Our Quiverfull
May. 22, 2007
Rear Window

Posted in Noah Updates

This is Kate - Jeff brought up my laptop today so I can finally post an entry myself.  I'veenjoyed Jeff's posts and he plans to keep blogging as well, but I am tickled pink to be able to share a little with you all.

Have you ever seen Alfred Hitchock's deliciously creepy movie Rear Window?  It is about a man who is confined to his apartment following an injury.  He amuses himeself by looking out the window into the neighboring apartments and eventually witnesses a crime.  I won't give away the ending in case you haven't seen it.    Well, I am starting to feel like I am living that movie.  Noah and I have the best room on the 5th floor.  It is a huge room on the corner with windows on two sides.  We haven't been able to leave the room much lately so I amuse us both by wandering from window to window to see what is happening in the outside world.  It struck me from our first day here that God had placed us in a unique room for a reason and that we could use this room to God's glory by praying for the different people that we see.  One wall looks out on the helicopter pad.  Every time a helicopter lands or takes off it zooms right past our windows.  Noah and I watch and pray every time for the patients, doctors, pilots, and families.  It surprised me that the doctors generally take their time getting to the patient.  I guess I assumed that if someone came by helicopter that there was a real emergency, but I learned that often the patients are fairly stable and it can take 15 minutes or more before they are removed and wheeled into the hospital.  The other day was very different, though.  As soon as the chopper touched down the doctors came running with the gurney - ducking under the still-moving rotors as they came.  They quickly pulled out the patient and the pilot climbed onto the gurney and started doing chest compressions as they ran into the hospital.  It struck me that I might be the only person in the world praying for that person as he or she literally hovered at the gates of eternity. 

Of course, most of the things I aren't nearly that dramatic.  Noah and I watch every Saturday morning as the pregnant mommies and their husbands show up for birthing class, and I have the joy of praying for these new lives and for the parents to truly seek God.  Sometimes our window watching is purely recreational.  We get to see the most beautiful sunsets each evening and have even enjoyed a wonderful late afternoon thunderstorm with lightning crashing all around.   Last week the smoke from the Florida/Georgia fires blew in and covered everything in a mysteriaIn the course of my "normal" life I would never have had so much time to just look out the windows and watch and laugh and cry and pray. 

A couple of days ago our window watching took a dark and frightening turn.  I noticed a small barefoot girl sitting on top of a car.  There were five adults standing around the car and while I watched one of them pulled the child down and began hitting her.  She scrambled back up and another adult pulled her down and struck her.  She darted into the back seat of the car, but another adult pulled her out and backhanded her.  After a few more blows she ran away across the parking lot.  They stood around for a few minutes then followed her, then they all went into the stairwell that leads to the hospital entrance.  I was completely shocked.  This was a little, little girl - maybe 3 or 4 years old, and there were five adults taking turns hitting her.  Equally horrifying was the fact that other people were driving or walking by and none of them did anything.  I called security but the people were gone and there was no real way to find them.  Security turned one of their cameras onto the car in case there was another incident and the police came by and took a report.  They said that unfortunately there wasn't much they could do at this point unless running the license plate were to yield any outstanding warrants, but that this would go on record and would be a factor if any additional reports were ever made. I wanted to ask all of you to pray for this little girl.  I am praying that if anything like this ever happens to her again, that it happens in a situation where immediate action can be taken.  I don't think I understand a world where that many people can strike that many blows in broad daylight without anyone caring enough to intervene on that child's behalf.

Wel, I'ms ure you have all heard quite enough about our windows and are eager to hear about Mr. Noah.  I wish I had more to share, but there really isn't much new news.  His feeding volume has been decreased but he is still very uncomfortable and still vomitting.   I may know more tomorrow morning after some of the doctors put their heads together.  We just have no idea when we will be coming home.  It could be just a few more days or quite a bit longer.   In the meantime, we are just getting through each day the best that we know how, with lots of phone calls to home, lots of baby kisses and snuggles, and lots of window watching.  :-)

And now, I finally get to list some blessings myself for a change!

1.  The incredible outpouring of love from all of you.  From phone calls to emails to comments on the blog to surprises in the mail, we have been blessed by your kindness.  Jeff did ask me to clarify a couple of things on this subject.  Jeff reads every one of your emails and loves them all, but he just can't  respond to them individually right now.   I can't see them here but he reads some of them to me and is saving them all for me to read when I get home.  Many of you have asked how to send us mail.  You can email Jeff and he will try to get back to you, or you can use the mailing address in the contact section of our website, www.handsandhearts.com .  Either way will work just fine, and Jeff makes sure that mail gets up to me every couple of days.  I know that many of your children have been particularly burdened for Noah, and we just found out that they (or anyone) can send him a special card for free through the hospital volunteer system.  Just go to www.ghs.org  and select "patients and visitors," then "visitor info," then " patient e-cards."  You can create a card online and the volunteers will actually print it and deliver it to our room!  (We are in room 5512.)

2. Noah's happy spirit.  Even when he feels the worst, he will almost always manage a smile.  When he is feeling good, he is an incredibly joyful, friendly, and funny littleguy with thebest laugh you can imagine.

3.  A visit from the other children today.  I snuggled with Sarah and read her about a bazillion books, played dinosaurs with David, did puzzles with Timothy, watched Matthew build and attack a huge fort in the playroom, and took a little walk with William and Hannah.  I had a wonderful time with them while Jeff enjoyed taking a nap with Noah.        

4.  A visit without the children tomorrow.  :-)  Jeff and I obviously haven't had any time together lately and we are both missing each other a lot.  Tomorrow he gets to come up alone so we can just talk and hang out together.  I can't wait.

5.  This laptop.  It is a blessing to be able to get on and post.  There are computers here that parents can use but it is hard to get to them right now.  I was so happy when Jeff brought this up for me today!

Love,

Kate and Jeff and Noah


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May. 23, 2007 - Prayers and {{{hugs}}}

Posted by NCLighthouseKeeper


I have followed the news about your family and Noah on TOGLooseThreads, but only now made it over here to your blog. I am touched by your and Jeff's sweet spirits and courage throughout this ordeal, as evidenced in your writing, and am praying for Noah and all of you. I will be checking back often.
I pray that God will continue shower you with little blessings to lift your spirits, and perform a mighty miracle in the life of Noah.
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Beth in Wake Forest, NC


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May. 23, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by GiffordBabyJournal


We are so thankful for your window seats! God is so good! Your family is in our prayers.

Blessings,
Christi


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May. 23, 2007 - your JOY amazes me!

Posted by swirley9


Kate,
I don't know how I came across your blog a couple of weeks ago, but I have been watching it daily now.
I have 9 children and we have all been praying for "baby Noah". The children loved being able to see a picture of him to go with the name.
Your situation has touched me greatly. Sometimes I read your post and just cry! We had twins almost 3 years ago, they were born at 30 weeks, 1 lb 7 oz, and 2 lb 13 oz. They were in the hospital for 2 months. So I guess in a way reading about what you are going through brings back alot of memories. Although I did not get to stay with the babies. I am able to explain to my children, remember when..... and they can understand what your other children are feeling with not having Mama there all the time. So I want you to know we are praying for them too.
But the joy that comes through your posts and Jeff,s amazes me. Maybe it is b/c at the end you always find something to ba thankful for. I am learning from you and you didn't even know you were teaching right now. Thank you for your JOY!!!!
We will keep praying for ALL of you.

Lisa


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May. 23, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous


I had to laugh after reading the tip about the e-cards!
I wonder how many you will get today! 2 (hundered?!) It is very good to have a nice view from the window. hospital can be VERY boring otherwise (especially if you are not able to leave the room!
I Will have to start writing down thing that I am thankful for! THere i more than i think I guess. Thank you for being such an inspirstion and guidance for all of us!
Dagmar f. Germany


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May. 23, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous


Hey Kate,

So happy to think of you with a double window high atop the city. <G> What a blessing you are to consciously be choosing to find the blessings in every seaso of life.

I continue to pray for all of you.
De'Etta (SHS)


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May. 23, 2007 - Praying

Posted by Anonymous


Yes, I've seen the movie Rear Window and I know exactly what you mean! In fact, I think Corrie ten Boon's mother had a window prayer ministry after her stroke. Thank you for praying for the air evak patients. When I was pregnant with my youngest, I had to be air evaked. It was the best airplane flight I ever had, except for having to redo the needle in my arm and they couldn't get it into my vein. A year later we returned to the hospital for my son to have testing for feeding and weight loss issues. During that time he developed a cough vomit thing and continued to lose weight. A year later he was on 10 asthma meds and the cough vomit was only worse. They gave him propulsid because of acid reflux and he finally phased off the asthma meds. Your stories bring back soooooo many memories. I am praying for you and your sweet baby. I am praying for the family you miss. I am praying for the docs to have clear wisdom for diagnosis and treatment. And I am praying for that little girl and the adults.
Blessings,
Laurie Hackett (from TLT)


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Jul. 10, 2007 - Glad things are better

Posted by Lara


I will continue to pray for Noah and your van issues, as well as precious Sarah and her rabies shot. I so enjoyed the humor of your last post and am glad Noah is home. BTW, I have boys at my house, so no baby dolls. My son gave his hamster a bath (and didn't ask nicely first). So, at least it is not a live creature that is being bathed!!


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