Musings of a Mentor
Jan. 1, 2007

I am moving!!!

This week I have been playing around with other blog sites and I have found blogspot to be much easier to use and since I now have two other blogs there I am moving this one over there too.

My new home for Musings of a Mentor is http://rgrc.blogspot.com/ it will take time to get things moved, but this is my last new post at this site. I hope you might come by and visit sometime.


Peace and happy new year to all!

Sandie
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Dec. 28, 2006

Merry Christmas!

Posted in General
Today is Holy Innocents Day, or the 3rd or 4th day of Christmas depending upon your tradition. Here is prayer I find very meaningful. My husband and I say it together over the children after dinner every 28th of December to remember all the lost children of the world....

Let us pray. O Lord, Jesus Christ, Who didst embrace and lay thy hands upon the little children when they came to thee, and didst say to them: "Suffer little children to come unto me, and forbid them not, for the kingdom of heaven is theirs, and their angels always see the face of my Father," — look with a Father's eye upon the innocence of these children, and bless them this day and all days to come. By thy grace and goodness let them make progress in desiring thee, loving thee, fearing thee, obeying thy commandments — thus coming to their destined home, through thee, Saviour of the world, Who with the Father and the Holy Spirit livest and reignest, God, forever and ever. Amen.

Here is wishing you and yours a wonderful Christmas season! Savor each day until Epiphany!!!!
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Dec. 21, 2006

Lord of the Flies

These are four of the final essays done on Lord of the Flies.  Its themes of where do we really encounter the beast in our lives is still very relevant. I am extremely proud of these young men and how they continue to dig into the literature we are reading.
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Dec. 21, 2006

by Cody

New Ending by Cody Priddy
    Awoken by the shrill cries of the savages, Ralph realizes that he has to run. He picks himself up and takes off. He can recognize jack’s voice above everyone else’s, chanting, “Kill the enemy! Cut his throat! Spill his blood!”  Ralph picks up his pace, his heart throbbing faster than ever before. He looks back and sees the group of maniacs. He realizes that this may be the end. He quickens his pace, his legs feeling almost disconnected. Then out from the sky lands Jack. They stare at each other, eyes linking, one full of terror, the other full of hate and the want for blood.
    “Jack, why are you doing this?” an out of breath Ralph questions.
    Jack chuckles, “You’re the enemy, Ralph. I have to kill the enemy.” A vile grin runs across his face.
    “I just want to get off this island, like everyone else!”
    “Who cares about getting off this glorious sanctuary? We have all we need and no bloody adults!”
    “Sanctuary!? SANCTUARY!? This place is. . .Hell!”
    “And that’s where you’re be going soon enough!”
    “Wha...just listen to yourself, you’re batty!”
    “Perhaps. But, I own this island now, and I’m never leaving!”
    “What’s the use with you? Just kill me, but you’ll rot on this island.”
    “Great.” Jack turns off his smile and runs toward Ralph. He stabs and kills him.  Blood spurts into the air, and mixes with the clouds. It lands on Jack’s face with a satisfying splat. He licks it off his lips, smiles and walks off into the distance, blood dripping from his hand.
    One year, seven months and six days have gone by since Ralph’s murder. No more animals inhabit the land, except for the humans, of course. The fruit is gone and many people are ill. Jack’s a mess. By now he is realizing how right Ralph was. Suicide crosses his mind, but an old memory crosses his mind. “Kill me, but you’ll rot on this island.”  “Great.”  Jack created what the island is today and he cannot allow himself to escape from it, whether it be by ship or death. So Jack stayed and watched as many people died. Soon two years have passed and he is the only one left, not tainted by illness or death. He has eaten the corpses of others to survive. But eventually there is absolutely nothing left. He starved to death, never thinking to fish.
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    This is what probably should have happened for a number of reasons. The kids should not have escaped their island, they should have rotted on what they created. Only Ralph should have been set free, since he had no part in ruining the island. So by dying, he actually won. While Jack lost as he watched all the people he had been with for years die. For a time he was this so-called “beast,” but near the end his sanity returned and he regretted many things. This made his end even worse.
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Dec. 21, 2006

by Gabe

New Ending by Gabe Wright
    My ending picks up after Piggy died. Ralph was stabbed in his ribs. He felt horrible pain. The tip of Spear still stuck in his side. He fled All the boys laughing at him. They were victorious, this time.
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Ralph looked back in agonizing pain, he had to sit down. He was at least a third of a mile away from Castle Rock. He leaned his back against a rotten log. Ralph looked at his wound, seeing that it was only a flesh wound, he grabbed the end of the spear and pulled it out. Blood oozed out and he felt the warm liquid across his stomach. He ripped what was left of his shirt and wrapped it over his gash. Ralph breathed in and out feeling his side burst with pain. He clenched his teeth. He laid back his head against the rotten log; and, breathed slowly outward. He eyes closed. Piggy flashed in his head. “Piggy didn’t deserve to die. Jack and Roger will pay!” he mumbled to himself. “It seems safe for now. Tonight I will strike,” he said with a smile. Raising his fist into the air, and then pulling it back from the pain caused by his wounds.
    “Piggy is dead and he died horribly. Roger killed Piggy. He had no right to do that,” Ralph thought to himself, “How could he do that?”  Tears started to stream down his face. He leaned his head down, trying to hide his tears from the world. He felt a rain drop on his head. He looked up tear streaked. “I will avenge your unnecessary death!” he yelled. As his voiced echoed through the trees it seemed to reach the end of the world. He lifted his dirty head with blood red eyes and a grimacing smile, and said, “If they want savage, I’ll give it to them!”
    Jack looked at the overcast sky, it had been orange just a minute ago. It was as if someone had summoned these unforgiving clouds. He looked at the fire. The wind was blowing at the back of his head. And, he noticed how the fire flickered in the dimming sunlight. He didn’t care if it went out, he had Piggy’s specks. He had fire.
    Jack turned around and looked at Roger. “It’s going to rain. We will go and hunt tomorrow for Ralph,” said Jack with his red and white striped face. “Well, we will get him tomorrow for sure. We’ll smoke him out and we’ll scan the place so good that he’ll have nowhere to hide. But the storm...the storm is rolling in....What about the fire?”
    “What about it!” said Roger with a disturbed look on his face. Roger looked at the dark gray sky. He frowned thirsting for more blood.
    Ralph was there...Castle Rock. He was fidgeting with the spearhead in his hand. He smiled with vengeance oozing out of his teeth. He was ready but the time was not right. The fire was going and people were still looking out for him. Ralph would have to wait for it to rain. The smell of fresh salty rain was in the air. Ralph licked his lips with dissatisfaction they tasted like dirt and salt. Ralph waiting for the time to be right went to the left side of the camp and sat down. Looking at his wound, he smirked. The rain was close, he smelled it. He closed his eyes.
    Ten minutes later, Ralph raised his eyelids. He looked up, the rain was beating hard on his face. “Perfect!” he said with a very happy smile. “Now is the time to strike!” Ralph stood up with the spearhead clenched in his hand. The smell of smoke had diminished. He walked towards the rock. No one was patrolling the area where he had been waiting. The fire was out and he could sneak in. He went to the side of the rock were the fire was completely out. He knew that almost everyone was asleep inside, but a few were still patrolling the area closest to the fire. But, it was too dark to see them as more than just silhouettes.
    He sneaked closer, he is in the middle of the sleeping boys. I must strike quickly before anyone wakes up, he thought.  Stepping over a boy who was squirming, he reached towards a boy who was sleeping comfortably. Ralph couldn’t see who it was but it didn’t matter, he put his knife to the boy’s neck. A centimeter away, he covered the boy’s mouth slowly. The boy yawned, his hot moist breath heating Ralph’s hand. Ralph smiles, pulls back his hand ready to strike, sweat dripping from anticipation.
    Ralph swooped the knife deep into the boy’s neck. Blood squirts out. Splats over his face. Ralph smiles. The boy opened his eyes in horrific terror. He tried to yell, but choked on his own blood. The only sound was a bloody gurgle.
    The boy’s eyes close and he stops breathing. Ralph took his hand from the silhouette who laid dead in front of him, looks around to see if anybody has awakened. Nope, they still lay sleeping. Ralph looks back at the body. It laid motionless. Ralph smiles.
    Crouched and stepping over the pool of blood, searching, seeking for his next victim, Ralph sees slight movement and moves into the shadows. Behind a rock, he hid and spied his next target. It was still too dark to see and he didn’t really care who it was. Ralph stepped carefully over sleeping bodies. Finally, he stood over the squirming body with the bloody spearhead in his hand. He reached for the throat of his target, moving ever so slowly, ever so carefully, ever so close. He had very little time so he must work fast. His sweat mixing with the blood of another.
    Placing his hand over the sleeping victim, Ralph’s heart was beating fast. He crept the knife close to the sleeping body, then swooped it across the boy’s neck. A gurgle spurted from his lips and blood streamed out. The boy fell silent and still. He was dead. “Sleep, your nightmare is over,” Ralph whispered. Looking for another, Ralph saw who he thought was Sam. This should make an impression and tell them that this is NOT a game! Ralph said inside his head.
    Reaching for his final victim, his hand is now covered in blood. Moving slowly, he crept over to the boy. His hand shaking from excitement. The blood dripping...drip, drip...a drop falls on the third victim’s face. Ralph stops and looks around. The boy sleeps on. Knowing he has little time left to strike, it is getting light, Ralph covers the boy’s mouth. His hand is wet from blood, the boy opens an eye. He screams at the figure looming over him. Ralph puts Spearhead right into the boy’s forehead. The blood sprays over Ralph and showers him in warmth.
    Jack stood up as did others and scanned the dark room.  A few slept on, three would never wake up, again. Ralph looks up and sees the commotion, it is time he made his exit! As he is running out of the cave and into the forest, Jack is trying to wake everyone up. He screams, “Turn the fire back on!”  His face damp from the dew, Jack takes a step and felt a warm puddle between his toes. Reaching down, he feels the goop. He steps outside into the dim light. Dark red. Must be blood. Looking back with startled eyes asks, “Whose blood is this?” The crowd of boys looks back into the cave. Three figures lay still.
    Ralph lies at the end of the beach, his heart throbbing and his side bleeding freely, again. Tearing more of his shirt off, he ties his wound once more. Lying on the beach watching the light coming from the horizon, he puts he head back and lets a tear drop fall down his check. There is the smell of smoke in his nostrils, the island is on fire! Ralph turns and faces the horrid flames. A shadow looms over him, turning he finds himself staring at a pair of kneecaps covered by socks. He looks up into the face of a bearded man. “Are you the only one?” he asks in a husky tone. “Yes!” “Well, get on the boat, we’re set’n’t sail.” Once on the ship, Ralph looks back at the blazing hell that he is finally leaving.
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    The reason that I wanted Ralph to go a little crazy was because I wanted to see his evil side. Throughout the story, Ralph battled to choose which side he was on. I made him go temporarily insane for two reasons. First, by giving into his “dark side” he survived. Yet, in surviving he turned into what he didn’t want to be. He became a changed man by leaving his Enemies on the island to live out what they had made.
    Second, I wanted Ralph to kill the three boys to show that even though he was trying to do the right thing, he went in the opposite direction. He succumbed to revenge and savagery. He realized that Piggy was his only true friend. Even though Piggy wasn’t rough and strong, he was an innocent, he didn’t hurt anyone, always trying to do the right thing. In my ending savageness beat out the proper way to live.  I see it that Piggy was Ralph’s good conscience and that Jack sat on his other shoulder.  In loosing Piggy, Ralph lost the part of him that made him reasonable and civilized.
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Dec. 21, 2006

By Thomas and Brandon H

by Thomas Campbell
    The three main symbols were Piggy’s glasses, the conch shell, and the head of the pig.  Piggy’s glasses represent technology because when Piggy wears them he speaks rationally, intelligently and scientifically.  The conch shell represents democracy and everybody’s chance to speak.  It gathers them together and brings structure to all the boys.  It helps them choose the leader with less arguing. The pig’s head represents superstition and savagery.  The superstition is that there is a beast and the savagery is that it would want a blood offering.  Jack uses the pig’s head to excite the blood lust of the tribe. In this book there were many symbols knowing how to recognize the symbols will help you understand a book better.
by Brandon Hamilton
    The conch is one of the most important things on the island. It symbolizes government, justice and society, instead of savageness. When the story first started Ralph and Piggy found the conch on the beach. Ralph blows it to assemble all the children on the island. Then they all vote on a chief, which ends up being Ralph. As chief, Ralph decides to use the conch so everyone has a chance to be heard by passing it around. Whoever has it is able to speak so everybody wasn’t talking all at once. Ralph also decides when he blows the conch everyone is to gather for a meeting.
    After a while, Jack stops listening to Ralph and starts his own tribe. The children that were Jack’s friends when the plane crashed were the first to join Jack’s tribe. Later, almost all of the kids joined Jack because they saw that his tribe had no rules.  The only five that were left in Ralph’s tribe were Ralph, Piggy, Simon, Eric and Sam.  Jack didn’t respect society, he also didn’t respect the person that was speaking with the conch because he talked when he didn’t have the conch, in fact, he really didn’t respect any of the children on the island.
    At the end of the story Piggy tried to use the conch to get everyone to calm down and act civilized. His valiant effort cost him his life because he could not see without his glasses, therefore, he did not see the rock coming straight for him. After Piggy’s death, the conch was destroyed; and, Jack’s tribe tried to kill Ralph, but was unsuccessful.
    Even though the conch represents well being it wasn’t fool proof.  At first it worked, until Jack began to disobey the rules and do what he wanted. It is worst to be a savage then to be civilized.  Society doesn’t easily accept or tolerate those who act wild and uncivilized.  In this story Simon, Piggy and Ralph are the civilized ones while those who deserted to Jack’s tribe did so because they believed that savagery was just another fun game.
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Dec. 20, 2006

Brandon Hamilton

As in life, I found several types of love in the story The Bridge of San Luis Rey written by Thornton Wilder.  Parent to child love was illustrated through the relationship of Dona Maria and her daughter, Dona Clara.  This was a bad love because Dona Clara did not love her mother, but her mother loved her more than anything, even herself.  Another bad family relationship was shown between Camila and her son Don Jamie.  Camila did not know how to be a mother.  The parent-child relationship between Camila and Uncle Pio was a good love because he loved her and took care of her.
    Physical love was shown between Camila and the Viceroy; and Camila and the Matador.  Both of these relationships were only physical, Camila was interested in only what she could get from her lovers.  She did not understand that true love is giving not always receiving.
    Uncle Pio and Camila’s relationship also demonstrated mentor to student love.  This was a good one because she felt comfortable discussing her life with him.  Camila knew in her heart that Uncle Pio was a good role model.  There should have been a mentor to student relationship between Dona Maria and Pepita but there wasn’t because Dona Maria was too wrapped up in her own world and didn’t know Pepita was with her most of the time.    Towards the end of their stories Pepita was Dona Maria’s mentor, when Pepita taught Dona Maria about real love and courage.  Pepita’s real mentor was the Mother Superior.  It was she who Pepita truly learned from and could talk to. 
    Throughout the whole book, the love of Yahweh shines bright.  It was Brother Juniper’s love of Yahweh, and his need to “prove” that love, that led him to investigate the lives of the five people who died when the San Luis Rey Bridge fell.  The Abbess showed her love of Yahweh by dedicating her life to the needs of those less fortunate.  Uncle Pio’s life was an earthly example of Yahweh’s total unconditional love of man. Dona Maria after being shown how to love by Pepita wrote her Corinthian letter, which showed Yahweh’s love regardless.  After the tragedy, Camila joined the convent and became a true servant of Yahweh. 
    Love is one of the most important aspects of human relationships.  This story illustrated that Yahweh’s love is the source of all love.  Man takes this love and expresses it in many simple and complex ways.  Wilder has shown us different ways that people express love, both good and bad, it is up to us to learn how to love like Yahweh.
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Dec. 20, 2006

The Bridge of San Luis Rey

These seven essays on the Bridge of San Luis Rey were the best and most diverse that were turned in. The students are getting better and better at seeing and using literary tools. If you have never read this book, I strongly suggest it.

The theme of Live by Divine Purpose, Die by Divine Purpose or Live my accident, Die by accident is an important one.
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Dec. 20, 2006

by Athena Rose

Esteban was twin to Manual. He and his brother grew up in an orphanage. They were tall, handsome and hard workers. These two were as one, no one really knew which was who. It was almost as if they were one person living in two bodies. Until one day Manual fell in love. This was when the two began to separate.

Esteban and his brother kept to themselves most of the time. There were a few people who impacted Esteban's life. The Abbess raised the boys, influencing them in their writing, other skills, and teaching them the way of the Lord. After Manual died, Esteban went into a deep depression. He even tried many times to kill himself by doing dangerous rescues. When these attempts didn't work, Esteban attempted to hang himself. This is when Esteban was saved by Captain Alvarado. The Captain asked Esteban to come with him , to help on his ship, and busy the pain away. Esteban agreed, a couple days later, he died on the Bridge.

Was Esteban's death an accident or a plan by the All Mighty? Esteban was starting over, but in what, a new life without his brother or a new life with God? In this story, Wilder expands our minds to think about the question, are we all an accident and just die by accident or are we all part of a plan and our death is planned out before it happens?

I believe God created us to make choices. Our choices create our destiny. I also believe God is with us when we make our choices and hopefully His word influences the choices we make. While I don't believe life is a total accident, I don't believe God has it planned out in stone either. We are part of God's plan, making our choices with His guidance.

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Dec. 20, 2006

by Austin Broadus

In the book we read , The Bridge of San Luis Rey, Dona Clara was the daughter of Dona Maria. When she grew up her mother worshiped her which really got on her nerves. She would take advantage of her mother's wealthiness and the way she felt made it easier to get it. When she got older she totally forgot about her mother and moved to Spain and got a very wealthy man.

In the story Dona Maria kept sending countless letters to her daughter. She never read them though. Her husband kept them and they still survive today thanks to him. Before Dona Maria died she sent a final letter that showed something her daughter had never seen before. It showed true love, love that had never been felt by Dona Clara. She then gave her mothers money to the church and orphanage instead of donating it to science which she had previously planned. The whole book has to do religion versus science.

The author used the characters to illustrate theme by showing that either by an act of god or an accident. People die and that can change people's perspective on life. If the collapse of the bridge was just a random event or those five people deserved to die, it still happened an they did die, and that combined combined with that last letter changed Dona Clara's view of her mother and her life.

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Dec. 20, 2006

by Matthew Newsome

Mother Superior was a head nun at a convent. She was a feminist she believed women should be respected. Men in this society treated women like work animals not people. Mother superior also had an foster home in her church which there was a small girl she was very close to her. Mother Superior taught this little girl everything. Pepita was the little girl's name and she was basically a daughter to Mother Superior.

When Donna Marie came to adopt Pepita Mother was worried for her because Donna Marie was crazy but she said it would be good to because she would get to see what it's like to live in the palace. Mother had an impact on Pepita because when she went to Donna's house she thought about what Mother said about always obeying your elders and this is when Pepita was left on the conner of the church when Donna went to the church to pray. She also had an effect on Donna Marie because Donna was always worried about someone else and never thought about herself and then she realize it was not worth worrying all the time about other people.

The death's that effected mother Superior's life were Esteban, Pepita, and Donna Marie. Pepita had an effect on Mother was Pepita was like a daughter to Mother and she taught her everything and she was going to follow and take over Mother's job. Then she lost the twins and she felt like she was loosing hope because these two were like her children. Then Donna Marie died and she left all her money to the church. She felt better when she received the money and Camellia help her to feel a whole lot better about the future.

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Dec. 20, 2006

by Josh Woodson

The reason Camellia was important in the story was because she was connected to all five people that died on the bridge. Camellia was connected to Uncle Pio because he was her mentor because she could not read or write so he had to teach her everything she knew about acting,sining and being a lady. She was connected to Don Jamie because that was her son. She would never cuddle him or anything else;she always had other people take care of him. The way Camellia was connected to Esteban was that his brother loved Camellia and he was a scribe at the theater where she worked. Camellia was connected to Dona Maria because she made fun of her in public,then had to go apologize to her in person. But after Camellia started to know Dona Maria Camellia wanted to be a lady just like Dona Maria. She knew Pepita because she visited Dona Maria. As a young women Camellia thought people only loved her because she was beautiful, after having small pox she thought she would never know any kind of love. Camellia changed after the bridge collapsed because she went into the convent. This made her finally be able to love. After six years of taking care of sick people the that were going to die she learned the difference between love and lust.
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Dec. 20, 2006

by Taylor Sprowles

The book my literature group and I read was called The Bridge of San Luis Rey and the character I'm writing about is named Pepita. Pepita was an orphan girl. At about the age of twelve, she was very smart and could read very well. She was being raised in the convent. The Abbess was training her to take over. Before that could happen she had to spend time in the outside world with Dona Maria. She was Dona Maria's servant and also like a daughter. Pepita played a very important role in this great book because she showed Dona Maria the real meaning of true love. Because of a letter Pepita wrote to the Abbess. In the letter Pepita talked about how much she missed the convent, the sisters, and especially the Abbess. It was kind of a whining letter. When Dona Maria read it at first she thought it was beautiful, but Pepita explained it was not ?brave?. Dona Maria finally under stood that she was being selfish, because she wanted her daughter to feel sorry for her. Dona Maria noticed that she was giving people gifts and almost anything they wanted just so that they would like her more. The reason I believe she died on the Bridge of San Luis Rey is because she served her purpose in life by helping Dona Maria find the real meaning of love. Pepita also showed her to try and start her relationship over with her daughter Dona Clara. Pepita played her part in helping someone else and so, as she was crossing the bridge the accident we all know happened.
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Dec. 20, 2006

by Gabe Wright


When Dona Maria was a little kid her mother wanted her to main stream with popular pretty girls. She was never really accepted, because she was a little awkward and never picked up on social cues. Her mother pushed her into these groups and wanted her to be something she was not. When she turned 20 she married a ruined nobleman. Dona Maria had a child, Dona Clara.

Dona Clara didn't like listening to her mother. She thought that she was insignificant. Dona Clara left to go to Spain. Dona Maria wanted her daughter to love her so much that he sent her extravagant letters. These letters were so good that they were put into textbooks for school boys to study.

Since Dona Maria was Marquesa de Montemayer she had much influence over many people. Her servant Pepita had a lot to do with Dona Maria. She made Dona Maria feel courage and independent. Pepita also made Dona Maria notice that she doesn't need to give people stuff to make them like her.

Well of course she died from the fall of the bridge, but you could say she killed her old-self to make way for her rebirth. Her rebirth happened when she figured out that she needed to be more independent and live bravely in the true love of God. I believe when she fell from the bridge that it was time for her to go.

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Nov. 17, 2006

Thank you for all the prayers!

Dirk (my dh) is showing signs of getting better. The IV antibiotics have made a noticable difference in his infections. We still know the thryoid is the major problem, but it will be December before that can be tested again. Just getting the infections under control and having him sleep better are huge improvements. One step at a time will get him healthier than he has been in years!

Again thank you all, it was a scary couple of days with his immune system shutting down. I really could feel the support of the prayers surrounding us. Thank You!

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Nov. 15, 2006

update and a rant!

Ok, first the quick update on Dirk. He went to the doctor today. He is no better and in many ways worse than he was when he was in the hospital. Now the game plan is to have a nurse come over 2 times a day and check on him. He will be hooked up to an IV here at the house so that the fluids and meds can go straight into his system. The doctor is afraid his entire immune system is shutting down because he has yet more infections. If he is not better with the IV and the Nurse then he will go back into the hospital Friday morning.

Now to begin the rant (and I have a feeling it will be a big one so hang on :) ) My dad had a stroke Monday morning and is now in the hospital. Whenever I visit my dad in the hospital I see old family friends and aquaintances that know me and the kids pretty well.

The topic of conversation almost always gets around to "how are the kids doing?" Well this time I say, Kayleigh is in NYC, Athena is off audtioning and visiting lots of colleges, and Nathan is now taking classes at the local Youth Performing Arts High School. One of the comments I got today was "OH, so Nathan is finally out in the real world."

My polite answer was "He is in a different world and having to learn new coping skills." Then I changed the topic. What I wanted to say to this public school teacher is highschool is the farthest thing in the world from 'the real world'.

Since when do people in the 'real world' change tasks every 90 minutes because a bell rings? Since when do people in the 'real world' wait for others to validate them--stamping them with grades like pieces of meat at the butcher? Since when are people in the 'real world' grouped according to age? Since when do people in the 'real world' have to ask in front of a group of their peers to use the bathroom? Since when are people in the 'real world' spoken to like idiots by others? Why do women in the workplace get to file sexual harassment suits, but girls in this 'real world' are told to put up with comments, groping, and even rape because boys will be boys? Why are men in the workplace respected for creative new ideas, but boys in this 'real world' who think differently than the teachers are made to feel stupid?

I could go on and on, but my point is that I get frustrated with people (especially school teachers) who think school is the 'real world' for homeschoolers, but then will tell kids in school "just wait until you get out into the real world, people won't help you as much as I do now."  The Real World is what you make it. It is how you choose to live your life right now!

Nathan is learning valuable skills while in this public highschool setting, but honestly very few of them have to do with education. Most of the good things he is learning have to do with time management, personal responsibility for assignments, listening to others, and honing his craft in his chosen profession of dance. He needed to see the grass wasn't greener on the other side, every style of education comes with pros and cons. He only learns through experience, so why not take advantage of this experience. It adds to who he is as a person, it gives him more depth and understanding of others. I know he will finish out this academic year, but I really don't think he will choose to return, but if he does that is ok too. He is responsible for his own education and I am here as his guide and support. I will fill in the holes and gaps that will occur because of the conveyor belt education, but it is his education not mine and he should have the biggest say now that he is a young man that has shown himself capable of making solid decisions.

The "real world" as most people use it does not exist. Each person creates their own real world by the way they engage with those around them. Learning to cope with new experiences, new ways of doing things, new ideas, new ways of thinking and it doesn't matter if you go to school or if you are homeschooled if your world isn't challenging, vibrant, and amazing it isn't the 'real world.' However, the reverse is true too, if your world is full of life, learning and adventure then you live, breathe, play and worship in the 'real world'.

That is it for my midnight rant....thanks for tuning in and I will get off my soapbox now!

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Nov. 5, 2006

Very proud to be an Anglican today.......

Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori’s investiture sermon

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Investiture
4 November 2006
National Cathedral

Where is home for you? How would you define your home? A friend in Nevada said to me just before I left that he had thought I would only leave Nevada to go home, and in his mind, that meant Oregon. But in the six years I spent there, Nevada became home. The state song is even called, “Home means Nevada.” And for a place filled with folk who have come from elsewhere, that is quite remarkable – all sorts and conditions of rootless people trying to grow new roots in the desert.

So where is home for you? Des Moines or Anchorage or Taipei or San Salvador or Port au Prince?

What makes it home? Familiar landscape, a quality of life, or the presence of particular people?

Some people who engage this journey we call Christianity discover that home is found on the road, whether literally the restless travel that occupies some of us, or the hodos that is the Way of following the one we call the Christ. The home we ultimately seek is found in relationship with creator, with redeemer, with spirit. When Augustine says “our hearts are restless until they find their rest in thee, O Lord” he means that our natural home is in God.

The great journey stories of the Hebrew Bible begin with leaving our home in Eden, they tell of wandering for a very long time in search of a new home in the land of promise, and they tell later of returning home from exile. And eventually Israel begins to realize that they are meant to build a home that will draw all the nations to Mount Zion. Isaiah’s great vision of a thanksgiving feast on a mountain, to which the whole world is invited, is part of that initial discovery of a universal home-building mission, meant for all. Jesus’ inauguration and incarnation of the heavenly banquet is about a home that does not depend on place, but on community gathered in the conscious presence of God.

In Death of the Hired Man, Robert Frost said that “home is the place where, when you go there, they have to take you in.” We all ache for a community that will take us in, with all our warts and quirks and petty meannesses – and yet they still celebrate when they see us coming! That vision of homegoing and homecoming that underlies our deepest spiritual yearnings is also the job assignment each one of us gets in baptism – go home, and while you’re at it, help to build a home for everyone else on earth. For none of us can truly find our rest in God until all of our brothers and sisters have also been welcomed home like the prodigal.

There’s a wonderful Hebrew word for that vision and work – shalom. It doesn’t just mean the sort of peace that comes when we’re no longer at war. It’s that rich and multihued vision of a world where no one goes hungry because everyone is invited to a seat at the groaning board, it’s a vision of a world where no one is sick or in prison because all sorts of disease have been healed, it’s a vision of a world where every human being has the capacity to use every good gift that God has given, it is a vision of a world where no one enjoys abundance at the expense of another, it’s a vision of a world where all enjoy Sabbath rest in the conscious presence of God. Shalom means that all human beings live together as siblings, at peace with one another and with God, and in right relationship with all of the rest of creation. It is that vision of the lion lying down with the lamb and the small child playing over the den of the adder, where the specter of death no longer holds sway. It is that vision to which Jesus points when he says, “today this scripture has been fulfilled in your hearing.” To say “shalom” is to know our own place and to invite and affirm the place of all of the rest of creation, once more at home in God.

You and I have been invited into that ministry of global peace-making that makes a place and affirms a welcome for all of God’s creatures. But more than welcome, that ministry invites all to feast until they are filled with God’s abundance. God has spoken that dream in our hearts – through the prophets, through the patriarchs and the mystics, in human flesh in Jesus, and in each one of us at baptism. All are welcome, all are fed, all are satisfied, all are healed of the wounds and lessenings that are part of the not-yet-ness of creation.

That homecoming of shalom is both destination and journey. We cannot embark on the journey without some vision of where we are going, even though we may not reach it this side of the grave. We are really charged with seeing everyplace and all places as home, and living in a way that makes that true for every other creature on the planet. None of us can be fully at home, at rest, enjoying shalom, unless all the world is as well. Shalom is the fruit of living that dream. We live in a day where there is a concrete possibility of making that dream reality for the most destitute, forgotten, and ignored of our fellow travelers – for the castaways, for those in peril or just barely afloat on life’s restless sea.

This church has said that our larger vision will be framed and shaped in the coming years by the vision of shalom embedded in the Millennium Development Goals – a world where the hungry are fed, the ill are healed, the young educated, women and men treated equally, and where all have access to clean water and adequate sanitation, basic health care, and the promise of development that does not endanger the rest of creation. That vision of abundant life is achievable in our own day, but only with the passionate commitment of each and every one of us. It is God’s vision of homecoming for all humanity. [Applause]

The ability of any of us to enjoy shalom depends on the health of our neighbors. If some do not have the opportunity for health or wholeness, then none of us can enjoy true and perfect holiness. The writer of Ephesians implores us to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace – to be at one in God’s shalom. That is our baptismal task and hope, and unless each of the members of the body enjoys shalom we shall not live as one. That dream of God, that word of God spoken in each one of us at baptism also speaks hope of its realization.

The health of our neighbors, in its broadest understanding, is the mission that God has given us. We cannot love God if we fail to love our neighbors into a more whole and holy state of life. If some in this church feel wounded by recent decisions, then our salvation, our health as a body is at some hazard, and it becomes the duty of all of us to seek healing and wholeness. As long as children live exposed on the streets, while seniors go without food to pay for life-sustaining drugs, wherever peoples are sickened by industrial waste, the body suffers, and none of us can say we have finally come home.

What keeps us from the tireless search for that vision of shalom? There are probably only two answers, and they are connected – apathy and fear. One is the unwillingness to acknowledge the pain of other people, the other is an unwillingness to acknowledge that pain with enough courage to act. The cure for each is a deep and abiding hope. If God in Jesus has made captivity captive, has taken fear hostage, it is for the liberation and flourishing of hope. Augustine said that as Christians, we are prisoners of hope – a ridiculously assertive hope, a hope that unflinchingly assails the doors of heaven, a hope that will not cease until that dream of God has swallowed up death forever, a hope that has the audacity to join Jesus in saying, “today this scripture has been fulfilled in your hearing.”

And how shall that scripture be fulfilled in our hearing? In the will to make peace with one who disdains our theological position – for his has merit, too, as the fruit of faithfulness. In the courage to challenge our legislators to make poverty history, to fund AIDS work in Africa, and the distribution of anti-malarial mosquito nets, and primary schools where all children are welcomed. In the will to look within our own hearts and confront the shadows that darken the dream that God has planted there.

That scripture is fulfilled each time we reach beyond our narrow self-interest to call another home.

That scripture is fulfilled in ways both small and large, in acts of individuals and of nations, whenever we seek the good of the other, ifor our own good and final homecoming is wrapped up in that.

God has spoken that dream in us, let us rejoice! Let us join the raucous throngs in creation, the sea creatures and the geological features who leap for joy at the vision of all creation restored, restored to proper relationship, to all creation come home at last. May that scripture be fulfilled in our hearing and in our doing.

Shalom, chaverim, shalom, my friends, shalom.

[Congregation responded: Shalom]

The Most Rev. Katharine Jefferts Schori
Presiding Bishop and Primate
The Episcopal Church

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Nov. 5, 2006

thank you for all the kind words and prayers

I have been recieving of prayers and well wishes through email as well as those taking the time to post here. Thank You all!

I have found I really miss blogging, but it will be a little longer until I am free of what has to be done so I can have time for what I want to do. As a tension release I did go ahead and sign up for NaNoWriMo where you challange yourself to write a 50,000 word novel in 30 days or less during the month of November.

I am not doing very well. I am only averaging about 1000 words a day instead of the needed 1700-2000 to reach the goal, but it is a huge stress releaver and a way to kind of turn off my mind before going to bed each night.

Dirk is still going to the hospital just about everyday for tests. The insurance company won't let him stay there even though two of his current 4 doctors would prefer it. They say without a specific 'plan of action' all tests can be done on an out patient basis. The poor guy has now had a camera run through every hole in his body! And he feels like a human pin cushion with the amount of blood they have to take everyday.

The only thing that keep us going is knowing for a fact when the thyroid and prostrate are taken care of he will feel better than he has in years and hopefully even be able to get off some blood pressure and diabeties meds. and get back to the gym.

Thanks again for all the encouragement!

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Oct. 28, 2006

One of Athena's many college essays

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I believe everyday experiences can change a person if they are open to seeing in a new way. Just recently, a homeless man came up to the skate park while I was there. The man was dancing around and smiling, which made me smile. When I looked around though everyone was pointing and laughing. When the old man sat down and started talking, people would make jokes, take his stuff and then throw it at him. It was hurting me to see people treating another person like that. Eventually, the old man came up to and started talking to me.


Everyone around me was talking about him; I just listened to what he had to say. He told me about his sons and how he made bad choices in life. He asked me to listen to my elders because there is always something to learn from them. He then reached into his pocket and pulled out a plastic baggy. It was full of trash he had collected. He explained to me how it was a puzzle. He pointed out the different colors telling me what they meant. After explaining all that was in the bag he handed it to me. I didn't know what to do, so I just held onto it.


After just sitting next to him for a while, I told him I needed to to talk to someone. When we said 'bye and I walked over to my friends. They asked me what he said; I couldn't really answer them. They didn't really care, they only wanted to twist his words to continue making fun of him.


My friends couldn't understand why I stayed and talked to him. The whole time I was thinking of the Golden Rule, “Love thy Neighbor as thy Self.” I just sat there and talked. It didn't hurt me to listen to what he had to say. A lot of my friends kept making fun of him, even after he left. I think they made fun of him because of their own insecurities. It is easier to make yourself feel better by tearing others down than it is to reach out and help another person.


I left the park that day thinking about the old man. If everyone in the world were that friendly, life would be so much more peaceful. I want to be like that. When I come across people who I wouldn't normally talk to, I talk to them. I want to know them. Each person on this planet has something to teach me. And who knows we may turn out to be great friends.



I posted this essay here because as I read it I thought about all the different reasons parents tell me they homeschool. This essay is exactly why I homeschooled! While reading it I went through a whole series of emotions. But mostly I was scared (I didn't know she had this encounter) and I was proud (she treated another human being with kindness and compassion).



I have always said you "know" when they are ready for college and I think this essay shows a confident young woman who is ready to face and engage the world on her own terms. I will miss her, probably even more than I miss Kayleigh. Athena has a calmness about her that soothes anyone in her presence!


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Oct. 28, 2006

Updates...


I have finally had a day to just read and catch up on my cyber friends. I am sorry I haven't posted yet, but I should have even more time tomorrow.

    Dirk is doing better in some ways and worse in others. He has multiple infections that are very drug resistant. A big part of his problem stems from the fact that his thyroid went wacky and they told him to stop taking his medication for 6 weeks, this gave the infections just enough time to really take hold and ravage his whole body--especially his endrocrine system. Just about every gland you can think of is full of this resistant infection.


    While he was in the hospital they also found a hyrnea (sp?) that they repaired, but the surgery made him weaker and left him in even more pain.


    He has appointments with three specialists this week. The good news is when it is all over he will feel better than he has in years. Personally, I think it all needs to start with the thyroid! His doctor wants him in the hospital, but the insurance company won't let him stay because there is no "specific" treatment plan yet.


    I have never been prouder of the kids! All of those who come over to study are really chipping in and helping me out. With Dirk down, Mom fighting the weather change(and visiting colleges with Athena), and my stepdad now over the road as a truck driver, I am the only adult doing the "chores". Athena is helping some, but she is traveling a lot, Kayleigh is in NYC and Nathan is at school everyday and dive or dance practice at night. I only get to see him on Sundays now and it is usually to do homework, not yardwork or chopping wood anymore. All the little things he used to take care of that I didn't even think about are mostly going undone.


    I am realizing how spoiled I used to be with how I spent my time!

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