My oldest daughter is seventeen weeks pregnant and having alittle problems here and there. We spent ten hours in the emergency room last Sunday night and everything ended up being fine. Well last night she was having some achiness and pressure in her stomach and pelvic area so I went to her house to see what she wanted to do. Her husband is a very nice guy and great husband but his compassion is in his little toe. He always tells her that everything will be fine and just to go to bed and dont worry about it. I understand leaving everything in Gods hands but when your carrying a child you have so many fears about what is going on. He has the attitude that we dont need to sit in an emergency room all night long which is especially something he does not want to do, but we didnt want to endure that either.She wanted me to spend the night in case she had any problems and he thought that was not nescessary since I do live close. I understand that to but when your daughter is upset some you will do as a mother what you need to do.He proceeded as she was trying to decide what to do and asking me to stay, informed her that she was married now, like you dont need your mom. I did tell him nicely that if she had his compassion and support that she would not need her mom as much! I think he felt bad after the fact, but we are praying for compassion in his life as well as in many other peoples lives. I would appreciate any opinions on this matter and how you feel about compassion in our lives.