I am finding that I cannot organize myself to write daily. I had high hopes, but perhaps I am just not ready to do that much writing. So, I decided to do a 'week in review' thingy and see how that works.
This past week I am incredibly grateful for my husband. We celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary on the 7th. Our meeting and marriage was truly God ordained (I still believe this--even after all these years).
We met on AOL--Literally. I know that seems to happen a lot now, but it seems like it wasn't so popular then. I had been dating a lot of creeps (of course, you find that when you are on-line). I was very interested in one guy, but his plans did not line up with mine (he wasn't looking to get married--i was).
So, I browsed through AOL's profile listings for men who were: Single, Christian, interested in Children's Ministry and within a certain age range (can't remember the exact range) 7 guys came up. I wrote all of them with some kind note about what I was looking for and asking them specifically about their faith and their interest in Children's Ministry. Dan was the only guy to write back. A bit later, when we were talking more, we talked about how I found him. When I looked at his profile more closely, it didnt list him as interested in Children's Ministry. He never was interested in Children's Ministry. He repeated the search and I repeated the search. Neither of us could get his profile to come up again. We got the other 6 guys plus one different guy...from Kimberly, Idaho (of all places)
Dan and I began talking sometime around his birthday in February 1998. We met face to face on June 2. We chose a place about halfway between us: Welsboro, PA. A cute, historic and quaint little town in northern PA. I went to visit his hometown on June 27th. I met some of his family (he is the youngest of 8 kids)
Dan took me on a walk to look at his property and get some pretty views of his home and the town. We took a walk thru the woods and he suddenly asked me: "What's that?". From my perspective, there was a tree root and a HUGE spider web...complete with spider. In my head I am thinking, "oh great, he has brought me out here to scare me with huge spiders". He moves me over and points out a small, white box in the root of the tree.
When he opened it, it was an engagement ring....with a small light on it. It was dark in the woods and the small light made the ring just sparkle in the shadows. He dropped to his knee and quoted a poem he had written for the occasion. I, of course said, YES!
We were married in my home church that November 7. It hasn't been easy. I left home, family, friends and career for a small town filled with strangers. Due to distance, we hadn't spent that much time in each others presence. But, we made a commitment before God. We work it out cuz, in our minds it is that or live in strife and unhappiness. Divorce is never an option for us.
Dan is a godly and patient man. He loves me no matter what. How can anything be better?
He is Risen, Just as He said! |
:)