I wanted to give a quick update on my father.  On Monday night, my SIL called me to tell me he had taken a turn for the worst and they had called the preacher in.  It was around 10pm and I was already in bed, but my mother came and picke me up and we went to see him.  I just can't even describe how bad he looked.  He is only 61, but he looks like he is 80 years old.  We stayed until around 2am.  He is still hanging on, but it is truly a downhill run.  He has a mass in his lungs along with pneumonia, he has aspirated several times into his lungs.  I appreciate everyone who has sent messages saying they are praying.  I still don't know if he is a christian or not.  I know our pastor and one of the elders from our church prayed with him on Monday night.  I am planning to go again this evening to see him.  Keep praying!