We made it to church for the first time since baby B was born.  I hadn't wanted to go partly because of how hard it would have been to get all the kids ready, and how hard it would be in church with fussy B.  But I mostly did not want to go because I was upset with the church.  When someone in the church has a baby, they are supposed to receive meals for two weeks.  I received one meal, about three weeks after he was born.  No one called - not even the pastor.  No one sent flowers.  It took three weeks for them to put the announcement of his birth in the bulletin.  I was so upset, I was thinking about changing churches.  But then I thought of the hassle it would be going to different churches trying to find the right one.  I didn't know what to do.  My husband didn't seem as offended as me, but he's a guy, they aren't easily offended.  Today I decided just to go back to the church for now.  I shouldn't be keeping the kids out of church.  I need to think of them, and do what is best for them - Taking them to church so they can go to Sunday school and play with their friends.