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2 conversations today that leave me in stitches: Danny, I am going to call grandma, do you want to talk to her (i think i know this answer...he ALWAYS wants to talk on the phone). Danny: Tell her I'll call her tomorrow. I'm doin' somefin this moment. Then later: Me: Danny, please pick up your Thomas toys. Danny comes running into the room yelling: Just a second. I got things I gotta do first. Hubby and I just shake our heads. We have no clue where he gets this stuff! ;-) -kim He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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So we stop at the grocery store tonite to get a few things...suddenly Danny lets out a blood curdling scream. I look at him (and so did a few clerks and others who came from other aisles). I look at him thinking he has pinched his finger somewhere. ...no.. he puts on a huge grin and says "see mama, echo" I am eagerly awaiting the next shopping trip, as I am sure you can imagine! He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Well, here we go again. We are looking to adopt another infant. We have a MySpace account for this purpose. A young girl contacted us. She has asked for nothing and has seemed straight forward. She was due with a baby in May. Well, at Christmas she said she had had an ultrasound and it was twins. At this point, I think I knew it was a scam, but twins would be wonderful for us. We are getting older and finishing up our family in one fell swoop would be ...well would be an answer to prayer. Up to this point, she had answered our question and seemed so incredibly sweet. She seemed like someone we could have a life long relationship with. We would like to stay in some kind of limited contact with the birthparents of our children. For us, that would be ideal. We were beginning to hope that maybe we could hope. Does that make sense? Sooooo...having been down this road before (we have had birthmoms change their minds and we have been outright scammed--i believe there is a special place in hell for people who prey on the hearts and emotions of the childless looking to adopt), I asked about the birthfather. Was he ok with all this (we would need legal documentation of this before an adoption could take place anyway)? Did the doctor set a more exact due date? Did she find out the sex of the babies (we don't care...but i would like to know...for planning of bedrooms, etc)? And, what I think was the clincher: Can we please have a copy of the ultrasound? We wanted to see them. Today, I checked to see if she had responded. She hadn't. In fact, all our correspondence was gone from my mailbox...both mine out and hers in. ALL CORRESPONDENCE was gone. I remembered that I had the notifications from past letters from MySpace in my gmail account box. I clicked the link. The message that I got read that she had either cancelled her membership or was cancelled by administration. As Dan said (he, like most men, is the more practical of the two of us), "Good thing we know now". Which was the whole reason I asked my list of 5 questions to "her". I do thank God for this. If this God IS merciful. I can say this as I cry a bit over the loss of something I never had to begin with. I keep this "Annika" in prayer as well. Something is wrong with this person. Something deep and horrible effects "her". I pray that she gets the help she needs...whatever it is. And if she is indeed pregnant and if she decides to parent, I pray that she is the very best parent ever. Every baby deserves loving parents. Because I have to say it: If you know of anyone looking to make an adoption plan, please remember us. Thanks! He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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just happened here: danny jumps up, runs around in a circle then out to the kitchen and into the mud room. i yell, get out of the mudroom! (cat litter box is out there and i just don't like him out there when i can't see him--but the power room is out there, too) he says: i gotta go potty nooooooooowwwwwwwww! i say: ok, dont get your panties in a bunch. he stops cold. looks at me with a cross look on his face: mama, i not wear panties, i wear big boy pants. i say: i stand corrected, sir. he says with hands on hips: well i should sink (think) so. He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Very windy here....very. Going out to the truck the small voice behind me says: "Whoa, mama. Its vey yeah windy out here. Hold onto your wig!" ...and he gets this stuff from....? He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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"...And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us" John 1:14 <--- I borrowed this from my hubby's sign out front of our pizza shop. He of course, borrowed it from the Word of God. In this season of political correctness and commercialism, we forget that the reason we celebrate Christmas is a little baby born in a stable. He may not have been born at Christmas time, but this is when we choose to celebrate it. As the Bible tells us, He is the Living God, the Word who took on a mortal body to live out his 33 years as a sinless man. He then was tried and convicted of crimes He didn't commit. He suffered the death penalty, was buried and resurrected Himself and now provides intercession for us with God the Father. Because our Creator became a 'creation', He was able to pay the penalty for our sins. We may now seek Him, find Him and spend eternity with Him because of His sacrifice. But His salvation is not just for some time in the future. We can experience the JOY and PEACE and COMFORT of a relationship with Him now. Amen! The critics can call me narrow, ignorant, simple or in need of a crutch. I humbly admit, I am all of these. But I know that baby from the stable. What else matters? I know my Creator who became human for me, His creation. (mind blowing or what??) What more could I want? I know Jesus. For this reason I rejoice in Christmas and the celebration of His birth. May all my friends, family and cyber friends know the love of Christ, know His peace and feel His comfort not only in this season, but all the year through. Merry, Merry Christmas, Kim (note, this message also appears on my facebook notes page) He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Well, it has happened. Daniel is now potty trained 100% during the day and 4/7 nites. He is so proud of himself. He loves his big boy underpants and using the "big potty". He is also excited cuz he will be getting Geo Trax Grand Central Station for Christmas (provided he doesn't slip backwards) as his self-chosen reward. Way to go, Daniel!! He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Shopping before Christmas and I made the horrible mommy mistake of going to one too many stores with a tired little boy. It was nap time and he was doing very well as I was hurrying around getting last minute Christmas needs. I asked him, "do you think you will be ok to hit one more store?" "yeah mama, I be ok. I not tired a bit". We get in the store and I remind him, "we are not buying toys. remember Christmas is coming." He says, hopefully, "we look at toys just with eyes, not with hands?" "Lets see how you are behaving while I get these few things". Well, I can see he is about at the end of his rope by about the third aisle as he is grabbing things of the shelves and mocking what I tell him to do--a sure sign that he is tired and soon to loose control. Selfishly, I want to get the last few things quickly (because I hate crowds, waiting in line and shopping at Christmas time in general. I don't want to return to the store until about a week after Christmas). So I risk it. Fool that I am! When he notes that I am not going in the direction of the toy department he begins to object. When I try to explain that I need to go to the food department to pick up some paper towels he begins to whine. He then throws himself down, hits his lip on the cart handle (he used to do this while goofing around each and every time we were in Wal-Mart or Target), starts to cry and bleed. I am thinking about finding a round clothing rack and hiding in it. He then begins to yell "no, i don't want to go with you!" Yeah, THAT is something you want your little one yelling in public. Trying not to make a further scene, I give him my sternest look and squeeze his hands a bit to get his attention focused on my face. He pulls his hands from mine and claps them over his mouth and says: "I out of control". Yes, dear you are. He is trying his hardest to suck his tears back in and stop crying. Poor little guy. I am feeling like the worst kind of heel. I knew he was tired. In his lip has to be really sore and HE has grasped that he is 'out of control'. I hug him, hurry to an empty lane (thank you, God), check out and off we go. He is alseep before we leave the parking lot. I can go back to the store to get paper towels another time. He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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We are watching an Iams commercial. The tag line is : The thing about pet adoption is the pet isn't yours until it adopts you." I am a massive fan of adoption of any kind--animals or people. I am also an advocate of spaying and neutering pets as well (in fact, if you are a cat that comes to our yard, you are trapped and spayed or neutered. i am thankful for a husband who pays for this to be done). Anyway... I say "awww that is so sweet I could cry." Danny turns to me and says: "mommy, no cry. commercial." :-) He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Dan related this story to me: Big D and little D are in the van. Big D is singing to a song on the radio--trying to get little D to sing along (i presume). Little D says: "Daddy quit singing in MINE head". Big D could hardly tell the story he was laughing so hard. Yes, this child will give us joy in our old age. Praise the Lord! He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Potty Training update He is doing well, I think. We are having accidents and forgetful times (mine as well as his part). But every time I get him on the potty it is a huge cry fest. Then he goes, we do "the potty dance" (a made up ditty to the tune of "Hurray for Hollywood") and talk about what a big boy he is and how nice it is to be using the potty. blah, blah, blah. All hunky dorrey until the next time. I do think this is what is causing his naughty behavior. I think it is the stress. Back at 18 months when he was sitting on the potty and doing very well and I was as proud of my little guy (and boasted a bit, i am sure--sorry folks) there wasn't stress like this. Of course, he was only playing with me about potty training that early. :sigh: So today when I said:"Remember Daniel, if you need to go potty before the timer goes off (this is to remind ME to get him on) you tell mommy. We need to keep Diego dry. (he has Go Diego, Go pull ups right now--his choice, not mine). (he walks away saying nothing) Do you hear me, Daniel?" He says: " Me hear you jesss fine. Me not listening." Oh yeah. We have the spirit of meekness and obedience here at our house. Yep. He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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So Daniel has been quite naughty lately. Mostly just not doing what he is told and replying things like "No way Jose" and "I don't think so" (with the emphasis on the THINK) or running away yelling "NOOOO". So, I have been strict-er in demanding that he comply. Picture the scene: Danny is now in his "thinking chair"...thinking. Mom is in the kitchen putting dishes away. Mom comes out to check on thinking child. In the 'thinking chair' is "BoBo" (stuffed frog that is much beloved by Danny) Mom gives an exasperated sound and asks "What is going on here". Danny from the floor playing with Thomas trains: "BoBo thinking for ME (emphasis on ME)" Mom leaves room quickly...laughs quietly in kitchen....returns to living room with stern face pasted firmly over laughing face. Daniel is back in thinking chair...pouting and asking "why, why?" As mom rounds the corner to kitchen, she catches this: "bobo, you think better next time" He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Last night the family watched the movie "The Time Changer" ( The Time Changer )on our new IP TV package on "Sky Angel". (Sky Angel ) Sky Angel, for the uninitiated, is a TV satellite package that uses the wireless thingy on your computer. That is the extent of my understanding of HOW we get the pictures. Anyway, Sky Angel is family oriented programming that cuts out all the garbage and adds, some would say, different garbage. I miss our Direct TV with Noggin, the Food Network and HGTV. It does, thankfully have FOX NEWS--which I could never live without. But, it is less expensive (which fits in with our "be out of debt--read NO DEBT, DEBT-FREE, SLAVE TO NO MAN--plan" within 3-5 years--Dave Ramsey (is the best www.daveramsey.com/) and it cuts out all the junk we don't want our sons to be eyeballing. They get enough sexual content in school, on other people's t-shirts, from their friends, in the newspapers, at the grocery store (am I the only one who turns all those mags at the check outs face backwards---yes, that is me doing that), etc. without having it brought into our house via idiot box. ANYWAY...we were watching this movie which is set in the 1890's and in the 1990's. The main focus of the story is values. Can we teach values without God? The main characters argue about values teaching. Basically, some say you can just teach values by telling people right from wrong and they will naturally fall in line. The others say this leads to moral relativism and without GODs final authority, people are just going to make it up as they go along. It is also a time travel story which would appeal to kids probably 7 and up. One of the main characters (i am trying to do this without giving too much of the story away so bear with me, please) goes 100 years into the future and sees the results of his view that God is implicit in values (vs. stating outright: God says....) For me this hit home when he meets a young girl who steals from him. When he catches her he asks if she knows that stealing is wrong. She asks: "who says?". "Who says?" indeed. When I tell my kids; "Because I said so." Who am I? My teens are at the point where they don't listen because I say so (or their dad says so). They are finding out who they are and how their own moral compasses work. We have had them since they were 7 and 8 years old. Prior to that time, they were in foster care. One was in 8 different foster homes, the other in only two. The foster parents he was with the longest were wonderful people. They loved him as their own. However, they did not think he would be living with them as long as he did. They tried to leave him as blank a canvass as they could so that the morals and values of the parents who adopted him could be imprinted on him. I understand what they were doing but after seeing the results of it in his character, I know it wasn't the best thing for him--at all. With our toddler I am making the concerted effort to give him the biblical foundation that the older boys are lacking. Not just saying "because I said so" or "because that is wrong/right/unacceptable", I am saying "God says in His word....(including verse)". This is a challenge for me as while I know what the Bible says, I have always had a hard time memorizing Scripture (or anything else for that matter. My brain is clogged up with useful things like jingles and TV episodes from the 60's and 70's) so I struggle quote it directly. I am on a quest to be more deliberate in my personal memorization. I firmly believe this is vitally important to my son's character and standing as a Christian man. (a great book that I enjoy reading and using is Lisa Whelchel's Creative Correction www.lisawhelchel.com/ccreatbk.htm The "tool box" sections give great verses and techniques that can be adapted or modeled to fit any family) There IS a Final Authority. He cares about us. He loves us. From His perspective of eternity (and the sheer fact that He IS God) He knows what is best for us. He set up His commandments and guidelines for us as humans, us as Christians, us as parents, teachers, employees, employers, husbands and wives, etc. to give us joy and fulfillment. Outside of those guidelines and commandments there may be some satisfaction but it is only temporary. Moral Relativism is wrong and it is sending our country into a slide. It is sending our children, our schools, our families, ourselves into a death spiral. What's your opinion? -Kim He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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We got to visit with Glenn, my brother (glenn's dad), my mom and dad and my grandma (the only remaining grandparent I have. I cannot believe Grandpa has been gone for almost a year already) at my grandma's house today. It was nice to see Glenn is safe and in tact. He is on leave from serving in Afghanistan. He hasn't seen much action (Thank you, God). He did however save a man's life. Apparently he was just getting off of guard duty one day when he heard shots fired. He got to the 'scene'--first one to find that a civilian contractor had been shot in the leg. Apparently some sniper fire, but I have yet to get the full story as to whether or not they figured out who, what, where and why. The man was bleeding pretty bad. Glenn applied a tourniquet thus saving the man's life. He received a 'coin' and personal congrats from a 3-star general. He will be receiving his medal sometime in the future. We are quite proud of him. I got to see a picture of the elusive 'girlfriend'. She is drop dead gorgeous. Mom and dad got to meet her. I sincerely hope he isn't real serious about her---being in the Army for 2 1/2 more years and the fact that, while he is 20 years old...he is a young 20...if that makes sense. My friend here says that he may be an old 22 when he gets out of the Army. I am sure she right....but it would be good for him to delay a serious relationship until he is either not deployed or out of the military. Am I being too much of a wet blanket here? I don't know. Maybe. Anyway, it was great to see him and hug him and just plain SEE him. Even tho I don't see him often anyway (living 6 hours south), it is different having him in a war zone. He is moving off the mountain that they were on and closer to sea level. I have no real idea where he is (other than Afghanistan) and that bothers me. I would rather have a map up or something. I have his time zone on a widget on my igoogle page, but knowing where he is would be good for me as well. I guess there is something called "security" that they have to be worried about. I guess I will calm down and trust God. -kim He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Conversation with my toddler while shopping at Wally World: (btw, little d is now 2 years 9 months old) Mom, me have yist? ("list" in little d speak) No, whenever I let you hold my list, you loose it. I have a bad memory and I need my list. (all said with a kiss and a hug, lest you think I am just mean) ![]() Me have piece yist? You want part of my list? Or just some of the blank part? (showing him i have some space with no writing) Yiss part (pointing to the blank part) I give him the piece of paper. Me have pen? Why? Me write yist. I have a list, honey. Did I forget something? No, me write mine list. Oh, well, ok. Careful not to write on anything but paper. Ok Many minutes go by as he had scooted over in the cart to write on the plastic seat flap. He is using a wonderful pencil grasp and has his tongue out just a bit. Finally he shows me a bunch of scribbles. There, mom. I done. Here. Well, sweetie. You have quite a bit on there. Why don't you tell me what it says. He holds it in one hand, and with the other runs his finger under the scribble (i am preparing myself to use "Teach your child to read in 100 easy lessons" and have been practicing how to run my finger under the word as I read to him. He has, apparently, been watching carefully.) and says: "my yist says: We need more toys". God has surely blessed me!! He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Sorry about all the politics, but I really feel our lives depend on who we put into office--locally and nationally. Here is a letter that people should know about and read--and note who DID NOT sign it ....(more on the family and pre-school homeschool coming soon.) McCain Letter He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Consent of the Governed is a very thought provoking weblog. I highly recommend it. As I am becoming more and more concerned over the tide of socialism that is sweeping our nation this particular entry caught my eye: Creeping Socialism/Consent of the Governed I think it is worth a read. In the meantime, if socialism is soooo good for us, why is everyone lying about it??? Pray for America! Kim He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Everyone seems to be making a big deal out of the interview by Charlie Gibson and with Gov. Sarah Palin. Interesting how Mr. Gibson, who was thought to be relatively fair and balanced (even I who despises main stream media thought this would be a nice, fair interview), behaved like an attack dog looking for anything Gov. Palin might say that could be considered a "gotcha moment". What. is. up. with. that? Can't the candidates stand or fall on their own without intentional attempts to cause failure? Is the media so afraid that someone's character might be genuine? and I mean either side not just McCain/Palin (I know it is obvious that I support McCain/Palin and I have good reasons why.) but Obama/Biden as well. Anyway, here is an article from the Washington Post (cut and pasted from Washingtonpost.com and unedited by me. I thought it was interesting. My advice is to watch Fox News. There no one pretends to be unbiased. If you watch the commentators/journalists/newscasters long enough, you know who they like and don't like. They don't hide it, but they ALL bring both sides into arguement. I can respect that. I may think that Alan Combs (a liberal democrat) is an talking horses patoot, but I respect his right to have his opinions and I do listen to them. Once in a blue moon he makes a good point. :-) http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/09/12/AR2008091202457_pf.html Charlie Gibson's GaffeBy Charles Krauthammer
"At times visibly nervous . . . Ms. Palin most visibly stumbled when she was asked by Mr. Gibson if she agreed with the Bush doctrine. Ms. Palin did not seem to know what he was talking about. Mr. Gibson, sounding like an impatient teacher, informed her that it meant the right of 'anticipatory self-defense.' " -- New York Times, Sept. 12 Informed her? Rubbish. The New York Times got it wrong. And Charlie Gibson got it wrong. There is no single meaning of the Bush doctrine. In fact, there have been four distinct meanings, each one succeeding another over the eight years of this administration -- and the one Charlie Gibson cited is not the one in common usage today. It is utterly different. He asked Palin, "Do you agree with the Bush doctrine?" She responded, quite sensibly to a question that is ambiguous, "In what respect, Charlie?" Sensing his "gotcha" moment, Gibson refused to tell her. After making her fish for the answer, Gibson grudgingly explained to the moose-hunting rube that the Bush doctrine "is that we have the right of anticipatory self-defense." Wrong. I know something about the subject because, as the Wikipedia entry on the Bush doctrine notes, I was the first to use the term. In the cover essay of the June 4, 2001, issue of the Weekly Standard entitled, "The Bush Doctrine: ABM, Kyoto, and the New American Unilateralism," I suggested that the Bush administration policies of unilaterally withdrawing from the ABM treaty and rejecting the Kyoto protocol, together with others, amounted to a radical change in foreign policy that should be called the Bush doctrine. Then came 9/11, and that notion was immediately superseded by the advent of the war on terror. In his address to the joint session of Congress nine days after 9/11, President Bush declared: "Either you are with us or you are with the terrorists. From this day forward any nation that continues to harbor or support terrorism will be regarded by the United States as a hostile regime." This "with us or against us" policy regarding terror -- first deployed against Pakistan when Secretary of State Colin Powell gave President Musharraf that seven-point ultimatum to end support for the Taliban and support our attack on Afghanistan -- became the essence of the Bush doctrine. Until Iraq. A year later, when the Iraq war was looming, Bush offered his major justification by enunciating a doctrine of preemptive war. This is the one Charlie Gibson thinks is the Bush doctrine. It's not. It's the third in a series and was superseded by the fourth and current definition of the Bush doctrine, the most sweeping formulation of the Bush approach to foreign policy and the one that most clearly and distinctively defines the Bush years: the idea that the fundamental mission of American foreign policy is to spread democracy throughout the world. It was most dramatically enunciated in Bush's second inaugural address: "The survival of liberty in our land increasingly depends on the success of liberty in other lands. The best hope for peace in our world is the expansion of freedom in all the world." This declaration of a sweeping, universal American freedom agenda was consciously meant to echo John Kennedy's pledge in his inaugural address that the United States "shall pay any price, bear any burden, meet any hardship, support any friend, oppose any foe, in order to assure the survival and the success of liberty." It draws also from the Truman doctrine of March 1947 and from Wilson's 14 points. If I were in any public foreign policy debate today, and my adversary were to raise the Bush doctrine, both I and the audience would assume -- unless my interlocutor annotated the reference otherwise -- that he was speaking about the grandly proclaimed (and widely attacked) freedom agenda of the Bush administration. Not the Gibson doctrine of preemption. Not the "with us or against us" no-neutrality-is-permitted policy of the immediate post-9/11 days. Not the unilateralism that characterized the pre-9/11 first year of the Bush administration. Presidential doctrines are inherently malleable and difficult to define. The only fixed "doctrines" in American history are the Monroe and the Truman doctrines which come out of single presidential statements during administrations where there were few other contradictory or conflicting foreign policy crosscurrents. Such is not the case with the Bush doctrine. Yes, Sarah Palin didn't know what it is. But neither does Charlie Gibson. And at least she didn't pretend to know -- while he looked down his nose and over his glasses with weary disdain, sighing and "sounding like an impatient teacher," as the Times noted. In doing so, he captured perfectly the establishment snobbery and intellectual condescension that has characterized the chattering classes' reaction to the mother of five who presumes to play on their stage. He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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Wow. So much going on!! Chris joined the US Civil Air Patrol in March and has been busy. He got his first set of stripes...he is now Cadet Airman Christopher ......... Last month, he was able to take his first flight. His instructor was wonderful (he looked like a grown up Chris---I kid you not!) and the instructor said that Chris did very well and, if we wanted to, he would be happy to be his instructor. We are praying the for money to do that. If any of you have kids between the ages of 13 and 21 who are looking for a taste of military life and enjoy physics, aeronautics, air planes, search and rescue, rocketry, etc. then I HIGHLY recommend the US Civil Air Patrol. It is the auxiliary of the US Air Force. No one has to join the military upon graduation. It is strictly volunteer. Chris is NOT that good at math and science, but he IS very good at learning by doing. He is doing very well in CAP. For more info check here: US Civil Air Patrol and look under the "Cadet" heading. Adults can join as well. Make it a family affair if you please. My niece, Shawna came to visit for 9 days. She is 10 and gets along great with Danny and Chris. They had fun going to an air show, swimming (lots of swimming), biking, walking, hiking and just your garden variety hanging out. School is back in session and Chris decided that he wanted to play varsity soccer so he has (sigh) returned to his private, Christian school. After getting straight A's doing homeschooling (lest you be fooled...he did have to work LONG hours to do this. Even at home with limited distractions, his ADHD is really something that gets in the way of his doing what he should be doing---that and the fact that he genuinely is academically lazy---oh, and bed making and room cleaning lazy, too. ![]() My niece Amber and myself will be starting homeschooling with our toddlers. Amber's oldest son is 5 months older than Danny. They seem pretty evenly matched especially now that Danny is talking in full sentences (albeit he is still mixing up the words---does anyone else have this going on with their toddler?--eg. I want iveem (icecream) get. for I want to get ice-cream) On the plus side, other than recognizing letters and numbers, he aces all the 3-year old "what my kid should be doing" checklists...oh and the potty training thing...he will faithfully use the potty if he is naked all the time. But put pants on him (even the cloth undies that he seems to love to look at and talk about so much) and he wont use the potty without me placing him on it under diress. What is up with that?? I have a hard time having my child naked all the time and with fall coming it just doesn't seem ...well seemly. We are still looking for placement for our oldest. We have found 2 places. One is in Texas and the other in Pennsylvania. The only problem is he is either very close to the age cut off, or he is past it. I don't know what we are going to do. We want to get him help before we have to involve the police. After he threatened to do physical harm to my husband (ie. terminate his life), we are concerned that we may need police involvement sometime soon. While we don't believe he would go this far (in fact we are sure of it), he is getting more and more disruptive and destructive. We want to help him get his life on track. It is weird, he is so good with animals and kids (other than his brother) but so horrible to us. Wild! If anyone would like the websites to the 2 places we have found, please e-mail me. I am very willing to share. On the positive side, he has held down a farm job all summer long. I worry about how he will balance school and work, but that is his worry now that he has told me his life was none of my business. It is wild that he doesn't seem to understand that his dad and I are here just waiting to be called on. We won't help him out the consequences of his poor choices, but we are here to support him thru them. I was telling him (during one of our dwindling times when he is civil) that God is also there walking along beside him just waiting to be called upon and, like us, God will not help him out of his misery but go thru it with him. It is so hard to love someone so much and see them constantly beat themselves against the rocks of life and then not see that it is they, not life, that is doing the banging. Sigh. Well, the dishes are calling me (gee, they call SO LOUD!) and I have to get out my "whip" and get Chris to pack up for tomorrow (i am in for eye rolling, sighing and the inevitable promise that it won't take him more than an hour to pack and get ready to go in the morning---can't wait to see how his commanding officer will react to that once he is in the Air Force) I can only smile and shake my head for all too soon, my teenagers will be young men. I just hope the few years we have had with them (9 for Paul and 10 for chris) are going to be enough to help them be productive members of society. Oh and, we have heard from my nephew in Afghanistan. He is doing well. If you get a chance, drop a soldier a line. Tell him or her how grateful you are for your freedoms. If you have the time and the finances, send a care package to someone who doesn't have family to send them something. A large box costs only about $10.00 to send at any weight. Send a letter in it telling them about your family and what you do at home. You will make someone's life really happy. ::stepping off the soapbox:: -Kim oh and....GO SARAH (i was not a huge McCain supporter...but now I can stand behind the McCain/Palin ticket with little reservation) He is Risen, Just as He said! |
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I watch/listen to Fox News most of the time because I might be driven to such extremes of anger at other news stations (and even our local ones) that I might break something. (a bit of an exaggeration, but you get my meaning). This is from Newsbusters (well worth a bookmark or RSS feed link): A Week With No US Troop Deaths in Iraq My nephew is now in Afghanistan (a change from first staying at Ft. Hood, Tx for several months, to being stationed in Japan to finally Afghanistan). We haven't heard from him in now 3 1/2 weeks. He is Risen, Just as He said! |

