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May. 11, 2009
Created 2 be his helpmeet. Chap 3, Thanksful Spirit

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We were doing this study about being thankful through the Created to be His Helpmeet book. Here are my answers for posterity. :-)

Do we always have a Thankful Spirit? No, sometimes I forget how very good God has been to me. I'm sorry to say, but I have to be honest.


How about you?? Where are you today? I am learning that it is ok, to fall as long as you learn and then get back up. I am learning that my husband needs to trust me, and I have to constantly inspire that trust in him. :-)

Where does joy start?  My Joy comes from the Lord. And it is my strength. I need to keep that in the forefront of my mind, daily.

Have I been discontent in my lot in life? Do I have my own "pity parties?  Oh, yeah I have thrown some doozy 'pity parties'. I have learned to turn my eyes back to the Lord 'from whence comes my strength', and take my eyes off the problem. When I focus less on the problem than on the Only Solution then I can climb out of my depressions quicker. :-)

Do I verbally show thanksgiving every day?  I do try to do this. And I will try harder.

Do I thank God daily for my husband?? Again, most days I do thank God for the wonderful man He has given me. and for my kids. But there are days when I rush threw morning devotions, and I don't have 'time' to thank God for much of anything.... I need to focus on my priorities more and more.

Would friends describe me as joyful, thankful and content?   yikes. this one struck a chord with me because of some personal issues. I'm sure those that barely know me would see me this way, but then I have an issue with keeping my mouth shut to 'good friends' when I am feeling down. I am learning everyday that "Every wise woman builds her house." (Prov. 14:1) and "A word fitly spoke is like apples of gold in settings of silver" (Prov. 25:11) and that "The tongue of the wise promotes health" (Prov 12:18) God is continuing to teach me to keep my mouth shut. :-) I thank God for His mercy and grace in teaching me even though I don't deserve it.

How can I add practicing joy and thanksgiving into my life?  I guess one way would be to smile more. I've noticed that even when I am not upset I have trouble smiling... so I am trying to smile 'for no reason'. :-) And I will try to make it a point to thank God, my hubby, and my children daily for something. :-)

Am I willing to lay down my grievance toward my husband for the hope of a heavenly marriage??   Oh, yes!! A thousand times yes. I don't think being 'right' is worth it in the end. :-)

How about you? How would you answer these questions?

Alexia

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May. 12, 2009 - my answers and thoughts

Posted by mom2myblessings2001


Do we always have a Thankful Spirit?

no. i am trying harder lately though.

How about you?? Where are you today?

I am learning that the things I do too often are not things that make my husband trust me. My dh's job (fire fighting) means that he has to leave at a moment's notice. I can't expect the same attention when he's leaving. Also, I can't expect that he will call and check in. He needs to trust that I can carry on at home without him, for hours and at times a day or two.

Where does joy start?

I need to find true joy.

Have I been discontent in my lot in life? Do I have my own "pity parties?

I am generally discontent. I don't like it and I am trying to change it. On the outside and what others see on my blog is not always what is really going on. What others see is after I've struggled through and solved the issue. I am a selfish, childish woman lots of the time.

Do I verbally show thanksgiving every day?

I am getting a lot better at this!

Do I thank God daily for my husband??

I do thank God for my husband. Daily? I try.

Would friends describe me as joyful, thankful and content?

This one was tough for me too. I'm not joyful. I am thankful. And I'm learning to be content. Getting better everyday at all of them!

How can I add practicing joy and thanksgiving into my life?

Smiling. Just because. Good one.

Am I willing to lay down my grievance toward my husband for the hope of a heavenly marriage??

I am! But it is a constant battle.


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