Joyful Journey

• Sep. 29, 2007 - What we are up to...

This is an email I sent to some family - thought I'd post it here - hope it blesses you.
While I have your attention, I will give you a little family update!
 
Andre' is staying very busy - business is booming! More and more people are finding out about the best computer tech in town and referring him to their friends. He has recently hired a second employee, it is very exciting to see his dream being realized.
 
The kids and I are enjoying our eighth year homeschooling! I cannot wrap my head around the fact that we have been at this for so long! Every year brings new joys and challenges. Preston is a sophomore and doing well in school and enjoying his teen activities! He is working part-time for Gramps, scanning and filing papers.
One of the Youth Pastor's at our church has taken Preston under his wing and has begun teaching him Video Editing and Production. He is at the church office two mornings a week interning with an incredible team of video genuises! He is learning so much with them and Andre' and I are thrilled that God opened this door for him to learn and spend time with some great guys.
He has begun practicing with our youth band in preparation for the day he will be on stage leading teens in praise and worship. One of the guys has offered to give him guitar lessons for free; we had been praying for an opportunity like this to open up for him.
He is studying Astronomy, World History, Algebra (what a doozy!) and reading lots of great books. He has just begun "Splinter Cell" and is excitedly keeping me entertained with the details of the cool gadgets used.
Right now I am listening to him play his drums - he sounds really good. This kid is so musically inclined he amazes me. He really has a good ear for sound and beats - he certainally did not get it from me, he is always telling me how off key I am when I sing in the car. I have to remind him the Bible says make a joyful NOISE!
Raising a teenager is very different from the little stages, but we are enjoying it so far! Can you believe he will be 16 in the spring? Time flies when you're having fun!
 
Cici (her preferred name - oh but only for family! she is so funny), anyhow, our beautiful daughter continues to be a blessing. She is such a Daddy's girl and looks forward to her day with dad! Each Friday one of the kids goes to work with Andre' and he takes them out to lunch, they all love it so much. We are so blessed to have a business and school environment that is flexible and able to include the children.
Anyhow, she is dancing for her sixth year and loving every minute of it! This year she is taking ballet, jazz and tap and pointe. She is not on pointe yet, but is in the class to develop strength and learn the proper form. It has been tough - she is working hard to keep up with the big girls and is holding her own, but I can see her getting stronger and more flexible as the weeks fly by.
We are particapting in the homeschool co-op again this year. Co-op is where a group of families (60 in our case) get together and take classes together. Catherine is taking Scrapbooking, Art and Playground Games. This is her third year in art and she is becoming quite the artist - she is so creative and always has some sort of project going. Right now she is drawing with her cousin. She is always planning some production, whether it is writing a book (she has spent lots of time creating the characters and has just begun to sort out the storyline), choeragraphing a dance, or building clay people and furniture.
We are spending more time doing hands on things this year in school to accomodate her love of all things crafty! So far we have made cuniform clay tablets, made paper and wrote on it in heiroglyphics and mummified apples. Our next project is a pyramid cake! As you have probably guessed she and the little guys are studying the Ancient World and we are just finishing Egypt. She is in sixth grade (junior high is around the corner  she is growing up too fast!).
She is doing very well with all her studies and we have finally found a math program that she enjoys and understands. Ironically it is the same book that brought Preston to tears! I am so blessed to be able to find what works for each child and tailor their education to how they best learn. (fyi we are using Saxon 65 math with her and Cuyler).
 
Cuyler is a fourth grader and very excited to have moved up to the next class at church and be able to attend the monthly Club 456 night. This is a special night for the 4,5and 6 graders to meet their friends, hang out and eat pizza and candy and hear a message from the children's pastor geared to where they are. This month they talked about treating your friends well, avoiding gossip (hot topic for this age group! - psst did you know he said she said he likes you? blech! I can't stand it and am so glad the message at church mirrors what we are teaching them!)
At co-op he is taking Digital Photography, Oragami and Playground Games. For his photography class he is learning how to operate a camera, what a good shot looks like and also how to email and make attachments - he loves it! He is a computer whiz and looks like he could easily follow his dads footsteps!
He has always been really good at math - in fact he has been on the same level as Cici for several years (she is a reader!) while she is on level in math, he is way ahead. It was his language skills that were troublesome, he has always had a tougher time reading and spelling was a nightmare. We tried several spelling programs - even thought he may be dyslexic.
However, as I was frequently reassured by vetran homeschool moms, nine is indeed the magic age sometimes! Truly, I did not spend much time this summer helping his reading skills but he has bloomed! He is reading much better and his comprehension is great.
He was reading his bible (New International Readers Version - written on about a third grade level) he tells me "Hey mom, did you know that Matthew and Mark have the same stories, just another guy wrote em." Isn't that funny! and wonderful, he read both books, remembered the content well enough to figure out the stories were similar. I am so proud of him. And the spelling book that he did not understand last year - this year he has done very well, we are on lesson 21 and he is making great progress.
 
Little Cade is seven and in 2nd grade. He is very well balanced and a joy to teach. He is reading well and progressing on track in math. Cade loves playing outside, he is always running out the door to ride his bike with his friends or play baseball in the yard!
At co-op he is taking Sign-Language, Art and Playground Games. He is doing great in sign language, he knows the alphabet and can sign several words and sentances. It is so neat to see him learn something his older sibs don't know as well! He is very proud of himself!
 
Baby Geoffrey is a baby no more - and is quick to remind me! I tell him he will always be MY baby but he is not buying it! He turned 5 in the spring and is a KID now. He has grown so much. It is such a change to no longer have a baby or toddler at home. Geoff is so independant and will NOT fail to stick up for himself. He holds his own against his big brothers and really looks up to them, especially Preston - he is Prestons's buddy, it is so cute to see them play together. The other day Preston was roughhousing with them, tossing them on the couch, and the laughter filled our house - it is such a joy to see them enjoy thier siblings.
Geoff is learning his sounds and blending letters. He loves to visit www.starfall.com to play the phonics games. He likes to listen in when I am reading Story of the World to the big kids and he loves all of the crafts we are doing this year.
Dad takes Geoffy to work a couple of times a week and he really loves the special treat of spending days with daddy. They are very close.
He joins us for co-op too and is taking Sign-Language and Art with Cade and is also taking Science - they are studying Liquids and Solids. They are doing lots of experiments which he loves. He is not as excited as Cade is about Sign Language, but is learning in spite of himself!
 
And me, well obviously I am very busy with educating our children. Lake, my sweet little neice, is still with us while her mommy teaches. She is two now and incredibly adorable! She attends Moms Day Out three days a week and loves her school, they love her too and dote on her so much! We enjoy having her, she is a bundle of joy, always ready with a smile and a kiss.
I have started a blog at www.homeschoolblogger.com/joyfuljourney , come visit me, leave me a comment, I am putting family and school updates as often as I can, I am also posting pictures of the most adorable kids on the planet!!
Once a week I am leading a group of ladies at church. We are just beginning a study using "The Power of Your Words" by Robert Morris. I have begun to read it and HIGHLY recommend it. It is amazing how powerful our words are - no word is unimportant.
After reading a bit - I was praying while cleaning out some paint brushes (Cici's neverending projects!) I remembered a story my grandmother told me. She was in a college art class and the professor was walking through the class observing each students canvas. He paused behind Grandma and said "This one is going to be an artist" and walked on. She told me how simple statement impacted her and she did indeed go on to become an artist - in fact such a successuful artist that she was able to raise five children as a young widow.
I got to thinking how that guy did not HAVE to say anything - and I wonder if he even knows what an impact his encouragement was. I want to be someone who encourages those around me. What was really special about that little time with Jesus - praying and remembering the story - I happened to be alone at home (WHICH NEVER HAPPENS!) and I got a sweet letter from a friend telling me how I have impacted her life. Anyhow, it was really nice to read a letter in total silence and I was super aware of the power of words and that she did not have to sit down and write to me.
Have a blessed day - and pass on the encouragment!
 
Do something to make today count!
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• Sep. 3, 2007 - The best math ever!

Here is Cade as we practice his math facts. A simple game of 'War' with playing cards. I removed all of the face cards and used the 2-5 cards only to start. We split the deck and each put down a card, he added the total and if he got the math right got to keep both cards. After each round I would add in another number card of his choosing until we were using all the cards (except the faces and aces!) He did not want to quit and beamed "This is the best math ever mom, lets do it every day!" He was especially happy when he found out this was the only math we would be doing today. Cuyler looked on with envy and asked if he could play the game "Except I could multiply the numbers." Amazing what a deck of cards can accomplish!

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• Aug. 30, 2007 - A few things I have learned

I posted the following as a comment to  cahanbury she asked "Am I a Quitter?" as I formulated encouragement for her I realized that I ask myself the same questin - usually every May. Thankfully Jesus is near and reminds me why I am on this crazy journey.

I just read a great post by oh jeez I dont know who something like crocuses and chrysanthimums I think. Anyhow all about how kids are kinda like plants, give em good soil and sunshine, plenty of water and they will bloom - when they are ready. When I was a mom with all little kids I felt the common pressures - hurry up learn math, read, spell etc.

Now that I have *oh dear* begun our 8th year homeshooling I am purposely NOT educating my 5.5 yr old. Sure he is doing stuff, at his pace, when he wants to, but finally by child 5 I have figured out that he will learn to read and do math and most importantly love Jesus and life.

Relax honey, give em plenty of time outside, read to em, play some games, teach them how to clean up and load a dishwasher (did you know unloading the dishwasher is math?- sorting and so is baking cupcakes - that is fractions and reading and home-ec) Take the time to slllooowww down and enjoy your babies - macaroni n cheese fingers and all!

And oh, do not I repeat do not let anyone but your Father in Heaven and your dear husband lead you. Homeschool your babies because Dad told you to and your dh supports you. Take it a year at a time and have fun! They grow up so fast.

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• Aug. 29, 2007 - :( Summer days are almost gone

It is still really hot here - but the bustle of the school year is in full swing. Preston's band is still meeting here every Sunday afternoon (4-5 teenage boys and their favorite music at top volume!) Cici has dance four days a week this year, youth group, choir, and co-op fill our days - at least the afternoons.  HOMEschool - ha we are rarely home!

I took the little ones to the pool tonight - Preston was at youth group and Andre' had to work late. We had a blast and I was reminded how quickly the time passes.They can all swim unassisted this year which has made our pooltime much easier but is yet another reminder of how quickly they are growing up. There has been a baby or toddler in our home since 1992! Over a decade of diapers and sippy cups, they have all been replaced with markers and baseball bats, seemingly overnight. It is easy to miss the sweet smell of a baby when all of the kids are tucked in bed and sleeping like angels. Thankfully these feelings of longing pass when they wake up running from pillar to post all day long. Do you have any idea how much energy is packed into a single little boy body?

Cade smashed his finger a couple of days ago. It seems that he was moving a chair next to a tree and his finger got caught between them. I had to cut off the flap of skin that was now unattached to his body and clean out the dirt that always covers a seven year old boy! He bravely endured the peroxide rinse, neosporin application and bandaid. Being the ever so attentive mother of five that I am - I promptly forgot about the injury and did not watch to keep it clean. Tonight he proudly showed me how well his finger was healing and went on to tell me how he had been washing it with peroxide and putting neosporin on all by himself (So thats why the peroxide is on the counter - I knew I put it away - I think .) Yep, they are growing up WAY too fast!

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• Aug. 22, 2007 - Why are we homeschooling anyway?

I just responded to a poll asking for the top four reasons we homeschool. I get this question alot because we live in "the best school district in our state".

Here are our top 4 Reasons...

1. God told us to, truly, my husband and I have spent many hours seeking the Lord for direction and His plan for our family life. We have clearly (and numerously) heard from Daddy that our chiildren are to be set apart for His purpose. And for our family this is best accomplished through the homeshcooling lifestyle. So first, the decision to homeschool is an act of obedience. That is not to say all parents are called to homeschool, or that all parents should - however it is what we feel God is calling US to do.

2. Family time and relationships is a close second. We enjoy spending time together and desire our children to have close relationships with one another. If they were in the peer dependant environment of traditional school they would have developed close bonds with friends instead of siblings. I love that my kids love eachother and seek out eachothers company.

3. An extension of #2 is that we did not want the negative peer influences of our culture to be thrust upon our children at an early age. We want them to be able to know what they believe and why they believe it so that they can be salt and light to the world around them. We do not want our children in an environment that at best ignores and at worst denies and mocks our core belief system. The character of a person is critical to their ability to learn and interact with their world. With our kids at home we can better work on their character which in turn gives them the internal drive and desire to pursue academics, talents etc. Wthout godly character, what difference does knowing your math facts backwards and forwards make? The chief purpose of man is to know and serve God, we were created to worship our creator. If our children know and practice that truth- they can do anything God sets before them.

4. I love learning and love to teach! I always desired to be a teacher and homeschooling allows me to teach and have the very best students possible!

Those are *our* reasons to homeschool, listing them out helps me keep my perspective when we are having a really tough day and I am having visions of school busses dance in my head! Our school is far from perfect, how could it not be - it is run by imperfect me! But I would not have it any other way!

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• Aug. 19, 2007 - Here I go...

As we embark on another school year there were a couple of things "I" wanted to do differently. First I really am tired of the lack of disciplined devotional time I have with the Lord. It is so sporadic and I *know* how much my life is blessed when I am faithful. I am a faithful wife, mom, friend, daughter - why is my time with my Jesus so difficult? I realized a couple of years ago that I am way more like Martha than Mary - are you sick? I will feed you, take care of you etc. Sit at the feet of Jesus - umm no someone needs a meal.

This school year will be different - I will be different. I bought a coffee maker, the automatic one. The idea of a hot cup of coffee in the morning with my bible mmmm sounds so sweet. And it is working, my sweet teenager is setting it up at night and I awake to the wonderful smell.

That was my first goal, set and met! Now comes the faithful and diligent part... which brings me to the second differnece. My new blog. I am so new to this. Bear with me as I figure it all out. I think this blog will be a place for me to remain accountable as well as a spot to direct friends and family to all we are doing in the daily life of our school.

Enjoy the journey

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