The Wellspring
Apr. 10, 2007
Bloggin Psychology--Part II
A quote came across my path this week that lingered and rolled around as I mulled and chewed it over.

"People's favorite subject is themselves."

I reacted first by thinking, "Is that really true?" The more I think about it, the more I admit, even for myself, it's true.

Could this be why blogging has become prolific? How many blogs do you know where the author is writing about something other than themselves: their families, beliefs, laughs, book lists, or adventures? For the record, the rhetorical question isn't meant as a judgment, just an opportunity to clarify an observation.

So many of us work in some isolation that we need to choose to counteract, whether it's at home or a cubicle. Blogs and the internet provide endless opportunities for reaching out beyond our little worlds. Blogging gives anyone who wants one a voice.

I realized after some observation, the blogs I return to again and again are either those authors I know in real life that I love to read or the ones whose primary topic is not themselves, but share common interests. In my instance they often review books. The blogs I drop off reading after a few months are often because I'm done reading about this particular author's day-to-day life.

There's a slight light I think I see at the end of the writing tunnel. Its been there a while, but something in mulling the above statement made it click. Yes, some of us can write best-selling memoirs. But to move from  writing as a wanna-be writer to a producing writer, the chance of "success" is greater if one writes beyond themselves, for the reader, with their favorite subject as a backbone, not the center. I can write about what I know, me, but if I really want to write for others, I need to be able to move beyond me.

Just a thought.

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Apr. 10, 2007 - Great post,

Posted by FaithfulGrace


I've been pondering this same thought lately. And therefore my blogging has slowed way down. The amount of solitude and quietness it would take for me to wrap my brain around anything other than our day to day affairs is not in my pocketbook right now.
When I do blog our day to day affairs, our life, it is more as an archival journal. See I don't just blog for readers, but for myself and my family.

The blog world has grown so LARGE, that to be "recognized" is hard. I look forward to continuing to read your writing. You have a great deal of reflection and whit.

Blessings,
Linda


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Apr. 10, 2007 - Very Interesting!

Posted by jaminacema


Boy I had never thought about blogging this way. Very interesting. you give me a lot of good food for thought!

Jamin


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