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• Nov. 18, 2005 - Herd Education and Youth Culture

I have been following and participating in a discussion on Spunky Homeschool's blog post - Our children as missionaries. This morning, my husband and I were discussing some things going on in the world, a person's reaction to his posting on And Such Were Some of You on Homeschoolblogger, and the "coming out" of "gay" teens. I had one of those times when my thoughts went "click." I entered my teens in the 1960's during the "Sexual Revolution." I was raised in the government schools and influenced very much by the "question your parents' value system" stuff being promoted by my teachers and, of course, by my peer group.

I got thinking that the 1920's was another time that stands out as a cultural shift that started in the "youth culture." It is called the Roaring Twenties or the Flapper Era. It was a time that young people challenged the values of their time. The girls started "bobbing" their hair and wearing skimpy clothing (compared to the standard of society then). Young people took up cigarette smoking, partying, and a disrespect to their parents and the older generation. Women's liberation made some real strides in that time period as well. Then in my generation the "youth culture" started another revolution. It is called the sexual revolution. Couples started "shacking up" without marriage, illegitimate births increased, drugs and smoking pot were promoted among the young. There was an even greater disrespect of parents and the values of the older generation. The women's liberation movement became very firmly entrenched in our society and the "housewife" became something to look down upon. We have been downward-spiraling as a society ever since.

Lets see - 1920's to 1960's - forty years, right? Now it is forty years later again and we are having an uprise in the "youth culture" again and, of course, our whole society. This time it is an uprise in perversion. "Gay" teens are "coming out" in record numbers. The courts are deciding that parents don't have a say in their children's education (well, at least one so far, but others will follow. You can count on that!) Bestiality, child-adult sex, "gay" marriage and all sorts of perversions are being pushed and legalized. Now the things that we were encouraged to embrace by questioning our parents' values when I was in school, are the things being taught to this generation of children. Now the schools outright teach it, instead of encouraging children to question the values of the older generation. They just are encouraged now to question the things that even liberals found shocking when I was young.

Now, I started thinking about the similarities and what might have helped make them. I know I need to research more and if anyone has information that would show a whole "youth culture" move in the 1800's, I would appreciate it being brought to my attention. In my own research so far, I have not seen that there was a rise of "youth culture" of any significant proportion until the 1920's. The compulsary education attendance laws were becoming more wide-spread by the turn of the century in 1900, but it wasn't until 1918 that the 48th state adopted compulsary education attendance laws. A wide-spread "youth culture" was not really possible until that point. By the early 1900's, a significant portion of the youth were herded into peer-groups where they spent the majority of their time together. Other forces also had an effect such as the rise of entertainment media, easier communication and a world war. The combination brought about the first rise of "youth culture" in our society in the 1920's. The youth of that day were considered rebellious, as well as those of the 1960's and there are those who see them in our day as rebellious, but our society, as a whole, has accepted rebellion as being part of the youth culture.

I know that since "youth culture" has started having uprisings, that it has happened pretty much continuously, but there have been major times and they have seemed to be generational as far as running in a pattern of forty years. Maybe that has to do with rebellion towards parents that is encouraged. In the 1920's the youth had a liberal cultural revolution so it would have gone to a conservative revolution in the 1940's. The same would be true of the 1960's again having a liberal revolution and conservative in the 1980's. Now we are having a liberal revolution again in this day. The one thing that is happening, though, is that the immorality has progressed with each liberal revolution and the only thing that has happened in the larger turns to conservatism have just been maintaining the status quo, instead of a true revival and repentance happening.

I am proposing that as long as children are herded into an educational system on a large scale and that parents are pursuing their own lives on a large scale because they have someone to teach and "care for" their children, we will not see any real change. Actually, I think that at this point and with the global empasis on these things, that parents are going to shortly lose the opportunity to have a real influence in their children's lives. Since there are a greater amount of professing christians that believe in sending their children to public school than those that choose to home educate, we are not going to see any change, but only a greater and greater control and influence over children. Unless those parents really take the time to study the history of our modern institution of education and see the real danger of herding children into peer groups, they will not see what is coming. It is impossible to regenerate the public schools or to change their agenda. It is long-running over generations and has a principality behind it propelling it forward. The only way to have any effect is to resist and to take up what we have been entrusted with - the training of our children to know the mind and heart of G-d. At least, they will hopefully not fall prey to the mass deception and delusion that is taking over in our day.

My oldest daughter, who is now 29 years old, went to a christian school for two years. She has always struggled more with peer group dependancy than any of her other sisters. I started home educating in 1985, a year after it was enabled by Nebraska law. My Father had been convicting me to do so since before my oldest was school age. What really caused me to take it seriously was the scripture in Deuteronomy 6:4-9 -

"Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD: And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates."

As I meditated on this section of scripture, I could see no way to obey it other than to have my children with me for the day. I have had my oldest in private school and saw how much time that it took from her life and how much less time I had to have input into it during those two years. Even when my life fell apart at the breakup of my first marriage, I continued to home educate as best I could as a single mother. I chose to work part-time and trust my Father to provide and lived very frugally to be able to live on what He provided. When I remarried, Rick was not yet convinced about home education, so we enrolled my fourth daughter and the only one still of school age at that time into middle school. She did excellently that year and Rick got an education on public education. He started becoming convinced and the next year we were home educating again. When we moved to Missouri in early 2002, I had a very young baby and we had been off schedule with the baby and the move for a few months. When I tried to start up working with my then 9 year old son again, he gave me some real problems and I told him I was going to put him in school if he continued to do so. That was the first time since I had started home educating in 1985, that I was the one to initiate doing that. When Rick got home and heard how he had acted, he declared we were going to put him in school. This was before he even knew what I had said. We enrolled our son in school that week. While we were doing so, the principal of the school was condescending towards our having home educated our children. As we were given a tour of the school, we saw their heroes posted on the walls - Whoopie Goldberg, Eleanor Roosevelt, Che Guevera and others. Then we were in the all-purpose room and saw the motto for the school posted on the wall. I only remember this part of it, but it was what really concerned us - "to prepare productive citizens of a changing, global society." That was when Rick got a conviction. He said our children were not being prepared to be part of a global society. He decided that my son's days in school would be short and that it would only be to finish out that school year. We now are both committed to home education and Rick's time in a "Christ-centered and Spirit-led" university has only served to strengthen his conviction about the education of our children.

I was part of the movement from the 60's and if my Redeemer, Yeshua the Messiah hadn't rescued me, I would be a strong proponant of all that was promoted during that time (if I was even yet alive). He has given me a sacred trust in gifting me with these children of mine. They are not to be squandered in herd education or youth culture or sacrificed on the altar of duty to evangelize. My young children still need to really have a relationship of their own with their Creator yet. I am to give them a foundation so that when they do have that relationship of their own, they will be sharp arrows in His hand. I surely am not going to give them over to this strong movement of this day that is going to result in the return of our Messiah. From my experiences with public and private schooling, there is not much time left in a day for parents to fulfill the command in Deuteronomy 6, and if both parents work, I certainly don't know how they will do it. For me, this is the only path to follow.

I will respect the decisions of others as far as the educational choices they make because I do not know G-d's will for their individual lives, but I will also encourage them to study the history of education, to study how herd education has effected societies in the past, to study the scriptures and then to study the agendas of this day for our children. In other words, I will encourage them to make an informed decision and a prayerful decision. Personally, I believe that G-d is calling us out of the systems of this world. We will not effectively evangelize in the systems anyway, but only as we rub shoulders with our neighbors and those He brings into our path. The time is very short before our Messiah returns. We need to make sure that we are doing what He wants us to do.

Love and shalom,
Serena
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• Nov. 23, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Dell
Wise words. I came across your blog through the Random Blog feature, and found it to be a rich and rewarding read. THank you!
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• Dec. 1, 2005 - interesting post

Posted by hsmom23
I've missed stopping by due to computer problems.
Christina
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• Dec. 2, 2005 - Thank you for stopping by!

Posted by jenlovestoquilt
Thank you for stopping by my little blog. I added you to my friends list because you have really intrigued me by your posts. I'm trying to get an understanding about what you believe further. Your blog has actually sparked some interesting discussions between me and my husband. Specifically about whether or not we (Christians) should be living by the law. I look forward to reading more!

Have a good day!
Jen
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• Dec. 2, 2005 - Shalom!

Posted by SBadgley
Thank you for stopping in at my blog. It is so nice to meet you! I look forward to reading the posts on your blog and have added you to my friends list. Your blog is beautiful! Blessings, Sharra
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• Dec. 2, 2005 - Jen, you inspired a whole blogpost...

Posted by lazearbeam
and I hope it helps you to understand a little more of what I believe. I did not take what you wrote badly at all and am not saying anything negative towards it. I sense that Father is trying to teach you a greater understanding of His Word. I did deal with the attitude that christians on the whole in western cultures have towards the "Law."
Love and shalom,
Serena
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• Apr. 24, 2006 - REading through your blog

Posted by REInvestor
I thought you had such an astute analysis of the current cultural situation in this entry, that I wanted to post and tell you. It is always encouraging to me to "meet" people who have been in the world and have so radically changed. God is amazing in what He can do in our lives.
Just wanted to add that over the years we have been working at incorporating more JEwish celebrations into our family life and it has been a rich and rewarding experience. Blessings on your and your family.
Jennifer
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Yeshua is my Messiah. He is my Shalom. In Him I have life. He has blessed me with a husband, children and grandchildren. I love to write and share the life He has given me. I am a stay at home mother and have home-educated since 1985. I am ecclectic in my approach to home education. I love catalogs like Timberdoodle. Once my children learn to read, they do a lot of self-teaching with guidance from me. This year we are pursuing learning French since Daddy is studying it at the university.

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