Nov. 13, 2008 - What Would You Do ???
Well , finally after several hours of no progress the learning wheels are back to rolling. Both of the kids have hit a few weeks of rebellion in the learning department. Getting them motivated has really been a major undertaking these last few weeks.
We have not had the extra money to do any extra (out of home) activities. I know this would help their focus. Hopefully the new year will bring better finances and we can do some educational field trips.
I would love some feed back on this.
1. Do any of you have problems getting the kids to do their learning ?
2. Do you do all subjects everyday ?
3. Do you have days of being so overwhelmed and question your sanity for homeschooling...lol ?
Anything you could add or suggest would be most appreciated.
Comments
Nov. 13, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Haflingerhorses
1. Do any of you have problems getting the kids to do their learning ?
If the kids don't generally obey in your day to day life, you will have trouble when time it comes to school. I think teaching obedience is a cornerstone and foundation of homeschool. You can't teach to someone that won't listen. If this a problem (and we all face this issue) I would concentrate on this. I'd read books on how to do this if it's something you struggle with. Or, if it's just you know what to do but it's just not happening, I'd move it to the top of my list in priorities. Over everything. I'd tell the child to do something, and if it didn't happen, I'd spend an hour, if that's what it took to teach him/her to obey. I wouldn't yell. I'd talk - I'd teach. And then I'd be consistent, even if it was taking up the bulk of my day. I'd consider it more important than the academics, because your not going to be effective anyways until that's under control.
2. Do you do all subjects everyday ?
Monday we take it light. I do class time with the kids all together. BIble, history, science, etc.. We might watch an educational movie, or part of it. I do a lot of just enjoying the kids on this day - reading in front of the fireplace, having tea together while we read. I enjoy this day and it's conveyed to the kids. I make no appointments on Monday. I try to stay home most Mondays.
Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, we do class time and independent work. It depends on the ages of your kids how much they can do on their own. I'm blessed, my mom helps me on these three days (I have four (ages 7, 10, 13, 16) I've known other moms of large families that have an older teen outside of the home come in and help. Maybe there is a possibity here you can explore.
3. Do you have days of being so overwhelmed and question your sanity for homeschooling...lol ?
Yes, yes, and yes. And that's why I wanted to take the time to answer your questions. I have two homeschool graduates. I've learned a lot along the way. And the best thing I can say, besides #1 that I mentioned, is to enjoy your kids. Teach them about God. Relax. Work on being patient, don't fret the little stuff, and even the big stuff isn't worth losing it. It's worth it in the long run. It's an investment in your children.
Antoinette
Nov. 18, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by subbertfamily
Hi there!! I think we all go through these problems. I think even public school kids go through this.
These are some of the things I do:
1. Pajama day for reading, playing games, adn watching tv
2. Before your kids get up, make some tents. Announce school will be done in tents today-my kids love this!
3. Do you know of any other homeschoolers that you can do a "class" or project with?
4. Try a lapbook. www.handsofachild.com has free quarterly lapbooks. They are fun and easy to do. My kids really enjoy them.
5. Get out and explore nature day. Identify trees, plants, flowers, etc. If weather permits, picnic it.
Just remember, they're still learning even if its not quite what you had planned for the day!!
Michelle in Japan
