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Mom of Seven
Feb. 15, 2006 - The Day After Valentine's Day

So, ladies, how was it?  We started the day with our typical family Valentine's party, which is always a sweet time (literally and figuratively).  Lots of hugs, kisses, cards, and candy. Jonathan's card for me had me "dancing with my wild hair going all over the place" (?!); Peter's had a little hidden part to open that said, "Mommy....(open) I love you"; Sarah made two sweet bears and signed hers, "from Sarah Bearearah"; Emily's was very sweet, considering the way we've been butting heads lately, "...I couldn't wish for a better mother! (really??)"; Rebecca's had an acronym for MOMMY: "Manager of the home (yeah, right), Outgoing (meaning I talk too much!), Mom of the century!, Merciful, Young at heart. (sweet!!!!)."  Dh's fit his personality: "From my heart one simple message...I love you."  Awwww.  And a large Hershey's kiss, which my tactless dd informed him I didn't like (kapowie!!).  Lesson on discretion immediately followed dad's departure to work.

 

Later, we (our family plus 4 other families) visited a nursing home in Athens and passed out about 100 Valentines to all the residents.  The older folk just loved it--especially getting to see the children.

 

The rest of the day was sort of downhill from there. Cried like an idiot because I didn't hear from my 21 year old.  Doesn't he love his Momma anymore????  Oh, well.  I finally gave up and snuggled with the son that still loves *his* Momma, my 4yo.  Got back up about 10 and found out I'd missed my call from older son!  Sigh.  Oh, well, at least he returned my call, even if I didn't get to talk to him.

 

I tried to learn about the conversation he had with older dd, but she was busy aerobicizing and panting and trying to keep up with Stormie Omartian's steps, LOL.  So, I retired to bed to read through Elisabeth Elliot's little booklet,"What God Has Joined...." Much needed reminder to stay the course no matter what.  Not exactly Valentine's reading material, I guess, but something quick to read while waiting on dh.  Reminded me of what my vows were supposed to have meant. Dh got home from work about midnight and we discussed our various offspring until we dozed off.

 

So, here we are...the day after.  Life goes on, does it not?  But, I am excited that the CAHE Valentine's party was postponed--we get to live all that love again on Friday!!  Yippee!  And more chocolate, I hope!!

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Feb. 15, 2006 - (((HUGS)))
Posted by ladyhawk82158
Yea! I'm your friend! I was getting a little bit worried there for a bit. ;-) I just LOVE reading about your Valentines Party! For me, I got one homemade red heart which says "I love you and Happy Birthday" and another store bought My Little Pony card and LOTS of LOUD happy birthday singing. *ouch my achy head* But I know it was all done in love. *blushes*
I am sorry you had a rough night. You are so dearly loved! Do not ever forget that!!!
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Feb. 17, 2006 - Happy Belated V-day!
Posted by snider6intx
Glad to see you on HomeschoolBlogger.com. Hope you have fun here. I had no idea what on earth I'd write when I started, but have enjoyed having it. Sorry you missed your oldest's phone call. I have stepchildren that live far away so I kindda know the 'trauma" of the missed/forgotten phone calls on special days!

I am glad the party got move too! Now, no one who wanted to go will miss out!!! Sounds like our little group is going to have a nice turn out. I love what the Athens group did for V-day. My Mom is a nurse at a nursing home. So, that is a ministry near and dear to my heart.

Thanks for you comments on my blogger. I have not posted that article on the CAHE Board as of yet, but they will see it. (Just not there......teaser....you'll see.)
I had heard you spoke at the TACHE MNO. Wish I had gone. I didn't know it was about that some subject though! LOL

See you soon!
~April
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Mar. 4, 2006 - Thanks for your comments on my blog
Posted by belindaletchford
After reading your comments I did make a few edits to my blog - maybe making it a little clearer that I am coming from the perspective that Dad is head of the home, that he is assuming responsibility and is involved in the kids lives. I am purely looking at those words we use, that frame our expectations, when we leave the kids with dad (which in most households is not for the most of the time)

As for thinking about doing the chores "for me". That is interesting. I will have to listen to myself to see if I do say this or not. I do agree that we all live together and have to pull together but the flip side is that I want to train my children to see thing that need to be done for other people and pointing out things that need to be done for me - is the first step of them seeing the needs of another person. Balance is the key. I'm going to have to listen to myself!

Belinda

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