves some planning, so take some time to be thinking about what you can do to begin a year that will hopefully start a life long tradition! 
  • It begins on December 14th (12 days before Christmas)... and is for 12 DAYS... 12 consecutive days (or nights)! This is especially fun because most people's traveling and visiting relatives is during these days (keeping in mind that this would be especially fun while visiting relatives  because only you and husband will know what's going on...) 
  • This involves an investment in your "drawer of many blessings" drawer as well... and yes, you SHOULD have one of these drawers, so make room (throw out some clothes if you have to... your hubby would rather see you in these anyway!)  Start saving money and get your drawer stocked up!  You'll be able to "recycle" here so the money you spend here is worth it in the end.  You're investing in your marriage and that is never money wasted.  (Your size is NOT an excuse either!   Please read, "He loves you... quit hiding!" if you're  struggling with your outer appearance.   Have all your "little blessings" bought by 14th and plan for each day's surprise, along with any evening you might be able to get a sitter and go out (with your "little blessing" on to tell him about over dinner), or a friend to watch the kids so you can stay in (and put your "gift" to use)! 
  • Make or get a card to give to your husband on the 13th.  An idea would be:
    • "To celebrate the next twelve days of Christmas I have planned a special "gift" for you each day with only you in mind!  Anticipate what each will bring as we celebrate the next twelve days of Christmas... twelve you're sure not to forget!" (Don't forget to sign it, SHMILY!)
So with all that being said, get to work ladies!  This is going to be a year your hubby won't soon forget!  Don't forget to remain especially prayerful as you plan and prepare for these wonderful days.  The enemy loves to seek and destroy marriages, and he will do what he can to ruin this by getting to you and your attitude.  Pray for the Lord to help you be loving toward your husband (even when the kids have been arguing all day, the laundry tub overflows, the bills are adding up, or... whatever).  As women, we have a tendency to be more emotional, which certainly can backfire when things go wrong (or not according to our plans!)  Stay focused on the wonderful and endearing qualities you love in your husband (just in case he upsets you... tee hee) and the wonderful gift the Lord gave you in your husband.  Be determined to succeed in this wonderful "gift" to your husband and when things get tough, fight back with the strength of the Lord!

For some ideas, on what you can do for your Beloved, check out the SHMILY Time blog and please feel free to email me with more of your ideas to share with others (include your name and/or your blog address if you're willing to share that too!) AND you can sign up to join the SHMILY Time fan page on facebook too or THE 12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS... SHMILY STYLE event on facebook!

Put the spark back into your marriage and tell others about THE TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS by posting the  blinkie on your blog/website!  May the Lord be glorified as we seek new ways to put the spark back into our marriage!
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• Nov. 30, 2009 - Classical Education ~ Racing Odysseus

Posted By HomeschoolBlogger Company Blog in classical
The title of the book,  Racing Odysseuscaught my eye before I even knew what it was about.  I think I ordered it from the library without ever knowing the topic.  It wasn't until I got into the car from going to the library  and had a chance to read the inside cover that I realized that I had picked up a book about a liberal arts education.  One can hope  with a title like this one but,  these days, that doesn't mean anything.

The premise of this book is intriguing.  Racing Odysseus is the memoir of a 61 year old college president, Roger Martin.  after a victorious struggle with cancer,  he decides to go back to college as a freshman.  This book journals his experiences. 

Martin decides to enroll at the Annapolis campus of St. John's College.  St. John's  is a liberal arts college.  Their teaching of every subject is based on the Great Books.  The method of teaching is based on the Socratic Method.  There is very little lecturing but  much discussion.  The facilitators ask a question to start off the class and then the discussion may go in any direction.  There are few rules to these classes.  The main one, though, is that everyone must participate in the class discussions.  If you don't, then you face failing that class.  The facilitators are there to make sure that everyone gets a chance to talk and that the discussions do not get side railed on to a non-related subject.  Liberal Arts people do not like rabbit trails.

Martin's book talks a lot about the Great Books that he is assigned to read for class.  As is common, Martin finds many analogies in the Great Books  that coincide with his life.  We are given a glimpse of Martin's early life via the Great Books.

We are also shown that  liberal arts' colleges are still needed and important in this day and age.  Liberal arts colleges provides an excellent foundation for anyone that wants to pursue any kind of education.  St. John's has turned out to be the first educational stop for many students who want to go on to be doctors,  businessmen, and lawyers.  The Great Books education teaches them perseverance and how to learn through hard work.  It also teaches them how to think and express themselves.  Martin had doubts about  this kind of education but his experience proved to him that a liberal arts education is a good foundation for any kind of line of work or vocation a person may decided to follow.

I found this book to be an exhilarating read.  Another vote was cast for the side of a liberal arts education.   It was nice to see this vote being pledged by someone like  Roger Martin.

 

Julia lives on the Canadian Prairies  with her husband, homeschooling their 3 children (10,8,6) and is attempting to give them a Classical Education.  You can read more at her blog.

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• Thursday, November 26, 2009 - ~25 Days of Gratitude~

Posted By FaithfulGrace in Quiet Time Thoughts

Today I am grateful for...

~^~An enjoyable Thanksgiving day filled with a loving family, yummy food and sunshine!

~^~Financial provision, God has greatly blessed our family and we want for nothing.

~^~The blessings of a relaxing weekend, alone with my beloved.  The girls are enjoying a fun weekend with their Grandparents.

~^~Looking forward to Black Friday shopping.

I am blessed beyond measure!

Wishing you and your family a Blessed Thanksgiving.

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• Nov. 25, 2009 - Thanksgiving Ramblings...

Posted By Julie in Our Family, Our Lives
This Thanksgiving it will have been 15 years since I met my husband.  Three moves and four children later, countless cats, goldfish and a dog we're so thankful for all God has done in our lives. 

This year I'm especially thankful for my test results.  All of my biopsies came back benign.  My tummy is swollen and I have four incisions that look dandy about now.  But I got to keep lots of organs I could have potentially lost.  God was so gracious to me.  I'm amazed at the prayer, the love from others, and His work in my body and life.

We won't be traveling this Thanksgiving and sweet friends were kind enough to invite us to dinner so I'm not cooking either.  Yippee!

Our oldest son has begun basketball.  Something I never imagined would happen.  He's such a football fanatic!  But I'm glad he's broadening his horizons where sports are concerned.


My mom bought him basketball shoes for his birthday (which is Christmas Day).  The child is wearing a men's 8 now.  What happened to my 6lb 13oz baby boy?


Running sprints.  He's a fast one!

Baby girl, who loves the camera, gave me a few poses while we watched practice.  These pictures capture her personality to a "T".


She is the spitting image of me.  God bless her heart!


Pray for me, will ya?

Tomorrow is a sunny 60 degree day.  Perfect Thanksgiving weather!

Our middle son has begun art lessons.  He's quite the talented little artist and I love knowing he can go from football to art without batting an eye!

From our family to yours...Have a great Thanksgiving!  God is good!
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• Wednesday, November 25, 2009 - ~25 Days of Gratitude~

Posted By FaithfulGrace in Quiet Time Thoughts

Today I am grateful for....

~the blessing of remembering past Thanksgivings, so many great memories at my Grandmother's home in Traer, Iowa.

~my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ dying on the cross for my sins.  There is no greater love.

~the hope of eternity spent in a far better place then this, no more sorrows or tears.

~health, I am so thankful God's healing power and the health that He gives! 

~humiity, sometimes I have to have a swift kick in the seat, but He humbles me.

~a relaxing day and a doctor's office visit that wasn't painful.

I am blessed beyond measure!

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• Wednesday, November 25, 2009 - Post from the Past: Thanking God for Our Thorns

Posted By Amy Verlennich
One of my all time favorite stories I love to read each Thanksgiving... it's worth the read... and please feel free to share what thorns you'll be thankful for this Thanksgiving!

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• Nov. 25, 2009 - Homeschooling Through High School ~ Turkey Leftovers Plus a Brand New Meme to Join!

Posted By HomeschoolBlogger Company Blog in Homeschooling Through High School

Thanksgiving Greetings and Blessings from Chicagoland!

I want to take this opportunity to share with my Homeschooling Through High School readers a new meme which you (and parents of all our awesome homeschooling teenagers) can join!  Hop on over to my HSB blog, "Plans4You" to learn all about...


Next, I have a simple recipe to share which your high schoolers can make with all your leftover Thanksgiving turkey!  Be sure to log the time they spend making this on their Home Ec time card so you can apply it to a Home Economics credit!
(If you're not sure what a "Home Ec time card" is, please read my posts from August 19, 2009, "Keeping Track of Credits," and August 26, 2009, "Clever Credits."  You can find them
HERE.)


LEFTOVER TURKEY MASTER BLEND
This "Master Blend" can be used to make a number of dishes,
or you can serve it "as is" over rice, toast, or in a pastry shell.
The recipe calls for 4 cups of shredded turkey...if you don't have that much, you can either add some shredded chicken to make up the difference, or cut the Master Blend recipe in half, and be sure to cut any recipes and baking dish sizes you use the Master Blend in by half, as well.
 
4 cups shredded turkey
4 Tbl. unsalted butter (1/2 stick)
1/2 cup all-purpose flour
2 cups chicken stock (may use canned chicken broth, but not bouillon)
1-1/2 cups whole milk, half-and-half, or light cream
Lemon juice, salt & pepper, nutmeg to taste
 
Melt butter in a large saucepan over medium-low heat. 
 
Add flour, and whisk until smooth.  Cook for 1 minute, whisking constantly. 

Add chicken stock and whisk until smooth. 

Whisk in milk, half-and-half, or light cream.  Increase the heat to medium and bring the mixture just to a simmer, whisking constantly. 

Remove pan from heat; scrape the inside of the saucepan with a wooden spoon or heat-proof rubber spatula, and whisk vigorously to break up any lumps.  

Return the pan to the heat and, whisking, bring to a simmer and cook for 1 minute.

Stir in the shredded turkey (4 cups worth), and cook for 1 minute more.  Remove from heat.

Season to taste with a few drops of lemon juice, salt and pepper, and a couple pinches of ground nutmeg.

That is your "Master Blend."  You can use this immediately in one of the following recipes, or you can save it for use another time.  Here are four recipes to choose from:
Turkey Pot Pie
Prepared dough for pastry crust (use your favorite recipe...you can use biscuit dough, too...even the pre-made doughs you buy in a tube at the grocery store, like crescent rolls or "Grands" type doughs will work here!  You'll be covering a 13X9 pie.)
2 Tbl. unsalted butter
1 medium onion, chopped
3 medium carrots, peeled and sliced 1/4-inch thick
2 small celery stalks, sliced 1/4-inch thick
3/4 cup frozen peas, thawed
3 Tbs. fresh parsley, minced
1 egg, beaten

Preheat oven to 400 degrees.  Grease a 13X9-inch baking pan.  
Heat butter in a large skillet over medium-high heat until foam starts to subside.  Add onion, carrots, and celery; cook, stirring often, until barely tender--about 5 minutes.  
Stir the cooked vegetables into the Turkey Master Blend along with the thawed peas and the parsley.  
Pour the turkey/vegetable mixture into the prepared pan.  Now you'll cover the mixture with your dough:
  • Biscuit dough: arrange biscuits on top of turkey, overlapping the biscuits if necessary. 
  • Drop biscuit dough: drop small biscuits on top to cover.
  • Pie dough: roll dough out into the shape of your pan, place on top of turkey, and tuck the edges in against the pan sides. 

Brush the top of the dough with about 2 Tbs. (1/2 an egg) of beaten egg for a goldeny-brown glaze.

Bake 25 to 35 minutes until the turkey mix is bubbly and the topping is nicely browned.

TURKEY TETRAZZINI

1-1/2 Tbs. unsalted butter
8 ounces sliced mushrooms (about 2-1/3 cups)
8 ounces spaghetti, macaroni, or egg noodles
1/2 cup slivered or sliced almonds, toasted lightly
1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese


Preheat oven to 400 degrees.  Grease a 13X9-inch baking pan.

Heat butter in large skillet over medium-high heat until the foam begins to subside.

Add sliced mushrooms and cook, stirring, until tender...about 5 minutes.

Stir the mushrooms into the Turkey Master Blend.

Cook pasta according to package directions in a large pot of salted water until tender.  Drain well.  Stir pasta into turkey mixture along with almonds.

Pour the mixture into the prepared pan and sprinkle with Parmesan cheese.  Bake 25 to 35 minutes until sauce is bubbly and the cheese is golden brown.


TURKEY CHILI PEPPER CASSEROLE

One or two 4-1/2 ounce cans of chopped mild or hot green chili peppers, drained (the amount you choose is determined by how hot you want this!)
1/4 tsp. ground cumin
4 ounces tortilla chips, lightly crushed (don't pulverize these...should have 2 to 3 cups after crushing.)
8 ounces grated Cheddar cheese (2 cups, lightly packed)


Preheat oven to 400 degrees.  Grease a 13X9 baking pan.

To the Turkey Master Blend, add chili peppers (be sure to drain them first!) and cumin.  Mix well.

In the prepared pan, layer the turkey mixture alternately with layers of tortilla chips and cheese.  End with a layer of tortilla chips sprinkled with cheese.  

Bake 25 to 35 minutes until the sauce is bubbly and the cheese is golden brown.


TURKEY AND RICE CASSEROLE

1-1/2 Tbl. unsalted butter
8 ounces mushrooms, sliced (about 2-1/3 cups)
3 cups cooked white rice or wild rice blend
1/2 cup chopped walnuts or pecans, toasted
1/3 cup dry, unseasoned breadcrumbs
2 Tbs. grated Parmesan cheese
1 Tbs. melted butter


Preheat oven to 400 degrees.  Grease a 13X9-inch baking pan.

Heat butter in a medium skillet over medium-high heat until the foam begins to subside.  Add mushrooms and cook, stirring until tender--about 5 minutes.

Stir the mushrooms into the Turkey Master Blend along with the cooked rice and toasted nuts. Pour the mixture into baking pan. 

In a bowl, mix together breadcrumbs, Parmesan cheese, and melted butter.  Sprinkle over top of casserole. 

Bake 25 to 35 minutes until sauce is bubbly and the crumbs are golden brown.


Enjoy your Thanksgiving, enjoy your leftover turkey (or make every single one of these with chicken and enjoy that!), and enjoy your teenagers! Be sure to visit me at Plans4You to check out the new meme.  May God bless you and your homeschool this week!

Lori

 

Lori Havens has been married to Kevin for 24 years.  They live in Illinois with their two sons, Bryan (17) and Nathan (16), and dog Sunny (9).  Lori enjoys writing, gardening, reading, and the outdoors.  She hosts the "Thursday Talkin' About Teenagers" meme at her HSB blog, "Plans4You," and is the author of "Should I Be A Nurse? A Journey of Self-Exploration for Those Considering a Career in Nursing" and  "7 Essential Questions Every Future Nurse Must Ask."      You can find her blogging at both Homeschool Blogger and Homestead Blogger  .

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• Tuesday, November 24, 2009 - Post from the Past: Things to do for Thanksgiving

Posted By Amy Verlennich
For those of you looking for some things to do for Thanksgiving (whether homeschooling or not)... check out some of the following ideas from a post from the past:

FREE Thanksgiving Unit Studies and More!

Please feel free to share any of the ideas or traditions you do in your home for Thanksgiving!
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• Nov. 24, 2009 - A new Peter and The StarCatchers!

Posted By hypermusicmom
Peter and he Sword of Mercy

http://www.peterandthestarcatchers.com/books.html?book=3
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• Nov. 24, 2009 - The Blind Side

Posted By hypermusicmom
I often try to read the book before attending the film. I know I will generally be disappointed in the film - the book is always better to no surprise. The Blind Side is a great film, I found it appropriate in my filter for my 11 year old and up.
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