Dec. 21, 2007 - Almost Christmas Time

Well, I am at the half way point of one daughter's birthday and the other daughter's birthday.
  We had a simple, yet large party here on Sunday for daughter turning 4.  It was a "Little People" party.  We set up the girls room with the "Little People" barn, house, doctor's office and put out all the Little People to play with.  We had cake, apples, and cheese.  That was it.  Then about 30 people were here at the house.  We had homeschooling friends, church friends, and AWANA friends (some crossed over; some didn't).  One invitee was a 12 year old that my daughter asked especially for.  I had a good time visiting with these friends and hopefully the parents enjoyed their visit too. Instead of "loot" bags or goody bags, I opted for a "treasure chest."  There were little whistles, sunglasses, straw candy, etc. and the children could get out as much or as little as they wanted.  It was very simple and even though there were lots of people, it was very enjoyable and not too much stress.
  Now, my daughter turning 7 understands about even numbers and odd numbers.  Our birthday "policy" has been--when you are turning an even number, you can have a friend birthday party and when you are turning an odd number, you'll have a family birthday party.  Well, last year when she turned 6, she had a ballet birthday party and had lots of friends, presents, cake left over, games played.  This year we'll be traveling to see grandma, cousins, and an uncle who shares the birthday with her.  It will be fine.  I'm just trying to make it through this season.
  I've been thinking about how to make the season special.  I'd also like for the girls to have their special day too.  Someone told me that it'll be special just b/c it's at this time of year.  I don't know.  Already, everyone talks about how to slow down during the holidays and "how to de-stress the Christmas season."  Now, we've added birthdays to the mix.  I guess it will boil down to love--genuine, real love for each of the children and then accepting Christ's love for me.  Without love, I'm a clashing gong during Silent Night.

Merry Christmas.