Under the Maple Tree

• Oct. 10, 2005 - I must slow down...

I like to think that I am not busy. My goal is always to slow down, yet the pace keeps picking up. I don't desire a  life of running around, back and forth, here and there, etc. I want to be a keeper of the home, a wife, a mother, and a homeschooler. I love to be home, yet I am always going, just like I say I don't want to be. I am a part time homeschooler, along with my husband, and I also work 20 hrs per week as an Occupational therapist at a clinic for children with special health care needs. I also take my son, with all of his special needs to his numerous appts. throughout the week, and as of this evening he is now attending a young life group, or more accurately, we are attending Young Life.  My daughter has her ballet class, and her new Awana class. Then there is MOPS. As the discussion group team leader, I am at the MOPS meetings twice per month, plus all the planning meetings in between. Oh yeah, of course there is church on Sundays and youth group sunday nights.  Let's not forget grocery shopping, the dentist, the vet,  and that weekly trip to Home Depot. Who am I kidding? This is not the slow pace life I am striving to create. Although it is not as busy as some, it is still too much for me! There has got to be a way to change the pace. I am praying for God to show me  how.   With the Lord's help, I will figure this all out. Stay tuned.

 

 

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• Oct. 11, 2005 - I can remember...

Posted by Heart4Home
being in a similar place years ago, and thinking, "This is what I'm passing onto my children? Is this what they have to look forward to?". I promise - if you seek the Lord on this, He will not fail to give you the answer you are waiting for. He will show you the way that is right for you and your family.

God bless you,
~Kathy
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• Oct. 12, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by tnschaffer
oh Michelle, I know what you mean! We don't have the myraid of obligations that you have, but life is still to busy and rushed for me. I will pray that the Lord will show you what you can let go of.

A coupld years ago, I could have written the same post. We had Wed night bible study, pioneer club for the girls, I had a daycare in my home 50 hours a week, a monthly bunko group, I was the treasurer for our church's women's comittee, plus all the "events" the womens group had...there were a fwe other things too.

God showed me that all those things did not enrich and encourage the family we were trying to build. They all sound so good, they all sound like they will add something to our lives..but honestly, they take away more than they add.

You will be so blessed when you start replacing the constant go-go lifestyle with with more family-focused, slow paced life.
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• Oct. 13, 2005 - Been there -- done that!

Posted by BlessedMomOf5
I'm so glad that you are open to what the Lord has in store for you. Several years ago I was in the same place and could not see it myself. My dear husband saw it for me and began to force me to weed out that which was not necessary and that which he saw as a detriment to our family focus. I was not happy about it then, but now I am blessed with so much peace in my life and clarity as to what the best thing is!

My advice -- seek your husbands counsel! God created them without the emotional involvement so that they often see what we cannot.

Blessings,
Laura
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• Oct. 13, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by livin4Him6
May I make a suggestion?? I'm going to assume your answer was yes, LOL. Write down everything that you do outside the home and pray about each and every item, ask the Lord to show you what He wants your part to be in each of these places. Once you do that, number in order of importance and only take the top 3 at the most. Yes, you might feel bad thinking that you are letting someone down, but the truth is there are plenty of people to do ministries in the church but only you can be the keeper of YOUR home. I can attest that this does work and it really does make a difference. I started a great Bible study last year, and the more we got into it the more I realized that going out durring the weekday for that Bible study was not a priority. I am not one to quit things, I like to follow through on things. However, I needed to be obediant to the Lord. I told the lady leading it that I could not go and she was perfectly fine with it!! I continued the study on my own, but I did not have to leave one morning a week when I should be home doing school. HTT!! :0)
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• Oct. 14, 2005 - I am right there with you....

Posted by joyousheart
I keep thinking "how did my life get so complicated and hectic?" I am hoping the high gas prices will finally force me to slow down. I am praying for God to really show me what is of Him and what is just my worldly expectations. I truly want Him to order my days.
Joyfully,
Barb
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