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May. 29, 2007 - My Daughter Was Hit By A Car


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Yesterday evening, one of my worst nightmares came true. 

My husband and 6 yr old Chloe went for a bike ride.  They had already been gone for quite some time so I expected them back very soon.

I was feeding Macy (1 yr old) when I heard some screaming and then a thud.  The sounds came from a main intersection which our house is fairly close to.  Upon hearing the sounds, I immediately thought that it was Jim and Chloe, and they'd been hit by a car.  I ran out to the backyard but can't see the intersection because of some trees. I listened for any more sounds to help me determine what had happened but heard nothing more.  I went back to feeding Macy but had this still strong feeling that maybe Jim and Chloe were hit. I ran back outside to listen and try to see again. 

I considered running between the couple houses to get to the road in order to see what happened, but felt it was too far for me to go without the other 3 kids.  I instead ran to the front yard hoping I would see Jim and Chloe coming up the driveway.  But no.

While I went back inside to continue feeding Macy, I was feeling so overcome with dread.  I had no reason to feel this way. After all, Jim rarely bikes or walks on the sidewalks on the main road.  We almost always stay within the neighborhood. We're in the middle of 2 square miles completely residential.

Then there was a knock on the door. I ran to the door now knowing with most certainty that what I was suspecting was true.  There at the door stood a friend I hadn't seen in many years. She told me that Jim and Chloe had been in an accident but that they were both ok. (My friend was stopped at the light and had witnessed the accident.)

My friend took the 3 other kids to the neighbors while I ran to the corner.  The emergency crews had just arrived. I could barely breathe as I approached.

God has allowed us to keep Chloe longer. And not only that, but injury free! All praise to God!

Chloe and I go out just the 2 of us once a month.  Together we are going through the book "Growing Little Women" (for younger girls edition) by Donna J. Miller and Christine Yount. Just a few days ago we had one such "date". We talked about Psalm 91.  Verse 11 says the Lord will charge his angels to watch over all your ways.

After the accident, I told Chloe that as I was running to the corner, I had remembered that verse. Chloe's eyes lit up as she exclaimed, "I told daddy the same verse at the accident!"  Jim confirmed it to be true.

So....apparantly what happened is that while Jim and Chloe were crossing the  road at this very busy, 5 lane intersection, one of the cars continued to make a turn without yielding (or even looking) to pedestrians in the crosswalk. The driver knocked Chloe off her bike over.

The screaming I heard was Jim screaming at the driver to stop.  The thud I heard was Jim leaping at the car and banging his fist on the hood in an attempt to stop the driver.  There has got to be a good sized dent in her car based on the thud I heard.  It sounded so much more than that!

All praise to God for the protection of his angels in our lives yesterday! (Psalm 91:11)

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May. 29, 2007 - Count our blessings

Posted by jenn4him

Oh, I am so glad everyone is OK. Is the driver going to get a ticket?
Jenn

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May. 29, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by eclecticeducation

Praise God that they are ok! I'm still shaking as I write this, I can't imagine the agony you went through as you were waiting and wondering.

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May. 29, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous

Thank you for sharing this!
My hubby and children bike around often...on two lane roads just outside our subdivision.
Sometimes I worry...but I need to have more faith
in God's very words!
God bless,
Michelle

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May. 29, 2007 - Hi

Posted by Anonymous

I was crying just reading this, feeling a mothers fear. I am so glad everyone is ok..

Kristy (Kinley)
passionforpurple

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May. 29, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by henryteachers

Oh my! What a scary moment for your family. I'm so glad your daughter was unharmed.

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May. 29, 2007 - Oh NO!!!!

Posted by foxvalleyfamily

Praise the Lord that Chloe was not hurt!!!!!!
I read the title and I felt ill! I held my breath reading that entire entry! How terrifying! ...and ironically enough...we just went over that same verse yesterday!


I am SO thankful that she is okay, (and your husband, too!)
I, also have horrible day/nightmares of this happening to one of my kids! ( Not so much on a bike...but in a parking lot.)

On a positive note...our Michigan box arrived today!
I think things must have gotten all mixed up because we 'held' our mail during our vacation. We got 3 packages today...the others were a little late, too.

The box was WONDERFUL!!! My kids thought everything was SO neat (and it was so nice how you personalized everything, too!) Joseph is a Hot Wheels fanatic, so he was thrilled beyond belief at the car....and the cards and drawings for Katie were such a sweet thought!
I can't to taste the apple butter! (Julie was pretty excited about that, too.

Growing up my family always used to vacation in the 'U.P.'
(Porcupine Mountains, Escanaba, Mackinac Island...) It was all so pretty. I have never been to the lower half, though. If we ever DO get over that way...I would LOVE to meet you all! :-)

Thanks again, and give Chloe a BIG hug from all of us!!!
Blessings,
Michelle W.



Edited by foxvalleyfamily on May. 29, 2007 at 2:12 PM

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May. 29, 2007 - Oh, my goodness!

Posted by MistyKrasawski

Praising God with you! Talk about nightmares. . .that's awful. I love that your daughter was reminded of her Scripture memory right when she needed it--what an awesome lesson for both of you! Great job, Mom! And congratulations on working on your basement, too. Sometimes I have rooms that get so tricky I don't even want to start in them, kwim?
And don't dare me, girlfriend! LOL! I'll get some pics up before I really get started, here--which should be next week! I did post some very incriminating pics when I did my a major clean last year . . .I think you can see them in my archives from the fall (maybe August?) Look if you dare! Ha ha. If only I had a cleaning fairy!

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May. 29, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous

Oh. My . Word. You cannot do that to us. Do you realize that you were six paragraphs into your story before you said she was ok? Tell your kids that they are not allowed to get hurt. Ever. Again. You will have me in tears over here.
Sandy/fallinglikerain

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Posted by 2peter318

Praise God. It is so awesome how the Lord protects us through things. I am sure it was horrible ordeal to go through. How neat that you both remembered the same verse.
JoAnn

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May. 30, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by crazybusy

((((Jill!!!))))
Oh my gosh!!! I am SOOOOO glad that Chloe is okay! That is so scary, especially actually hearing the accident happen! God is so good, praise God she's okay. How neat that you both thought of the same verse. Boy, it sure makes you appreciate life more when things like that happen, huh? Our time here is so short and so precious.
Hugs to you and Chloe!
Love, Alyssa

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May. 30, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Happyhome

Oh my goodness! Praise the Lord they are OK.

Hugs,

Angela

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May. 31, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Arkansas

wow i'm so glad she is ok and that god was with her. what a precious thing that both of you called god's words to mind during that time.

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May. 31, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by MamaDuke

Chloe and Jim are very lucky, fortunate and blessed. Thank God that they were OK. God was really watching over them that day. When something like that happens you fully understand how valuable life is!

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May. 31, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Tracy

Oh Jill what has happened I am last to post, I deserve to be dragged in the middle of blog land and flogged. I have neglected you and i hang my head in shame.
I am praising the Lord that Chloe is safe that would have been terrifying for you.
Tracy

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May. 31, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Janne

Oh wow! Oh my!

I am sooo glad that everything turned out okay. Praise God!

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Jun. 20, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by BChsMamaof3

I just stopped by to catch up and my heart nearly stopped as I read this. I am sooo glad that both chloe and your husband are okay!! Praise the Lord for watching over them.
Blessings,
Rosina

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Jun. 21, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by BChsMamaof3

The book that you are reading with your daughter Growing Little Women sounds really great. I looked it up, but my little girl is only going to be 4 in a couple of months : ) Do you know of a good one for young boys? My son is 8 and I would love to find one that I could read and share with him. Any ideas?
Blessings,
Rosina

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