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Apr. 16, 2007
Never Assume...

Posted in Stream of Thought

Hmmm…I think I need to explain something. I grew up in the city. I mean, The City, as in New York City. The city is a pretty diverse place, and I consider myself lucky to have grown up in a place where I could meet so many interesting people from various ethnic, cultural, economic and religious backgrounds. My friends have crossed every spectrum of race and creed. I would have it no other way. I’ve learned so much from so many, and I hope I’ve shown them that I am genuinely interested in them and what they have to say. I am a listener.

My experiences, some of which I’ve written in this blog, have created who I am. My life is a journey, an adventure in being. And I try to laugh as much as I can. I truly feel that is important.

Now, the interesting thing about being a listener (and an introvert) is that I don’t always divulge a lot about myself. Sometimes I am just so interested in listening to another person that I hardly say anything regarding myself, and conclusions are drawn about me.

I have been mistaken for being Turkish, Arabian, Italian, Russian, anything Mediterranean. My own roots are Spanish, German and Hungarian and I grew up in a house hearing both Spanish and English.

I’ve had people assume that since I had a Spanish surname I must speak Spanish fluently. I don’t, but that doesn't mean I'm not good at translating.

I've been mistaken for being a Democrat, a Republican, a Conservative, a Liberal. I'm of the Groucho Marx school of thought--whatever it is, I'm against it.

I’ve been mistaken for Jewish and Protestant. I am Catholic.

Being of a sensitive nature, I don’t always know how to respond. I don’t like to embarrass anyone, but sometimes the truth needs to be spoken. Which brings me to my point (I do have one). I guess I made an assumption that it was pretty obvious what my religious background is and I am sorry if I was misunderstood. My faith is very personal for me and I have always believed that it was more important for me to live it, rather than talk about it. Since I began blogging, I have laughed and learned, commented and received comments, and I have been spiritually inspired by many blogs, whether or not they share my religious faith. I want everyone to know that I appreciate their comments, I am honored when someone links to my blog, and I honestly love and care about all of you. And so, my friends, I hope to continue hearing from you and I hope to continue sharing my adventures with you. I wish you all peace and laughter!

And as long as I'm giving full disclosure, I also eat way too much cereal, watch too much TV and I yell at my kids when I've lost all patience.

(Editor's note: For the record, I have not had my feelings hurt, I'm not upset with any of you, this is me just wanting to be honest and up front. In fact, I would be relieved to start hearing from all of you again soon so that I don't think I've scared you all away. )


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Apr. 16, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by CentralianJen


Weeeeeeelllll......from a fellow Catholic who has been hurt when others 'discover' my faith and turn away aghast, I feel I also must add a confession of my own (is it the season do you think??)....I am addicted to instant cappuccino mix....did I really share that!?....
Love you, love your humour, love your honest-to-goodness heart for the world....
Hugs,
Jenny


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Apr. 16, 2007 - I love all my blogger friends...

Posted by jugglingpaynes


My hope is that by making sure I am perfectly honest I can keep the friends I've made. I have relatives who are both Catholic and Protestant, I guess it never occurred to me that this might end up being an issue.
We'll see.
Peace and Laughter,
Cristina


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Apr. 16, 2007 - EEECK!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous


A CITY GIRL!?!?!!!

TALL BUILDINGS!!!! ELEVATORS!???!!!!!
MORE THEN A ONE STORY HOME!!?!!??!

Ok, I'll keep you. It must be the German shared roots, cause besides that and our dark hair, we still have a lot in common, lol....

From the middle of nowhere, where the nearest neighbor is half a mile away,
(((hugs)))

Love ya,
Vicki
(who forgot to sign in and is scared of tall buildings)





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Apr. 16, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by MOMflippedisWOW


Dear Cristina,

Personally, I think you are one of the best people I've met in a long time.
So many times I've thought to send you a private email just to get your thoughts
as I've come to really respect your opinions.

This post was so brave of you to put yourself out there like that. Anyone who would turn away from your friendship, would be insane. You are truly a treasure and your kids are blessed to have you as their mom. I feel blessed just getting to be your cyber friend!

Peace and laughter!
You deserve no less.

Vicki


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