I am finally relenting and doing a facebook questionaire thing.  However, I do not know how to post to facebook unless I blog, then my daughter set up an auto feed into facebook.  (and yes, she does that for other people for a very tiny fee).

So here are my Marriage Share answers:
Marriage
This is kind of like the 25 things - except there are pre-decided questions and it's about you and your spouse. Then tag whoever you want!

What are your middle names?
Duncan and Moana

How long have you been together?
20 years dating, Married almost 18

How long did you know each other before you started dating?
about 3.4 years I think.

Who asked whom out?
He asked me.

How old are each of you?
38 and 38

Whose siblings do/ did you see the most?
Hard to say.  Pretty even.

Do you have any children together?
4 wonderful children.

What about pets?
No pets right now.  We like our freedom.  But our children have Guinea Pigs.

Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
We need more sleep.  We have so many things we want to do and accomplish, we never rest enough.  Ever.

Did you go to the same school?
We were at U of L together for a time, but it was brief.  I am not sure how many semesters he went there before he transfered ot Sullivan.

Are you from the same home town?
I have lived in Louisville since I was 8.  Before that,  I was an army brat, so I moved around. 

Who is the smartest?
He is! 

Who is the most sensitive?
Um, depends on the sitation.  I tend to be pretty sensitive to the kids and people close to me.  For other people, I would say he is. 

Where do you eat out most as a couple?
Places we can afford to take the children and not leave broke.  But if were were rich, we both LOVE Sakura Blue, Havana Rumba, and Outback.  if only we could afford hem more often.

Where is the furthest you've traveled as a couple?
On our cruise.  We went several places.  I have no idea where, but they were far away.  And warm. 

Who has the craziest exes?
Exes?  What are those.  We have never loved anyone else.  :)

Who has the worst temper?
Me except on days when it is him.

Who does the cooking?
I do the cooking.  He is a terrific cook when he does cook, but it is primarily my job.

Who is more social?
Oh he is. i do not have time.

Who is the neat-freak?
Oh we pray that one of our children will be, by some freak of nature.

Who is more stubborn?
Me.

Who hogs the bed?
Neither.  He does like my pillow, though.

Who wakes up earlier?
Duncan.  Waaaay earlier.  Except on weekends.

Where was your first date?
Our first outing was to Chi-Chis but his mother was along.  our first date alone was to the movies (Chuckie-seriously it was!) and to Steak & Shake afterward.

Who has the bigger family?
I have four siblings.  He has a more complex sibling situation, so he has more.

Do you get flowers often?
I get flowers.  Some years more than others. 

How do you spend the holidays?
My family comes here and stays for them usually.  And we go see his family around town.

Who is more jealous?
Um, neither.

How long did it take to get serious?
4 months from when we started dating.  He was serious faster.

Who eats more?
Um, now that is just rude.

Who does the laundry?
The kids.

Who's better with the computer?
Duncan-he dominates!  See HIS site: www.crossbusinesstools.com

Who drives when you are together?
He drives.  I sleep.  Works perfectly.