I received this email last year from a loop I'm on (Sizzle Life) and it
brought a smile to my face and tears to my eyes. I was thrilled to see
it in my inbox again today and thought I'd share it here.
FYI - A "sizzler" is a high energy, easily distractible child (or adult
;-)). I'm blessed with at least two and possibly three of them.
:-) This email loop has been a wonderful source of inspiration
and encouragement in dealing with these types of children on a day to
day basis. The site is owned by Carol Barnier, author of "How To Get Your Child off of the Refrigerator and on to Learning."
I can't get the link function to work so here are the urls for the site:
Sizzle Bop home - http://sizzlebop.com/index.htm
info on joining "Sizzle Bop" loop - http://sizzlebop.com/join.htm
info on Carol Barnier - http://sizzlebop.com/Carol.htm
And, finally, here is the email:
Just a few great reasons to be thankful for the Sizzler in your life.
* You will possess the truly worthwhile quality of being far less judgmental of the rest of the world as you will daily wish such grace to be bestowed upon you. * You have become a virtual encyclopedia of stain removal techniques.
* You know that just as a survival-specialist knows that you can go a very long time without food, you have further discovered that you can go very long, in fact years, without being permitted to complete a single sentence or thought without fatal damage to brain function. (Impaired function...yes, fatal damage, no.) * You will never develop the unattractive, smug look of a parent who believes they have this parenting thing completely under control. * When you actually get a peaceful and quiet moment, it feeds your soul in ways it never would have before, when you took it for granted. * Your home zings with sound and energy. * The siblings of your Sizzler will be tougher in ways that they would not have been had they had a quiet and compliant non-sizzling sibling. That toughness or empathy may serve them very well in the life they will live. * You have, by far, the best stories when moms and dads share about the funny things kids do. * You will never stop learning...indeed, constant discovery will join your daily routine...such as can a small child, indeed, fit through a laundry chute? (Answer: Yes, with some tugging from mom to accomplish release) Can a 7 year old make it completely from the back of the house, through four rooms to the front of the house with her feet never touching the floor. (Answer: Yes, and even more amazingly, with only one item knocked over in the process.) * Hyperfocus can be your friend. While this quality can be a nuisance when a certain objective grasps your childs attention and wont let go, there are other times when you benefit. Our workroom and his Lego collection both have been radically organized (almost ridiculously organized) when this boy got the "bug" to get it all together. * You will always be given opportunities for self-improvement. Indeed, had you never had this child, you might never have known you had a temper in need of....um....well....tempering? * Some couple, somewhere, longs profoundly for a child and would gladly hand away all their worldly possessions to obtain exactly the sound and noise that fills your home. * You dont have to tell this kid to get up and get more exercise. * Aside from all the frustrations this child feels deeply, he also loves deeply, laughs deeply, cares deeply and mourns deeply. Seeing that kind of depth of feeling in this child is a privilege not unlike seeing a piece of art that takes your breath away. * You know (even when others cant see it,) that this childs passion and energy will one day take him to great achievement. And its always nice to be in on a secret. It is a privilege to live with and laugh alongside these unique and precious children. Take a moment this week to take stock of all the blessings this child brings to your world. And most important, make sure this child knows that you see blessings in them as well. If you have a reason to be thankful that you'd like to share, please send it in. Have a thankful Thanksgiving. From your friends at Sizzle Bop! www.SizzleBop.com
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