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Jul. 21, 2008
Single Mom's - The Church - Welfare

Posted in Single Moms as Keepers at Home

This is a HOT topic, and so I'm really going to limit what I have to say here, this time. 

It was recently pointed out to me, that because of the sin in my life (in the past, and long repented of) that I "deserve" to be where I am, going through the things I do.  There are actually people who do not want my family as a  part of their regular fellowshipping/church.  (If this offends you, read the previous post, please.) 

I'm so grateful that Christ didn't look at us, and go, "Father, the "deserve" to suffer, they are nothing but a bunch of worthless sinners."

We all have sin in our lives -- mine just happens to be more obvious than some, because the results are walking talking reminders.

Over the years, I've searched scripture and believe the things I do, based on scriptural principles, commands, and teachings. 

I've come to peace with much of this, and am sharing it with you moms, because I know many of you have experienced the same thing.  Whether your husband has abandoned you, abused you or maybe you've never had a husband, many of you have experienced a great lack of empathy from fellow believers.

The other day when I was doing my Bible reading (I'm doing the John MacArthur Bible in a Year) I read a Psalm that though I'm sure I've read before, I never thought of enlight of single moms, the church and welfare.  I have debated whether to share it with you or not.  Recently the Lord has spoken clearly to me about not fearing what man may so or do, as long as my stand is for Him.  And so, while I'm not out to offend, I'm certain there are some who will be offended.  I am sorry.  I'll just say it now.  I am sorry to offend, for that is not my intent.  However, I can not remain silent, out of fear.

Psalm 82:3-4
"Defend the poor and the fatherless; Do justice to the afflicted and needy.  Deliver the poor and the needy; Free them from the hand of the wicked."

I don't believe there is anything more wicked and corrupt than our government system.  It bothers me that churches say, "we pay tax dollars into the system there is no reason Christians shouldn't take advantage of it"   One pastor even told me once, that if the church had the funds that all it's members paid in taxes it might be different, they'd be able to do more.  Have we forgotten that the heavenly Father's treasury is limitless, when it is for His purpose? 

I believe that the church is making the government father of the fatherless, and I believe that this is unscriptural. 

Now, ladies, if this is where you are, where many of us are, take heart.  The Lord blesses anyway.  My advice to you, is pray, remembering we are in the days when churches are lukewarm.  

Claim Hebrews 13:5 & 6, " Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have; for he hath said, I will never leave thee nor forsake thee.  So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me."

For isn't it better to say the Lord is our helper than to depend on man (the church or the government) though the Lord may certainly use man as His vessel from which to pour blessings on us.

The Lord has so blessed my life amidst trials, during the last few years.  Yes there has been sin in my life, but there is sin in all of our lives, whether we neglect the poor, lust, covet, gossip, have a rebellious spirit there is sin in all of our lives and we should esteem others better than ourselves, coming along side them to encourage and edify them, when they will allow us to.

I'm sadly certain that there are those who will read this and be offended, again, I am sorry that you are offended.  But I have been keeping silent out of fear, and it is time to speak out and take a stand again for what the Lord has laid upon my heart, not for myself, but for others.

May the Lord stir your heart toward Him,
Blessings, MaggieRaye

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Jul. 21, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Dizzy


WOW
Your first paragraph?
I would say to those who "judge you" (AND THIS REALLY IS BEING JUDGEMENTAL because the 'humans' are saying "oooo your sin is GREATER than ____ there fore YOU are not worthy, THAT is Judging) that they need to be a bit more studious in the Word before they go ****ing people.

As far as the government system being "more evil" than any thing else.............nawwww Sin is Sin. God doesn't grade sin on a scale! PHEW!!
Again, "church people" are ignorant of the THE WORD.
God's Word is CLEAR who is to look after "orphans, widows, and the fatherless". It's "THE" Church. Not this silly notion we call "church" today..............but GOD'S CHURCH!

You have said nothing offensive.
Glorifying sin of any kind is wrong.
But, leading those who have sinned, to the cross, to seek the Lord, and ask for forgiveness, and repent.........
Is The Way!

Laura


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Jul. 23, 2008 - AMEN!!

Posted by Janet


MaggieRaye,

Your post is such a blessing to me. I agree with you totally. The problem is that many church members do not feel we are widows, nor are our children fatherless. But we are poor and so very needy.

I have learned that even when most do not want to help us single mothers who are staying at home, and perhaps some view us as lazy, God will send others who share our convictions, who will lavish us with goodness. God does not forsake us. When we are doing what He says, He always provides.

Thank you for speaking the truth.

Love,
Janet
http://www.janetscountryhome.com/journal/


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Jul. 29, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Lizzie


They don't want you at their church!?
OH MY WORD!

What is it that Jesus said, "He who is without sin cast the 1st stone."
This has bothered me for many days that people in the body of Christ would actually feel this way.
Shame on them.
Lizzie
www.adustyframe.com


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