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// - I have homeschooled for sixteen years. Our oldest recently graduated from college, another is a sophomore in college & our youngest is in 7th grade. I would like to offer encouragement to those who are just beginning to homeschool, as well as those whose children are considering college. It takes commitment to remain in homeschooling for the long haul. I would also like others to know that their homeschooled children can succeed in college and in their personal and professional lives.


Wonderful Time for Other Things


It is sometimes hard to believe, but one day, young mothers, you will have some time for other things.  None of the "other things" is as important or precious at raising your family, but these times can still be very sweet!

I have taken an interest in growing herbs.  I've dabbled in it before, but didn't have time to tend to my fledgling plants.  Now, the time has come!  I am slowly adding to my "gardening" by the pot on my enclosed porch.  I love growing things!  You can take the girl out of Iowa, but you can't take the Iowa out of the girl! 

Years ago, my mom gave me several embroidery squares that she had carefully stitched.  Each square contains a different American wildflower.  I put them in a container & stowed them away in my closet & thought, "someday, I'll do something with those."  I was reading my Martha Stewart magazine & there was an article on embroidery or "crewelwork."  I'm afraid it has becoming a lost art, along with so many other wonderful skills.  I remembered the squares my mom had made & took them out.  What a treasure they are!  My mom is 85 now & I told her that I am finally doing something with those squares.  I purchased some frames & will frame a few.  The others will become pillows.  I wanted her to know I was doing something with them.  I have several more & I plan to give them to my daughter & my two nieces.  We are a family of boys, but the three girls in the family will cherish them, I'm sure. 

I never would've imagined that with just one child left at home who is almost thirteen, that I would run out of time each day.  I do!  I love it.  I'm busy with all those things that I stowed away in the closet of my mind.  One activity that is giving me much pleasure these days is preparing for my first grandchild, a little boy, who is due to arrive in January.  I love buying him things & boxing them up in care packages & mailing them.  The man at the post office laughs because each package gets heavier.  Last week's package weighed ELEVEN pounds! 

My husband, son & I went to a university football game last night.  I now love football. Thankfully, from my cheerleading days, I know at least something about football!  On Tuesday, we're driving up to our older son's college.  It is his 20th birthday.  I'm just not ready to not see him on his birthday.  I've gotten to be with him for 19 birthdays &I'm just not ready to give that up yet :)  We're taking him to dinner & he is excited about that after many frozen pizzas in his apartment! 

I am very glad that I still have one to homeschool.  I still love it.  I am also happy to be doing some other things.  I feel younger now than I did ten years ago.  I enjoy walks with my husband and leisurely meals.  There's so much in life to enjoy!  Savor the moments!





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Comments from our visitors...


I'm kind of looking forward to those days...
Posted at 12:42 PM on Oct. 28, 2007 by proverbsmomof3
but I am so sure I will miss the bustle from homeschooling. Hope your son has a wonderful birthday and that you have a safe trip.
Blessings,
Ginny



Hello
Posted at 4:52 PM on Oct. 29, 2007 by melissal89
Oh yes, I have to remind myself daily that one day things will not be this hectic, and my "to do wish list" may get some attention. BUT, you are so right I love what I am doing now with my children and I try to remember that no matter how tough it gets to treasure these precious moments. Thank you once again for your awesome encouragement.

Have fun buying new stuff for your blessed first grandchild; and have a fun and safe trip to see your son.

Blessings, Melissa



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Posted at 10:06 PM on Oct. 29, 2007 by MishinIA
You are such an encouragement. I don't long for your days, I will miss my little ones, but I do look forward to them, when I'm cleaning up accidents and changing diapers.
Mish



Encouraging
Posted at 11:37 AM on Nov. 3, 2007 by WisdomBuilders
Your posts are always so encouraging to me. I am so early in my homeschooling adventure right now and I can't imagine Not doing it. I keep thinking, "Why doesn't everyone do this? It's so much fun!"



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Posted at 11:36 PM on Nov. 5, 2007 by HiddenJewel
Thanks for the encouragement. I am enjoying watching my children go through the different stages of life and can't see myself not homeschooling them. BUT I am also looking forward to those quiet walks with my husband and being able to do that quilting that is stuck in the closet.



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Posted at 7:57 PM on Jul. 22, 2008 by Sonotperfectmom
I think what you have done with your mom's crewel pieces is wonderful! I have a few similar pieces left by my mother and grandmother that I need to do something with. You and I have left comments on one another's blogs in 2007, but I have been gone since August 2007 and returned yesterday. Good reading your blog again.
Melanie