Our Quiverfull
May. 23, 2007
The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Posted in Noah Updates

Unfortunately Noah had a terrific day today.  I know that is an odd thing for a loving mommy to say, but the only reason he had a good day is that the doctors gave him a 24 hour break from his feeding pump.  He was so sick all last night and early this morning that they decided just to give the little critter a break.   Since he didn't have any food except when he wanted to nurse, he felt fantastic.  While it was tons of fun to have my  happy baby back, it was really sad to see that the only reason he felt good is that he wasn't being fed much.

Noah saw quite a few doctors today and late this afternoon some of them came in together to talk about a plan for Noah.  We had good news, bad news, and rotten news.

First the good news - Noah gets to go home tomorrow!!  I am so excited.  (By the way, this means that if you were thinking of sending him an ecard and didn't do so, then please don't do so since he won't get it unless it was sent today.)  He is going to continue to have discomfort and nausea and vomitting and will still need daily weight checks, but he can throw up at home as easily as he can throw up here.    Since they can't fix that issue right now, it isn't a good enough reason to keep him here and run the risk that he could catch something from being in the hospital.

The bad news is, first of all, the fact that the feeding issues aren't going to be resolved at this point.  Because Noah's weight gain has been so incredible (2.5 + pounds in 2 weeks!!) the doctors are reducing his caloric intake and therefore his feeding volume.  It may help some but he will probably still struggle.  He still needs daily weight checks but we can do that at our doctor's office each day.  We will watch his weight gain and continue to tweak his calories and volume until we find the least number of calories that he can take while still gaining acceptable weight, albeit more slowly than he has for the last couple of weeks.  We aren't too happy that Noah is going home on continuous feeding.  He will be hooked up to a feeding pump 24/7 and that will obviously take some getting used to.  The pump is portable but it will be tricky to juggle a baby and a case that are attached to each other.   I am confident that we will get it all figured out eventually, but it may take a while.  Also, Noah has to come back next week for more surgery.  He needs to have an endoscopy and stomach biopsy to see if we can glean more information as to why he isn't tolerating his feedings.  He will be under general anesthesia, but they can do the surgery on an outpatient basis so we will only be here one day.  It looks like he'll have the surgery next Thursday.  It is possible that their findings would result in the need for corrective surgery.

The ugly news is that some of Noah's labs have come back with abnormal results that would really seem to indicate mitochondrial disease.  Our original plan had been to have Noah closely monitored through the Greenwood Genetic Center and revisit the idea of a muscle biopsy in a couple of months.  Because of these labs, the hospital is going right ahead and scheduling him for the biopsy.  We should have a date tomorrow.  This will need to be done at Emory in Atlanta, and is another surgery under general anesthesia.  We don't know how long we will be there.

Specific prayer requests at this time:

-- continued wisdom for the doctors

-- healing for Noah's g-tube site.  His stomach contents are leaking out around the tube because his stomach isn't emptying properly.  When he gets overfull and starts to throw up, the same pressure that makes him sick also forces stuff out around his incision.  Surgery is working on some options and we hope to have him more comfortable in that regard before we leave tomorrow.  It is yucky and requires a lot of work to keep his skin clean and dry.  If we don't get a handle on this, his skin will just break down and there could be more serious problems.

-- comfort for Noah once he starts his feeds up again.  He is so incredibly miserable when he gets fed and he whimpers and holds his breath and vomits.  It is very hard to watch.

-- wisdom and bright ideas for us as we adjust to his pump at home along with daily doctor visits and outpatient occupational therapy and physical therapy.

-- wisdom for finances.  Noah needs to go home on a custom mixed formula that will cost close to $100 a week.  The discharge planner is working with us to look for some avenues to obtain funding to help, but we will probably be on our own with this cost for a while.  We honestly don't have that kind of extra money,but are watching in faith to see how God will provide.

-- some special peace for me.  This might sound odd, but I haven't really thought of Noah as really sick until now.  I think of him as my sweet, happy snugglebug, and I was a little overwhelmed today to realise how different our lives are going to be when we get home. 

Even after a day like today, I am thankful to "count it all joy."  Things that made me smile today include:

1.  Starbucks.  I've said it before and I'll say it again - coffee and chocolate help LOL - and Starbuck's has both.  I "discovered" their iced Orange Mocha's yesterday, and that is very possible the reason that God is sending us home tomorrow.  It would be waaay to easy to overdo on those!  On the other hand, Orange Mocha's may be Nature's Ideal Food.  Coffee is a bean, right - so we have the vegetable group covered.  Oranges are fruit.  Whipped cream is dairy.  Chocolate is high in anti-oxidents, so it is kind like a vitamin.  Hmmm . . . . maybe I have time for just one more before bed . . . .   (Notice that I, unlike some other blog poster who shall remain anonymous, seek to cover many food groups in my prefered treat.  C'mon - what good is a Snickers bar??!!) 

2.  The Little Blue Bench of Happiness.  Noah is a smart little guy, but his physical limitations make it hard for him to play with "big boy" toys.  He can't handle much more than a rattle-type infant toy because he is either lying down and can't manage challenging toys or he is sitting in his Bumbo seat and can't reach toys.  Yesterday the O.T. brought him a little blue padded bench that adjusted to the perfect height to function as a table for his Bumbo.  Today he got to play with stacking rings and music toys and other great baby toys that he couldn't enjoy before.  It was a whole new world for him and he had so much fun!  Jeff is going to try to build him a similar little table at home.

3.  Great visits today with my father-in-law, Jeff, and our great pastor.  I had lots of company just when I needed it most.  It was great to have Jeff almost all to myself for a little while!  He is my best friend in the whole world (even if he would rather have a Snickers bar than coffee)  and nothing is ever quite right when he isn't around.

4.  Thinking about Jane Austen.  Hannah, my 13.5 yo dd and I have seen the new Pride and Prejudice a couple of times and had started watching the old five hour version before Noah was admitted.  Maybe this weeked the two of us can finish it.  Really, you can't get too much Mr. Darcy, can you?  I hope that new movie about Jane Austen will be as good as it looks.  It sounds like the perfect girl's night out.

5.  Lavender.  I am just the biggest fan ever of lavender anything, and various sweet friends and my mom (also a sweet friend) have kept me supplied with everything from lavender lotion to all-natural lavender dryer sheets (Method brand, get 'em at Target), to a handmade lavender sachet to tuck in my closet here.  Mmmmmm . . . .

6.  One more bonus blessing - my friend De'Etta who often leaves comments here.  She generally signs her emails with the phrase "choosing joy."  She probably doesn't know this (but I hope she's reading!), but her encouragement is one of the reasons why I stop and choose joy each day.   Thank you, my friend.

Love,

Kate . . . who will get to update from HOME tomorrow!! 


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May. 23, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous


I am so glad you will be home tomorrow! What a relief that will be, even without the Orange Mochas. No matter what trials lie ahead I am sure that you will find comfort at home with your family.
I continue to pray for Noah and all of you. He is a beautiful child!
I just love your view from the window post. It really touched me that you prayed for each of those people.
Blessings to you all,
Karen in VT (SHS)


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May. 23, 2007 - Baby Noah

Posted by Patty Wiens


Hi Jeff, Kate and gang,

I am excited to hear that you are both getting a reprieve from this hospital but will continue to hold you in my thoughts and prayers. I have shared a little of my son Kenyon's story with you already and the more I read about your journey with Noah, the more I can relate. I cannot tell you HOW similar our son's stories are. They are identical and I am reliving my journey as I read about your's. I won't bog down the blog with a bunch of details tonight...I am sure that you have more than enough on your plate as is...however I did want to pass along a couple of tips with regards to Noah's feeding tube. The first tip is with regards to his tube site. Kenyon has a LOT of struggles with leaking around his tube and the Dr's have tried everything from silver nitrate to who knows what else to try and keep the skin from breaking down. This is going to sound strange but the best thing that they have found to date...and Kenyon has had his g-tube for 8 years...is to take a little Maloxx...the liquid kind...and rub it around the site . There is something in the Maloxx that helps keep the skin from breaking down because of leaking, Unfortunately leaking is very common and can be hard on the skin. Another tip that I would pass along is to invest in a lot of onesies. These kept Kenyon from playing with the tube...although I have to say that this was not really a problem for him...I think that he realized that if he pulled on it it did not feel good and so he left it alone. I had more problems with people that did not know Kenyon and saw this appendage dangling and did not know what it was. I had several people grab th tube to pick it up thinking that I had dropped something that was tangled up with Kenyon, Having a onesie on and just pinning the tube to the onesie saved us more than once. I could share more but don't want to give a bunch of unsolicited advice. I know that you have a ton of people that care about you and will be continuing to pray for you all. If ever I can help please feel free to email me. I have been in your shoes and can offer a listening ear from someone who understands. I will continue to pray for your finances as well. Kenyon is on $200.00 of Pediasure a week that is not covered and we are also a single income family with 6 children. I know how the stress of trying to provide for your family can add up. Hang in there and may God's grace, endurance and abundant provision be with you.

Thinking of you,

Patty Wiens

landpwiens@shaw.ca


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May. 23, 2007 - P&P

Posted by netherfieldmom


Kate: So glad you're getting to go back home. We're still praying for all of you... and you know, that 5 hr. P&P is so much better than the new one. (Note my user name! We had a cat named Mr. Bingley--he was living here when we moved in.) Make sure you all watch Emma with Gwyneth Paltrow too--it's very fun. And then there's S&S with Hugh Grant and Alan Rickman...well you know how it is with Jane Austen...they're all great. Enjoy sleeping in your own bed. Thinking of you all!

Edited by netherfieldmom on May. 23, 2007 at 7:24 PM


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May. 23, 2007 - I'm glad you are going home!

Posted by ThoughtfulMom


Everything is a little easier when you get to sleep in your own bed at night.

We have lots of experience with g-tubes and feeding pumps and vomiting and mitochondrial disease. If you'd like to talk, I'd gladly tell you what worked for us. You can find me at my blog: thoughtfulmom.blogspot.com


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May. 23, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous


Kate,

I'm so glad you and Noah will be going home. His needs, however, are still in my prayers every day. Praying for the rest of the family as well. ((((Hugs))))

Ginger in LA from SHS


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May. 24, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous


Kate - I'm so glad to hear that Noah will be able to go home. My goodness, what trials you all have been through. I love reading how you find something to be thankful for in each post. Bless your hearts! God is Good.

Kathy in WA


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May. 24, 2007 - Thinking of you

Posted by MamaPow


Kate, I just want you to know that you are, and have been, in my prayers. I am not as active in the group as I once was, but I think of you often. Your support and friendship has not been forgotten. Praying for nothing short of a miracle for your family!

Love you, Cindy (MamaPow °Ü°)


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May. 24, 2007 - your strength

Posted by momzilla


Kate -you and your husband amaze me.But its no secret that when you can't walk anymore it is then that the Lord carries you.I hope and pray that He continues to carry you and your family through this very tough road.And as for lil' guy ,he is in the palm of His hand.Blessings-Brenda


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May. 24, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Diann from SHS


I am so glad you all get to go home. I love your "count it all joy" parts of the posts. You and De'Etta both remind me to do just that. I will continue praying for you.


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May. 24, 2007 - Continued Prayers

Posted by Anonymous


Kate, I'm so glad you get to take Noah home. I'm sure it will be a challenge with his feeding pump, but there is nothing like being able to sleep in your own bed.

Thank you for taking the time to keep us updated.

We are praying daily for Noah and the rest of the family.


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May. 24, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous


We are praying for a smooth transition. I remember being scared to walk out those doors, especially when you are so far from the hosp (i was too)
WIC should cover the pediasure as young as he is! Have you applied for TItle 19 or whatever your state needy health issue is? Social Security Disability. THIS is what all those programs are for, and you have paid into them for years. Don't hesitate to use them!
It may very well be the LORD's provision,in my opinion!
hth
still praying
Monique


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May. 24, 2007 - Noah going home

Posted by spitfire


Kate,
We don't know each other, but that's OK. I check on you and Noah regularly. My kids at church have adopted Noah as their prayer project and pray for him twice a week at church and daily themselves at home. My little "prayer warriors in training" are positive that our Father will heal Noah and give wisdom and strength to you and the rest of the family. Give Noah a big hug for myself and my kids. G-d Bless, Spitfire


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May. 24, 2007 - Skin Breakdown

Posted by Anonymous


I don't know if you've been told this or not. It can sound a wives taleish. Liquid Maloxx can help. Use a q-tip to apply it around the site. another thing that can work especially in a pinch is balmex diaper rash cream. Sounds odd I know but it's what an old Vietnam Era veteran hospital nurse told my mother to do for her tube leakish and it did make a difference for her. Another thing that helped her was cutting back on soy, artificial sweeteners, and gluten content in her forumulas.

One thing that a friend who's young child needed tube feedings and couldn't afford the cost was someone maybe your pastor could do it or a social worker from the hospital... anyways, the social worker in my friends case wrote a letter to the manufacture explaining the situation. While the cost was still high the manfacture was able to get them a hardship break so it was more doable for her. Not sure if that is something that might help in your situation.

Will continue to pray for your family & of course Noah.


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May. 25, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous


So glad Noah will be home today. I am also so thankful he got a "day off" though I understand how this is bittersweet.
Kate, I am with you on the Orange Mocha from Starbucks. Yum! But I sure to understand Snickers too! LOL I think chocolate is just my thing.
Continuing to pray for all of you. Your blessings lists are such an encouragement to all. Thank you sharing this with us. Praying for your reunion with your precious family.
Gilda (TLT and SHS)


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May. 25, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous


We will keep praying for all of you, for your finances, and especially for little Noah. God grant you a double dose of His peace and comfort as you adjust to the next stage of seeking to get Noah all better.

My husband had a bunch of bypasses with his different surgeries & a lot of them leaked too. The posts suggesting Maalox, Vaseline, etc are great ideas wherever it won't cause adhesives to fail. MSM cream can help irritated skin recover too. Still using MSM on Tom's scars.

God bless you! - As you keep walking through this season of trial while keeping your focus on Christ and God the Father's daily blessings, you also bless other believers to choose joy daily.

I think you will find being at home a welcome respite for you both.

Susan in Va (SHS)
http://shushan37.blogspot.com/


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May. 26, 2007 - posted by De'Etta

Posted by Anonymous


Kate,

What fun to be mentioned on your blog. You and your family remain in my prayers. I'm so glad that my ramblings of the past have blessed you. ::snort::

This is a week where I have seen how wonderfully God is able to walk us through the desert....and really choosing joy becomes a way of life....as natural as breathing...once you get that joy doens't mean giddy happiness!

It blessed me to read your comments.


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May. 28, 2007 - Praying...

Posted by Shannon in Florida (shs)


I'm really praying that things have gone well the past few days. Praying that Noah finds some comfort in being in his own home and that you all find just a little more rest. God Bless,

Shannon


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May. 29, 2007 - prayers and hugs

Posted by heartofwisdom


Kate,

Hugs and prayers for you Noah and your family. My now daughter died when she was 2 weeks old. She had pneumonia. She stopped breathing, heart stopped. I gave her to God and God brought her back to us. She is now 28 with three boys of her own. She has been and is still my daily joy.

Choose joy-- what a great message to leave people with. I know you will be feeling peace with all these prayers.

God bless,
Robin


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May. 29, 2007 - Baby Noah

Posted by hip2homeschool


Hi Kate,

Just wanted you to know that Noah and your family are still in my prayers every morning. I continue to pray that the Lord will reach down and touch that little guy of yours and heal him.

God bless you all. Keep counting those blessings.

Blessings,
Heather L.


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