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Sunday, May 13, 2007
Happy Mother's Day - New Orleans Trip

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Happy Mother's Day - New Orleans Trip - Greetings from Post-Katrina "The Big Easy"!  I feel a bit guilty and sort of wish we were here to do something constructive to help with the hurricane recovery instead of just tagging along sight-seeing while Ben is at a work conference...Well, Ben tells me we are helping, at least helping the economy a bit.   Lately, we've been spoiled by military hotels which usually have full kitchens. We'll go out to eat occasionally or when we have to or grab something for a picnic, but we generally like the option of cooking in, especially with 4 kids, long waits, higher costs, etc. This plush hotel only has a coffeemaker and a refrigerator full of very overpriced snacks/drinks for sale (i.e. No microwave). This time I ended up bringing our rice cooker and lots of canned and dry food items, paper plates, etc. It's amazing all that one can cook in a rice cooker other than just rice. Here are a few links...Last night, we had a dish with brown rice, canned corn, canned tuna, some TVP, and furikake, which J12ds liked. I was getting concerned because he hasn't been eating much lately because of discomfort from his new orthodonic expanders. One tip to make hotel room dishwashing and clean up easier was to line the pot with oil so it wouldn't stick.

Today we walked and visited the National WWII Museum. That is a wonderful museum...It was a little heavy/overwhelming for J9dd...She is sometimes very sensitive to scary, violent, graphic scenes which is hard to avoid when dealing with D-Day. Similar feelings were felt when we visited Dachau concentration camp in Germany. I really appreciated these multimedia timeline maps that graphically showed for example when and where the Nazis on the European side and Japan on the Pacific side were trying to expand. They showed how the US used "dummy" paratroopers and fake tanks before and during the Normandy invasion. It was clearly laid out, so the kids could put pieces of what they already knew together, such as when the London bombings occured as in the beginning of the Narnia movie/story and also about Pearl Harbor and how Grandma and Grandpa (Vicki's parents) were forced to go to the Japanese American Internment Camp, Manzanar. You can get a better sense of why things happened and what was going through each leader's mind at the time. It reminds me of when we visited the Hiroshima Memorial while we were stationed in Iwakuni, Japan.

In the afternoon, we stopped for a "coffee and beignets" break at Café du Monde (thanks for the travel tips, Rebecca!) and also walked around the French Market.

Funny Kid Quotes: Last night we were in the hotel pool and the kids were playing a game where all four of them were stuck on Ben and he tried to get them off. I mentioned that the kids look like barnacles. J4ds said, "Yeah, we're bionicles"!

This morning at the WWII Museum, we were watching a film. I realized that we really need to move quicker through our history studies someday after Ancients/Medieval...J7ds leans over and asks me, "Mom, is this about the Civil War??"

Near the French Market, we stopped to see a statue of Joan of Arc on her horse. J4ds says, "Her name sounds like my name!" It does, sort of, when you say her name quickly...

Other Funnies: Here are some funny T-shirts we saw today in shops: "Make Levees, Not War"  and "I drove my Chevy to the levee but the levee was gone".

Tonight, I tried the rice cooker spaghetti with whole wheat spaghetti, canned spag. sauce, corn, beans, and TVP.

Saturday, May 12, 2007

 

Water Safety Patrol

Water Safety Patrol - This morning the 2 middle Js headed to the pool at 8am for Water Safety Patrol tryouts. It's too bad J12ds will have to miss Junior Lifeguards here (the program for his age group) since we'll be in CA in June...I also checked out if he could catch the program in So Cal, but their program WASN'T in June...oh well, maybe next year...I had to chuckle inside when the lifeguard told us that in Water Safety Patrol, one of the sessions includes how to treat injuries like jellyfish stings...Poor J9dd has already had 2 such stings in her lifetime, one right on her forehead...

 


Friday, May 11, 2007

 

Free Hurricane Unit Study

Free Hurricane Unit Study - I think we Florida newbies ought to study this over the summer...and eventually put together our emergency kit and plan...I need to stop procrastinating...

 


 

Elizabeth George Speare's Witch of Blackbird Pond

Elizabeth George Speare's Witch of Blackbird Pond - Our current library audiobook in the van is the Witch of Blackbird Pond. J9dd selected it...She loves to read with quite a passion, which is so exciting...I'm still waiting (and waiting...)  for the reading bug to hit the boys...  (Is it a girl thing?) She probably would rather read than almost anything and often carries her current book around with her. These days she likes to either read books by the same author or in a series. We both enjoyed Elizabeth G. Speare's other book which we read for history, The Bronze Bow so she wanted to read this one next. I know it's a good book when I start driving even slower than usual and taking the long way home just to finish the chapter...(I know, I know...it's wasting gas...but it's harder to get the kids to sit and listen intently for a longer period of time unless you build up a bit of momentum...)

I found a couple of links which have free literature study guides, including ones for Blackbird Pond:

Speaking of books, in the evenings Ben has been trying to read to the kids from this series about famous missionaries and later on, the kids get to listen to a usually fun, lighthearted (not-scary-before-bedtime) audiobook in bed after the lights are out...usually the likes of Junie B. Jones or Magic Tree House. I wish it were War and Peace, but I suppose beggars can't be too choosy...

Currently Reading
The Witch of Blackbird Pond
By Elizabeth George Speare
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Ben has been reading to the kids from this series in the evenings.
Currently Reading
Ch - Adoniram Judson: Bound for Burma: Christian Heroes: Then & Now
By Janet Benge, Geoff Benge
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Sunday, May 13, 2007
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Friday May 11, 2007

Last Week in Review and Funny Business Names - Time has been going by so fast...the past week was like a blink of an eye...I guess we were extra busy with  medical/dental appointments and J7ds' portfolio evaluation...Monday J9dd went to a Girl Scout pizza party (they are doing some end-of-the-year fun activities with the cookie money) at a place we tried for the first time, Gordy's Pizza on Lillian Highway. (As a side note, one of my family's childhood pets while growing up was a dog named Gordy...)  Anyway, I know I am into weird things...I like to try unusual pizza toppings...You should try pizzas in Japan...They have toppings like squid, corn, canned tuna, etc. J12ds went up to survey the selection and told me that Gordy's vegetarian pizza looks like a pizza with salad on top of it. I was intrigued so I tried it...and asked the cook about it. Actually it wasn't their vegetarian one, it was a BLT. It was good, nonetheless...
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Yesterday, J9dd attended a birthday party of our neighbor and her friend from Girl Scouts at PAC, where J4ds takes swim lessons with Ms. Heather. On the way home, we went to the ballfield to watch my friends Lillian O and Susan E's sons' baseball game. It was a really exciting game that was tied and went into overtime (They won). At one point, we saw both of their sons, one at first and the other at second base, tag a runner out in a pickle.

Funny Business Names

I sort of like to compile funny business names....especially the ones which, when they are translated, sound funny in the other language. Here are a few:

  • Nova (One of my first cars was a Chevy Nova and we drove it during the early years of marriage) I don't know if it's true or not, but I heard that the car didn't sell well in Mexico because when translated, it means No go or doesn't go.
  • Ben's IPAQ adapter cord's brand is I-go, which I wonder how it would sell in Korea. Someone else will have to help me translate it...I think it's a sort of expression of surprise or disappointment...
  • I hope this isn't too offensive (since we're in the Bible Belt and all...) There is a well known Vietnamese soup called pho, pronounced "fuh", and in Huntington Beach, CA on PCH, there is a restaurant called, "What the Pho".
Posted 5/11/2007 at 4:19 PM


 

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haha, yes, "va" is the 3rd person for "go" (voy, vas, va, etc.), so "no va" means "it doesn't go"
Posted 5/11/2007 at 7:41 PM by theyuns


 

Thursday May 10, 2007

Today, after a few weeks of wearing spacer bands, J12ds got fitted with upper and lower palate expanders at the orthodontist. I found a video clip of what should happen here. Supposedly, I have to "turn the key" three times a week for 6 weeks. I never had expanders, but I had braces for a long time, so I can sort of relate to those awkward pre-teen feelings of having trouble talking, eating, the discomfort, the wanting to curl up and hide at first so peers don't have to see him until he gets used to them...

It really is the "coolest" orthodontic office I've ever been in...Other than the usual comfy chairs and nice magazines, they have video games, a little movie theater, serve cookies and coffee, and a somewhat annoying appointment reminder system...  For each appt, I get an e-mail, a home phone message, a cell phone text message, what's next, a courier at the door???
Posted 5/10/2007 at 5:16 PM


 

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better yet, a chauffeur to pick up and deliver the child sounds nice! :)
Posted 5/10/2007 at 5:29 PM by zojoandcompany


 

Wednesday May 9, 2007

eBay Apprentice - I've been starting to walk J12ds through the processes involved in selling on Ebay and also trading and sending/mailing on Paperbackswap. Steve and Kerry Beck have some informative, free info about teaching kids about eBay here and here. There really are a multitude of lessons or steps involved including finding prospective items, researching the demand, taking photos (and uploading to your computer, uploading to e-Bay), writing descriptions of items, communicating with the customer, setting up payment, printing out the address, packaging and shipping, putting the right amount of postage on the package, giving feedback, etc.

P.S. An update regarding J7's previous post is here...

Appliance Entropy - It's kind of funny how a little bit of chaos breeds even more...Last night, I was sort of rushing around, trying to clean up a bit before J7ds' evaluator arrived today and didn't see a thin cloth purse strap under J9dd's bed which got caught in the vacuum and disabled it...(thankfully, Ben was able to fix it tonight by repositioning a belt). Then, right after the teacher left, J7ds was putting in a dvd into the laptop but somehow when he pulled it out, the piece came completely out and won't go back in! Ugh...we have to figure out whether to send it in to Dell or try to get it fixed locally... (5/10/09 P.S. Kudos to Dell and whew...thank God it's still under warranty...We called tech support and the man from Panama said they would mail us a new dvd drive...)

Posted 5/9/2007 at 8:24 PM


 

Wednesday May 9, 2007

Joost - Let us know if you'd like a free Joost invite...It's free internet tv...They have some good National Geography-type documentaries. (Be forewarned though, some of the start-up screen has some raunchy MTV-type videos, which you may not want the children to see...)

Joost™ the best of tv and the internet
Posted 5/9/2007 at 4:52 PM


 

Wednesday May 9, 2007

Wowio Free e-Books - Just FYI, I found this useful website from a homeschool e-loop,

Wowio (http://www.wowio.com).

You can download 5 free e-Books a day and they have quite a selection of various old and new books (not merely books on public domain) including, for example in the Children's section, recently published history project books of things you can build yourself for Ancient Egypt, Civil War, Colonial, WWII, and also another set of history books called Tools of..., Tools of Native Americans, Ancient Greeks, Romans, Navigation, etc. which sell for at least $12 each if purchased elsewhere...Check it out when you have a chance...

I hope you know I would gladly pass along this or any other helpful info without any extrinsic benefit, but as a little caveat or disclaimer, there is a referral reward. If someone does sign up, you can tell them who referred you and if they get 10 referrals, they would get an IPOD shuffle...(leebenvic(at)gmail(dot)com)...Thanks!
Posted 5/9/2007 at 11:16 AM


 

Tuesday May 8, 2007

Today J7ds went to see the optometrist on base and at least at first, he was excited to get to wear glasses. He has astigmatism (like his Mom), otherwise he has a very mild prescription, 20/30 in one eye, 20/25 in the other. I was encouraged when the optometrist told me the glasses might help him read better because the letters will be more in focus as the glasses correct the astigmatism...Can they also help him to write neater as well??   We went to Walmart right after the appt to pick out his frames and he was so excited, telling me he wanted to get a leash and clip on sunglasses for it. I really wonder how long the glasses will last since he is "all boy" and  I imagine he'd be fairly rough with them...

Ben took a lower level Navy foreign language reading exam in Korean (excerpts from Korean newspapers) today and managed to pass it! Next time, he will try the oral listening portion. He wants to brush up his listening skills by listening to Korean news broadcasts. We figured out that his lifespan can be broken up into thirds spanning  about 14 years each. So far, he spent about 14 years or 1/3 of his life in Korea during his childhood and 2/3 of his life in the States.

Tomorrow , to comply with Florida education laws, J7ds will have a year-end portfolio evaluation by a certified teacher who in our case, is also a homeschool mom in our homeschool group. I've heard it shouldn't be bad...we've just never had to do anything like this in previous years in CA (filed a private affidavit) or at overseas bases, so it's a bit nerve-wracking for the first time...(5/9/07 Update: Thank God, it went fine...He needs to work on his penmanship...)

Posted 5/8/2007 at 10:20 PM


 

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I am concerned that Blue may need glasses and would like to follow this up, but the pediatrician thinks he is too young to know for sure.  What do you think?

We keep a portfolio and it has always gone very well.  Actually our group keeps it for us out of the stuff we turn in every month.  But we do have state standars testing for the first time for Red next week and I am super ahhh so I relate to your nerves!

Posted 5/9/2007 at 10:43 AM by ElizabethDNB


 

Sunday May 6, 2007

The Spelling Man and a New Lawn Mower - Sometimes with timing and logistical issues, we aren't able to attend many homeschool conferences. This evening while making dinner (udon with veggies, tofu, fishcakes, and kimchi), I was listening to an excellent downloaded homeschool conference lecture ($3.50, 1 hour) by Andrew Pudewa (from IEW) "Teaching Boys and Other Children Who Would Rather Make Forts All Day" about how to best motivate kids to learn.  J4ds walked in the kitchen, recognized the speaker's voice and asked, "Is this spelling?"   (I've also heard very positive feedback from an IEW Yahoo group about this presentation, The 4 Deadly Errors of Teaching Writing.

Today we finally broke down and bought a gas powered lawn mower, since our better-for-the-environment manual reel mower just wasn't cutting it, ha ha, get it? I was getting concerned that the housing office was going to issue us a your-grass-is-too-long "ticket" pretty soon...While Ben was mowing the lawn, the 3 younger J's found and caught a frog and put him in a covered bucket with air holes and then found the now prevalent love bugs to feed it. J7ds asked me, "Mom, do frogs eat love bugs?" I don't know...Go look it up...or I suppose we'll find out...(Somewhat under duress from Mom and Dad , they let him go a couple hours later...)
Posted 5/6/2007 at 8:46 PM


 

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That sounds really good!  Is that available just in a book as well?

Posted 5/7/2007 at 10:17 AM by ElizabethDNB


 

Saturday May 5, 2007

Skype - Free Global Calls on 5/13/07 Mother's Day
Posted 5/5/2007 at 10:6 PM


 

Friday May 4, 2007

Ben ("Dad") has had a number of dental problems lately...He had an abscess in his gum near a bridge and now he is waiting his turn for a root canal and possibly an implant. It has been quite painful for him at times...I'm hoping and praying he can get these problems fixed soon...
Posted 5/4/2007 at 9:33 PM


 

Friday May 4, 2007

What a Job - This morning, Ben was showing the kids photos from this website, Best of the US Navy (Photo) CD Collection and as they were looking at this one of a very muddy Navy SEAL trainee, J9dd was asking about what SEALs do. Ben explained that during their training, they have to exercise A LOT, even in the mud and they are food and sleep deprived...She asked quizzically, "Why would anybody want THAT job?"
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She had been thinking about different jobs in the military after writing an essay for the Military Appreciation Month Essay contest , which she won first place in her age group. She wrote about wanting to become a cook or rather ...ahem...a "culinary specialist"...
Posted 5/4/2007 at 9:42 AM


 

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congrats, j9! could you post your essay for us to read too?
Posted 5/5/2007 at 2:30 AM by theyuns
Mrs. "theyuns", I'll e-mail it to you...~Vicki
Posted 5/5/2007 at 9:8 AM by leebenvic


 

Thursday May 3, 2007

eBay Apprentice - 
Posted 5/3/2007 at 6:2 PM


 

Thursday May 3, 2007

Military Cadence Alarm Clock - One of the many unique aspects of living on-base here has been the fact that our place is within earshot of the track and field. This means that almost every morning (including weekends) at about 5:30 am, we can hear the faint and not-so-faint sounds of troops running and singing their military cadences. It actually is a great exercise motivator...It helps me roll out of bed earlier...If all of them can do what they are doing, I can at least wake up and do something, like go out for a morning walk...Someone needs to invent an alarm clock that emits these early morning cadences...It would be a best seller .

Here are some cadences I've heard
recently:

"We are Navy Rescue Swimmers...We save lives in the deep blue sea..."
and another group:
"I love PT (physical training), how 'bout you? Left, right, left, right," etc.

Posted 5/3/2007 at 5:49 PM


 

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Too funny. I just can't imagine getting that kind of a wake-up call but hey, it is good to make the most of every opportunity...
Posted 5/3/2007 at 8:24 PM by zojoandcompany


 

Wednesday May 2, 2007

Ice Cream Craze - It all started as an offshoot of an idea to put together an ice cream-related gift basket for my friend's fundraising auction: (By the way, this Tupperware Serving Center Set is on sale until the end of June )
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Being somewhat into kitchen gadgets, I decided to combine it with this ice cream ball:

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For quality assurance purposes, , we got one for us to make sure it would work out ok...Plus it makes for an interesting science experiment. (When we purchased, we found an online coupon for free shipping from LL Bean.) It's actually a great concept...just add everyday household items like ice and salt to one end, cream (or milk...or yogurt for frozen yogurt), vanilla, a bit of sugar to the other end, then shake and roll the ball for a few minutes and out pops homemade ice cream...The kids usually have fun with the ball or one could sort of exercise with it using your feet (J12ds rolls it between his feet while on the computer.)

Posted 5/2/2007 at 8:54 AM


 

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What a cute idea!

The skating is too!

Posted 5/2/2007 at 10:37 PM by ElizabethDNB


 

Wednesday May 2, 2007

Monday, we went roller skating with the Girl Scouts...
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Ben stopped by for a few minutes after work:
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Here is J9dd skating limbo (sorry it was really dark in there):

(I don't know what happened...the photos of J12ds didn't come out...)
Posted 5/2/2007 at 8:48 AM

Monday April 30, 2007
Dad's Home - J9dd's sign on the door yesterday:
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Posted 4/30/2007 at 11:18 AM

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hehe, are those supposed to be ben's glasses? :) glad to hear that he got back safely. we enjoyed derek's recital very much yesterday!
Posted 4/30/2007 at 9:30 PM by theyuns

Monday April 30, 2007
Saying Goodbye to #6 - There are various memorials all over town...This one is on our block...

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This was a unique one made out of plastic cups in a chain link fence at a Catholic school
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Posted 4/30/2007 at 11:15 AM

Saturday April 28, 2007
This book (below) caught my eye on the New Release shelf at the library...
To Catch a Predator website
Perverted Justice.com
Posted 4/28/2007 at 9:13 PM

Thursday April 26, 2007

This may seem strange and obscure, but J4ds has a favorite sign that we pass almost every day on the way to swim team practice:

 

Every day is one of the three older kids' designated days, where they get unique privileges (e.g. getting to sit and study in the recliner and having J4ds as his/her "apprentice" for the day), make "kid-type" command decisions (e.g. pick the snack at the grocery store), or special duties (from "Mom's" never-ending honey-do list). This was J9dd's day and J4ds wanted to sit and do math with her.

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I hope this doesn't break any copyright laws or anything...The kids were really excited to check out and watch our library's (Southwest Branch Library) new Bill Nye the Science Guy dvds...and J7ds took a photo of it...

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Posted 4/26/2007 at 8:42 PM

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hahaha great sign!
Posted 4/27/2007 at 11:36 AM by Bahkerjuls

Thursday April 26, 2007

Mealtime Themes - I read advice somewhere that occasionally it's good to do something educational during mealtimes, esp when it's just me and the kids, so their conversation doesn't naturally degenerate to topics dealing with "grossology"... (Enjoyed your photos of the San Diego museum exhibit, zojoandcompany! I think it's coming to our area soon, to Mobile, AL)

Sometimes we play a history trivia game, I read aloud or we listen to an audio book, or listen/watch Spanish or Latin tapes. Yesterday, we tried listening to a Daily Audio Bible broadcast online. I have the bible on cd somewhere, but this format is nice because I don't have to change the discs, I can just click on it everyday, 20 minutes a day to read through the bible in a year...

Posted 4/26/2007 at 4:25 PM

Thursday April 26, 2007
Vicki's Nephew Darren and Susan's Upcoming Wedding - J9dd will be the flower girl and J7ds will be the ring bearer...
Posted 4/26/2007 at 2:55 PM

Thursday April 26, 2007

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Kitchen Critters - Yesterday afternoon when we came in from running our usual Wednesday errands, I immediately noticed something was amiss...I had an empty peanut butter jar soaking by the sink and the lid was off and half the water spilled out and the Tupperware sandwich keeper was wide open and half a peanut butter sandwich was gone...At first we thought it was a hungry human intruder, until we saw the screen window holes. We are suspecting a squirrel because our yards are quite overrun by them. We didn't know if it was still in the house or not...I'm pretty sure the sandwich keeper was sealed...I wonder how he opened it up...Then my imagination got the best of me and I thought, maybe it WAS a human intruder who put little holes in the screen so we'd think it was a squirrel..., except nothing else was missing other than half a peanut butter sandwich.

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I used to think squirrels were cute and enjoyed them at parks but after living here, I realize they are glorified rats...They always get in our garbage can and tear into the bag and trash ends up everywhere...They pillage the bird feeder...The other day, our neighborhood had an Easter egg hunt and squirrels had taken candy filled eggs before the hunt started and they were eating the candy and throwing down the empty shells and trash at us...No kidding!


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As if that wasn't enough, last night we had a little movie night and saw a Night at the Museum dvd. It was late and I had just left the Tupperware thats-a-bowl on the kitchen counter with some remaining popcorn and kernels. Well, this morning, I was still half asleep until I took a peek into the bowl to see my friend, Mr. Cockroach here greet me! I know, it's embarrassing to admit finding a cockroach in one's kitchen...I'll be the first to admit that housekeeping is NOT my forte but I don't think we are teeming with them, this is only the 2nd one I've seen so far. I've never seen such large cockroaches before...The first one has a funny story behind it...Many months ago, it was in my oven mitt and just as I was about to put it on to get something out of the oven...something dropped out! eeeekkk!

Speaking of housekeeping, I really like organizing but not cleaning...First the kids clean, then I clean up after them, then Ben has to clean up after me...

Posted 4/26/2007 at 11:58 AM

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this makes me think of our santa ana apartment days with our ants that traveled in hordes of Biblical plague proportions. our most memorable critter was a salamander like creature that made me shriek uncontrollably! those squirrels sound unbelievably pesky! maybe it's time to get a big dog?? :)
Posted 4/26/2007 at 8:16 PM by theyuns

Thursday April 26, 2007
2 Brothers, 2 Lost Teeth -
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Posted 4/26/2007 at 11:56 AM

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heehee
Posted 4/26/2007 at 4:11 PM by Bahkerjuls

...and two orange shirts... I thought  I get to pull them out

Posted 4/26/2007 at 6:27 PM by bensjournal

Tuesday April 24, 2007

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This has been an emotionally draining week...Yesterday, our computer has a program which flips through old photos during the screen saver and this one cracked me up. It was when J4ds was about 1.5 years old and we were traveling in Sardinia and here he is laying on the beach "studying" a travel book. I need to send it in to a travel magazine or something...

Posted 4/24/2007 at 4:53 PM

Tuesday April 24, 2007

Coach Dom's Memorial - It was a very moving and beautiful "celebration" of his life...I was overcome with emotion and choked up twice...once while admiring the photo collages of his life up (and the Powerpoint photos), especially the ones with him and his kids and then when we sang this song, one of my favorites, I Can Only Imagine...Sometimes I complain to Ben and J7ds that they take too many photos, use up too much (computer) memory...and yet, it is the photos that outlast us and help us relive those precious memories of our lifespan...At the service, they gave everyone a special momento to take home, a family photo card (similar to photo Christmas cards) of Coach Dom, Susan, and the kids.

On a side note, They are Mariners fans and one of the photos of the family in Seattle Mariners shirts, reminded me of when J12ds used to like to wear his Mariners jersey (given to him by Uncle Gary and family in WA) to baseball practice last fall and Coach Dom would give him an extra pat on the back in support of his beloved team.

I can only imagine
What it will be like
When I walk
By Your side
I can only imagine
What my eyes will see
When Your face
Is before me
I can only imagine

{Chorus}:
Surrounded by Your glory,
what will my heart feel
Will I dance for You Jesus
or in awe of You be still
Will I stand in Your presence
or to my knees will I fall
Will I sing hallelujah,
will I be able to speak at all
I can only imagine

I can only imagine
When that day comes
And I find myself
Standing in the Son
I can only imagine
When all I will do
Is forever
Forever worship You
I can only imagine.

Posted 4/24/2007 at 1:20 PM

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Very touching
Posted 4/25/2007 at 8:7 PM by ElizabethDNB

Monday April 23, 2007

In Her Shoes - While I was thinking about Coach Dom's passing, I was feeling sad for his wife (my friend Susan) and their 3 young children. I try to imagine being in her shoes...One day having a stable, loving, Christ-centered,  homeschooling family and the next day, suddenly becoming a single mom and a widow. I have complete faith that God will provide for Susan and the kids. Philippians 4:19 "But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."  If anyone can, I know Susan can. She reminds me of Eleanor Roosevelt's quote, "A woman is like a tea bag - you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water." There are plenty of successful single moms out there and it is comforting to know that she has a network of family and friends nearby to help her. It is a different outcome than one may have hoped for or dreamed about and yet Proverbs 16:9 says, "In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps."

Life changing events like this remind me not to take God's free gift of salvation, His love and everyday blessings for granted. I need to count my blessings and realize what a privilege it is to spend each day, each moment with my husband and children without complaining and losing my patience and my temper... I don't deserve any of it and yet, God lavishly bestows them for a time.

Posted 4/23/2007 at 9:48 PM

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Amen!
Posted 4/23/2007 at 10:12 PM by zojoandcompany

Monday April 23, 2007
J4ds' cards - This morning during our study time, J4ds was busy making cards. I came by and asked him who the cards are for...He said one is for Coach Dom (see previous post) and one is for #6 (the Blue Angel pilot who died in a crash on Saturday). Coach Dom's reads, "I hope (you are) ok Coach Dom. Love, J4ds."
Posted 4/23/2007 at 10:36 AM

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J4, I like your thoughtfulness...
Posted 4/23/2007 at 11:0 PM by bensjournal
we thought of j4 when we heard about the blue angels crash. we had actually wondered whether you would tell him about it (ho thought yes, i thought no!). we admire that you don't shelter him from life's realities.
Posted 4/23/2007 at 11:59 PM by theyuns

Monday April 23, 2007
J7ds' Pedometer -
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This is J7ds outside our front door after he wrote a note on the board. First, I had to remind him that we can't disclose and broadcast where we are going in case bad strangers see it and take advantage of the situation...Then, I took a picture of it since he was so excited about getting a pedometer. Here is a translation of his note (sorry, we're still working on his spelling, punctuation, and penmanship...) "We are going to Walmart to get the pedometer. My mom said to erase it." Here is what I overheard him tell his dad (currently on a trip in San Diego) over the phone: "Dad, Dad, I got a p'momder with my own money! It was $2. And today I took twelve thousand and eighty-eight steps."

Last year my sister N. and her daughters started wearing pedometers and she gave me one. I had read that they are good (i.e. easy and painless) incentives to exercise and walk more. Another friend from Sigonella, Sicily days, Ken I. always wore one too. Anyway, I have a feeling they are far from accurate (especially these $2 cheap ones we get), but we just use it as a relative gauge and try to increase our number every day. J7ds likes to watch me write down the number in my journal, and you know, he's a numbers guy, so he likes to write his number down in his journal everyday too...I'm wondering how many days it will last until it gets lost while he's playing football at the playground...J9dd bought one too and of course they have a little competition going of who took the most steps...Yesterday afternoon, J7ds asked me, "So, mom, shall we go take a walk?"  P.S. The photo below was from another day with his pedometer...
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Posted 4/23/2007 at 7:55 AM

2 Comments
hahaha that's great!
Posted 4/23/2007 at 11:19 AM by Bahkerjuls
J7, love your bright smiles!
Posted 4/23/2007 at 10:58 PM by bensjournal

Sunday April 22, 2007

A Time for Everything - Ecclesiastes 3

"To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:

A time to be born, and a time to die;"

Update on our friend

Blue Angels tragedy

Posted 4/22/2007 at 3:46 PM

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vicki, i'm so sorry to hear about your friend's loss. we'll continue to lift them up in prayer.
Posted 4/23/2007 at 12:4 AM by theyuns

Friday April 20, 2007
J12ds and "Mom" are playing dining table ping pong tonight after homeschool park day, the library, and swim team practice. J7ds is narrating and J9dd is filming it.
The 2nd (LONG) video was taken by J12ds. In the middle, J4ds is trying to say the Native American Picture Writing story that his sister did.
Posted 4/20/2007 at 10:15 PM

Friday April 20, 2007

Funny Baby Carrier T-shirt Photo -  Is it real or...just a t-shirt???

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Posted 4/20/2007 at 9:18 AM

Friday April 20, 2007

K9 Free Home Internet Filter - Someone on a homeschool e-mail list mentioned this site (I found it on Yahoo Groups NotebookingNook and the person who shared it found it on a MOMYS list (Mothers Of Many Young Siblings)).  I decided to try it out so we'll see...  J12ds really likes this one online game called Runescape. The other day I was almost flabbergasted when he revealed to me that, on it, he chats with strangers about the game. What??!! So what personal information have you been disclosing to them??! He tried to reassure me that it's all quite anonymous...I'll have to check it out further...I need to rea

Wednesday, August 9, 2006
Random Thoughts
Thursday April 19, 2007

J9's Native American Picture Writing with Draw Write Now (she also narrated it and took the photo & video)

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Posted 4/19/2007 at 1:3 PM


 

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Jdd9, that was very good story and illustration! I liked it very much. Dad
Posted 4/19/2007 at 3:35 PM by leebenvic
cool work, j9!
Posted 4/19/2007 at 9:58 PM by theyuns
J9, your artwork is neat and distinct, and you read the story so nicely. I am the co-author of the Draw-Write-Now series, and am thrilled to see the lesson enjoyed and shared this way. Thank you! -- Kim Stitzer
Posted 4/20/2007 at 9:41 AM by kstitz

Very cool!  Red is intrigued!  We did a similar thing for our Ancient Egypt study.  The kids just love having a "code" language!

We can't wait to see you!  May right?  Woo Hoo!

Posted 4/20/2007 at 10:56 AM by ElizabethDNB

Very cool!  Red is intrigued!  We did a similar thing for our Ancient Egypt study.  The kids just love having a "code" language!

We can't wait to see you!  May right?  Woo Hoo!

Posted 4/20/2007 at 10:57 AM by ElizabethDNB


 

Thursday April 19, 2007


Please  click here (or click here and scroll down to Estares) for updates.

Fundraiser Community Event for our friends - see also this article in a local paper, The Pelican, page 24, (Volume 23, Issue 17, April 20-26, 2007)

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Posted 4/19/2007 at 11:54 AM


 

Wednesday April 18, 2007

A Call to Prayer for Virginia Tech Tragedy

Other thoughts:

  • I wonder if he played too many violent video games...
  • Not to blame his parents at all, as I can't imagine what they are going through, but the former roommates said no one ever visited him, even his parents. I just wonder why
Posted 4/18/2007 at 6:23 PM


 

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I always want to know what the parents did wrong do that I don't do it too.

Thank you for the b-day wishes and gift.  I so appreciate it!  You are so sweet.

I do remember that time.  Another time I sent a book to someone I had done MOPs with! 

Posted 4/18/2007 at 7:27 PM by ElizabethDNB


 

Tuesday April 17, 2007

Cozi.com Shopping List - I read about this in a family magazine and thought I'd try it. The free feature I was most interested in was the one where you can store your shopping list online and if you forget your list while you are at the store, you can call or text message Cozi and it will give you a voice or text message with your shopping list to your cell phone. For whatever reason, sometimes I end up rushing out the door without my list and hope this helps...
Posted 4/17/2007 at 10:0 PM


 

Tuesday April 17, 2007

A Weird Way to Prepare for Hurricanes - In a quasi home inventory, I started to make a list of favorite homeschool resources we have collected over the years that I would ideally like to either take with us or get replaced in the event of a hurricane or other disaster. 

Speaking of weather happenings, we have a weather alert emergency radio lantern from Sam's Club hooked up in my bedroom all the time. (Can you tell I've never been in a hurricane before?? , well, we had tsunamis when we lived in Japan, does that count? I've never had to be evacuated though...) The other night it was raining and the alarm kept going off several times in the middle of the night due to "marine warnings". I wish the thing could distinguish between land and marine warnings...I really didn't need to know that I shouldn't be in a boat at 3am...I just want it to tell me when a big hurricane is within 200 miles, so we can jump in the car and start driving to California ...OK, Ben will want me to stop joking around and saying that...
Posted 4/17/2007 at 9:50 PM


 

Tuesday April 17, 2007

Recall: Listerine Agent Cool Blue Plaque Detecting Rinse - Thanks to my friend Janet K. from Iwakuni, Japan days for letting us know about this recall. (She and her husband are both dentists, her husband is a Navy dentist). We have a bottle of the Bubble Blast flavor up in our bathroom and didn't know about the recall, so it was helpful info...
Posted 4/17/2007 at 6:31 PM


 

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Oh no!  I'm freakin'!  We use that all of the time!  Thanks for the info.
Posted 4/18/2007 at 10:41 AM by ElizabethDNB


 

Monday April 16, 2007

I've been in a bit of a groggy fog today after driving Ben to the airport early this morning at 4:30am. He took a taxi the other morning during the unsuccessful attempt, so he really couldn't do that again. At least he arrived ok this time...It's funny how nothing ever happens when he's around, but as soon as he leaves town, the unusual happens...like J11ds and J7ds were folding laundry in my room, played "baseball" with their (clean) underwear, and somehow J7ds managed to lock all of us out of my room!  Fortunately, right before I was going to call Maintenance or someone for help since I couldn't unlock it with a paper clip, J11ds managed to unlock it. Then the "maintenance required" light goes on in the van after we just took it in a couple weeks ago...
Posted 4/16/2007 at 9:58 PM


 

Monday April 16, 2007

I ran into a homeschooling neighbor at Walmart today and she told me she was shopping for printer ink, lamenting how much ink a homeschooling family needs to use. I was telling her that we have had success with refurbished inks. We bought some at an Amazon.com Marketplace (3rd party seller), TFP International (TFP = The Fine Print). The ink we purchased came out to about $12 including shipping, much cheaper than the $20-30 new price, even from Sam's Club or Costco.
Posted 4/16/2007 at 9:49 PM


 

Sunday April 15, 2007

Ben has an upcoming work-related trip to San Diego. His original flight was cancelled due to severe weather problems in the connecting airport, Dallas/Fort Worth and then the subsequent flights were booked, so after many hours of waiting in the airport and trying for various flights over two days, he will have to depart 3 days later early tomorrow morning.
Posted 4/15/2007 at 9:26 PM


 

Sunday April 15, 2007

I have a heavy heart after hearing about my friend here S.'s husband D.'s medical condition. They are friends we met through Lillian's family and from Perdido Fall Baseball and the homeschool group. They have 3 young children about our kids' ages.  D. has been suffering from a rare disease which required him to seek medical treatment at John Hopkins in Maryland. Recently he is experiencing life-threatening and severe complications. He is in the ICU on a ventilator and dialysis. S. is up there with him and the children are here in Pensacola staying with family and friends. Please pray for a miraculous healing for D. and peace for the rest of the family during this time.
Posted 4/15/2007 at 9:13 PM


 

Sunday April 15, 2007

Friends from Sigonella, Sicily Days - Last Friday we went to visit our friends from Sigonella days, the Z.'s and also the G.'s who stopped by while on a road trip from Illinois, near St. Louis, MO.

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Posted 4/15/2007 at 8:54 PM


 

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j7 looks so small next to his tall friend! your friends and their family are in my prayers...
Posted 4/15/2007 at 10:58 PM by theyuns


 

Sunday April 15, 2007

Friends from Sigonella, Sicily Days - Last Friday we went to visit our friends from Sigonella days, the Z.'s and also the G.'s who stopped by while on a road trip from Illinois, near St. Louis, MO.

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Posted 4/15/2007 at 8:9 PM


 

Thursday April 12, 2007

Navy widens language bonus program Navy Times article - Thanks to our friend Rich Q. who gave Ben this article.
Posted 4/12/2007 at 10:5 AM


 

Wednesday April 11, 2007

Time Magazine 51 Things We Can Do to Save the Environment
Posted 4/11/2007 at 9:46 PM


 

Wednesday April 11, 2007

Reading to Siblings, a Latin Table Blessing, Pirate Party, and the NFL:

This morning the 2 younger Js shared a tender moment when J7ds read to his little bro.

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Here is J4ds reciting a table blessing in Latin from a program we are trying to start called Latina Christiana

Benedic, Domine, nos et haec tua dona quae de tua largitate sumus sumpturi per Christum Dominum nostrum. Amen.

I bought the program used off of Ebay after borrowing at my friend Lillian's set. It's kind of funny at first because the teacher in the dvd has a southern accent (I think they are from Kentucky), but it really doesn't matter since Latin isn't spoken in everyday speech. We like the way she says "largitate" with a southern accent...kind of like "large-ih-tah-tae"

 

Last weekend we went to our neighbor's Pirate themed birthday party:

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Our friend's (the birthday boy's) grandfather, Edd Hargett played in the NFL (a few decades ago) for the Saints and in college for Texas A & M. Here he is with J4ds.

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Posted 4/11/2007 at 1:41 PM


 

2 Comments

heehee j4 w/the pirate patch is awesome
Posted 4/11/2007 at 5:42 PM by Bahkerjuls
it sounds like j4 is saying "konichiwa" in the middle of the blessing. :) i'm so impressed by his memory!
Posted 4/11/2007 at 6:7 PM by theyuns


 

Tuesday April 10, 2007

Outsourcing a Class or Two - We are looking into some educational options for homeschoolers in our area. One is a weekly "blended school" science program at the local zoo for the older 3 Js in the fall and maybe a couple of online classes for J12ds this summer (writing and keyboarding, and later computer classes).  To prepare, I've been filling out reams of forms and paperwork and yesterday we took the kids in for their school physicals and shots. They were real troopers getting their immunizations, nobody cried and later they celebrated with kids meals at Sonics...(was that bribery or positive reinforcement?) We didn't realize before that J7ds had trouble reading the eye chart, so he'll get to visit the optometrist soon. He was actually excited about the possibility of getting glasses, like his big sister...
Posted 4/10/2007 at 10:31 PM


 

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At the zoo sounds awesome! 

Bribery is an important part of parenting.  As my mom says, she goes to work everyday for the pay check.  Bribery is an important part of life.

Blue also had trouble with the eye chart, he said that he couldn't read it with his right eye closed, but the doctor wanted to not do anything at this time.  Does that seem right to you?  The more I think about it the more I wonder if we shouldn't be addressing it now.  When did you first take big sister to the eye dotor? 

Posted 4/11/2007 at 10:21 AM by ElizabethDNB


 

Sunday April 8, 2007

Happy Easter! Christ has risen indeed!
Posted 4/8/2007 at 2:40 PM


 

Saturday April 7, 2007

to you
Posted 4/7/2007 at 10:41 PM


 

Saturday April 7, 2007

Mark Schultz - Walking Her Home - I was cleaning up in the kitchen today and heard this song on the radio...I think it's about the songwriter's grandparents who were married for 60 years. It reminded me of my parents and especially of Ben's maternal grandparents. Halabuji (sp?) (Grandfather) was so faithful to his wife of many years, even (or especially) during her years of declining health in a nursing home, he would visit her everyday, sing and read to her, and take care of her so joyfully and tenderly...We have friends in CA and it also made me think of Jim's older brother who passed away last week and the brother's wife of 65 years passed away today, just a few days after her husband during the evening after she heard about his death.

After I asked Ben to listen to it, we were thinking of other tearjerker songs and this is another one for me, this one about a father and his growing-up daughter:

Bob Carlisle - Butterfly Kisses

Posted 4/7/2007 at 7:33 PM


 

Friday April 6, 2007

We have been trying out this program called Joost, free internet TV from the makers of You Tube. We didn't want to promote even more electronic screen use around here by paying for cable and then feeling obligated to watch it, but since this is free, we figured we'd try a National Geographic or other documentaries once in a while...
Posted 4/6/2007 at 2:39 PM


 

Friday April 6, 2007

Time Magazine Article Local vs. Organic - I was thumbing through this Time magazine the other day at the library and enjoyed that issue's last page commentary (sorry I can't find it online at the moment)...The author was mentioning that she wanted to make better consumer choices...that instead of wasting so many fossil foods transporting, for example, bananas from Ecuador, which her family loved, she would substitute them with some locally grown apples. I started to think about that...We also eat a lot of bananas (probably from Ecuador) (J7ds' favorite) and we like red grapes from Chile (esp. the ones from Sam's Club)...but I've been slowly trying to substitute those with Florida oranges . I'm starting to look at the package labels more carefully...The frozen tilapia I bought from Walmart came from China. Yikes...I suppose the environmentally prudent thing to do would be to TRY to buy locally, when possible and sacrifice/substitute/do without those products from far away...Although I suppose an argument can be made in support of globalization, world trade, etc. Well, of course there will always be some items that are just not available locally-coffee, international foods (e.g. Asian seasonings/spices), etc. I don't think we're ready to forego all of those yet...
Posted 4/6/2007 at 1:22 PM


 

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but good for you for even having this discussion with yourself! It's something we should all be thinking about but to be honest with you with 4 kids and a fairly busy lifestyle I definitely lean towards the convenience...
Posted 4/6/2007 at 3:58 PM by zojoandcompany
I never thought of that!  How great to be thinking in such a responsible manner.  We have been trying to walk more places, but this is a step it never occured to me to take.  Thanks!
Posted 4/6/2007 at 7:31 PM by ElizabethDNB


 

Friday April 6, 2007

Some of the kids were thinking of submitting something for an upcoming Military Appreciation Month Contest coming up. For J7ds' level, he can draw and either copy an existing or make up his own unit insignia logo. He wanted to copy his dad's. (Do you get it? It's a ram, because the program is called RAM, Residency in Aerospace Medicine ) J9dd has to write an essay about "What job would you want to do if you were in the military?" She's thinking about either an Army veterinarian or a Navy cook...She also loves to draw, so she also worked on J7ds' project, just for the fun of it.

Photo: L to R, J9dd's drawing, J7ds' drawing, and the real thing. I think J7ds needs to color his in with markers...

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Posted 4/6/2007 at 10:21 AM


 

Wednesday April 4, 2007

When we're up to it, we try to ask the same questions on every birthday. Here are J12's answers:

I like to...play video games

Mothers are...They read a lot.

My favorite food is...pizza.

My favorite place is ...home.

Daddies are...busy and enjoyable.

Today I feel...happy.

The best thing about my home is...the electronics.

I love to...play computer games.

My father...is learning how to fly.

My mother...is reading me questions.

I wish people wouldn't...interrupt me. (said as J4 starts to be silly and tickle his biggest brother during the interview  )

When I grow up, I...don't know.

I wish I could...fly.

My favorite song...none.

My favorite meal...I already said pizza.

My favorite sports...basketball and football

My favorite book...I don't know.

My favorite movie...I haven't watched any recently.

My favorite TV show...We don't get cable.

My favorite color...red.

Posted 4/4/2007 at 3:58 PM


 

Wednesday April 4, 2007

This morning the kids ooh'ed and ahh'ed over these Robert Krampf's Science videos...We tried the one predicting orange slices and it worked! (Ours was 12).
Posted 4/4/2007 at 3:35 PM


 

Wednesday April 4, 2007

Newsweek Article: US Troops' Last Letters: 'If You're Reading This...' The letter no family wants to receive.

I picked up this magazine at the library today. It's a very sobering article and really puts life in perspective...

Posted 4/4/2007 at 3:32 PM


 

Tuesday April 3, 2007

Even though it's a bit early, we had a birthday cake with neighborhood friends this afternoon for J12ds:

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Auntie Nancy and family sent J4ds a belated b-day box full of goodies, including a new suit, which he can wear to upcoming cousins' weddings in CA:

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Posted 4/3/2007 at 6:52 PM


 

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happy bday, j12!!! only one more year until you're an official teenager!

oh my goodness, j4 looks so snazzy! he's like a miniature banker.
Posted 4/3/2007 at 8:27 PM by theyuns

Awesome!  Love the suit!  Blue loves to wear them.  He feels like artemis Fowl.

Your kids are always surrounded by friends.  Are there a  lot of homeschoolers in your area?

Red will LOVE getting the letter!  that is the highlight of her months!

Posted 4/3/2007 at 9:10 PM by ElizabethDNB
wow j4! happy birthday j11!
Posted 4/4/2007 at 1:25 AM by Bahkerjuls


 

Monday April 2, 2007

Here is J7ds' latest "poker face" or at least eyes!

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J4ds likes this Spanish song of colors and vowels from La Clase Divertida (a program we're borrowing from my friend Lillian). He was singing it really loudly like this the other day when we were waiting for our oil change in the waiting room...(The loud, "I know!" is J7ds in the background "talking" to his spelling cd as he's correcting it...)

 

Posted 4/2/2007 at 11:18 AM


 

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haha, do your kids play? poker, that is?
Posted 4/2/2007 at 11:46 AM by zojoandcompany

Very cute!

Songs are such a great way to learn!

Posted 4/2/2007 at 12:32 PM by ElizabethDNB